Hello guys,

I have this strange realization tonight. I think to be successful with women you gotta be able to feel happy with your life WITHOUT them.

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Let me tell you, when you work, when you go up the heirarchy and have more nice things, cars, money that attracts women not because of the money itself but of the mindset it creates... the mindset of freedom.

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When you are successful you can go wherever you want, you can do whatever you like and you can experience true fun with or without that girl.

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I also believe this mindset could be created if a person truly tries fo be in a fun state most of the time. If we approach women from scarcity, nothing will EVER happen, or will happen with the wrong women.

I think one must feel all the time as if he has all the money in the world, and the coolest friends around. I hope more experienced PUA will say if I'm on the correct way, but the right mindset should be - I'M HAVING FUN WITH OR WITHOUT YOU GIRL! EITHER JOIN THE PARTY OR FUCK OFF, I DON'T NEED YOU, I'M AWESOME EITHER WAY.

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I don't know if I'm right but if you imagine truly successful man with women, you can certainly feel how you should act... so ACT AS IF you are him.

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Please comment on that - whenever I addopt this mindset I notice instantaneous results, as opposed if I'm depressed or worried or whatever.