This is going to be a little different than most FRs because I went out with my girlfriend. She's a girl I met right around the same time I found seddit, and after applying some of the stuff I read about here, we made it official that we were a couple about a week ago. I'd taken her out with me a couple times, but she hadn't really had much opportunity to meet my friends, so I invited her to come out to a club in Seoul to see a concert. At first, she said that she had plans, but I told her "Cancel them, this will be more fun," and low and behold, she found the time.

We met up with my best friend at the train station and made it to Seoul, then met up with my Korean friend and her girlfriend -- HB8s. The girl I'm dating has already shown that she's fairly attached and can be a little jealous, so I felt like inviting some hot girls would get her attention. We met another friend and grabbed Taco Bell, then headed to the show. It was hot as hell in the club, so we rotated between watching bands and then going outside for some air.

We ran into at least 15 other people that I know during the night, which felt awesome as hell. Many of them were friends that I know from the city I live in, but other were people I'd just bet in Seoul before and recognized. I generally don't put a whole lot of importance in social proof, but it did feel pretty cool to walk around all night and every couple minutes being able to just point someone out and say "Hey, I know him, I'm gonna go say hi."

The only real speed bump came early in the night. Because it was too hot in the club, my girlfriend decided to go outside alone (my favorite band was about to play and I didn't want to miss their last show). I knew that it was a risky decision, but when my friend told me I got "150 cool guy points" for not being attached to my girlfriend at the hip and chasing her outside, I felt like it was the right choice. I had a great time watching the band and dancing like a maniac.

After the show finished, I went outside to find her, but she wasn't where she said she'd be. I called her up and she told me that she "met a friend" and went to karaoke. I told her to come meet me because we were going to a different club. She replied that she'd stay at karaoke for awhile and meet up with us later. I could tell she was drunk and I just told her "I'm starting to get a little mad. Come out now," and that was that. I waited around five minutes and saw her. As I was walking over to get her, I saw some guy come up to her and try to hold her hand, so I just gave him a "Fuck off, buddy, she's my girlfriend," and whisked her away.

I told her that I was a little unhappy with her disappearing, and I wouldn't have cared if she had told me what she was doing from the beginning. After that, the night was smooth sailing. We bounced around several clubs, got a bit drunk but not much. Caught the first train home at 6:15 AM, and went back to my place. Ended up F-closing three times the next day, probably some of the best sex I've ever had.

I know that I probably came off as a bit of an asshole when I told her to leave the karaoke (the friends she was with ended up joining us later), but I knew that if I left her at that time, I probably wouldn't see her the rest of the night. I don't want to seem super-controlling, because I know guys who are like that with their girlfriends and it's super lame.