Just to start things off, me (19m) and her (19f) have just started really texting this past week.

I'm a freshman in college (second semester) and her the same, and we went to the same high school (which We had a class or two with each other) but we never really noticed each other since she was most likely dating someone at the time.

So when we first started hanging out my roommate would bring her over and I just assumed that they were an item (ie. she would sleep in his room); but according to her they've only k-close, but (of course coming from the guy) they've f-close. So I chose to believe her. On my scale I'd give her about an [8-9] from first glance, but she could have the chance to be a [10] depending on her emotion control and personality expression. We have a lot in common, especially as far as video games, music, and sense of humor, but over the years (recalling to my past love life) I tend to "try" to keep myself distant (which I have not informed her about my troubled past love life). hint: I have bad abandonment issues

....so down to the real story

The other day, (after I've built the courage to friend her on Facebook, get her phone number, and scheduled to hangout for numerous occasions, so seemingly going really well), a few friends come over: "GirlA," a pretty known promiscuous girl who has had relations with: "guy1," "guy2," "TheEx," (of the girl that I'm actually talking to now, so yeah it gets pretty scandalous), and also my roommates 1&2 (1:who just wants to keep the peace & 2: the guy who brought the girl I'm talking to, who shall be now known as "sexy mama"). So skip ahead I get home from work to escape to my private quarters to start on some homework and play a little mass effect with the peeps.

So I walk my apartment realizing the drama ahead (seeing that GirlA, Guy1&2, TheEx, and the roomies are there) and instantly avoid from the start since none of is my business nor do I want to be involved. I text Sexy Mama informing her of the possible situation but she later falls asleep and doesn't reply. (A little extra info roommate1 & Guy1 has a girlfriend, and roommate2 has a reoccurring "lady of the night" present).

So for some odd reason everyone wants to come into my room (on the other side of the apartment) and lay all the juicy deets on me while I'm trying to be a productive student by playing mass effect while doing my homework. So some time goes by and believe it or not Sexy Mama walks into my room unexpectedly and sit on my bed and we start chatting. So from the start I'm like "I just texted you what are you doing here?" (Me knowing that her being there would make the whole situation worse).

(I'm going to go back in time a little, bc I was going to tell guy1 that I was starting to like Sexy Mama and Roommate2 also knows that I like her (lol I asked for his blessing since he was the one that introduced her to the group, when they had a thing so +1 brocode). so that being said Guy1, being a nosy troll, is steadily asking me who the new girl is, and I'm trying to avoid the question A: I'm not trying to jinx it, and B: because her TheEx is also present

But catch this GirlA is the previous girlfriend of TheEx before Sexy Mama, and idk but I think she had something to do with the end of Sexy Mama & TheEx's relationship.

So a little alcohol gets involved, I give up on ME3 and the homework, and start to play few rounds of BP, I dominated of course, and I'm start feeling pretty good about the night. And time goes by and the drunk emotions of Sexy Mama are everywhere; before she makes her exit of the night (after words have been thrown between the triangle of GirlA, TheEx, and SexyMama) she threatens to punch GirlA in the face, (which for some reason turns me on and she actually took a swing) and then storms out balling. Ie. all this takes place in my room

I think it's kind of my fault because it was the round of BP, being GirlA & TheEx vs. Me (starting with no partner) & Sexy Mama, that upset her. But *was the it a good move on my part? Because we won by 1cup (with an equally excellent game between us two); so I thought of it as a personal victory. But back to why I brought you here. TheEx stood up for GirlA, Sexy Mama storms off with Roommate1 and I chasing after her. Since Roommate1 has a girlfriend I offer to run after and walk SexyMama to her car, and manage to cheer her up with good linguistic skills and series of hugs and motivational compliments referring to the night and how we owned as a power couple. (Despite the flurry of rage and total BS started by Guys1&2, GirlA, and TheEx, Sexy Mama leaves for her home (which she is roommates with TheEx and is trying to move in with us since we have an extra room by the 1st if the next month) with encouragement and the good image from me.

TL:DR;

So (wrapping it up) after she goes home after exploding, she text TheEx a couple times and he broadcasted it to us (as she ignore the text message I sent her, hoping that she drives home safe), and to this day I haven't texted to her since then (today would make it day 2) Aaaaand we have plans to hangout this weekend privately (like a date). My plan was not to text her until the day before (another 2days from now) as kind of like a punishment, or pretending to lose interest. But actually I kind of like her a lot, like I want to like her, but with there good and bad, and I don't want to get into another shitty failed relationship, or screw things up (which is a reoccurrence). Ie. my last girlfriend didn't know how to control her emotions and was very conniving (like GirlA)

Was my actions the night of the explosion right pitting me and her agains her ex and his other ex? And should I continue with my plan, or just text her asap? And also I don't really know what to say? To bring up the incident or to ignore it? Heeelllppp!

And thanks for reading, I tried to make It a very interesting story for my first post✌️

Ps. Irony of the whole story this reminds me of my last girlfriend whose Ex has the same name of "TheEx," (of the new girl) with both SexyMama and my last girlfriend being the same ethnicity (which is also the same ethnicity as the worst relationship girl that I've had)