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Good FR, good read. Don't mind the haters. Looking forward to your next installment.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 05:38 PM
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I meant to respond to this earlier but forgot. Here’s the thing: I’m not fit, I could stand to lose 30 lbs. I lift & run and do physical things, so I’m strong but fat I guess you’d say. My pics are shit. I have pale, oily skin that definitely knocks at least 3 points off my looks in any photograph that isn’t heavily filtered. I know this, so I pick the best photos. But Snapchat is my worst enemy. My game is on point because my frame is fucking ironclad. I’m not perfect, I still fuck up; but I do…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 06:12 PM
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As noted by others, you've given no context. I'm going to answer you anyway: yes, of course you can regain Frame after losing it. Whether you will regain Frame depends on the context. Here's an example. You're out with a girl in a public setting. She asks you what you want to do next. You respond by asking her what she wants to do. Fuck, you think to yourself. That was the wrong thing to do. I've lost mah fraaaaaame! Don't panic, all is not lost. She doesn't know what to say because women need t…
/r/askTRP22/11/18 05:39 PM
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Change the topic? Yes and no. I don't usually have topic-based conversations with girls, I keep it changing and flirty through pretty much the whole interaction. Even when talking about a topic - for example, we talked about bands we liked - I'll change the subject frequently with observations, arousal or push/pull language ('that pretty boy in the pink shirt over there wants you, you should go sit on his lap'), or whatever; and then change back to the original topic shortly after. I think I sta…
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 05:17 PM
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The only women that are still like this are the ones that come from a strong religious background and are still held accountable in a community that will shame them otherwise. Once again, you're right on the money. The female sexual strategy, free of cultural coercion and social accountability pressures, will run wild branch to branch. Creating attraction, then maintaining or escalating it, is a temporary substitute for the sociocultural leash that has been gnawed through by feminist influence.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 02:42 PM
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I don't think every encounter with a woman has to be measured up to "I had sex" or "I did not have sex". Yes. Hell yes. You've got your head in the right place, my man. It's not about "had sex" or "didn't have sex". It's about building attraction. You can build attraction over any period of time at all, and as long as that attraction continues to grow, eventually attraction overcomes resistance. And this is all done through putting the theory and techniques into practice, as you said.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 02:38 PM
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Her: "You should buy me a beer!" Me: "Nope, not gonna happen!" Kept the tone playful. Keep in mind, when she initially arrived she handed her card over to the bar tender to open a tab, so she already was in the mindset that she was buying her own drinks. This is easy to maintain. Also, after the first hour or so, I said, "Hey, let's do some shots, I'll buy the first round." Same as I would with a male friend. Not gonna feed this chick shots all night long, but I buy two, you buy two, etc. Which …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/18 02:10 PM
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I'll know you're talking about a girl that you're attracted to at a 9-level. And because men are predisposed to be attracted to the same general features of women, I'll know that the girl will likely be pretty high up there on my scale, as well. But this doesn't negate the idea that she must first fall within the binary proposition. A girl you rate a 9 has a statistically nonexistent possibility of being a 0 to me, 'cuz evolution. Maybe your 3 is my zero, or maybe she's my 6. I'm attracted to re…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 10:05 PM
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Hm, I find I have the opposite. Load up some stand-up on YouTube, and I'm asleep in minutes. Reading a book? Forget sleep, I'll be up all night.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 09:28 PM
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you couldn't do much wrong. Even if you somehow fucked up many shittests you would have banged her. Maybe just not on the first date anymore. You could be right, but I don't see the relevance. Is a Field Report now supposed to just be "Hey guys, look at me I've become Super-Chad because I passed all these shit tests and banged a 9 and her mom", or is it an opportunity to showcase how tried and true, dynamic techniques have been used to attain the desired outcome? There obviously were shit tests …
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 09:10 PM
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Yeah I don't like his chart either, but mainly because I don't see attraction that way. Attraction isn't only on a scale, it starts as a binary proposition and then graduates to a scale in when it assumes the positive position. Either you're attracted to a girl, or you're not. 1 or 0. If it's 0, 'nuff said. She's not a 3, or a 2, or a 1. She's a piece of furniture. She's a man. She's whatever else you don't want to bang. 0. Now all the girls that are a binary 1, however, fall within some sort of…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/18 09:07 PM
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Yeah you're probably right. I just like conversation.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 06:33 PM
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I'm curious, why don't you think I had the "right moves"? I thought I laid out my actions pretty clearly, and they worked the way they were supposed to. Yeah there was an obvious difference in SMV, so certainly "easy mode". But that doesn't negate Agree & Amplify, Abundance, Push/Pull, reading IOIs, or any of the other bits of my frame that closed the deal. Just want to know where our perspectives differ on this. Also, not solely directed at you but just in general: what does this sub think a 3 …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 06:29 PM
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My advice is don’t slot yourself into the “only less attractive women want me” spot in your head. That can happen from slumming. Good advice. It's important to remember: always assume attraction. Doesn't matter if it's a 3 or a 9, she wants you until she makes it clear she doesn't. Welcome to tinder, where you say well fuck it I’m already here let’s see how this plays out. Pretty much. Actually, I had a lot of fun with the girl from this report. I'm gonna see her again, but obviously not exclusi…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 06:16 PM
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That's cool man, you do you.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 06:19 AM
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It's not really a "how to", it's just a field report to highlight some things. No, banging a 3 isn't impressive, but I'm not here to get my dick stroked. The principles of male/female dynamics are the same from 1-10.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/18 06:06 AM
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A vasectomy is reversible. Doesn't mean it's a great idea, because that shit doesn't always work out. But at the moment it's one of the most available options out there. I encourage you to pay attention to the progress with Vasalgel. Google it, it's in development and it's what I intend to have done as soon as it's available.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 06:21 AM
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As a broad framework learning tool - one tool among others - I guess it's okay. I don't really see how it could be much use beyond that.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/17 05:49 PM
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In the animal kingdom, you don't see this kind of behaviour. Well that's not true at all. Both polygynandry and polyandry occur with varying degrees of regularity among mammals in nature. To specifically target primates here, marmosets will exhibit polyandrous mating strategies at times, while polygynandry is the norm among our close evolutionary relatives the bonobos. I understand your investment - and this community's investment, it would seem - in the polygynous ideal of Alpha-Male-ness, but …
/r/askTRP29/01/17 05:42 PM
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08.30.2014 - Final Day ~6 hrs Slept: 0300 // Woke: 0900
/r/TheRedPill30/08/15 01:47 PM
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escaped a kidnapping attempt, had to bribe a police officer, had the shit kicked out of me 6 days a week, saw street fights, took part in fights, experienced extreme loneliness, depression, food poisoning and a flesh eating infection all simultaneously, faced my two largest phobias (Thanks for the infant stage conditioning Mum…), rode a motorbike with no prior experience 280km through mountains and a city, got laid by all manner of women, experienced psychedelics for the first time, was robbed, …
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 06:59 PM
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Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 06:41 PM
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08.29.2015 - Day 29 ~7.5 hrs Slept: 2330 // Woke: 0700
/r/TheRedPill29/08/15 11:50 AM
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08.28.2015 - Day 28 ~7.5 hrs Slept: 2200 // Woke: 0530
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 09:59 AM
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RedPillWomen sub on the sidebar for feminine support and discussions.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:59 AM
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"8 inches"
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:42 AM
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08.27.2015 - Day 27 ~8.5 hrs Slept: 2130 // Woke: 0600
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 10:27 AM
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It ORIGINATED from health issues. The biological basis of a woman's aversion to 'vulnerability' (weakness) is synonymous with her aversion to sub-par genetic material. Sickly men make sickly children, and the human race weakens.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:48 AM
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This is simple. When I say to you, "I know a girl that needs your help," the mental image you have is that the girl is of your own 'race'. When I say to you, "I know a person of a different race that needs your help," you assume the person is a man. When you weigh these options, you are more inclined to help a) a female, and b) a member of your own 'race' than you are a male member of a different race. First, men are disposable and women are not - evolutionarily speaking. Second, "Us vs. Them" i…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:41 AM
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Frame is who you are. Frame is where you live. Frame is who owns your balls.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/15 12:26 AM
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I hate guns. I really, really hate them. But they exist, and there's nothing I can do about that. I'm picking up my first sidearm this weekend, and as soon as I've put in enough range hours to be comfortable operating it, I'll carry it. Hating something doesn't mean you shouldn't use it to your advantage.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:51 PM
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08.26.2015 - Day 26 ~7.5 hrs Slept: 2300 // Woke: 0630
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 11:08 AM
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I normally don't like plugs, regardless of who they're for. But I'm actually pretty excited about seeing Bill Burr, he's been one of my faves for years. Thanks for posting the tour dates.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 12:28 AM
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Your emotions are a mess. Focus on this, first and foremost. Get emotional control of yourself. I recommend looking into Zen practices, but figure out what works for you. You broke up with her. If you want to "keep it going" with a girl...don't break up with her. WTF, bro.
