Hey seddit!

So I've been practicing seduction for about two weeks now. I have to say that I LOVE this lifestyle. I love the confidence and happiness that comes from working on myself and breaking through my fears.

Anyway, I've done about ten approaches in the last two weeks (I need to do more, I know) and I went out today to do some more. I spent a lot of time at the mall but didn't see anyone I was attracted to except one and I chickened out and she walked away.

Anyway, I ended up at the grocery store and saw a HB8 by the granola. She wasn't really my type but I said fuck it because I need practice (I've also noticed a tendency in myself to use this as an excuse to not approach). I go up and ask her what the best granola is. Then for the next five minutes we fool around tasting all the different granolas and comparing what the best ones are. At this point the interaction is starting to fizzle a little bit (we're only talking about granola still) and she leaves to go finish her shopping.

Well I didn't have anything else to do so I walked towards the registers but on my way I see her looking at the cheeses. I approach her again and make a joke about how she is picking the granola out of her teeth (as am I). She jokes with me about how neither of us bought granola. I reply "Well I only went over there to talk to you". HB: Oh really? Me: mmhmm

Not really making eye contact at this point as she is looking at the cheese. She must have glanced at me at least though and I probably missed it.

We made some more small talk about cheese. I made a few jokes. And asked her name. I didn't tell her mine and looked into her eyes silently until she asked for it. She walked around me to grab another kind of cheese and I stuck my shoulder out so she bumped into it as she passed (first keno of the encounter).

At this point I felt she was pretty comfortable with me and I didn't have much else I wanted to say. I even made a comment about how she had nothing left to get in the cheese section and was just talking to me. I decided it would be best at this point to just # close and told her I was going to go pay for my things and that she should "Give me her number. We should get coffee sometime".

She pretended to think about it (or actually thought about it?) for a bit with a big "mmmmm" and then goes "I don't think my boyfriend would like that". I ask what his name is. She replies with a quick "david".

At this point I'm just pumped that I even asked for her number so I decide to eject. I tell her that "it's ok" and to "Say 'hi' to David for me". and walk away.

A few things I can work on:

*I didn't hug goodbye. Didn't touch her at all when I said goodbye.

*More keno. Earlier keno? I still don't feel comfortable touching total strangers in daytime approach right off the bat, but I can certainly see how it would be useful.

*Swearing. I dropped a lot of F bombs during the conversation. I think I do it when I'm nervous.

*Push the boyfriend thing farther. Even if just for fun. I felt pretty weak about how I ended the whole thing and would have loved to use a line like "pretty girls are allowed two" or something.

What do you think seddit?