So I met up with this girl on Tinder and the date itself was fun and great but when it came to sex I left her feeling gross. She’s a virgin and apparently all of her previous experience was bad so I was glad the actual going out part was good.

Fast forward, we got more intimate and she wants to have sex. The bad part is that we didn’t have a place of our own that was free so I said fuck it let’s just do it in the car. So I try my best to find the most secluded area and mind you, it was 12am so not a lot of people around. We’re getting into it and I stop because I see a car passing by and I think the guy sees what’s going on. I felt creeped out so I decided that we should stop and just find a better place. At this point I just wanted to go home, I didn’t want to feel that a good date should have to end in sex, especially since it’s the first.

So I said let’s just go home, we could hangout another time. Throughout the car ride she was mostly quiet so asked her what was up. She said sorry a lot for wasting my time and said she felt gross. I asked her why because it was great that we got to know each other and it was positive. She said she didn’t know why but I think she felt embarrassed or slutty that she almost had sex on the first date.

I felt kind of bad that she was left feeling that way but I did my best to keep the mood up. If you guys know what’s going on feel free to share because if I meet a girl that I want to give my best at, feeling gross is something I would hate to experience again. I actually felt what she was feeling and it’s pretty terrible.