I'm twenty years old, recently started University, and have spent the last two and a half years re-inventing myself. It's been a great ride so far. I re-invented myself for myself - not for others, and especially not to get girls. I started University this past September and was crushing every facet of it. Work, socialising, you name it - I had it covered like a boss. Then - oh then, did it all change. I met a girl in my class who I knew liked me based off the vibe I got off her and we started talking. She's amazing, smart, funny, and I liked her - we've had a couple of dates and it's all going well!

Except I feel like shit. Why? I'm not a needy guy by nature and I completely understand and respect the fact that I'm not the only guy she's talking to - good for her, I say! This for damn sure ain't exclusive and I'm still talking to other girls. However, I feel addicted to this girl. I can't get her off my mind and every project that I normally pursue with vigour (reading, studying, exercising, etc) I have completely hit a wall with. Wha' happen? Any feedback would be appreciated. Things are going well with this chick FYI, but I don't understand why I feel so low.