Here’s a simple tip guys, if you have to ask if things are going the wrong way. Then there’s probably something that’s at least a tad bit wrong.

Ultimately, you should strive to reach a point in your life where you feel >92% in control of it.

For every obstacle(and believe me there will be obstacles when chasing girls, or dreams) treat it as another boss level that you have to strategize and learn to overcome it. If you fail, it’s not the end. Think back to what you could have done better, keep improving every aspect in your life, and sure enough that obstacle will come again but this time you’ll be more prepared.

TLDR; obstacles are normal. Embrace them love them. Learn from them.