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"PUA? I guess that's one way to look at it, but it is largely misunderstood. It isn't as much about picking up on women and more about self-improvement... physical fitness, developing a skill, learning a new language and becoming more knowledgeable about the world." Then demonstrate how you've been improving.
/r/seduction19/04/13 05:25 AM
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Ignore it. Move on to the next one. If it was a legit excuse, she'll get back to you.
/r/seduction19/04/13 04:57 AM
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You don't need to be a bad boy, you just need to be fearless... and demonstrate that fearlessness.
/r/seduction16/04/13 06:15 PM
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Emotional investment is exactly what it sounds like. It is when you expend your emotions and emotional attachments on another person. We emotionally invest in all kinds of things. Our hobbies, our hopes, our dreams... and, at some point, they start producing a reward, as a result of that investment. Expect some kind of return on your investment, is what this advice is saying. I don't know that I agree with that advice, but I don't know that I disagree with it, either.
/r/seduction16/04/13 10:25 AM
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Hang out. Have fun. Let nature take it's course. Rinse and repeat. It is only awkward if you make it awkward. Also, expect total chaos when you get caught cheating.
/r/seduction16/04/13 10:22 AM
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I'd say she isn't flirting, but she is expressing interest. The way her eyes move, the timing of her blinks, and the soft, warm expression. It could just be her personality, but, in general, that is exactly the kind of body language I am looking for.
/r/seduction16/04/13 10:00 AM
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Kiss her, you fool. Always seize the opportunity. It is the best way to excite the right neurotransmitters and leave a lasting impression.
/r/seduction16/04/13 07:37 AM
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Clever, but kind of creepy. How about the ol' "Are you really going to look at me like that and not say Hello?"
/r/seduction16/04/13 07:36 AM
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Most girls seem willing enough to return the favor. I've never been denied after making a girl cum. Even for first timers who admit they have never done it before... "Tonight is a great opportunity to learn..."
/r/seduction16/04/13 07:34 AM
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Screwing is less personal than kissing for you? Honestly, I focus on making somewhat of a connection before I ever get around to screwing. Typically, I want to get to know a girl well enough so that I won't have to be concerned about STD's or getting her pregnant. I can't think of any girl of the dozens in recent memory that didn't stay the night or pause for a kiss on their way out the door. ...actually, I did think of one... she had to get back to her family before they woke up. She came by th…
/r/seduction16/04/13 07:32 AM
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Madrid will be like shooting fish in a barrel. Any of the local watering holes, close to the Plaza, provided me with effortless interactions. I recall being particularly successful at an Irish pub, since a lot of the tourists ended up there late at night. A little Spanish goes a long way, but English seems to be easy enough to navigate with. You shouldn't have to look very far for English speakers, but the local couchsurfing community has a good presence and they should be able to help you find …
/r/seduction08/04/13 06:40 PM
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Too easy. Invite them to party at your friend's place. At my age, it is creepy, but it still works. I did exactly that for my friend who lives by a high school (he is much younger, so not creepy) and just told some girls that we were having a party, later, if they wanted to hang out. I chatted with a few groups and they showed up in droves. I suggest that this is a morally grey, area, though. Try not to take too much advantage, eh?
/r/seduction06/04/13 09:11 PM
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The solution is simple. Don't go to bars. Give up on the bars. Go take a dance class. It will force you to interact in a casual way and take the pressure off trying to get laid. Plus, you need to know how to dance. At the very least, every man should know how to waltz. Go take a cooking class. Again, casual interaction, no pressure. Put yourself in situations where you aren't trying to get laid, but are forced to interact with women.
/r/seduction06/04/13 06:23 AM
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I think maybe you misunderstand. It can not only be the sex why she fell in love with you. Or else there would be alot of woman in love. First, this isn't just one girl. This is a common reaction, in my life. I'll be the first to say that attraction is never just one thing. But, sex isn't what makes women fall in love. Great sex is what makes women fall in love. There is no book. There is only practice. Every woman's body and mind are different, so there is no magic bullet that is going to get e…
/r/seduction05/04/13 11:28 PM
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If you are doing it right, you don't have to do anything differently.