/r/askTRP26/08/15 12:14 AM
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The truth is that i still worry that I won't find anyone better than my ex. Maaaybe that's the truth. I'm not convinced. Let me tell you what's going on in your body, first. The neural pathways that register physical pain are also activated by emotional pain, making it difficult for you to compartmentalize your emotions. Your brain experiences a shattering of it's motivation and goal-oriented "reward pathways" (same study linked above), which can cause you to feel as though you are lost in an em…
/r/askTRP26/08/15 12:08 AM
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It would be helpful if you could post some details, anecdotes about how you got a girl but couldn't keep her, your own thoughts on what the problem is...
/r/askTRP25/08/15 11:51 PM
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TRP is exactly what the sidebar says it is: The Red Pill: Discussion of sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking a positive identity for men. Funny thing about sexual strategy, though: it isn't about being "in it for the ladies", and it's not exclusive to the male/female dynamic. As I clearly stated in the comment you replied to: [a field report] should have at least something to do with Sexual Strategy - whether that's heavily concentrated in the male-male social dynamic, or the male-f…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 05:04 PM
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08.25.2015 - Day 25 ~8 hrs Slept: 2300 // Woke: 0700
/r/TheRedPill25/08/15 11:19 AM
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Do you have an idea of what sort of life you want to be living by the time you're in your twenties? What you'll do for money, what sort of adventures you'd like to have?
/r/askTRP25/08/15 11:17 AM
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self awareness and self discipline Right fucking on. Absolutely agree. My problem is that I am the alpha bad boy type, without the lifestyle. I got a late start due to using my intelligence as an excuse for apathy and just generally being a pussy about shit. Finally figured out what's what eventually, but you can never really make up for lost time. Just working my ass off trying to get where I want to be.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:17 AM
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Glad to know my advice wasn't far from the mark, lol. I hear you about the motorcycle, but I'm more the Harley type than the sport bike type. ATGATT and good defensive driving, and when I finally get my bike I'm willing to take whatever risk remains. Life without a few important, personal aesthetics isn't worth living.
/r/askTRP25/08/15 12:00 AM
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Yeah...I'm with Epicureanist on this one. I get how the idea of holding Frame helped you out here, and that's definitely attributable to RP concepts. But this ain't much of a field report. Basically you just cooperated with law enforcement, which is how you avoid being shot in the face and ignored if you're white or martyred if you're black. A Field Report doesn't always have to be about getting laid, but it should have at least something to do with Sexual Strategy - whether that's heavily conce…
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 11:51 PM
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I just rescheduled for tomorrow night ...uh, see her tomorrow night?
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:39 PM
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How's life going for you?
/r/askTRP24/08/15 11:36 PM
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To 16-year-old _whistler: Lift weights and eat lots of protein. The weights class you took in highschool taught you jackshit, that's why you never saw any gainz. It's not your genetics, you're just ignorant. Learn, then do. Don't listen to your parents, college is a waste of time and money if you're not interested in a STEM field. Work for a couple years after high school, learn what it's like to have to earn your money. Figure out a skilled trade you'd be good at. Actually, figure out three tha…
/r/askTRP24/08/15 10:01 PM
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08.24.2015 - Day 24 ~7.5 hrs Slept: 2300 // Woke: 0630
/r/TheRedPill24/08/15 11:01 AM
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08.23.2015 - Day 23 ~9 hrs Slept: 0100 // Woke: 1000
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 07:25 PM
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condoning egregious acts of violence or other illegality From your post history: There's nothing wrong with beating someone up if they're being disrespectful enough. It shouldn't even be illegal. You're just whining. I don't know why you're whining, but it's silly and you should know better than to do it here.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/15 07:24 PM
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Every goddamn state in the midwest thinks they have the market cornered on weird, shitty weather. You Iowans are nothing special. =P
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 11:20 PM
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I live in the goddamn heartland, and I understand exactly what OP is talking about. Our generation has it harder than any other so far, and we've been trying the hardest we can. Do you not realize how weak this is? Nobody gives a fuck how hard you try. Nature doesn't care how hard you try. There is success, and there is failure. Result is the god of the natural world. And Hollywood - the entertainment industry as a whole, to be specific - influences culture and is in turn influenced by culture. …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 10:54 PM
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08.22.2015 - Day 22 ~8 hrs Slept: 2300 // Woke: 0700
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 10:43 PM
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If we'd have to fight WW2, we would have come up with reasons the Germans weren't that bad. I fucking lost it at this, lol. I agree with you. Men are weak. Men are soft. Men aren't men anymore. To the other commenters saying "not all men are like that", go fuck yourselves, this is The Red Pill. You should be comfortable with generalizations by now. So how do we fix it? Harden the fuck up. Study violence. Practice aggression. Unleash the terrifying beast of testosterone that longs to run wild in …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/15 10:33 PM
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...about what? Which movie to see?
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 10:16 PM
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"I guess I'm not the right guy for you." When you take a shit test seriously, you fail the test. Agree & Amplify, continue to escalate.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 10:14 PM
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she only has sex with people who she's exclusive with This is the exact same shit test as "we're not having sex tonight". It means she's thinking about sex. Sex with you. Handle it however you want, but realize it's just a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 10:12 PM
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If the lease is solely in your name, this shouldn't be a problem. If it's not, learn from this mistake and don't ever get a lease that you can't afford by yourself.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 07:52 PM
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08.21.2015 - Day 21 ~7 hrs Slept: 2230 // Woke: 0530
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 10:33 AM
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Hierarchy of love. Men > Women > Children > Puppies If you remove a rung in the ladder: Men > Women > Children > Puppies It seems reasonable to assume that sometimes the missing rung is replaced by the next one down. In fact: Men > Women > Children > Puppies I have witnessed "men" exhibit feminine baby talk behavior toward their small dogs - these are the 450lb MMORPG-addicted virgins with three chihuahuas. Whether it's because they are still children emotionally, or they've given up the idea of…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 10:27 AM
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Subversion is just about the only acceptable strategy for integrating the truth into popular consciousness. I did an experiment in AdviceAnimals with the Insanity Wolf meme a little while ago, with a decent result. Mixing humor and truth is a tried and true path to subversion.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 01:45 AM
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You're not too young, you're exactly the right age. You just need to channel the knowledge you're getting into something constructive, instead of letting it fester as emotion. What do you learn here? The basics, at least. The female of the species, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. Where the female can derive no benefit from association with the male, no such association takes place. (Briffault's Law) Hypergamy is the human female sexual strategy. Sub-strategies i…
/r/askTRP21/08/15 01:13 AM
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Absolutely true, and well put. Masculine dialect is anathema to the feminine sensibility, and vice versa.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/15 12:54 AM
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"Women must first practice on a rough draft before framing a masterpiece." I think I've discovered my new favorite hamsterism!
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 10:29 PM
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Why the fuck is she a possible LTR? What has she done for you?
/r/askTRP20/08/15 04:27 PM
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"Women want four things inside of them: a dick, a baby, food, or Jesus." I love this, and I'm gonna use it.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:40 PM
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Clothes If I notice clothes that I haven't worn in a couple of months, and I don't feel inclined to wear them when I see them - time for them to go. My first stop is always Plato's Closet, because I can get some money for the nicer items. Sometimes I can find a good deal on something else I want while I'm there. Then to Goodwill, where they become someone else's problem. I should note that the exception to my "couple of months" rule is anything like a suit, because I rarely wear them. I'm a jean…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:33 PM
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The girls that actively show interest in you are always 1-2 points lower on your scale than the girls that want you to show interest in them. Right now there's a 7 or maybe an 8 out there who saw you somewhere, wished you'd come say hi, and was disappointed when you didn't. Don't "try to score" the 8's. Make eye contact with them. Smile knowingly. Walk over, say hi, ask them why they're staring at you - especially if they weren't. Make some friends, make some fuckbuddies, whatever. Just play wit…
/r/askTRP20/08/15 02:29 PM
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And that's cool, it works for you, so if it ain't broke don't fix it.
/r/askTRP20/08/15 01:45 PM
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douchey and self-absorbed So...Alpha then? Let's be clear: there's nothing wrong with being douchey and self-absorbed. Douchey self-absorbed guys get a metric fuckton of tail. Here's the thought process of your Natural Alpha Gym-Bro when he posts a shirtless selfie: My abs look sick! Check this shit out! Here's the thought process of a Beta trying to figure out what pictures to post: Will a shirtless pic come across as douchey? Will this shirt complement my skin? Will this picture of me with my …
/r/askTRP20/08/15 01:40 PM
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You fucked up. I'm walking away looking at them smiling This is fine. The crazy bitch friend then starts running towards me all aggressive trying to hit me and screaming and yelling with the other girl who told me to kill myself. Me holding my ground I'm forced to stick up for myself by yelling back at the abusers by saying how the fuck am I the bad guy when this fucking bitch told me to go kill myself. This is not. You left your frame and entered theirs. And don't lie to yourself, you weren't f…
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 10:03 AM
