First time cold approach!

mighteymike · 2020-11-08T09:38:22+00:00

Don't go for details. Just set a date with her some day and don't share contact info. If you that sure of yourself you can pull it off. But make it something easy like getting coffee/tea. And if she says that she can't do that because store policy go with something like. Trying to playfully get to know what day and time she has free then go; i go here and here to get my coffee around, maybe i run in to you. It's not a date but if she likes you she'll show up.

Hope it is a clear since i just woke up and english isn't my first language.

Goodluck with furtue cold approaches

mighteymike · 2020-11-08T10:13:03+00:00

When you go back to see her go in with something strong like, hey i was around and wanted to se if my favorite/ the cutest sales girl (or whatever you want to call her) is working again. Try to follow up with a cuestion about what she told you previously to show you listened to her. Or go in and make a joke, hey how is her full name the most unfindable women on the internet doing? And follow that up with something like not going down without a fight. That is how knights did it back in the day when they fancied a lady, dual for her. Not that you are something you can with, nevermind i'll stop talking. If you have confidence you can pull it off.

basedMrSir · 2020-11-10T17:58:16+00:00

Personally bro, don’t go back for the purpose of seeing her.

And don’t lie to yourself saying “I’m going to purchase something” and get all excited, gitty, and nervous because she’s going to be there.

Why? Because an abundance mindset is needed. And the sooner the better.

What does that mean? It means that you’re invested in yourself, and not one particular girl.

If you go up to this girl, and you’ve been planing every angle of how you’re gong to talk to her for the past weeks, she’s going to feel/sense that bro. And you’re going to place SO much pressure on yourself, and it’s not worth it because most likely, she’s going to give you some BS about the store policy again.

Girls are fucking smart. If she wanted to exchange contact details, she would figure out a way and not give a fuck about the store policy.

What’s the best way to move forward then? Simply move on, and keep experiencing. Enjoy the process of continuing to cold approach, to talk with random people (even dudes) because that’s going to build the entire foundation you need to not feel any type of nervous(or even excited ) feelings. It’s going to be smooth, and you’re going to turn into a confident monster.

If you place all your eggs and emotions in 1 basket, you’ll wreck yourself.

✌🏽

Title	First time cold approach!
Author	TwistedProphetX
Upvotes	5
Comments	5
Date	November 8, 2020 9:28 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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