First Date Closing Ideas

Alright so you’ve made it to the first date, congratulations.

At this point she’s going out with you for 2 possible reasons, you’ve managed to weasel your way into a pity friendzone date or you’ve sparked her curiosity about you and created a mist of attraction, sexual tension and mystery. Lets hope is the latter.

At this point wherever you are in the situation, you’ve got a chance.

So i hope you’ve picked a decent outfit, or your “dating” outfit which should be an outfit that emphasizes your best traits and hits your confidence boost. You shouldn’t hit a date feeling unconfident, specially about your looks, that's something you should be taking care of beforehand and it shouldn't affect you during the date. If it does, you know why you didn't get her. Go back and fix that.

Alright.. So you’re all groomed and ready to go, looking like james bond in all 7 movies, sharp and ready to rock.

You’ve selected the venue where you will meet, you’ve told her the time and you’ve met her there. Like a true leader, yeeessss the attraction sparks are going off she feels like she’s finally met her match as soon as she sees that handsome man waiting for her.

At this point, a confident alpha male kiss on the cheek and a “You look great tonight” helps start things off in the right way. Lead her into the venue, have your share of a good time, be funny, be witty, be serious at times for the connection and genuinely get to know her. Don’t go too deep, keep it light hearted and fun topics of conversation, remember, is your first date, you are not getting married tomorrow. Brace the surface of her life and leave a good impression. Your goal on the date is too have fun with her and be the man she wants you to be, which is a strong confident man that knows what he is doing. And after reading this, you know what you are doing.

Enough chit chat, she’s enjoying the small talk, you’ve complimented her to spark interest throughout the night and now she’s all bubbly. Either she’s bubble or she’s starting to get bored, you both are, at this point you go for the kiss. No excuse. Is not about getting the kiss, is about demonstrating your intentions just in case it wasn’t clear. And kissing is fun. Lol. If she accepts, cool, you’re in. Keep it cool, roll off, she’s in the bag. Chat a little more… clock is winding down, is getting late… suggest drinks back at your place.

If she rejects the kiss… roll off anyway, is all good. Keep it cool, she’s not ready yet but she knows what you are about. As the clock winds down try a few more times, depending on the vibe she’s giving you, always pay attention to how she’s feeling. Communication is not verbal, real communication is in the body language. Remember that. She will be ready eventually. Being cool about things and communicating effectively is what will get you laid. So i hope you go out there and have a successful first date.

Rock on players.

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