Out at bar, just moved to a new town a month ago, finally have a group of cool bro's to go out with. I am not aggressive and only approach when first hit on. For instance this night at the first bar a blonde girl walks by makes eye contact, smiles, looks down and back up and looks directly as she passes. She was gorgeous I should have grabbed her arm and said hi. Mad I didn't.

Last bar me and friends go into, I am in front and girl comes from dance floor and cuts right in front of me. She stops and leans against a wall facing the bar, I stop to talk to my friend, purposely facing her and staring directly at her while my friend is saying something to me. The girl stares at me and I at her. A voice in my head says she wants you to talk to her, I'm a pussy and I dont listen and I turn around to get a drink from the bar. She come up from behind pinches my cheek and says your cute, smiles and walks away. I think I say "thanks" in a chill way and turn around because its my turn to get a drink.

Night goes I try to find the hb 9 persian but can't. Leaning on wall a 4 tries to come up and open me, she says "hey I saw you earlier and wanted to talk to you, but you left before I could". I'm nice and listen to her for awhile, then see friends and tell her it was nice meeting her and Ill talk later.

I finally see hb9 persian she's hurriedly walking by I touch her arm and say whatsup?, she ignores me and keeps going. Then 2 minutes later as I walk to close tab I bump into her. I ask "Are you lost? Why are you walking around like that?" she says she lost her friend and I said " oh thats weird you were with her like 5 minutes ago." Then just walk off towards bar. While paying my tab she comes up and talks to me, and rather fast asks me to dance. I say ya, let me finish paying my tab. Its taking awhile and I notice out of the corner of my eye she is starting to get distracted like shes about to walk away. So I grab her by the arm, pull her into me. She loves it and then in a minute I take her onto the dance floor by her hand. We dance and about ten minutes in we are lightly kissing she sucks on my neck I suck on hers, very sexual.

Group of her friends have noticed us and the cock blocks have come to arms, one starts to pull her away. She willingly comes back to me from cock block. The denied cock blocker shortly returns with an even fatter and taller cockblock as support. I am not interested in a cock block battle this close to close. I say give me your number, and she says no. I stop dancing with her look at her and aggressively annoyed ask "why not?" She says "I'm not like that, I'm persian". Still annoyed I said, " So? my best friend back home is persian!" She looks at me and says ,"well I'm supposed to be a prude." Even more annoyed I say "what do you mean a prude?" She says "I'm not going to sleep with you!" Now angry I shrug and say "can I have your fucking number or not". She doesn't answer fast enough so I turn to walk away. She grabs me and says don't go Ill give you my number, grabs my phone and calls her phone from mine. I still leave because the fat reinforcements are a boner kill.

She texts me when I leave to come and hang out, but I'm already almost home and work in the morning. I say I can't because I'm already to far away and don't feel like coming back. I say I though we had a cool vibe we should meet later this week for drinks. She says she agrees, asks for full name so she can find me on facebook. Friends me that night

Its two days later, I text

  • me- "lets meet up for a drinks tonight. I know a nice spot in ***** to go. What area do you live in?"
  • her - "i work".
  • me - "when don't you work?"
  • her- "I work mon-fri. Weekends are pretty much the only time I'm free."

I'm newly single and only interested in this situation because it was unique in the way that it felt. I am positive we both had an unusually strong attraction to each other. Her Facebook is well attended, she looks like a semi successful model (runway, fashion). My facebook withers from dis interest, and lack of attention. I wonder how important the Facebook quality is in today's dating world .