I've been lurking for quite some time now and I decided to make a first post. I've never had a problem with confidence, or at least not lately. I truly believe that it's all about having a positive mindset and taking care of yourself. Lately, when I get a girl and I start dating her I develop this oneitis I keep reading about. I never knew what it was called until now. Basically what I'll do is you know, be a complete gentleman, buy the gal small gifts and just generally be a nice guy while still being able to joke around and stuff. I reevaluated my last relationship and I think I made myself too accessible. TL;DR How does someone find that fine line between being clingy and being detached?