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Learn the difference between femininity and masculinity. I had an ex girlfriend who tried and subtly complained about her never getting what she wanted. For guys to get what they want, it’s very logical and direct. For girls to get what they want, they can try the masculine (logical and direct) approach, but that’s going to turn OFF men (subconsciously). Learn femininity and the energy of it. Once you tap into that, you’ll gain some sort of power that I can’t even explain (because I’m a dude), b…
/r/seduction14/11/20 04:15 PM
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You probably don’t have a good career/job huh? It’s your mindset bro, fix that
/r/seduction14/11/20 04:05 PM
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This exactly
/r/seduction12/11/20 01:55 AM
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/r/seduction10/11/20 10:13 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction10/11/20 10:12 PM
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I run an online business. Specifically in digital marketing. Ultimately we help businesses acquire more clients using online platforms (Social Media, Google, etc.) 80% of my clients are law firms. I also sell digital products which are more passive. And lastly I provide hourly consulting at a decently high rate. I started this from scratch, and hired a few mentors along the way. Ultimately (just as with picking up girls), I just worked my ass off to keep learning and experiencing. It’s paid off,…
/r/seduction10/11/20 06:47 PM
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Dating apps if I speak the same language. I was in Brazil and the language barrier was huge and screwed me up on dating apps. So I networked my way though. Here’s how: Facebook groups of “foreigners in (city)” Searched for discussions on private whatsapp groups Introduced myself on a Tuesday, small chit chats throughout the week. Then on a Friday I texted the entire group with “who’s down to grab a beer”. Two guys said yes, I met their friends, I met their friend’s friends. And boom, I was prese…
/r/seduction10/11/20 06:21 PM
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Any opener works. It’s really not about what you say. It’s about HOW you say it. More importantly, when you’re walking around in the club or in your current setting: your body language, speed of movement, and eye contact will tell the chicks how confident you are. If you are presenting yourself as over averagely confident, they don’t care what you say to them, they’ll just want to be around you at all costs because 80% of guys are not confident or in their frame. Once you nail that down, anythin…
/r/seduction10/11/20 06:18 PM
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Personally bro, don’t go back for the purpose of seeing her. And don’t lie to yourself saying “I’m going to purchase something” and get all excited, gitty, and nervous because she’s going to be there. Why? Because an abundance mindset is needed. And the sooner the better. What does that mean? It means that you’re invested in yourself, and not one particular girl. If you go up to this girl, and you’ve been planing every angle of how you’re gong to talk to her for the past weeks, she’s going to fe…
/r/seduction10/11/20 05:58 PM
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Guys are logical. Just straight up is best
/r/seduction10/11/20 05:43 PM
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I know sometimes their line of dudes are not appreciated here. But I respect 90% of the dudes from RSD. They put in work, and help create a great mindset. You don’t have to accept everything they say but being able to listen to someone and acknowledge why you do and don’t resonate with them is a skill. Don’t know what I’m talking about? Check out rsdmax on YouTube. I’m done with this post btw 💪 don’t give up
/r/seduction04/02/19 09:53 PM
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Alright guys. What about the amount of value you can bring to chicks? How good are you at making adventures out of nothing? At making her laugh using imagination and simple things? There’s a lot more things that can get you into chicks pants without looks. Of course looks are a factor but a girl would rather go home with the energetic fun average guy than the shy nice good lucking one
/r/seduction04/02/19 09:43 PM
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Oh brotha. Average looks is better than ugly. You can still work out, get buff, and build an awesome personality with massive amounts of confidence Trust me if anything I’m short and ugly 😂
/r/seduction04/02/19 04:52 PM
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You’re an average guy because you say in the title of a reddit post that you are an average guy. That’s your problem and your solution right there. There are many posts out there that will tell you to get up and find something to do that will extend your possibilities and your life. Follow them :)
/r/seduction04/02/19 04:06 PM
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My assumption is that you’re shy/don’t talk much in social settings? Or you’re only particularly shy with this club.. Either way check out this video by rsdMax. It’s helped me https://youtu.be/9LZCvrRx7q8
/r/seduction19/10/18 07:44 PM
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I love your YouTube man
/r/seduction19/10/18 07:39 PM
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Brotha man, seek goals. Find passion in something. and if you don’t have one just yet, then make finding your passion, your passion.