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08.20.2015 - Day 20 ~4.75 hours Slept: 2300 // Woke: 0345 NOTES Not sure what caused me to wake so early, but felt refreshed. Possible side effects of ketosis + additional 385mg magnesium taken before bed to eliminate muscle cramps. Researching. edit: Possibly need to up sodium intake.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/15 09:43 AM
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08.19.2015 - Day 19 ~11 hrs Slept: 1930 // Woke: 0630
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 10:53 AM
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08.18.215 - Day 18 ~4.5 hrs Slept: 0430 // Woke: 0900
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 03:37 PM
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08.17.2015 - Day 17 ~7 hrs Slept: 0200 // Woke: 0900
/r/TheRedPill17/08/15 01:42 PM
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Okay good. I was really hoping I hadn't missed an important study in genetics.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:42 PM
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there are two species within the human race. If you mean this figuratively, I understand and am on board. If you mean this literally, I REALLY want you to elaborate.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:25 PM
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we have an inherent set point for what we find attractive. These inherent values form the basis of our biological drive to procreate Ultimate takeaway right here. This post is a valuable contribution, thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 10:22 PM
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08.16.2015 - Day 16 ~10 hrs Slept: 2400 // Woke: 1000 NOTES Began rapid-entry ketogenic regimen. Fasted 16 hours 8/14-8/15, high-intensity lifting (30 minutes) shortly after breaking fast with fat/protein mixture, total macro intake for 8/15 ~(<10g carb/>160g fat/>140g protein). Combined with workday 0700-2300, was excessively tired. Fell asleep ~4 minutes after lying down. Awoke groggy.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 03:30 PM
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Fair enough. I guess what I'm thinking of has more to do with some women spending the majority of their time in the beta need phase, and other women spending the majority of their time in the alpha seed phase. Good talk.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 12:39 AM
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women enjoy knowing a man has had many sexual partners But this isn't necessarily the case. Preselection takes many forms, and not all of them are direct. Women are attracted to a man they see other women attracted to, but direct knowledge of a man's high partner count could ostensibly be an obstacle to attraction for a relationship-oriented woman, because it signals lack of provider-willingness.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 12:00 AM
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Just as women like tall muscular men just because that's their evolved preference so too do men like chaste women. I'm not sure I buy this comparison. "Tall, muscular man" physically signals dominance/protector ability. The flipside of this would be Hip-Waist-Bust ratio in women, physically signalling higher likelihood of fertility and successful bearing of offspring. A more apt comparison might be that chastity in women is similar to confident speech in men. Each demonstrates the ability to nav…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 11:28 PM
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Your father is testing your boyfriend's Protector qualities. He's probably doing it subconsciously, but this is a simple patriarchal fitness test, old as time. Your father has to be comfortable with the idea of giving the responsibility for your well-being over to your boyfriend, and he's assessing your boyfriend's capability in this area. If your boyfriend is capable and your father is reasonable, the situation will resolve itself when it needs to.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/15 08:09 PM
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08.15.2015 - Day 15 ~7.5 hrs Slept: 2300 // Woke: 0630
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 01:47 PM
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This recent post by /u/JP_Whoregan does a beautiful job explaining how to hold Patriarchy in high esteem, while exploiting the reality of Puerarchy.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 01:41 PM
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You think girls were not 'exploited' under any other social system, or that we're the first to have prostitutes. Of course I don't think that. Don't be ridiculous. Women don't want patriarchy because it gives them greater freedoms and protections. I don't think anyone could argue against this. I can argue against this, because you're wrong. Women have been conditioned to believe that they should be against Patriarchy, with "patriarchy" here being painted as a society in which males are the privi…
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 01:33 PM
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Thanks for putting this together. A very close friend of mine broke up with his 2-year LTR last night, and I've been trying to gather a few key articles/posts to send his way, to highlight the ideas I've preached at him for a while. This makes the top of that list.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/15 12:58 AM
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Please use the term "strip steak" to maximum capacity.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 10:59 PM
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08.14.2015 - Day 14 ~7.5 hrs Slept: 2330 // Woke: 0700
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 11:20 AM
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I laughed at "Trumpelstiltskin"
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 02:15 AM
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I have yet to learn any piece of information that would convince me pure altruism actually exists. It seems to me that the self is at the root of everything.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 12:22 AM
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Improvement/propagation/prosperity/success/increase. "To win" is multifaceted and defined contextually.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/15 12:02 AM
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Whether something is "corrupt" is much like whether "God" is on your side: it's determined by the quality and popularity of the results. History is written by the winners.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 11:48 PM
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08.13.2015 - Day 13 ~8.5 hrs Slept: 2300 // Woke: 0730
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 11:54 AM
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Hello everybody, wanna know scientific explanation of whether or not you should approach a girl? No. My dick tells me this. I have no need of your magic numbers.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:17 AM
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Am I misunderstanding the slang word "cuck"? I thought it was basically just a lazy way of saying "cuckold", as in a man whose wife has betrayed him sexually with another man, and likely born illegitimate offspring. Is "cuck" just something we call weak men now?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:13 AM
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Absolutely. As Nietzsche put it: "Consciousness is the last and latest development of the organic and hence also what is most unfinished and unstrong."
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:08 AM
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He's a politician. He plays the safe bet.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 12:01 AM
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Emotion is the manifestation of tactics and strategy. I would say rather that emotion & reason are both tools. As you say: when a person gains status by being outraged, he becomes outraged. This doesn't mean that emotion lies along the continuum of reason, rather it just means that they're all part of the same toolkit. We put these tools to use both consciously and unconsciously, in advancement of the ultimate evolutionary goal: prosperity.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:55 PM
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refusing service to racists. Letting them know you disagree with their views and refusing to do business with them. The thought process must be that people are afraid that racism might spread. I would argue that the thought process is secondary to the emotional motivation, namely that of inflicting punishment by denying your services to the Undesirables - "racists" in this case. It's the paradox of the prison system. Despite the rhetoric about "rehabilitation" of citizens who violate the rules o…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 08:40 PM
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08.12.2015 - Day 12 ~7 hrs Slept: 0100 // Woke: 0800
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 12:34 PM
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08.11.2015 - Day 11 ~8 hrs Slept: 2330 // Woke 0730
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 11:52 AM
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Rather than being concerned, be aware. Awareness is a good thing, and to be aware of the state of society is to be less prone to catastrophe. But when you invest emotionally in your awareness, rather than simply strategizing based on your awareness, you handicap yourself.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 11:48 PM
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There's nothing particularly astonishing about this. The girl's profile is her face to the world, the same as if she was out at a club with her friends. She has to present herself in a way that protects her own SMV within her subculture, which in this case means chastity, innocence, and other hallmarks of traditional morality. The messages are private: they're between her and Chad, and aren't based on cultural expectations. The conversation she has with Chad is based on the chemical reactions ta…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 11:13 PM
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Reminds me of a drunken facebook conversation I had a few weeks ago. Some MRA-inspired drivel was floating around my feed - something about some woman realized she'd been abusing her husband for years, emoooootional abuse - and a Puerto Rican girl I know was lamenting how could any woman justify treating her man this way, all women should read this and watch how they behave, blah blah blah. The men commenting on her post were some strange hybrid version of MRA and White Knight - maybe Bro Knight…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 06:29 PM
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Nitpicky point of contention: Mr. Chaplin was born in 1889. He was 40 years old at the outset of the Great Depression, and 50 at the beginning of the Second World War. He did not "grow up" during these periods, he reached adulthood well in advance of them.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 06:06 PM
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There's a saying around my neck of the woods: Old enough to bleed, old enough to breed... ...and everything that goes with it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 04:46 PM
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Epilogue: after all of this, he moved in with me and decided to quit his professional career as an engineer and become a snowboard instructor. he's got a lot of confidence and game, and he's been using and abusing women ever since. i witnessed an upstanding man who would make a fine husband and father get chewed up by marriage and transformed into an uncaring player who seems to take pleasure in playing with girl's feelings. the traditional path for men turned out to be a trap for him. Where hav…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 04:14 PM
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08.10.2015 - Day 10 ~8 hrs Slept: 2330 // Woke: 0730
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 12:15 PM
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08.09.2015 - Day 9 ~9.5 hrs Slept: 2200 // Woke: 0730
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 12:08 PM
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08.08.2015 - Day 8 ~7.5 hrs Slept: 2400 // Woke: 0730
/r/TheRedPill08/08/15 12:10 PM