/r/seduction05/04/13 05:15 PM
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When learning any new skill, you reach various plateaus. Stages of learning where your progress stalls. Do you think virtuosos practice more or less than than those who are just really good? The truth is they don't. They learn smart, they practice smart and focus on only practicing good habits. It is instrinsic to maintaining a good mind set and setting yourself for success. Keep in mind it takes thousands of hours of practice to master anything. Thousands of hours. Personally, I do well at the …
/r/seduction05/04/13 05:12 PM
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I'm not bragging. I'm saying it is commonplace. Sex makes women clingy. That is a fact of life. I wouldn't have bothered sharing if it was just one SNL (had to look that one up.) The point is that, if you know how to make love to a woman, you are going to set yourself apart from all other men... forever. They will never forget. They will go out of their way to get more... even after years of being completely off the grid.
/r/seduction05/04/13 03:55 PM
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So? That is fairly common, in my experience. She had a boyfriend of several years. A lot of women are in love with me. You know my heart, XXXXX. I want to be with you. I love YOU. I have never been so certain of anyone as I am of you. It probably sounds crazy to other people, but who cares. I do not have much time or privacy on this hall computer and so will use email next time. I hope that you made it home safe. I travel around the world... years later, being still in love with me, I still have…
/r/seduction05/04/13 05:44 AM
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That was after sex. She went home, 1300 miles away, the next day.
/r/seduction05/04/13 03:57 AM
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I'm not sure I follow. You do realize that I did not send such an email, but received it, yes?
/r/seduction05/04/13 03:22 AM
3

dance your pants off
/r/seduction05/04/13 03:19 AM
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Agree and amplify. "I know, you're pretty lucky to have me around." or, if you don't want to joke around... "Well, thank you. That is sweet/nice/kind of you to say/notice."
/r/seduction04/04/13 10:44 PM
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It has been my experience that even the most even-keeled girls react to it. You just have to be careful how you present it and always leave them a fighting chance versus the others. Once that fighting chance is gone, they -.-
/r/seduction04/04/13 10:36 PM
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Well, if you are going to all that trouble doing reconnaissance, just invite her out to somewhere you know, for a fact, that she will enjoy. Not just you two. Bring friends. Mixed company. "Hey, we're going to blah blah blah tonight. It is going to be a great time. You should come." Then, give her your number. Do it with the thought in mind that you know she will call. you need to project that mentality. In the best of scenarios, girls are flakey, though. Let her flake. They get all weird when y…
/r/seduction04/04/13 09:53 PM
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That is a tough one. I'd start with... "What is your favorite way to skip out in the middle of a blind date?"
/r/seduction04/04/13 09:41 PM
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Perfect. I'd only add that you should learn to be alone. Do not jump right back into the situation you just pulled yourself from until you've had plenty of time to gain some perspective and are a self-sufficient individual. Too many guys are out their looking to replace their mothers. Don't be one of them. Be a man.
/r/seduction04/04/13 09:29 PM
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K close? I'm not always sure why that even gets to be a term. Certainly, I have kissed more girls than I have had sexual contact with, but the number isn't far off. A few virgins, here and there. If I kiss a girl, it means things are about to get very physical, very fast. Basically, Tiffany7570 has the right answer to your question. However, (and I'm merely speculating, here) I have some advice to offer you and everyone else who settles the end of the night with just kissing. This is your opport…
/r/seduction04/04/13 09:23 PM
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No. Maybe. Definitely not "Yes," though.
/r/seduction04/04/13 08:58 PM
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Competition does funny things to women.
/r/seduction04/04/13 05:45 PM
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I assume you are trying to find a young man to spend some time with? Talk to everyone. If you simply do that, you will likely find someone with whom you share a mutual attraction. If you find someone you like, come back to them, don't get stuck. I'd start with reading this... http://www.sirc.org/publik/flirt.pdf... which helps you recognize cues as to the interest from another party. Mainly, Jethro is right. Don't go with the mindset that you will meet someone. Go with the mindset that you are t…
/r/seduction04/04/13 05:39 PM
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Sucks to be them. This is the jacuzzi I sit in nearly everyday (on the far right)... http://i.imgur.com/fRjxDzv.jpg
/r/seduction04/04/13 05:25 PM
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Swim in the pool or a jacuzzi. It is an excuse to rinse off, at the very least, and, even if you don't, the taste and smell of a little chlorine is far more tolerable than other potential smells and tastes.
