Hey guys. Just wanted to post about a recent lay I had.

So I check into this hostel on an island, by the beach.

I see this young girl with nice, big booty walk into the kitchen.

I walk in there and introduce myself, but then act like I have something to do in the kitchen, not giving her my full attention. She reengages me in conversation, so that I'm not pushing the whole interaction along. The details of the conversation are not that important, just know that I made eye contact, smiled, and she returned the same.

Fastforward... My friends are going out a few nights later. In the common area, it's just me, this girl (Z), and another girl, (E). I tell my friends I'm going to have a slow night at the hostel.

Now I want to use this FR to talk about varying degrees of Isolation.

So the first degree was that Z was far from home. This is important because it relieves her of concerns of what her friends think of her. Even if some people around the hostel think she's a slut, it's not that big of a deal because she will only be there a few months.

Now, Z and E were both on their computers... I was hanging out, pretty much waiting for an opportunity to be alone with Z.

I'm not sure how it happened, but I ended up giving a massage to Z. I motioned to E to head upstairs (we were friends). I thought she'd get the message, but instead she came over and started massaging me.

After a while, Z went to her room for a minute (she was renting a room to herself on a monthly basis) and I asked E to give us some privacy. She went upstairs... it was really late, anyway.

So there's the second degree of isolation. Z and I are now in a common area together, but without anyone else around.

So she steps through the window onto the pavement outside and starts smoking some. I go sit in the window and chat with her. I don't remember the content... it's not so important.

At some point she's sitting next to me. I tell her "Z, look at me."

"No, you're going to kiss me!"

I ask her again, and she does, and yes, I do kiss her.

Then a game starts of her pulling away, "we can't..." I don't push hard to continue, but I don't back off completely either... and we continue this little cat and mouse game of her pulling away, she returning spatially, and I gently pulling her back in for more making out. This escalates for a while. Then she steps through the window and sits on the couch.

Game's almost over. I sit down, make out with her more, start touching her back and her legs and ass... More pulling away and returning. Eventually she straddles me and starts dry humping me... at this point, I know the deal is basically sealed...

I just need to create a third degree of isolation. I pick up her bottle of rum and her computer and walk into her room without saying anything or asking.

Now, at this point, she can either not follow me in, come in and say she's going to bed, ushering me out... or follow me in and lay down on the bed, which she does.

In this way, I didn't ask her to follow me into her room, but I gave her the option to do so.

So we're alone in her private room. Really just continued to escalate in bed, clothes came off, and we banged. Pretty simple. I gave her some more massage and asked to use the shower. "You can have as many showers as you want =]"

Now, the fourth degree of isolation...

I asked if she minded if I crashed with her. She said that was fine. But then she said people will know what happened. So I secure her discretion by leaving and sleeping in my own bed.

This move was really just for the sake of being a gentleman, however if I had been staying longer at the hostel, it would be much more likely that I would bang her again after preserving her social standing and showing that I could be discrete. This is what I mean by the fourth degree of isolation.

So let's recap these different degrees of isolation... Before I do, want to say that these are not the degrees of isolation, they just happened to apply in this particular situation and apply in many others as well, situations that you will encounter yourself.

  1. She's far away from home. Much easier for me.
  2. I removed the other girl from the area. Z and I were then alone.
  3. I moved her things to her room, and allowed her to follow me.
  4. I made sure no one found out about it, so that there were no negative social consequences as a result from hooking up with me.

I want to say one more thing... at one point she teased me, saying I looked gay. But then she said she never thought I was gay, because of the way I talked to her. I should mention that verbally, I was not direct, but my body language and eye contact were direct. I think this is often the most successful approach.