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The definition you chose was laughably incomplete, not your response as a whole - and I provided you with the reason for such a statement. I'm familiar with the self-help literature espousing the use of lingo such as "reactive" & "proactive" & "responsive". Your emotional attachment to these terms is clearly derived from the largely corporate paradigm, in which literature of this nature is popular and effective. But that has nothing to do with the original post, nor my response to you. My respon…
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 10:15 PM
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08.07.2015 - Day 7 ~7.5 hrs Slept: ~2330 // Woke: 0700
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 11:58 AM
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Right on, brother! Congratulations on getting yourself on the right track. You'll be just fine.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/15 01:17 AM
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I'm gonna edit my above response to say "PREMEDITATED intentions," rather than "intentions." Does that clear things up? Hmm. It makes it a bit clearer. Would you say that the paradigm for your argument here is fundamentally one of strategy within a social context? I'm getting an underlying thread of "competent strategy vs competent reactivity," which all other things being equal, would imply a greater level of social mastery in the reactive individual than in the strategic one. Thank you for hel…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 10:22 PM
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This response is getting a bit stream-of-consciousness, because I'm actively trying to understand your thought process, and it doesn't fall immediately to hand. Bear with me. When you say "reactive behavior is vague," I don't immediately agree because reacting to a sledgehammer hitting my toe by jumping around and cursing isn't vague at all. I exhibit this behavior as a reaction to an external stimulus, making it reactive, but it is opaque behavior. Or...is it opaque after all? As you pointed ou…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 10:02 PM
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It seems like you're equating "vague behavior" to "reactive behavior", which doesn't sit right with me. I understand that reactive behavior can be vague, and vague behavior can be reactive. But they don't really mean the same thing. Reaction can be overt just as easily as it can be vague.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 08:59 PM
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Reactive people don't consider whether or not their reaction is appropriate, useful, desirable or good. Reactive people act purely based on their feels in that moment. Reactive people are great for reality TV. By being responsive, you take ownership of the reactive energy inside you and guide it such that it provides benefit. You obviously have emotional connotations attached to each term. You use them differently here: "reactive people" as a stereotype, "being responsive" as the description of …
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 08:43 PM
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After reading your comment, I realized I didn't understand internet currency either. This article just helped me out. http://www.coindesk.com/bitcoin-explained-five-year-old/
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 03:36 PM
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08.06.2015 - Day 6 ~8 hrs Slept: ~2200 // Woke: 0600 NOTES Attempted sleep earlier, far easier time falling asleep. Woke after first full cycle (~90min), easily fell asleep again. Changes to routine included: Consumed no caffeine 8/5 after ~1400. Ate evening meal an hour earlier (~2000, previously ~2100). Added higher quantity carbohydrates (pasta) to evening meal (fewer throughout day). Took 5mg melatonin concurrent with evening meal (previously ~1hr post-meal).
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 10:36 AM
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08.05.2015 - Day 5 ~6.5 hrs Slept: ~0015 // Woke: 0645
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 11:26 AM
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Athletes who adhere to Ramadan were doing it before it was cool Hipster Muhammed meme, anyone?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 02:29 AM
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That was fascinating. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 01:11 AM
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Takes 4 plates off then puts them back on, takes them off and puts them on again for 5 sets. Right? I mean, who wants to move weights like that while they're lifting at the gym? ...
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:56 AM
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Thanks. Motivation not a problem, seeking the wisdom of those more experienced than myself. If Skype is what it takes though, I'll see about signing up for it.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:48 AM
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GLO, big fan of your work. Gonna post my routine here, if you have any critique for me I'd love to hear it. 5'8", 205lbs. Primary goal: get stronger (function). Secondary goal: lose excess fat (aesthetic). Lifting stats as of last week: Squat - 225 @ 5x5 / 270 singles x 7 (60-90sec rest, strong form) Bench - 155 @ 5x5 / 185 singles x 7 (90-120sec rest, weak form, working on shoulder girdle to correct) Deadlift - no idea, I've been playing it safe a little bitch about it after getting back in the…
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 12:41 AM
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08.04.2015 - Day 4 ~7.5 hrs Slept: ~2300 // Woke: 0630 NOTES Began PM 8/3 - AM 8/4: melatonin - 5mg - ~1hr before bed dehydroepiandrosterone (DHEA) - 25mg - upon waking coffee - limit to ~20oz (one full french press)
/r/TheRedPill04/08/15 11:49 AM
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08.03.2015 - Day 3 ~6.5 hrs Slept: ~0430 // Woke: 1100
/r/TheRedPill03/08/15 03:20 PM
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One of my orbiting bros is tall, tanned, handsome and jacked but he's a fkn idiot. He's come straight from the beach and is wearing a singlet which shows off his tanned jackedness. Natural Alpha. I'm starting to believe that jacked + singlet > athletic + well dressed. Jacked + not giving a fuck if you look like a retard because you're confident is ALWAYS > athletic + self-conscious about your appearance. Girls are attracted to orbiting bro for aforementioned reasons but he's weak and annoying wh…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 02:27 PM
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08.02.2015 - Day 2 ~5.5 hrs Slept: ~0300 // Woke: 0831
/r/TheRedPill02/08/15 12:41 PM
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08.01.2015 - Day 1 ~7 hrs Slept: ~0115 // Woke: 0823
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 07:13 PM
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_whistler will take part in this challenge!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:05 PM
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If I'd known at 18 what I know now, I'd have entered a skilled trade.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 01:49 AM
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I'm going to respond section by section, because I like this comment a lot, and it'll help me order my thoughts about the whole issue. I'd set up meetings for those who do have the decision-making power to promote you. Not just your boss's boss, but the guy above him as well, or as many levels as you can. This should have been gradually set up years in advance, but it's now or never. This is a great idea in theory, and if the power structure existed to do so, I'd be doing it. The problem is, the…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 10:43 PM
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My understanding is that Roosh began distancing himself from "TRP" for political reasons, and altering or doing away with key TRP concepts, such as the Alpha/Beta dichotomy. This is different from what GayLubeOil is doing. GLO's stated purpose for monetization is to accrue the resources necessary to incentivize high-quality content. Roosh seems to be intent on building his own empire, which is perfectly fine. GLO seems intent on incentivizing quality growth of the RP community, which is also per…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 09:50 PM
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I absolutely know how to do his job. Right now I'm splitting the responsibilities with "Ward", but it would be no problem to do it all myself. The issue is in receiving the promotion. There's more to the history of my department involving lack of advancement opportunities that I left out of my post, because those details weren't relevant to the Lessons portion. But I won't assume the responsibilities of the position indefinitely without receiving the position itself, and the substantial wage inc…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 08:19 PM
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Absolutely, that was a discussion we had before he even left. As soon as he has a position open, he'll be giving me a call. I have a few other options as well, just trying to determine the best one for now.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 05:55 PM
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It really comes down to a question: does your frame permit you to become angry? I don't see how it couldn't, because we're not robots. Anger is a natural state. The follow-up analysis, then, must be about whether you are in control of your anger - keeping it within your frame - or whether your anger takes control of you and shatters your frame.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 12:15 PM
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Still waiting on that Vasalgel...
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 12:06 PM
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Schrodinger's Slut, by /u/Aerobus
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 10:38 PM
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eh, dunno. I could post more.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 10:20 PM
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Here's to the memory of your friend. May we all live a life as interesting and manly.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 02:37 AM
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Get hold of yourself. I've been where you are. You're just feeling chemicals reacting with other chemicals inside your body. It means nothing. You say you lift? Then lift. Lift heavy weights until you feel like you're on the verge of collapse, then sprint to the showers and stand there under an ice cold wave of misery - I said cold water, motherfucker - and force yourself to laugh in short, doglike coughs. Stay there until you're numb to the cold, then go stand in front of a mirror and look your…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 02:13 AM
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This frame makes me feel less confrontational and more confident. This. This is key. It can be hard to discern the correct amount of aggressive energy when you're amped up and really feeling the testosterone coursing through your system. I like the comparison between confrontational and confident, it's a good way to look at it.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 12:40 AM
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Nah. I wrote this up because 1) it was fun, and 2) it seemed like OP was missing a lot. Every man should be able to do this to some degree. Getting other people to do it for you isn't self-improvement, it's lazy. If you can't psychoanalyze a person by the way they write about themselves, practice until you can.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/15 01:47 PM
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Dude. Calm down a bit, yeah? Spend some more time reading the material and try to work on the bitterness. Cruelty is a razor, not a rocket launcher.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 01:22 AM
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I know, that's why I wrote it.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 01:16 AM
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I'm a strategic, pragmatic and creative problem solver. I'm ambitious and driven with a seriously off-beat sense of humor. Beyond my penchant for world domination - I'm also super easy going and a natural optimist. She copied this directly from her resume. I guarantee it. The glass is always half full (hopefully with something cloyingly fruit flavored and fermented). Ok, confession I'm the least savvy cocktail consumer ever and have been accused of possessing the drinking palate of an unsupervis…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 12:46 AM