/r/seduction04/04/13 05:13 PM
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Talk only to meet. Meet only for sex.
/r/seduction03/04/13 09:46 PM
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Everything? http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/1bj1vw/ladies_of_sexxit_what_are_he_events_that_lead_up/c974i37
/r/seduction03/04/13 09:13 PM
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I'm in this situation, currently, and I have dealt with it before. Do not engage the subject. If she brings it up, deflect. He isn't your problem, he is her problem. Through trial and error, I have found the best way to deal with it is to imagine him as her gay best-friend. He isn't doing it for her, sexually. Guaranteed, every time. He is fucking up, somewhere in his relationship, and he is doing it in a major way. He has, basically, failed to inspire loyalty in her. He is not a threat to you. …
/r/seduction03/04/13 08:44 PM
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Everyone has their type. /r/relationships
/r/seduction02/04/13 05:31 PM
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You are quite the crybaby. No wonder you have problems with the fairer sex.
/r/seduction27/03/13 03:14 AM
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I let them wear it, of course. "Also, your hoodie is the perfect sleeping shirt. The best look for it is with nothing under it. ;) how's that rug burn treating you?"
/r/seduction27/03/13 12:32 AM
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It happens to anyone who has the will enough to make it happen. I worked as a private contractor for a number of federal agencies for years before quitting, buying a one way ticket to New Zealand and have been traveling the world ever since. My top link is pictures from my old job and before I quit, I had already been around the world. I've been around a few times, since, as well. Here is me in Alaska... (snip) Call me out on anything you want. I have pictures to back up everywhere I've been and…
/r/seduction26/03/13 09:37 PM
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They're far more exciting than any real world adventures. Yeah, well, go hike 50 miles in the Gates of the Arctic, see the Northern Lights on mushrooms and ecstasy with a beautiful Brazilian girl, and then try to tell me that. How old are you? You probably are in your late 20s So this whole post you made leads me to believe that you can't start attracting women until you are in your late 20s and are doing something with your life. I am in my early 30s. I have never had a problem talking to peopl…
/r/seduction26/03/13 09:15 PM
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You must be very young. Millions of people may like video games, but staring in front of a screen for hours on end accomplishing nothing of any real-world value is not considered exciting for a reason. I have played plenty of video games. I can still beat Super Mario Bros in a few minutes. From Goldeneye to Gears of War, I've killed the Lich King and maintained excellent kill ratios in plenty of FPS's. Do I talk about it with chicks? Nope. I don't even talk about it with other guys. Why? Because…
/r/seduction26/03/13 08:01 PM
1

If you want to know something about someone, you ask them. Start by introducing yourself and asking a simple question. "Hi, I'm so-and-so. What brings you here?"
/r/seduction26/03/13 07:55 PM
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I've told you... Everyone has something to offer. Everyone has something to teach you. Everyone has lived through, at least, one interesting story. Let them tell it. Everyone is tested to their limits every single day. Everyone struggles. Everyone has hopes and dreams. Find out what they have to offer. Find out what they have to teach. Find out what their interesting stories are. Find out what their hopes and dreams are. Find out what their struggles are. Treat them as equals.
/r/seduction26/03/13 07:42 PM
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The same way to get everyone else in the entire world to open up to you. I wasn't talking about "women." I said, pretty much, everyone opens up to me. This is not a PUA thing, this is being a decent human being thing.
/r/seduction26/03/13 07:34 PM
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You are in the wrong subreddit, dude. If a girl does not share your interests, it does not make her boring. This problem you are having lies entirely with you. Entirely. Also, your interests are pretty lame.
/r/seduction26/03/13 07:33 PM
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That sounds like a personal problem. Pretty much, everyone opens up to me. Everyone has something to offer. Everyone has something to teach you. Everyone has lived through, at least, one interesting story. Let them tell it. Everyone is tested to their limits every single day. Everyone struggles. Everyone has hopes and dreams. Everyone has fire and passion in them about something and you would be a fool to discount a person because their passions lie in different areas than yours.
/r/seduction26/03/13 07:22 PM
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I understand the situation perfectly. You thought you were being alpha, he thought he was being alpha, and you were both, actually, being idiots.
