It's been a while since I've been on here, so I guess I should give you guys an update! Just finished reading "the Game" by Niel Strauss this week, and if you haven't read it yet, definitely do. It's not really about technique but more about what happens to you if you let yourself be consumed by picking up women. Also it was a very easy read, hard to put down, has cartoon illustrations, and it is leather bound (what else could you want).

So I've been going out a lot recently, I wouldn't even call it sarging, mostly just having a good time and if I meet some women, so be it. My last post was all about getting shut down and dealing with rejection, but my new mindset is that my goal isn't to pick up women, it is to have fun. If your goal is to pick up women, rejection is going to suck. If your goal is to have fun, then whatever it's all good.

So Thursday night I'm at the bar and one of my friends (HB7 but also crazy and I'm not interested for other reasons) is begging me to come to a different bar around the corner. I blow her off because I'm watching sports, but after the game I head over. She is with a couple people, some I know some I don't. In particular there is a short busty red headed hb8 sitting at the table texting while everyone else is chatting and general having fun.

I approach with "wow could you look any more bored?" She flashes me a smile (I was actually pretty surprised by this, I totally thought she was going to throw up a bitch shield). She seemed like she had just been waiting for someone to acknowledge her. We chat for a little bit but there was a country band playing so I go to the front of the bar to start dancing and making a fool of myself (I wouldn't call myself a good dancer, but I love to dance and people generally enjoy being around you if you're enjoying yourself). So I dance with everyone around me, cougars and friends and whoever seems interested. (but no one in particular for too long. A cougar kisses me on the cheek. Not really my type but I enjoyed the compliment :-P

A note on dancing, I would call this one of my fortes in the field. Like I said I am not a good dancer, and you don't need to be. An easy move that girls love: take their hand and spin them around. Another move I put to use: after a spin pull them in, put your hand on their back, and take their right hand in your left and rock them back and forth as you pull them close (with the tempo of the song of course). If the song is really country you can lock elbows and spin them around. (elementary school square dancing finally coming in handy). Be sure to smile and have fun. I'm usually goofy and ridiculous.

Anyway red head hb8 wants to go to a more ghetto bar and we head over there and dance to some rap music. Not as many options for dancing to rap music, just grinding, but that's what hb8 wanted so I had a good time ;). Anyway my friends are leaving so I tell her. I walk her out to her car and she gives me her digits. I ask for a good night kiss but she says she doesnt know me well enough yet. (I was pushing the envelope and didnt expect anything so I didn't really mind) I kissed her cheek and went home.

So I drove my drunk cousin back to my apartment because obviously he wasn't going to be driving home. He texts hb7 from the beginning and convinces her to come over (I'm thinking oh god what the fuck). hb7 comes over with her friend (I dont know what hb# to give her, I have no attraction to her). The girls climb in my bed and start falling asleep. Fuck no. I kick them both out of the bed and climb in (it's my house and they're sober enough to go home if they want to). I tell them to go sleep on the couch or whatever and give them some blankets. HB7 climbs back into my bed with me and my cousin comes and pulls her out. (this girl totally has my cuz on a leash, he wants to date her, she just wants to have fun) So i'm like whatever just leave me alone. She comes back in like twice just to go back to my cuz and finally they go sleep on the floor. (my poor cuz is gonna get his heart broken soon, but not because of me).

Shit this is getting long.

Ok Saturday night is like a whole new FR:

So its hb7's birthday and we go to another country bar (with a mechanical bull!). Me and a friend go to a baseball game and then head over to the bar. We get there and my cousin is already waiting patiently (I would say afc, but at least he got some, so what does that make him?). Anyway me and him get in line and ride the mechanical bull. We get to the front of the line and the cowgirl whatever that works there grabs me by the front of the shirt and pulls me to the bull. She was the hottest girl in there, unfortunately this FR is not about her. I need some tips from mystery on hitting on the hired guns! She was pretty busy and I couldn't see a way to open her. The line for the bull was ridiculously long the whole night.

After the bull I went out on the dance floor and pretty much pulled the same routine as before. I should hit up country bars more often because that shit is easy to dance to. So I met a country girl and made her night by dancing with her for a while. I didnt even ask for her number she just suggested that I take it. Good times. Not too much more to report. the birthday girl got hella drunk and wanted to bang anyone that was interested but she was being belligerent and the only one interested was my cousin. She was in no shape to do anything but pass out or throw up though so we kept the two separated. I don't want to sound like I'm just cockblocking but this is a bad situation, she is just playing with him and he is like falling in love with her or some shit. I really don't know what to do.

Comments are appreciated, thanks for reading!

TL;DR: Learn to dance to country music and you will get phone numbers.