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You really ought to read the 48 Laws of Power, I think. Seconded. OP, read Greene's 48 Laws of Power. Then, read all of /u/illimitableman's work.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/15 10:05 PM
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It is probably a side effect of women being valuable by the simple virtue of being women, while men have to work for every ounce of respect they wish to get This is an important observation. This is at the root of the phenomenon OP describes.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 12:25 PM
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They all end up saying I was too "hot and cold", ignoring them unless they were right in front of me, when I would make them orgasm over and over... Is there some transition point where you have to stop being like this? From the article on the sidebar entitled Relationships, the Red Pill, and you: i don’t really believe that the ‘asshole game’ is a fully evolved strategy. it’s just better than wanting a replacement mom. so when a girl has the choice between a grown up (who is an asshole) vs a sn…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 07:47 PM
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QUOTE "I want something that will be both simple and at the same time not so simple. Something that will make sure that I often ask myself questions, but the minute I'm in the same room as you, I know." ANALYSIS I don't know what she means by this A woman doesn't seek personal certainty through logic. She seeks personal certainty through emotion. In other words, "being sure" of a truth isn't as important as "feeling sure" of a truth. Manspeak Translation of Womanspeak: "I want to feel like every…
/r/TheRedPill18/07/15 04:16 PM
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Just update Rosie the Riveter. "Yes we can" is a powerful statement, and the symbol is ingrained into feminist groupthink. Manufacture a Rosie-esque oil rig/coal mine campaign. *edit because I confused Obama with Rosie, lol. The Rosie statement is "We can do it!"
/r/TheRedPill11/07/15 08:11 PM
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This is better than a two-page write up. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 01:28 AM
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There's the saying, "You are the sum of the five people with whom you spend the most time." You can take it to mean that you absorb the qualities of these five people, or you can take it to mean that the strength of your own personality will attract & bond with people similar to yourself. Personally, I like the second option, and I think your social circle is a good illustration of that. I've enjoyed reading your thoughts and experiences in this thread, thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 03:17 PM
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That was beautifully said.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 04:45 PM
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TRP is for anyone. TRP isn't a movement, it's an explanation. It's for whoever the hell understands it.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 04:37 PM
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She insta-dated you because she was down for validation - you presented yourself as attractive and confident, and she wanted to be desired by you. She refused the kiss because she wasn't down to fuck. Sexual availability can change fifty times a day. If you find yourself in this situation again, I'd avoid "going nuclear" and just tell her you're gonna get going, and to give you her number so you can meet up again soon. Unless you're not really interested, in that case just walk away. Edited to a…
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 02:26 PM
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This needs to be closer to the top. When did all the moralizing start to be a thing here, this is TRP for fuck's sake.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/15 02:21 PM
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Based on the quoted section, he's not wrong. We aren't an organized movement. We are steered by the mob to some extent. And this subreddit is ever-increasingly watered down by people who wander in, read a few sidebar articles, and start commenting without internalizing any of it. Don't get me wrong, there are many, many valuable posts and comments here every day. And I'm not a diehard RooshV fan, I don't agree with everything he says. But when I remember this sub a year ago, and I look at this s…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 06:57 PM
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We try to see reality for what it is, but take ownership of our role in it. It is what sets us apart from feminism and the like. This is also the difference between Men's Rights and The Red Pill. They are different responses to the same set of conditions.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 06:36 PM
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A refreshing, rousing read. Brilliant. What you see as hate is fear and frustration. Fear of what you have the power to do to any given man on any given day, just by virtue of being female. Frustration that no matter how far men bend to your whims, it's never enough to prove to you that they don't hate you and have never hated you. Absolutely. This is my problem with acceptance of the "anger phase" - as a wizened old muppet-Jedi once said: Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to …
/r/TheRedPill21/05/15 05:19 PM
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It's more likely I'd never have been born at all. And 'cooperation for the betterment of all' is just another delusion, dependent on the synonymity of 'betterment' and 'progress'. There's no hard and fast definition for what is 'best'.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 11:51 PM
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Eh, fuck this. An advertised boycott is just another form of supplication.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 11:10 PM
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But isn't civilization itself just a different brand of short-sightedness? I would argue that if the first tribe of hunter-gatherers to erect a wall and begin growing crops and herding food-animals had immediately begun to experience the effects we deal with today - health problems, psychological problems, emotional traumas all stemming from the gilded cage in which we live - they might have burned it all down and gone back to roaming the wilds.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 10:28 PM
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This is an enormously valuable contribution. I'd like to see this on the sidebar. I'm very, very familiar with the Broken Woman you describe, because I'm pathologically attracted to this type of woman. I'm fairly certain I have some variation of a Savior Complex, and when I come to know a girl like this - living with a constant undercurrent of fear and distrust - I feel compelled to become some sort of guardian to her. One of the largest benefits I've derived from all the truths The Red Pill has…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 10:15 PM
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No disrespect intended, but that sounds like a low-T thing. If your balls are full and you want to get 'em empty, a nice body is pretty much all you should need. I'm willing to say that maybe my options are way more limited given I don't frequent major metro areas, but in my experience there are so few women worth more than the composition of their bodies, high standards in non-physical areas seems like a recipe for celibacy.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 12:10 AM
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There are a lot of TRP men who won't plate someone that isn't meeting rare qualities. Are there? That's kinda fucked up. If she passes the boner test, she can be a plate. Plates are for fucking. Dating...I guess when I think of the word, I think of a romantic interaction wherein the girl has high value in areas other than erotic utility. There aren't many of those.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:55 PM
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Fuck. I guess I need to try this. Every blowjob I've ever had was nothing special, I figured my cock was broken. So is there a trick for getting erect for a fat girl, or do I just need to finally try the whole viagra thing?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:38 PM
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I am a white man, and I approve this message.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:36 PM
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I'd probably tell her that Kevin is in love with her and that you promised him you'd get her to suck his dick. But that's just me. Honestly, unless any of her past cock donors have mysteriously disappeared or been found mutilated, I doubt you have anything to worry about. Carry on with your fucktoy.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:28 PM
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Eh...I don't know. I'm not a fan of the idea of "practicing dating". Why is this something you would want to practice? Practice approaching, practicing demonstrating value, practice abundance mentality, practice amused mastery. But dating? That's not something to be practiced. Maybe it's personal preference. I don't see dating as really even something I'm willing to do anymore. But I'm a cantankerous nietzschean asshole, so maybe it's more of a thing for others. Rubs me the wrong way, though.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:20 PM
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I'll take your thanks anytime, brother. Happy writing.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:06 PM
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Women like this are for sex, not dating. You don't have to "date" a girl just because you want to fuck her. I guess I'm not really sure what you're talking about, what do you mean by "date"?
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:02 PM
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It depends on what you're afraid of. Are you afraid of getting hurt when a LTR doesn't work out? Are you afraid that you'll be missing opportunities to play the field? Or is your fear that you don't have what it takes to navigate the minefield that is a LTR with a modern woman? Introspect, and find out. Also, before you make the decision to enter into a LTR with any girl, you need to figure out what your reason for even considering such a thing is. Companionship? Consistent sexual availability e…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 10:49 PM
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I was going to read this until I read your disclaimer first. If you aren't sticking to accepted economic principles, why are you making a post about economics? Disclaimer: I'm not an economist, I just don't like things that don't make sense.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 10:17 PM
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Being American but growing up overseas, I actually played rugby pick-up games sometime in high school. I always enjoyed it. If you think rugby is hardcore, check out calcio storico (sometimes called calcio fiorentino). I'd love to see it take off on a larger scale.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 10:12 PM
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The simplest thing to do is do what you want. If you don't want to "fall for someone" (get into a LTR), then don't. If you want to risk getting into a LTR, knowing that it's far more difficult to maintain attraction than create it, then do it. What you shouldn't do is make decisions based on fear. Figure out what you want, and go for that.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 10:07 PM
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This is great, and I don't think the other commenters up to now are giving you enough credit here. This is very valuable information, for one reason: it highlights the concept of sexual availability. You were not sexually available to any male - being a straight man, but it's similar enough to a non-DTF girl that it works - at the time of Ostensibly Gay Guy's approach. Due to OGG's body language and verbal communication, you put yourself into the frame of warding off a sales pitch. Because of yo…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 09:59 PM
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'Strong' & 'Silent' go together for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 09:45 PM
1