/r/seduction26/03/13 07:14 PM
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That is not actually the definition of worthwhile.
/r/seduction26/03/13 07:13 PM
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wtf did I just read?
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:39 PM
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Just hang out and do something cool. Let nature takes its course. Inspire some passion in her, then kiss her.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:37 PM
2

How many worthwhile girls are interested in the same crap you are interested in? Men do man things, women do women things. You can bring it together on the dance floor or in the bedroom, but if you want to date someone exactly like yourself, it might be time to consider switching teams.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:35 PM
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Appreciate the experience for what it is, leave it open-ended enough for it to work out well, should you cross paths in the future, and don't change your path in life for a girl.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:30 PM
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You are going to get a lot farther if you treat everyone as if they have something to teach you. You can live at the other end of the spectrum, if you want, because the truth is, after all, that no one is that interesting. We are all a bunch of electrochemical impulses bound by personal culture and generally fear change and anything that might be slightly uncomfortable.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:26 PM
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Flawless. Depending on how well you know the girl and her sensibilities, you can turn to her, right after, and say "He gives great head." Then laugh it off.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:22 PM
1

The butt-hurt is strong in you. I gave you some top-notch advice. Don't fight. Don't escalate conflict. If you were really going to AMOG the AMOG, you would have made him your friend and won him to your side.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:15 PM
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Develop your abilities and you will develop confidence. The rest follows naturally.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:11 PM
1

If you are bored, then you are boring. You know how to ruin a good time for yourself? By relying on other people to provide it for you.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:09 PM
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I can't even remember the last time I kissed a girl in a public setting and it did not, later, end in sexual contact. Maybe high school. Unless you are ugly (or she is a virgin), a girl who will kiss you is almost definitely a girl who will sleep with you.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:07 PM
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You've gotta play your strengths. Speech is one of my strong suits. It works. Remember this... you can get anything you want from someone if you just know the right way to ask.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:03 PM
1

Your mate is wrong.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:00 PM
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If you were so victorious with your bold letters, why did you delete it?
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:58 PM
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When the time is right and it is with the right person, have a couple of drinks and go for it. Otherwise, don't be a Debbie Downer. Most people don't know what to do with that kind of information, anyways.
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:57 PM
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I don't necessarily truck with a lot of the PUA stuff, but I will say that it is largely misunderstood. When you ask how to get a specific girl, you are approaching it all backwards. You need to work on you. You need to be all that you can be, and, when you have ability and confidence and know your place in the world, the women throw themselves at you. Seriously. To address your specific problem, though, I will give you the most valuable piece of advice when it comes to generating attraction. In…
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:53 PM
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If you develop an ability, you will develop confidence.
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:45 PM
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What comes next? More sex. Any decent girl is going to get clingy after sex. That is just how it is. You should always be prepared for that. Talk to her. Keep it brief. Be honest about your feelings when asked, otherwise just keep it to yourself. Try to keep your conversations strictly to making plans about the next time you will see each other. Again... keep it brief. If you are at all interested, I can PM you the messages I received and sent in this same exact situation over the weekend.
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:43 PM
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You typed a long-ass, butt-hurt post, man. It just goes to show that you don't really understand this AMOG thing, at all, do you?
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:36 PM
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I'm the same, in the sense that I am a guy who maintains close relationships almost solely with women. The answer is simple, really. Do stuff you like to do with other people who like to do the same things. It is that simple. Personally, I do scuba diving. I play guitar. Two things that are largely dominated by men and allow me to meet and hang out with guys. If I meet someone I like, I practically do the same thing to guys that I do to girls to generate interest. Open up a little but, but not t…
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:34 PM
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To reply to your rant to me, specifically, that you deleted... Fighting and killing are two very different things. A lot of people take martial arts and they learn how to fight. Some others don't bother with most of those techniques. They go straight to the throat, the groin and for eye-gouging... breaking fingers, grabbing you by the hair to expose your throat to a knee... If you come across someone like that, your concern isn't going to be a black eye or a bloody nose, it will be a crushed win…
/r/seduction26/03/13 05:22 PM
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What is the #1 date activity that is free? Boning. I typically pay for everything. If I find myself low on funds, I cook dinner or have her cook dinner and we watch a movie at home. If you can't afford a couple cups of coffee to get her to warm up to you, then your problems are greater than who you get to bang next.