/r/seduction18/10/18 06:05 AM
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1) don’t focus on getting laid, it’ll wreck your mentality. 2) focus on having a lot of fun. The girls will gravitate towards you and will want that energy. 3) the alpha WILL get laid. Maybe even the dude under him.. So in one way or another, lead the situations Just my 2cents
/r/seduction16/10/18 02:59 PM
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Wow dude I have the same story, tonight, except I didn’t end up in the strip club (even though I thought about it) only because I read somewhere that it’s extremely overpriced if you think about it. Also... I only had small talk with maybe a handfull of girls, I did not make any direct approaches so you win by a landslide. Good shit dude, I plan to do this weekly hopefully.
/r/seduction13/10/18 09:46 AM
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I’d be down for a meetup. I’m in the LA area, I’ll PM you
/r/seduction08/10/18 08:06 PM
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Never thought about it this way. Thanks!
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:58 PM
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Take a second to try this exercise, trust me it’s worth it. Stop what you’re doing and look around your current area. Notice, point out, and remember everything that is brown. Only brown items, remember all of them. Now close your eyes and think of every single item that’s blue from memory. ... Can you remember anything? Probably not. That’s because your current perception of what you see in front of you depends solely on what you focus on. Don’t spend time dwelling on things you can’t do anythi…
/r/seduction08/10/18 07:51 PM
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Nice! Awesome FR
/r/seduction04/10/18 03:22 PM
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Just work on being more social with dudes and chicks. Nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction20/09/18 10:03 PM
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You’re not far behind in the game. There is always time. My recommendations: 1) learn to develop a growth mindset vs a static mindset. 2) find some mentors online. One of mine on YouTube is RSDMax. I think he’d be a great fit for you, look up his videos.
/r/seduction19/09/18 01:38 PM
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There are so many factors brotha.. First of all for you to learn seduction, could take years. Enjoy the process. But if you’re asking how long does seduction take from the second you approach, then here are some factors for that to happen: How the girl is feeling. How confident are you feeling. How experienced you are. Time of day. What’s the environment like? Overall don’t focus on the outcome brotha, go out there with the purpose of facing your fears and you’ll have more purpose than failure.
/r/seduction28/08/18 07:25 PM
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Yes
/r/seduction28/08/18 03:02 PM
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Loser
/r/seduction10/08/18 07:48 PM
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It’s fairly difficult to argue with a child. Good luck out there
/r/seduction10/08/18 03:55 PM
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With that loser mentality, of course you’ll post like a loser. Man the fuck up haha
/r/seduction10/08/18 03:35 PM
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Looks like you’re investing too much. More than she is at least. also, you totally had some kind of excitement going with the first “secret” text. And then you completely blew it by saying you just want to chat. Girls want a story with mystery and excitement and mood changes from the guy that they are texting. They don’t want to be able to predict the character because then it’s just a boring movie!
/r/seduction10/08/18 03:32 PM
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Honestly, I would advise to keep her as a mentor/friend/teaserUpper so that you get to meet her sexy friends
/r/seduction09/08/18 07:54 PM
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Dude she’s using you
/r/seduction09/08/18 03:26 PM
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Honestly, you gotta build confidence. There are ways that you can test girls and see how they react to them. Think of it like you have a fishing line and you’re trying to reel em in and at the same time you’re seeing how they react to it. These tests can be teasing, applying kino, and ultimately flirting with her while at the same time having the mentality that you’re of a higher status than her, therefore if she doesn’t react in your favor, it’s her loss
/r/seduction08/08/18 07:58 PM
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Sales knowledge does help with girls in the notion that skills can apply to other skills. But that won’t help you in the long run. In fact it’ll hurt you. Women love men who know what they want in life and have a good idea of their career path. So basically, figure out what the fuck you want for your future, and don’t make commitments just for the sake of “chicks”
/r/seduction08/08/18 07:34 PM
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You have to be a man and be fully comfortable with the fact/idea that if you’ll aim for what you want, regardless of the possibility of rejection. If you do it with full confidence, and the girl digs you, she’ll dig you even more because of the bold move.