This is one of the things that separate us from woman. Men need to be hit. We need to fail. We need adversary to get stronger. We need to taste defeat, so that we can be strong enough to taste victory. Tattoo this on your brains, men. Utterly true.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/15 11:05 AM
1

Don't conflate righteousness with self-righteousness. If you want to make a positive difference, that's your business. I don't really care either way, most of the time. But if you want to make a LOUD positive difference, I'm generally disgusted by it. It's all about the subtleties of where the emphasis lies.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 11:19 PM
1

Actually my most common results are INFP and INTP, I test myself every couple of years.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 08:37 PM
1

Physically, you're correct. Psychologically, the ternary proposition of acceptance/non-occurrence/rejection remains valid.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 08:10 PM
20

The dude's a social justice watchdog. From his comments in the video, it seems to me he's one of the faggots that goes everywhere with his camera, hoping to catch a cop violating someone's civil rights. I'll commend a man for keeping watch in his community, but not when he does it for attention.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 06:50 PM
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It's too bad the same mothers who are repulsed by that behavior enable it in the boys they raise. This is only natural. The root of the maternal psyche is to nurture offspring - if this weren't true, no species would survive. The maternal psyche isn't what's lacking here, it's the absence of the patriarchal framework that socially enforces the tenets of the paternal psyche. All children reap the consequences of this absence. Throw in those children who grow up without even a physically present p…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 06:42 PM
14

This is what I'm saying. Two men arguing across the street doesn't elicit the same response as a man and woman arguing across the street. That's why you can't take the sexual dynamic out if it.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 03:10 PM
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If you take the genders out of the situation, you may as well take the species out of it, as well. What would happen if a bear assaulted a potato? Let's base our conclusions on that.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 02:49 PM
6

We're all shaped by our environment to an extent. It's more likely that a woman who cultivates masculine power will default to that power, given the Western social environment.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 02:46 PM
20

Legally speaking, I don't disagree. The fact remains that psychologically this is Beta-male behavior.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 02:43 PM
57

Actually, it seemed like she started crying once Original White Knight drew his sidearm. Crying is a feminine response to the shattering of her solipsism.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 02:38 PM
88

White Knight records women from a distance when he believes they're in distress. Woman becomes enraged by Beta behavior. Woman's distress at Beta triggers White Knight anger response in accompanying men. Woman solipsistically assumes her rage is the most valid emotion present, begins to physically confront White Knight. White Knight exhibits further Beta behavior by retreating from woman's tantrum, then realizes he's in danger from accompanying men. Pulls sidearm. What a bucket of dicks. This co…
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 02:26 PM
1

So why complain about it here? Call her out on her shitty behavior. Or if you like starting shit yourself, stand up as soon as she sits down, yell "oh god, what's that smell" and move to another part of the train as quickly as possible. Take action, man.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/15 11:41 PM
1

Love this post. One question. What are your thoughts on the idea that frequent meals can, over time, put undue strain on a digestive system that evolved in a fasting/feasting environment, leading to other problems down the road?
/r/TheRedPill07/05/15 11:49 AM
1

the attraction is in spite of it. I completely agree, I didn't think this was in question.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 12:13 PM
9