/r/seduction26/03/13 04:58 PM
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Decide exactly what you want in a girl who you would marry. Find that girl, date her a while, and see if you still feel the same way about it. Make no compromises. Considering what marriage entails, there is really no point in doing it unless you are all in, 100%. Once you have been going out a while, you can feel out if it is right for you, or not. There is nothing wrong with never getting married. After you find someone who meets your criteria, and once you have gotten to know them, ask yourse…
/r/seduction26/03/13 04:52 PM
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Take her to her place. Online dating is helpful for this sort of thing, because you can discriminate against girls who don't already have their own place.
/r/seduction26/03/13 04:48 PM
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I never have a problem with jealousy because I would have let her have him and found someone else.
/r/seduction26/03/13 04:46 PM
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Fighting is stupid. A lot of people don't know how to fight, they are trained to kill. Remember that. I never enter a physical altercation with "fighting" in mind. If someone starts something with me I act fast and without hesitation. A number of friends of mine are special forces. One, in particular, is nicknamed "Killer." Nice guy, but he has the most recorded knife kills in modern US warfare. He doesn't look built, or anything, either. Mostly just looks like an old meth-head. Point being, you…
/r/seduction26/03/13 04:44 PM
1

I play guitar and piano very well. It has helped seal the deal on numerous occasions. That being said, it took about 10 years to be any good at either one. It requires persistence and patience like few other things do and no matter how much you learn and how good you get, there are always going to be better players out there. If you can play Damien Rice's "Delicate" at the right moment, it will get you laid. Moonlight Sonata on the piano is effective, as well.
/r/seduction05/03/13 06:07 AM
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You blew it at 3:24. She said she "usually" doesn't go out on Friday. "We'll have to make this Friday an exception, then." You, basically, only gave her one option... and that was to not hang out. Next move, now, is to go do something fun and tell her where you are going to be. If she shows up, great. If not, then you are getting another number or two, anyways, and it won't matter.
/r/seduction05/03/13 05:50 AM
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Dude... sit with the girls. Have your good time. Egg them on to be loud and have lots of fun, too. There was a good post on social games... 1 - Peacock - Straightforward and exhilarating. You have to wear something ridiculous, and wear it proudly! 2 - The eye contact game - This one is kinda addicting. Make an attempt at eye contact with every stranger you pass by all day—if you establish eye contact, hold it--THEY must be the first to break off. Challenge yourself to "win" this game more than 9…
/r/seduction05/03/13 05:35 AM
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Go do something cool and invite them along... along with your friends and other girls you've met. One, she won't flake because something fun is going on and, two, you will be leader of the pack, wherever you end up. Don't try to set up a date. Just go to something that you would enjoy doing, anyways, and suggest they come along. If they don't, it won't matter because you will be having fun, anyways.
/r/seduction05/03/13 05:30 AM
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Jimi Hendrix once said that there is something to be learned from every guitar player. It is a great notion to hold onto, as a musician, because it keeps you humble and it narrows your focus to looking deeper into what another musician is doing. The idea applies in a much wider concept, as well. So, yes, upvote... talk to everyone. That is where you start. Everyone has something to teach you and most people are more than happy to share their knowledge with you. So, when OP is wondering where to …
/r/seduction05/03/13 05:01 AM
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"manly" doesn't really play into it. It isn't your problem if a girl has a boyfriend or not. Treat every girl as if they are single and notice how they receive the attention. Treat every person as if they are meaningful, and watch how they respond to the attention. The truth is people screw around a lot. They always have. Half of our society is ordered around the idea that we need to be controlling who sleeps with who. It's insane, really, but there it is. Now, you can circumvent a lot of bullsh…
/r/seduction04/03/13 06:25 AM
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30% of men who question paternity are right. http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/22/magazine/22Paternity-t.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0
/r/MensRights23/02/13 12:32 AM
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I've found like 20 of my soul mates. Rocks my world every time.
/r/seduction19/02/13 11:54 PM
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You don't understand it because you are equating limiting options with demanding. You can politely tell people to do things and they have a tendency to comply, within reason, as many studies have shown.
/r/seduction23/01/13 01:38 AM
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