So, me and my wingman start the night by approaching 2 chicks sitting on the bench. I am very calm and relaxed and say hi to them casually. They say we are just talking, we need alone time. They say this 2-3 times. I say ok and I leave.

Then we reach the club at 10:30 pm and start approaching a lot. I approach these chicks from spain. I am super positive and smiling when I open and just say Hi. The spanish girl, I wanted to make it man to woman from the get go. There was polarity, we were having fun and I was singing songs that was playing in the club. However, the polarity dies down a bit and they want to dance. So they leave for dancing.

I approach this 2 set who are lesbians. I am talking random shit to them just to keep the momentum going. Later on in the set I find that they are lesbians. Making jokes about adoption, scissoring, etc. We talk to them for about 20-30 minutes. I did not want to waste any more time.

So I talk to this woman who is smoking cigarrette outside. I just say Hi. From the start I am smiling and the frame is set man to woman from the start. She feels the tension in the air and so do I. I introduce myself to her and her friends. We are talking and it turns out that she has a boyfriend. She was smiling and having fun with me. She says she doesn't want to talk to me and that she was going inside. I say we have chemistry. She: I know, you are good looking guy and you will definitely find a lady tonight but I am sorry *shoulder taps me*. and goes inside.

I also flirt with bartenders in the meantime to keep the social momentum going by saying stuff like "oh hi, when are you getting off in the night" etc. I am super expressive and social at this point. I am opening up chicks very easily. But at the same time, the interactions are becoming just friendly and fun and there is no sexual element to it. There is no polarity.

I approach this Norwegian chick who is sitting with her friends. I give my power away by saying stuff like "I thought you were cute, so I just wanted to say hi". I cannot keep the conversation going and she is not responding at the same rate. She is sort of talking to her friends I am asking her questions about how her trip is going and blah blah. THe conversation seems to be platonic and I think to myslef that I have already lost the power by saying you are cute. Yet, I sit there for atleast 3-4 minutes while her friends keep talking to her and I am there like an idiot. I try to keep the conversation going but she does not seem interested. At some point, I just feel super weird and leave after 5 minutes.

I think the social hook point reaches very easily in my interactions. But taking it to man to woman seems difficult. There are some situations where the polarity is there from the start. But they die down. There are some girls, who when I approach say, "nope nope" right as I am approaching them straight.

One girl looks really beautiful from behind. Her dress is really nice and so I tap on her shoulder and say approach her at the bar. I am very authentic about the compliment and so I just start talking to her. She asks me where I am from but becomes really nervous and her lips start shaking. I say it is ok and she does not need to get nervous. Her friends come in. I say Hi to her freinds. But they start talking to her and then they leave. I should have followed them. She was amazing and I missed an opportunity.

There was 1 girl who I approached. She first says softly and then screams by saying, "noooo, I am waiting for SOMEBODY I AM WAITING FOR SOMEBODY." I do not react and stay calm and it does not affect me.

Then we approach another 2 girls on the table. I socially hook them pretty fast. They are kindergarden teachers. The conversation is very friendly and we are having fun. They leave to smoke and we also leave them.

I go and approach some girls standing at the bar. Her friend comes up to me and stands very close to me. I can feel the sexual tension in the air already. She is so close. But I get flustered and a bit intimidated. I am a bit hypnotised by her. She loses interest maybe because I flinch. Myabe she is really drunk. Then all the group moves and I ask if I can come with them. They say yes. So we go to the table where they are sitting. They are all leaving in 2 minutes. I see this another friend of hers who seems to be very receptive of my energy and I open up to her. We start talking and asks where I am from. I say that I am from heaven. I ask if she was from hell. She says she is an angel too. We talk a bit. Since they all are leaving, she wants to go home too. There is another guy sitting at the table. I say Hi to him. He is leaving too. I ask her if he is her bf. She says no. He is about to leave but stands there and starts talking to her in danish. So me, him and her are there and he is sort of cockblocking me by staying there and talking to her in danish. Maybe he lacked trust from me. So I say she will be with you in 2 minutes man. He stays there and keeps talking to her in danish. She says then she is leaving. I wasnted to persist more so I spike her emotions by saying something about angel and how she is going to leave me here alone and leave in a playful tone. She is laughing and catches my emotions but still says that she wants to leave and so she leaves.

I talk to another set of 2 girls, both of them bartenders. I talk stupid shit. I am trying to keep the convo going. It seems a losing battle. She is disagreeing with me and gives me a cold look everytime I am saying something. There is a frame battle which I am losing. I started talking logically with the girl just asking questions to keep the conversation going. Suddenly some male bartenders show up to her (maybe her friends)and hug her and console her. She immediately loses interest and leaves me to talk to another guy. I get a bit disheartened and leave the set. It is 3 am in the night and I decide to leave home.

Good things I did: building social momentum and hooking sets easily. Approaching any woman with authenticity. Kept my cool in situations. Stayed longer in some interactions.

Things I can improve upon: coming from a fun/carefree mindset and not needing it to work mindset. This can be achieved by letting go of expectations and having actual fun with your wings or with random people by shooting the shit. Also, escalating situations physically and conveying more emotions by making it playful every time. Staying with the sets longer. Staying in the nightclub until the club closes. This should be done to see how easy it is to interact then.