Basically, IDGAF has a better ring to it than "I have a certain number of fucks to give and, while I may choose to bestow them where I see fit, you shall not take them from me through trickery or social conditioning." Yeah, I'd rather just keep "not giving a fuck".
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 12:12 PM
1

There's a difference between attraction and arousal. Sexy/good-looking = arousal. Myriad qualities can equal attraction.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/15 11:46 AM
1

I'm going to disagree with you based on some subtleties. Bear with me. Expectation comes into play when you try to predict the future or have predetermined how an event is supposed to occur. Prediction is too concrete a term to be accurate here. Expectation comes into play when you fantasize about the future, based on an idealistic notion of cause leading to effect. A typical beta expects sex after bending over backwards and pleasing a woman. As we all know this is a losers mentality. Expectatio…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 10:19 PM
6

Sounds to me like you're just getting tired, and looking for a justification to abandon your goals. Don't. Keep moving forward.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 01:10 AM
19

What the fuck is this shit. I don't even...I'm done. That's enough internet for now. Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 12:58 AM
1

First off, only you have all the requisite information to make the right call here. I can only give you my opinion. That being said, it sound like she's in a fairly constant state of comfort testing. You've demonstrated the Alpha Attraction qualities, she's seeking the Beta Comfort qualities that let her know if she can trust you. As the first child of three, she'll probably shoulder responsibility fairly well. This is also evidenced by her willingness and aptitude at fulfilling domestic duties.…
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 12:08 AM
1

The fact that you've given me all positives and no negatives indicates blinding oneitis. What are the negatives? They're always there.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 11:20 PM
2

How old are you? Are you content to LTR this girl for the foreseeable future, or do you want to spin plates? Answer out of honesty, not fear. What are her domestic skills? Does she have siblings, and if so what order child is she?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 10:56 PM
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You only need to look at her to know you shouldn't LTR this chick. I can't stand the show, but look at the bone structure of the face, the presentation of her femininity (virtually non-existent) and the eyes. Instant next.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 10:16 PM
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Okay, assuming OP is legit - which is a 50/50 shot in my opinion, but let's go with it - there are two key factors at work here. Play to your strengths. You're not faking anything. You're being yourself in the genuine sense of the words, and that lends an innate confidence that "pretending" to be the AMOG won't accomplish. And unlike an AFC (may as well borrow the PUA lingo for a sec, since that's your base) you don't wallow in a lack of confidence. You go "high-volume," you're still hitting you…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 10:10 PM
1

its a nightly occurrence at nearly any bar in the Midwest from Minneapolis MN to Gillette WY. Can confirm, refereed a fistfight at my local pub within the last month.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 09:51 PM
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Congratulations. You're better than 90% of the men in this sub. That may sound like sarcasm, but I'm sincere. You've gone from being an utterly worthless human being, to being the kind of man that built the fucking nation you live in. And like you said, you know you're not done. If I'm ever in Australia, I'm going to look you up. Keep moving forward, brother.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:23 PM
1

Respond 'No promises' without any goddamn winky faces Then set up logistics of the meet and stop texting until it's time to confirm. In the future you should probably post this type of thing in askTRP
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:55 PM
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Presented without comment, for your review: Glycemic load.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:40 PM
1

Shitty social media contribution.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:28 PM
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No it doesn't. OP is dropping some knowledge about logistics and strategy in a way that takes feminine nature into account. Nothing anti-TRP about this.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 12:29 PM
20

It happens bro. In the words of G.I. Joe, "Knowing is half the battle." Keep moving forward, you'll be alright.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 01:22 AM
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Brilliant. Fucking brilliant. The cold-calling thing is a fantastic analogy. You've brought multiple principles from The 48 Laws of Power together seamlessly with this post, and I really have nothing to say other than, I commend you.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 12:27 AM
1

I'm not going to lie, I didn't read your whole post. But this ain't Hot or Not. If that's even still a thing, I may be showing my age. Take this shit over to seddit, it has no place here.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 12:20 AM
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Fuck that. It's not necessary. If we're going to flair based on age bracket, we might as well flair based on body comp, financial bracket, skillset/career bracket, and any number of other factors. Any man that can't figure out how to apply the knowledge here to his own life, isn't worth the extra trouble.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 12:17 AM
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After just a cursory read-through, I was ready to dismiss this FR as masturbatory self-congratulation. I was going to tell you to enhance the notes a bit and lay off the gratuitous description of events. But then I took a closer look. Me: “NO”..(Now I know that she freaking out and about to cry and getting up and pacing) I count to 90 seconds and then text back… Me: ”Just kidding I’m on my way to come get you”… Her: I almost just fucking left you asshole, keep it up Me: Yeah right… you would nev…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 12:07 AM
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A 'shit test' is a fitness test. The 'shit testing' we talk about here is an instinctive type of fitness testing that girls do to men, and is a mechanism whereby the man's fitness as a mate is gauged. What you're talking about is also fitness testing, but you can approach it rationally, with full awareness. This also means you can tailor it to whatever situation you so choose. The type of canned 'shit test' you're looking for would be counter-productive. You have to decide what you want in a mat…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 09:24 PM
1

Just wait until she gets her Aunt Sam involved...
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 11:52 AM
1

Or you can keep both stages of the future in mind, and just enjoy the ride the whole way down.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:25 PM
1

Thanks for putting this together, brother, you're on point. Looking forward to seeing more.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 07:15 PM
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I'm wondering, do you think that this is a reasonable approach for a man to take? Step 1: observe how the world works. Step 2: decide whether you're going to complain about it or take advantage of it. Assuming the former, join the Men's Right's movement. Assuming the latter, stay here at The Red Pill and learn. Sounds like the OP you mention know's what's up.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 02:12 PM
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Good post. The Alpha / Beta model, as a system of describing sexual selection value within the sexual marketplace, is flawed the same way Newtonian physics is flawed. It doesn't explain everything that's going on, but it does explain quite a bit. You'll be hard pressed to find a truly perfect model, but there are good models that boost understanding.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 11:46 AM
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At the bottom of page 6 of the court filing.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 11:37 AM
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Nah bro, don't even try to pull that shit. I don't stand for it when black folks try to tell me I'm racist for not catering to slave morality, so I'm not going to accept you - an intelligent white man from what I've seen of your post and comment history - slinging the 'racist' label around just because some other members of the community disagree with you. You're probably right about this post belonging on the Dark Enlightenment sub, but don't take the easy way out when you have dissenters. Take…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 11:38 PM
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About 15% of the world is currently of European ancestry depending on... At approximately 3,837,000 sq. miles, Europe makes up about 6.7% of the geographical land mass of Earth. More than double ain't too shabby. I'm on board with the ethnocentric discussion, personally. My ancestors were explorers, merchants, and warriors that conquered the shit out of the known world. I'm absolutely proud to be a white man and the eventual product of their greatness, and anyone who tries to fling accusations o…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 11:20 PM
1

C'mon man, I understand that you're trying to give a visual, but this doesn't belong here.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 10:40 PM
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This is a great field report because it highlights one of the subtleties of sociosexual dynamics: when a woman assumes you're physically capable of something, any failure on your part to follow through is equivalent to failing the biggest shit test of your life. Because of the state of the majority of modern men, though, a woman may issue this test subconsciously expecting you to fail. Kudos to OP for passing the Brute Test.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 10:37 PM
3

I don't tweet. You're welcome to use this image on there if you'd like, though.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 05:28 PM
4

Too bad we've done away with the patriarchy. Girls like your sister used to benefit a lot from strong patriarchal role models. My condolences.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 03:37 PM
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Here's my social media contribution. Someone with the skills and time could do a far superior job. *Snarkier, more childish addition. edit: hey, gold. sweet, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 03:27 PM
3

