I woke up this morning cringing and this is how every every funny field report should start.

It was my first time ever actually attempting to impletement some PUA/Seddit stuff into my own life. I finished reading 'Models' by Mar k Manson two days ago and I went out last night and atttempted to put a few things into play.

  1. Reducing 'Neediness'. "Neediness is defined by being more highly invested in other people’s perceptions of you than your perception of yourself. ". This is something I kept repeating to myself, I managed to internalize it pretty well, at the start of the night I had completely accepted this I was being very uninhibited when talking with my friends at our little 'pre drinks party' I just felt very confident - like I had done a line of a certain white powder or something It felt great (I was only drinking of course).

    Moving on to the club, there was a long line and to be frank the queue was fucking amazing. I wasn't that drunk by that point and I was already feeling quite good.

  2. I remember Mark Manson saying "Women desire to be desired" I.e kinoing girls will make them attracted to you. So thats what I did, whenever I talked to girls I grabbed them by the waist, slung my arms round them. Honestly guys I've never had such success in simply drawing the interest and affections of a group of women around me like that. I was literally talking to and then made out with one of the most attractive women I have ever kissed. I also kissed another girl who was also pretty hot and had about 5 flirty convesations in the half an hour. I remember some girl going off on some rant at me for something about me and her friend flirting with each other (I think she was jealous), so I looked at her and said "If you weren't so cute I wouldn't be bothering to talk to you again after that" and I heard them all swoon haha!.

    So we enter the club and get some drinks all is good I'm buying myself just one, little did I know my friend decided to buy me a round and he bought me 2 and then another friend bought us all shots so i was drinking around 2x the amount I planned on.

    I still felt great and was convinced the stuff I am now convinced that the stuff in models is legit (specifically the caring more about your own perception of yourself than other peoples), I had literally stopped giving a fuck and just enjoyed myself I have never felt so relaxed in a nightclub or enjoyed one so much before.

    I ended up flirting with 10+ women over around half an hour (which isnt very hard in a student club at the end of finals). I had one really good ' set ' where I walk chatting with this girl and I pushed here away then aggresively pulled her back and I remember her squealing really happily. I was getting overconfident at this point I laughed and just started ignoring her. She literally went ballistic at this point she couldn't stand me igonring her, she started standing behind me with her friend and they literally watched me for like 5 minutes occasionally trying to get my attention again... I turned and just grabbed her again and then she invited me to go dance with her - I said no thanks but pulled her closer to me and we exchanged names - I didnt see her again probably should had gone with her as she was hot. There were a few girls who rejected my advances but I didn't care and I still felt good.

    At this point my friend gets us another round, at this point I get too drunk. My whole desire to be desired thing took a turn for the worse as I wasn't callibrating things as well due to being drunk, I also felt a little sting of rejection when I tried to open two (sober). I probably opened ~20 girls but just grabbing them whilst dancing I didn't have much success so I went from having a great success rate to not having a good one. Still I pretty persistent I wasn't letting myself feel bad and I still had a good time.

    Overall I feel a little cringeworthy at getting drunk and taking 'desire to be desired' too far but overall it was a good learnig experince.

    I want to ask people more experinced with seddit about other sources as I've heard models is not so good for club game - though I really enjoyed just going up to girls and saying ~"Hey my name is xxx I here because I think your cute" and it seemed to work well as an opener.

    I just finished finals so I've got 6 nights of going out to a loud club filled with students ahead of me hopefully If I try and implement this stuff more I'll learn something by the end, I'll keep you guys posted.