/r/seduction08/08/18 07:32 PM
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You shouldn’t be going out with your dad bro, as much as you love him. Go out and enjoy your hobbies.. if you don’t have any, create some. Read “no more mr nice guy”.. it’ll help with principles. There’s a lot more to seduction than you think.. it’s a long road, but it’ll change your life for the better. YouTube “RsdMax”.. start with his more beginner videos.
/r/seduction07/08/18 07:11 AM
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Well ya but u see.. it’s like a roller coaster(if you want to get used to them). First time is frightening as fuck. But then you realize it’s not by bad the more you try.. Your comfort zone, should be your fucking enemy. If you think about it, that right there is what’s keeping you inside your head, what’s keeping you from talking to girls, what’s keeping you from acknowledging that if you go above and beyond to break your comfort (as little as asking people what time it is), you’ll get closer a…
/r/seduction04/08/18 01:01 AM
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Would you say you have fear to do things that are out of your comfort zone?
/r/seduction03/08/18 08:41 PM
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Feel like we’re playing 20 questions here so feel free to just stop replying when u want but I’m just trying to gauge your situation. Do you live in a rural town?
/r/seduction03/08/18 08:38 PM
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Change of subject. How often do you take risks?
/r/seduction03/08/18 07:59 PM
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Do you ever get compliments on your performance?
/r/seduction03/08/18 07:54 PM
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You ever play on stage with it?
/r/seduction03/08/18 07:49 PM
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“How to Snapchat girls” on utube
/r/seduction02/08/18 08:34 PM
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Walk up with a joke. Direct eye contact, a smirk. You wanna prep yourself by listening to some good music or whatever it is you need to pump yourself up. You have 5 seconds to sell yourself to her for that first impression. Don’t be super blunt, after the joke and if she laughs and gives good body language, say something like “I noticed you earlier, and thought you were cute 😏.. you have any plans later?” If she says yes, grab the number and the bare logistics like what time she’s free. Make sur…
/r/seduction02/08/18 08:05 PM
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Do you have any hobbies? Get good at something. Get really really good at that thing. Pursue it, and become confident as fuck in it. Use that to learn what the fuck confident truly means, and then begin to apply it in other areas of your life. Don’t expect overnight results ever. Delayed gratification is key.
/r/seduction02/08/18 07:48 PM
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I enjoyed the audio clips, kinda reminds me of RSD Max. Keep it up! Maybe add more personal stories like “bar x” but go into a couple details so that the listener can feel the event in their head, therefore wanting to apply the tactics that you teach. 💪
/r/seduction31/07/18 08:32 PM
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Yea you got the write mentality brewing. I’m 24(not that old) but from the latter teen years to early 20s is actually when you learn a fuck ton about a fuck ton of shit! So.. just have fun with chicks bro
/r/seduction31/07/18 04:03 PM
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Yea good shit. Staying ahead of the game 💪
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:48 PM
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Another thing.. how old is she? Sounds young af. Maybe you are too. Don’t beat yourself up in the case that this doesn’t work out. There are a ton of girls out there along this savage journey
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:46 PM
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“Sounds like someone never learned how adventures start 😏”
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:44 PM
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Hang out with her alone... again. And again. And again.. Ask yourself, what do you truly want her from? Then gauge/read what does she want from you? Then find the right balance to make yourself happy. Seems like she wants to just hook up. Is that cool for you? Are you ok with hooking up while seeing how things go? Go for whatever it is makes you most comfortable. Point blank: don’t hang out with her and her friends ESPECIALLY if they are dude friends. Subconsciously, dudes mentality are out to w…
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:39 PM
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Focus on other bitches.
/r/seduction27/07/18 10:29 PM
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I mean think of it as levels.. you have level 18-20 and the boss is at level 21. Conquer that boss, and then shoots for 19-21 and then conquer the 22 year old boss, and then from there just keep moving to higher quality women. You don’t wanna fuck with immature women for a long time b/c 1) you’ll get used to it and will be harder to break from your comfort zone. And 2) lower quality woman tend to be crazier, because they have nothing to lose while going crazy for you. A nurse going for her maste…
/r/seduction27/07/18 08:48 PM
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Fuck being afraid bro. Just fucking do it. If it works out, cool. If not, well hopefully you learned a thing or 2 and you’ll realize that it wouldn’t ever of worked out and now you can’t stop dwelling on what could’ve/would’ve happened.
