So i have been reading about game and seduction for two months, but have not taken action until today. I dont know if it is really a field report. I was in college campus with a friend and I told him I wanted to cold approach, I had ALOT of opportunities but i kept making up excuses like there are other people looking, but the one that I used the most was "I dont know what to say".
After 3 fcking hours my friend was bored that I didnt approach to anyone, so he told me if I dont approach I had to buy him a cofee. So I looked at a girl that was sitting alone, next to our table. So I stand up and went to her, I said: Me:Hi! She:Hi! Me: excuse me, are you from here?(refering to the town) She:oh no, im from Bolivia. Me: Oh im sorry, i tought you were from here, because you looked familiar. Whats your name. She: Oh, im 'hername' Me: Well nice to meet you, im zablon. Well goodbye She:bye!
At this point I didnt know what to say after. I feel like I will never be able to approach anyone and get a natural conversation going. I want to approach everyday, but I dont feel like im going to improve from it.
Tl;dr Did my first short approach today after 3 hrs of approach anxiety, I dont know if that counts as approach as the conversation was very short. I dont know if i should keep trying.
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