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[–]yeahiblaze 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Hug her when u see her right away. Establish some touch. But yea it seems scary beforehand but once you are with her doing stuff, you’ll be fine. Just be yourself & don’t be creepy or desperate. Talk with her, she’s a person
[–]zackamite 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Right away? Isn't that a little too much
[–]yeahiblaze 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don’t think so. It’s like a friendly introduction imo. Use only one hand if u want. Keep it casual
[–]EccentricOddity 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It’s not unless you act like it is.
Seriously, greeting hugs are the smallest of deals.
[–]1zeal2crits 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
As long as we dont go for the friendly tap on the back when hugging, thats a big no no
[–]TheHalfMonty 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
We got your back brother, what do you need? Pep talk? Advice?
[–]spoter66 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Both to be honest
[–]TheHalfMonty 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Where are you going for your date?
[–]spoter66 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Walk in a park and around the town
[–]TheHalfMonty 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Interesting. Okay, I've never been on a day-time date (I assume yours will be) so I'm a little out of my way on this one. Lets see. Keep things light-hearted (don't do what some guys do and just express all your love for her), be spontaneous (if you can) -- lets say you walk past a bar, you should glance in and then apropos of nothing say "Hey we should get a drink" or perhaps you see a bowling alley - same thing, invite her for a game.
the reason I suggest doing something is it distracts her from conversation for a little bit and then you are less likely to have awkward moments where you run out of things to say.
Is this a day-time date?
[–]spoter66 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
yeah it is a day time moment
[–]TheHalfMonty 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Well you might be nervous now but know that when you're there you will be fine. the build-up is always worse than the event.
If I had one piece of advice I would say don't treat her like a friend or you will end up as a friend. Atleast hint at your intentions.
[–]spoter66 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Should i went for a kiss ?
[–]TheHalfMonty 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well that's for you to decide on the date. You should probably see how comfortable around you she is first. It should end in contact of some kind, a hug maybe (hug her around the waist if you're comfortable with it).
If you don't kiss her then make another date very soon, like the weekend and kiss her on that date. Choose a very specific day, if she is unavailable she will suggest another day. If she's not interested she will just say she's busy that day.
If you walk her home and she is lingering on the door step that is a clear sign that she's waiting to kiss.
[–]the_a-train17 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't be stressed man, you got this! Go have a good time. Treat her like a human being and you'll be fine. Where most guys go wrong is when they idealize a woman and then stress themselves out. Remember, you're the catch!
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