/r/seduction27/07/18 08:31 PM
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Yea bro, all those things sounded positive. Just find the pros in your strengths/weaknesses and use them all to your advantage. Let’s be real, you’re not super late into the game.. think how you would feel if instead of you realizing this now, happening in 10 years. Your 34 year old self would say, fuck I wish I realized this when I was 24!
/r/seduction27/07/18 08:27 PM
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Well bro, anything is possible. But if you keep fixating on “having sex”.. then it’s not going to happen. Why? Because you’ll be double-thinking every single happening as to whether you’re doing what you’re “supposed to do” or not and it’s just going to fuck with your head, timing, and execution. Commit to this: enjoy the process, it’s not all about the results. 1st of all, congrats! You have a potential date mate, that’s already a ton of progress as it stands. As of now, you have not fucked up.…
/r/seduction27/07/18 03:35 PM
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He who says he can and he who says he can’t are both correct, Sir
/r/seduction27/07/18 05:51 AM
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Look up generic “how to get girls” on YouTube, then branch out and choose YouTube artists that you resonate with
/r/seduction20/07/18 07:49 PM
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Photography! And side projects like developing apps
/r/seduction12/07/18 12:33 AM
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Tease her. Learn how to become flirtatious. Learn the push pull method. Girls are not logical therefore if you are super direct, it will turn them off. Therefore, learn how to read her emotional cues so you can play off of them. I’m sure if you look up the push pull method on YouTube, the related videos will take you on the rest of your journey. Overall, enjoy the process. Do not expect to get every girl you try, it’s a learning process and the more you try the better you’ll get in no time.
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:55 AM
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Good shit bro
/r/seduction06/07/18 08:10 PM
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Gonna give you some very blunt advice bro. It sounds like you might be coming from a needy mindset. Focus on working on that bro..
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:26 PM
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Alright bro, I can relate, except I am one who made it through. I graduated with CS, and I’ve had experiences from one night stands to multiple chicks in one night and let me tell you 2 things. 1) it’s fucking awesome. 2) it took me 6 years of struggle, finding myself, embarrassing moments, enjoying the journey and learning from mistakes As engineers we are VERY logical. Chicks are the total opposite spectrum and are very EMOTIONAL. You must learn to channel that area to learn how to flirt and i…
/r/seduction06/07/18 03:42 PM
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Nice opinions dude! How to beast is definitely a go to. I’m probably gonna check out the fearless man. RSD is prime and in order to produce those results I have to be feeling super good that night.
/r/seduction26/06/18 08:29 PM
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Good stuff, but it’s also not just about approaching.. being able to become very comfortable with chick friends(especially hot ones) helps break that nervousness 💪
/r/seduction06/06/18 04:37 PM
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Talk to more girls to get comfortable with females. The more exposure you obtain the less you’ll care.
/r/seduction06/06/18 04:05 AM
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Look bro, here’s some advice. you’re in a foreign country.. be free! What are you expecting out of this date? To get married? Haha I hope not. Just have fun with it, because in one year from now this will be one of those “oh yea that happened” moments, and you want it to be a good memory! Also.. I notice all your “what if” questions which allows me to think that you need a little boost on your confidence.. Don’t be afraid to show who you are to this girl. You don’t have to learn any new tricks t…
/r/seduction06/06/18 02:43 AM
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1) make the language barrier your friend by playing games with it such as teaching each other words. Maybe even kinky words. 2) lead the night. Use your language dominantly, don’t stoop down to hers, it’ll make it harder to stay in your zone. 3) don’t be something you’re not. It’s alright that she’s a party girl. Show her that you come from a different world and express what you like with confidence. 4) use the dancing to your advantage to build kino. (Google If u don’t know what that means) 5) …
/r/seduction06/06/18 02:02 AM
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Can I bite it
/r/seduction06/06/18 01:35 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction06/06/18 12:54 AM
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Yea.. TLDR: Best friend meets an Asian girl.. gets married 2 months later. This was one year ago and now he finds out his wife is sort of kind of let’s say.. Stupid and he tells us every week “make sure you know the girl very well before you marry”..
