I've been reading all these friendzone posts and I realized I was in the opposite of them- I go on dates with women I'm not attracted to and we don't go out again but they want to stay in touch. They text, call, send gifts, ask about going out, etc though it's clear that I'm not interested in them. I don't lead them on but don't cut them off if they want to stay in touch. Sometimes they make a move but some of them just want to stay in my life.