Hello all. I'm 20 years old and have had only one partner (who was my girlfriend for two years) and I'm just looking for some advice. I am talking to a woman and she seems to be interested into me. We are both still in college and I think we may hit it off. This is very embarrassing but the first time I was going to fool around with another female...I could not get it up because I felt no bad that I had no feelings for her. This girl that I am talking to now knows that I do not want another girlfriend but I am afraid that this might happen again. Any tips or tricks from anybody about first hookups?