/r/seduction05/06/18 11:55 PM
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To the point
/r/seduction29/05/18 08:21 PM
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I think something important to point out here is that your basing your actions off of other people’s actions. Now I’m not saying to go out there and dance on your own if no one is, but start dictating your own actions based on what you feel like doing. Because all the alphas our there are definitely not giving a fuck about what everyone else is doing. Once they see their time to shine, they’ll do what they have to because they know that timing is key.
/r/seduction29/05/18 02:09 AM
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Be honest, is it that you feel embarrassed of going out there? Or do you genuinely not like it?
/r/seduction24/05/18 11:01 PM
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That’s the spirit!
/r/seduction24/05/18 10:36 PM
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Take one step back bro. 1) good thing you’ve realize and admitted this, done. 2) What are you currently working on? Are you working towards a degree, goals, do you have deadlines? Basically, are you ever serious with yourself? If not, start becoming more there and start focusing on something. Not only will it make you more productive, but you’ll be able to appreciate why it’s important to stop being a “dancing monkey” when meeting people who might be very important to you one day. Just my 2 cent…
/r/seduction11/05/18 07:40 AM
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Make her laugh, have a ton of fun, but be mature. 21 yo chicks dig that shit
/r/seduction11/05/18 12:20 AM
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Ask em out for drinks to celebrate. You always want reasoning behind your actions, that way it’s not a random/creep move
/r/seduction11/05/18 12:15 AM
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Your best case, you should be prepared. You: “hey by any chance u know where there’s a Starbucks nearby?” Her: blah bla blah You: “actually I’m gonna be honest I stopped you because I think you’re cute, what’s your name” Small talk, get the number, move on. If rejection, who gives a fuck. Smile and move on. This post would be a completely different subject.
/r/seduction10/05/18 11:10 PM
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Meh, if they don’t like it, you can’t force em.
/r/seduction09/05/18 05:35 PM
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There’s more to life than girls, and there are more girls then just that one girl. It sounds to me like you’re very young. Join a school club and start practicing that social joystick inside of you. Learn some social dynamics and don’t focus everything on girls, but rather how to make deeper connections with friends in general. I recommend farAboveAverage on YouTube bro.
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:44 AM
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Sounds to me like you should just have fun with her. And I don’t mean hit and and quit it, I mean genuine fun! Apply some humor and flirting while hanging out with her. Let’s be real, what are the chances of you two being in a serious relationship together? If the chances are slim, then just go with the flow! And hey either way things will go your way.
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:39 AM
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Have you tried going out on a solo game night? For a fact it seems that you are scared to fail your first times of showing your “sexual intentions”. But in reality, that’s what it’s all about dude. You have to put yourself out there, and for the most part, know that you’re going to fail. Be ok with this, and you’ll have more power to you. What I used to do, was put myself in a situation where by the end of the night, nothing matters. Such as, go to a completely new club in a completely new town …
/r/seduction09/05/18 03:31 AM
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Unleash the Wolf in you 💪
/r/seduction04/05/18 08:34 PM
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Step 1) Only do things for yourself that make you happy. For example, with everything you do, ask yourself “does this truly benefit me/make me happy?”. If so, continue and enjoy the processes. Else, why are you doing it? Step 2) Don’t let your encounters with women define the result of yourself. Chasing skirt is a numbers game bro. You’ll win some, you’ll lose some. And unfortunately in the first phases, you’ll lose a lot of them.. but that’s O.K. Because it honestly takes years of practice and …
/r/seduction04/05/18 07:35 PM
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One hour? For some it takes years.. then again it’s probably cuz they are not consistent
/r/seduction03/05/18 07:52 PM
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Very cool words. Let me ask you, how should a guy touch a girl on a date? Im assuming this goes with being confident... can girls feel a non-confident touch?
/r/seduction04/01/18 07:21 AM
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