Feeling insecure about hooking-up

idontgiveafuck__1 · 2022-07-27T02:43:17+00:00

I’m a woman. Act very confident in your body or at least fake the confidence.

Lack of confidence is more unattractive than the chubbiness/fat itself.

If you cum too quickly your first time, do NOT apologize. The best thing you can say is “I came so quickly because you’re so hot”

Let the girl stick your dick inside with her hand. The vagina is sometimes hard to find / enter even for guys with experience. Ask her to stick it inside if you need to.

Don’t be too in your head the first time and just follow your animal instincts.

sketchspace · 2022-07-28T03:22:30+00:00

When I was younger I had the same insecurity, but I remember riding the ferry and reading the Satanic Bible. There was a section about how people thought Satanism involved wild orgies and deviant sex acts. However, it explained that Satanism is about accepting your good and bad, your beautiful and ugly, and if that meant not wanting to have sex with many partners, then own it. Definitely an enlightenment for me.

It's ok to not want to hook up as I've seen many people have misused sex as a way to manipulate, ego boost, and do everything but have fun with sex. To me, sex is an acknowledgement that a girl has won me over with her beauty and feminine charm. I want to reward her by dedicating every fiber of my being to leaving her quivering in ecstasy. And while not every girl will return the desire, it feels good to have that feeling for a girl.

It'll be a journey, but start by appreciating yourself. While friends will tease you sometimes, true friends want to see you become a better person. If the friends you have don't do that, let them go. Once you see the good in yourself, you'll want to share that with girls you find attractive. When you do find a girl you like and she likes you, take your time to indulge in her. Sex is an act, seduction is an experience. By all means learn erogenous zones, oral techniques, and so on, but pay attention to your lover. Listen for her moans and watch her facial expressions as you explore her body.

I hope you're able to find positivity in your life. It starts with that.

paull-blartt · 2022-07-28T00:06:03+00:00

I just went to an escort lmao, no embarrassment there

Title	Feeling insecure about hooking-up
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Upvotes	5
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Date	July 27, 2022 1:24 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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