Not a fairly impressive report but maybe it'll help somebody and hopefully people can give me insights to improve my game. This is my first real gaming in awhile and have been in a downward spiral lately so last night was actually a huge win for me.

So last night I went to a friend's party where I knew about half the people and the other half were complete strangers. Going into the party, I tried to get pumped up listening to music (been obsessed with Two Door Cinema Club lately) and I tried to keep 3 things in mind (my personal sticking points):

  1. A dominant body language (posture - I tend to slouch a lot)
  2. STRONG eye contact
  3. A positive, fun, light-hearted frame and not a obsessive, needy frame

So on the way to the girl's place, I kept my head up, back straight, shoulders back and walked like a BOSS. Made and HELD eye contact with as many strangers as I could. In my mind I just tried to look at this party as another fun night out and not as a I NEED A MOTHERFUCKING CLOSE. Obviously it was in the back of my mind, but not my only objective.

At the party, it got to a slow start (only 1 guy there and the 3 girls were still getting ready in their rooms). But as people started to flow in, I begin to pick up momentum. Then 3 girls came in: 1 which I knew very well (ex co-worker, let's call her HB5), 2 were her friends that I only met once at different parties and at those parties I established a fairly good connection with both of them (let's say HB6 and HB7).

Immediately when they walked in, I shouted HB5!!! She got all excited and screamed "PU_Ki!!!!!" and we hugged it out like we haven't seen each other for YEARS. Huge DHV. The other 2 quickly followed suit and we gave each other hugs (excellent intro to kino escalation) and they both still remembered me from our last encounter (good sign).

So throughout the party, I teased them both (lots of push/pulls) and they both laughed a lot and gave me HUGE IOIs (one of them said "OMG you're really really funny!" and the other one just couldn't keep her hands off of me). Their interest in me was another huge DHV and ended up getting a HB8.5 interested in me. I only introduced myself and shook HB8.5's hand during the party, that was it. But as I was shutting the door when we were leaving, she said "Hey hold on, I think you're forgetting something" and she leaned in to give me a kiss on my cheek, leaving an imprint on my cheek. And as we got into the taxi, my HB5 friend (god bless her) was like "Oh, the lipstick on your cheek is coming off!". HB8.5 ended up give me another kiss and I said, "Well, now you gotta give me one on the other cheek as well to balance it out =)". And she did. Probably could've went for the k-close with HB8.5 there, but there was too many friends watching us (which I feel like she would've rejected me due to social pressure). But anyways, GAME OOOONNNNN!!

In the taxi ride there, I had my arm around HB5 and she just naturally rest her head on my shoulder. I knew it was pretty much sealed already at this point, giving me even more confidence and a stronger dominant frame. We get to the club and I just started dancing and having a good time with all the girls I met at the party and just not giving a fuck. Made sure I kept up the kino with HB6 and HB7 through grinding, hand holding, hands on the back and arms, etc. HB6 said to me "We should go get a drink" and we headed to the bar, where she told me "Alright, I don't know what your deal is but if you're just looking for sex, it's not gonna happen." I kinda just glossed over the question and said, "I'm looking for whatever you want".

So we head back to the floor and we all danced some more and me and HB6 decided to grab some fresh air (isolation!!). I leaned up against the wall and pulled her in real close and just talked like that for a bit. Stared into her eyes and went for the kiss. This felt pretty natural actually since we've already developed a strong rapport and she was super comfortable with me. So once you got the girl isolated and you're standing an inch away from each other, with strong eye contact and a second of silence, BOOM. Made out there for a while and re-joined the group.

Throughout the night me and HB6 just basically made out all over the floor. Got her number (and HB7 as well, since she hinted so I gave my phone to her and she put her number in) and I bounced with HB5 and HB6 to HB5's parent's place. Didn't really want to push for anything at HB5's parent's place so I just told them I'm gonna head home. Dropped them off and took the cab back to my place.

Now I'm trying to figure out how to deal with HB6 since I'm not really interested in long-term relationship right now but I still want to F-close her. Not sure if her earlier question was just a shit test? Probably set up a day 2 and see where it goes from there? If anything, I know HB7 is already waiting. Abundance mentality is awesome =)

So going back to the three points I was focusing on, I'm glad I had that down BEFORE heading to the party. Since that was pretty key to my success tonight I felt. I never hesitated for one bit and maintained an alpha mindset. Still a lot to work on though, but it's a good start =)