So l'm just gonna include a mini-FR of an approach I made in a coffee shop earlier this week before talking about the airport approach.

Walk into local on campus coffee shop. Been doing this lately, great place to practice day game among other things and meet tons of HBs.

So I get into line and immediately notice a HB7. Decide to go with a direct approach after ordering my drink. Disclosure: I'm a beginner to the game and have only began immersing myself within the past 4 weeks but the results have been encouraging. "Hey, I noticed you over there and thought you were cute and wanted to introduce myself." Smiles and blushes "Hi I'm HB7" Continue talking about school and stuff but suddenly what I call conversational anxiety hits me and I start clamming up. Literally shaking my legs and stuttering a little bit. I continue the conversation and politely eject as I get my drink and then I later run into her in the library five minutes later where she is still excitedly smiling but I again politely decline to escalate.

Anybody got any advice for the conversation anxiety? I mean its like delayed approached anxiety and its jeopardizing my chances of #-closing.

Now to the Airplane approach. Originally see the girl as we are both picked up by the same shuttle. Find out HB6 is going to the same destination as me as we are leaving the shuttle. Decline further conversation as I'm hungry and go to pick up food. This might have played to my advantage as she looked a bit peeved that I ejected after checking in my bags and going through TSA. Renew conversation just as we are lining up to go into the airplane. Sit down next to her as she takes the middle seat and an AFC who I later also find out goes to our school is in the window seat. Flight is near two hours long.

Start engaging her in conversation about school life. AFC tries to make conversation. Kid doesn't try to AMOG me so I treat him politely as I would any other person and would only build conversation utilizing them if I see an opportunity for DHV or winging. Kid recognizes that he is doing 80% of the talking for the three of us, so he graciously ejects.

Throw in neg just as she takes out her iPod "You know, your nose wiggles when you talk it's pretty adorable" Blushes and smiles "OMG really" Continue talking about classes. Threading about professors and classes as we both share the same major. Conversation growing stale again so I decide it's time for another neg looking her into eyes with cheeky grin "Hey, are you wearing that sweater because its acceptable to wear ugly sweater during the holidays, I have a few myself " "OMG no lol ... It's not that ugly blah blah blah" Neg works well as I thread off clothing and Christmas and her style. Rest of conversation goes to 65% her talking to me 35%. iPod sits on her lap unused for entire ride. DHV by talking about plans for Christmas and showing love for family. I can sense that she's probably looking for a possible sexual frame from me to insert herself here but I don't take the risk. Rest of plane ride is 20 minutes of us making small, intermittent chat about wanting to get home.

# close her right as I pick up my bags and get hug goodbye. Text her later playfully calling her 'ugly sweater' and telling her it was nice to meet her. She responds back warmly with a smiley and echoing the same sentiments.

I'm seeing her again on the same return flight back to school. Anyone have any advice on interesting her sexually before the door closes?

The Good - # close with hug - Negging was just right - Seamlessly make her not notice as she became more open about herself and started dominating the conversation instead of me.

The Bad - Conversation flamed out near the end but I had her hooked by then

The Ugly - Afraid to break AFC thinking and insert sexual frame - Little Kino