So I had a great time out at the bars this weekend. It was the first time that I had really ever gone out looking to talk to girls and have fun. After chatting with several girls, I went to go check on my friend who had just turned 21. There was lots of puke. Anyways, there I met a HB[7]. It was a crowded bar so the limited space pushed us very close together. Normally I would have backed off from something like this, but I was at a point where I was decently drunk so I smiled and went with it. She was incredibly receptive to my positive mood and we talked for a good while. I won't bore you with the details but there was touching involved on her part and we eventually got to talking about personality types after a couple scenery changes. She was talking about how she was a type B (planner) and how nice it was to be with me a type a (go with the flow ish). I promptly corrected her and said I was always a man with a plan etc. She asked me if I had a plan for her and for the first time I grabbed my balls and said yes, I'm going to kiss you. She got supper flushed and said something about how it might work etc. That's when I floundered. I was too nervous about if she really wanted me to kiss her, so I didn't do it and the moment passed. At this point I had made several hints on going somewhere quieter, and after talking some more we left the bar. On the walk we held hands and such, and I was really enjoying her company. When we got back to her place I was worn out from the night and not on top of my game. She ended up changing and hanging out with some house mates (there was the remainder of a party at her place) and I did the same. I was prety drunk at that point and ended up wandering around for a bit. She had given me her number and after realising that I was in no condition to perform and I had stopped getting a read on her feelings, I excused myself for the night. Before leaving she hugged me (I was totally ready to just peace out after saying good night) and she made sure that I still had her number from earlier in the night. How can I improve my closing game, because I'm pretty sure I could have slept with her. Also, after waiting a day, I texted her saying I couldn't stop thinking about how much fun I had had with her, and when could I see her again. I haven't gotten a response. I'm a bit bummed because she was really cool (and my first in a way), but I know I can't put her on a pedestal and I'm ready to get back out there and meet the thousands of other women out there. So if I can't k-close or get in the sac but do get a number, how do I get another women to see me again without sounding needy? Thanks guys, onward and upward.