Hey guys,

Here's a writeup from Cakebread's perspective. Same event, but Cake focuses more on his sarge before we meet and I after.

Background IncognitoL and I met up with few of our friends to attend the USC/UCLA/Cal Tech Grad student bar last night. On site, we met up with cptncrnch whom we've met before. We also got to know Cakebread who called me on the night of.

While waiting for Cake to find me I get shitted on: a HBx comes up, grabs my hair:

"is that a toupé or something?"

(caught off guard) No...it's my real hair

(As they walk away) Oh that's cool. I like it.

As she walks away I realized her hair was a pile of badly straightened horseshit and I should just have made that clear to her. Or not even recognize. Even though I've read the shit-test lists, I think the safe approach is not acknowledging or even just ignoring after a brief reply: You're (fucking) rude.

Partner-up Cakebread and I jumped into action right away. We took turns opening. I'll let Cake score the girls from 1-10:

Set 1

Me: 3-set We talked for a significant amount of time. I just opened with a "Hi, I'm new here; are you guys having fun?" and went from there. All of them are very friendly, a blond girl engages me in particular, and the dark haired girl and the indian girl are more subtle. Cakebread worked on the two.

Conversation goes something like:

after Introductions etc

Blond: Does anyone ever call you Ross?

Me: Does anyone ever call you Monica ((fucking couldn't remember Jennifer Anninston's character name) Rachel? Who the fuck makes Friends reference out of the blue -. -;)?

Blabblabhblah; the blond is sorta dancing and playing around next to me

Me: You look like you've got some moves. Why aren't you dancing?

Blond: Oh I don't know; I just want to meet some guys. But the only guy whom I've met so far is totally not into me

Should've said something here but took me a second too long to think of an appropriate line

After a bit more talk the blond girl wanted to facebook me. I tell her it's a bad idea, just give me your number. But since I had already given her my full name (as was suggested in seddit before), she insisted until she actually did find me. Which is fine because I have no information whatsoever (even friends can't view anything). I'm not going to friend her though. We talk for about a good 15 minutes until I feel we've spent too much time with one set. I go over to Cakebread and say, "hey we've really gotta get back to our friends." Cakebread acknowledges and we do a clean pull out. No closes which was fine for me b/c I wasn't interested. But Cakebread did mention that he found one of the girls cute, and unfortunately the 3rd girl was getting in the way. Note to self, make sure to 1) find a way to communicate interest 2) help the seducer isolate.

Set 2

Cake: 1-brief "set" I'll let Cake tell this but basically he gave a (what I consider as a) huge neg to a decent girl. It didn't work out, but he's got balls to do this cold turkey.

Set 3

Me: 4-set Cake and I hit the dance floor to see how it is. I see a group of 4 asian girls so I spring into action. I get behind a girl and ask her, you girls are having fun; mind if I join you? And start dancing with her. She looks back and turns around w/o resistance which I take as a go. After some kino, I make Cake take the girl as I move on to a friend of hers. Unfortunately though, she turns around and says something shaking her head so I move on and Cake pulled out as well (iirc).

Set 4

Cake: 2-set Cake opens two blond girls. He takes one and I join him for the other. I begin with an epic fail when I gave a light kiss to her hand which didn't work. I had to tease her a lot to re-establish. She tells me I look too young, so I make her guess my age (which she couldn't for her life). She ends up telling me, well, we'll have to dance. I say alright let's go. Unfortunately Cake's girl ends up bailing. We recap and move on.

Set 5

Me: 2-set I open two asian girls who turned out to be attending UCLA. I talked to them briefly, about why they're just standing around instead of dancing. I try to get them to the floor, but one of them tells me it's too crowded. I continue the conversation for a bit. But I get a text and after analyzing the situation it wouldn't be worth the effort (which, looking back, might've been a bad decision since I don't really care about the quality right now as much as quantity to expand my experiences).

Set 6

Cake: 3-set Cake mostly worked on this. I just jumped in late to talk briefly. 3-set of 2 girls and 1 guy who had actually just met each other.

Departure

After this Cake had to take off. So I joined my group of friends. Nothing too much came of it afterwards other than running into couple of familiar faces and hitting the floor with the group.

Notes

Positive notes: 1. Opened few sets for the first time in life 2. Didn't chicken out at first bar experience 3. Had mild to moderate success with couple girls 4. Got some action/kino on the dance floor

Things to work on: 1. Talking to EVERYONE (esp guys) 2. Having an interesting and engaging conversation 3. Coming up with an appropriate response to shit tests or when good opportunities come up 4. Negging 5. Kino 6. Smoothly initiating dance 7. Using friends/group 8. Approaching girls WHILE maintaining a superior inner game (I feel that just by approaching I'm at a disadvantage since it implies I'm interested) 9. I went as a group but was sarging with Cake most of the time. But I feel now instead of concentrating the entire night sarging with sedditors I should've just hung out with the group to have fun with my friends.

Summary

Overall, I had a good time. The night could've been better, but it definitely could've been worse. At the end of the day, it just matters that I talked to some new people, caught up with some old friends, and engaged in a new experience. IncognitoL and I were glad to see cptncrnch again (looking baller in his suit) and meet Cakebread. Even though this was the first time I've met him, I could already tell he's got some balls and we have some great fun coming our way. I'm looking forward to the next night out!

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