Im 19 years old with almost no experience with girls, but a good programmer(why always programmers! 😯). This post is about my progress till now and asking for help for further improvements. Long post! Skip to summary if you have less time.

  1. Today's approach story

Today I did my first approach with equally unexperienced friend. I was at this landmark and my opening line was "Hey, we are new around here, can you suggest us good place to visit." Two girls were talking as they were walking. We were face to face. So, as I tried to stop them by saying excuse me and run my opener, she was scared as she didnt see me approaching. She acted as if I was trying to attack her or sell or something and went on their direction. I am mild social guy but never in my life I had encountered this reaction.

  1. My planning for game improvement

So my request is to guide me in this world of PUA. My current game plan is:

(Im planning to do only one step at time until I become completely comfortable with it and will move to next one) Step 1 : Practice opening Step 2 : Practice DHV and negging Step 3 : Kino escalation Step 4 : Kissing And so on............

Im planning to go out for day game for 3 days a week and do atleast 5 approaches a day.

So, what do you suggest me to do?

Progress till now(inner game)

I started dating only 8 months ago. Till now I have dated only 2 girls but no lays. I have had enough around 2 months ago and decided to change my life completely. As a result, I chose the path of self development and continuos learning.

In past few months, my overall life improved. I have good social life and AMOG in certain circles. Got intern in good company and working on exciting project. Hitting gym 3 times a week. Basically, I am improving my life. But girlless life bothers me.

I have read few books like Mystery method, models, game and 3% man. I wanna learn this skill as I feel desperate. Even though I have attracted few girls, but managed to push away by either being needy or too cocky. I cant seem to find a balance.

Summary

In summary, I am a guy who want to desperately learn. I love self improvement and slowly but surely improving my life. But kind of feel lost and no idea what steps to take to practically improve my game. I request to give me good and specific path to improve my game. Im willing to step out of comfort zone and be patience. I dont care how much I have to work, Im willing to put effort (Im well awared about beginners hell!!). And also some motivational story would boost my self esteem.

Thank you