So I'm kinda new here, been lurking for the last 2 months and trying to pick up as much info as I can. I might start with a little about me, I'm tall in really good shape and I think to think, fairly attractive yet I suck when it comes to girls. I'm here because I really want to change that last part.    Yesterday one of my friends was having a BBQ/birthday party at his house. At this BBQ there are bunch of girls more specifically HB6 (sally), HB7(Nancy), and HB7(lizzy), and HB7(Ashley) (made up names for clarification). At the BBQ I go over to the beer pong table to talk to one of my friends and sally and Nancy are standing there. I noticed that sally was still wearing her coachella wristband, I went to coachella so that was a really easy opening and I talked about coachella with sally and her friend for a bit. Nancy is standing right there and I felt like she was throwing me that vibe were she wants to me to talk to her and stop ignoring her, anyways I start squirting her with small squirt gun I had. Nancy and I start flirting a bunch, I'm squirting her the water gun I had, we chat a bit and that is about as far that went, Sally started get up in my grill when I started flirting with Nancy, but honestly I wasn't into either of them. Lizzy and Ashley showed up at some point, I'm not sure when because I was flirting with Nancy. I didn't really open Lizzy or Ashley they just got in on a conversation I was having with a couple of guys I just meet and it ended up with me having small talk with both of them. I flirt with Lizzy for a little bit but nothing too note worthy.    Around 8 or 9ish Ashely decides were moving the party to her place and I somehow ended up with the job of picking up more alcohol even though I'm not 21. Ashely gives me her number so I can get her house after I get everything. I show up at Ashley's house around 9:30, 10ish and there is a DJ playing but everyone is sitting around on the coaches. I dance a little with Ashley and Lizzy I'm spinning both of them (bitches love spinning). I went outside after that for a little bit to talk to some people, and then I went back inside and sat on the couch. Ashley sits down next me. I pulled her legs up onto my lap and I started asking her about the tattoo on her foot. She tells me that she got when she was drunk. I started poking fun at her about it and I told her she should just come up with some bullshit story about why she got the tattoo. She showed me the two other small tattoo's she has, we talked about them for a bit and there is a lot of kino getting passed around. I had to get up to take a phone call and when I got back inside some other guy was hitting on Ashley pretty hard, trying to kiss her and what not. I brushed it off and chated with some other people and when the guy hitting on Ashley left I took her hand and spun her some more. She pushed me up against the opposite wall and starts kissing me, this was totally unexpected. I took her back to her room and we started making out. What should have been great F-Close turned into a bit of struggle on my part because I pretty drunk at this point and my penis just did not want to cooperate. I have a couple of questions. how do you go from having small talk to having a conversation with a girl that is going to leave an impact on her. I feel I like one of my problems is I have trouble starting good conversations with girls I seam to always get stuck having small talk. Was what happened with Ashley a one night stand or how would I go about texting her, especially after my little bout with whiskey dick?

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