Thing is, our brains aren't selected to perceive reality accurately. Our brains were selected to help us climb social hierarchies and charm those around us. So when it comes to perceiving reality, we hamster. Everyone lives in their own reality, because the human mind is not capable of perfectly perceiving reality in an objective sense, it must deduce reality through reason. This reality is then stacked up to the reality of those around us. This is one of the best layman's explanations of consci…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/15 12:45 PM
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Fuck you too, brother. Keep moving forward.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 07:14 AM
1

If you'll read a bit further down from the paragraph of mine that you quoted, you'll see that I already addressed the behavioral aspect of the Alpha / Beta terms. I don't think we actually disagree about anything.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 07:24 PM
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being the leader of a group is not the same as being leadership material Being The Leader™ is a position. Being leadership material is a behavioral description, and the behavioral context of 'Alpha' in this sub was my point.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 07:22 PM
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In what sort of hierarchy are you trying to define 'alpha'? I'm dealing with the terms within the context of the subreddit, which is about sexual strategy within the Sexual Marketplace. Being the 'leader of a group' has nothing to do with it.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:45 PM
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Sexual Availability. They went to lunch together with her friends, they went for coffee together, watched movies together... Your buddy is a pussy who won't/can't make the first move. The girl is your average, fairly attractive girl. One time this girl even came over to his house to watch the movies and went to sleep in the same bed as him in her panties. He didn't do anything. See point above. The girl is sending out some signals - there's something about your buddy that signals his value surpa…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:36 PM
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To the commenters hamstering that you wouldn't take her up on it for safety's sake: Random Hot Girl: Let's go have sex right now. Red Pill Man: Dunno, show me your tits. Problem solved. If she won't show you her tits on command, she's not the slut she pretends to be, and it's a trick. If she does, tell her to follow you and do whatever makes you 'feel safe'.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:15 PM
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I feel like being an alpha a crossdresser/a CEO/a professional arm wrestler is less about banging hot girls wearing women's clothing/running a company/training and competing and more about simply living life as an uncompromising, critically thinking, successful man. Words mean things. If the meaning of a word isn't something you identify with and you want to identify with that word, don't try to make up a new meaning. Fucking deal with it. The words Alpha and Beta have to do with sexual selectio…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 12:04 PM
1

I realize I'm late to the party here, but this is a goddamn terrific explanation. Internet handshake.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 12:08 AM
5

This post is badass, and everyone should read it. Respect.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 11:45 PM
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Abso-fucking-lutely. This shit belongs in this sub. When the fuck did we start pulling punches around here?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 10:53 PM
1

Yeah, I grew up in the protestant tradition and studied religion quite a bit during my teen and college days, but for some reason I don't recall ever encountering this one. Pretty cool, glad I finally encountered it. Still can't find your sitcom though, care to help me out?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 10:26 PM
1

googling your sitcom led me to what is apparently another version of your website...TIL what 'Preterism' is. Interesting.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 10:19 PM
1

I demand that you write a sitcom.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 10:11 PM
1

Heh, I'm a fan of your website's contact page. Right on.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 09:58 PM
1

You're not wrong. But a lot of guys get turned onto this sub in their quest for Mad Tang, so it gets discussed quite a bit. Plus, y'know, it is part of the whole 'sexual strategy' thing. If you want to be a well rounded man, putting all your focus on girls is just as harmful as putting all your focus on lifting weights or growing your finances. Each of these areas is fine as part of what makes up the whole, though. Conversely, if you don't care much about being well-rounded, then go after whatev…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 09:46 PM
4

That's a phenomenal quote! Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 05:58 PM
1

Eh, fair enough. I'll try to take that into account when I interpret responses from now on. I was away from the community for a while, and it's grown in ways I didn't expect, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 05:54 PM
1

We'll see. I'm from the USA. I don't trust the motivations of my fellow citizens as much as I do those of older, more established nations.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:16 PM
1

How do you propose the non-protected social class will get out from under the thrall of the State? Economic collapse or no, there will always be someone in power.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:53 PM
1

Reproduction comes with a cost, and the female of the species makes the larger parental investment. Feminism is devoted to denying the reality of that cost, while simultaneously shifting the parental investment onto the male. Whereas the feminine psyche has evolved to encourage and manipulate a voluntary investment from the male - whose own psyche has evolved accordingly to accept this encouragement - feminism coerces the male into increased investment. I disagree that things will "turn around" …
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 03:34 PM
1

I didn't misread anything, my unedited post says verbatim "this is why you wanted to fuck with her". We all know what "fuck with" means. My apologies. I went back to your comment, and you're right. Apparently the misreading was mine. What's bewildered me about some of the comments I've received, is the focus being directed on my interaction with "Daphne". Who fucking cares? That's what gets me. Why do the men who come to this subreddit care about whether I'm treating some random girl poorly or i…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:59 PM
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I'm not familiar enough with Chinese culture to comment on a lot of this, but I don't see how anything you've quoted shows Li is a 'man hater'. Sounds like she grew up in a culture of hard physical punishment, she was a lesbian, and she became an activist against the type of physical punishment she had experienced during her life. None of this screams 'man hater' to me.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 01:27 PM
2

nodding down means a sort of professionalism to him; and up is like, "were cool." I do this exact same thing, and I've spent time in Southeast Asia. I've never thought about it, but that's probably where I got it from.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 10:19 PM
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Women will conveniently forget or fail to notice what a man does as though it's par for the course. I'd say this is entirely dependent upon the level of attraction felt for the man, by the woman. A woman highly attracted to a man will remember the most random shit that man has done for her. A woman who is not attracted - or worse, no longer attracted to a man - will pointedly overlook very non-random, serious shit. Again, it's all about the emotional state influencing her reality.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:52 PM
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Assume she'll have tasted all 31 flavors of manbatter by the end of Spring Break. Next.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:42 PM
-3

Oh goddammit. Lol, just take my upvote
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:22 PM
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I didn't want to fuck her. What? I don't know where the confusion is coming from. Edit: And I did not intentionally paint any such picture. In my original post, I've not attached any sort of moral value to the actions of anyone involved, because I don't attribute any moral values to these actions. I've not said she's a 'stupid bitch' or used any language representative of an emotional narrative. This is a simple illustration of a principle, the principle being the difference between how males an…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 09:14 PM
3

Absolutely. Honor is the way men assess one another's 'masculine value', which is why different actions can be called honorable or dishonorable depending on the culture. Women assess masculine value within a sexual paradigm, with completely different criteria. Honor will never mean to them what it means to men.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 08:51 PM
3

I can see that. Wouldn't you also say, though, that no matter what a woman is acclaimed for, she can be reviled at the drop of a hat if she does something to piss other women off?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 08:01 PM
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That's true, but even without the contemporary entitlement mentality it doesn't apply in the same way. Really, gratitude is just an emotion, and so of course it'll be different between the sexes. For men, gratitude carries a sort of permanence. Not that every time you're grateful to someone you owe them for the rest of your life, but the concept has solidity to it. 'This person has done something for me, and I honor that and keep that in mind when I think of this person.' For girls, gratitude do…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 07:44 PM
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You expect her to suck your dick and be thankful for what you did. Uh, no. Did you miss the part where I said this was my buddy's fiancée? the most tactful thing would have been to just ignore the previous fiasco. Wasn't going for tact. Was going for fun. Namely, my own fun. Do you greet your male friends with "lol bro remember last time you told me you tried fucking this chick but couldn't get it up? good times, right?". Uh, yep. Totally would. Maybe not as faggoty as all that, but I bust my fr…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 07:14 PM
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The comment was intentionally delivered to fuck with Daphne. I didn't go into it unaware of the effect it would have, I've simply used it to illustrate the point of this post. I don't fault Daphne for reacting this way. She reacted according to her nature. You're right, you don't have a reason to white knight a random girl in an illustrative anecdote, but it seems you've done it anyway.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 06:04 PM
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Haha, yeah it's obviously not an endearing way to greet someone. But men - the men in my circle, anyway - are going to react differently because they filter emotion through reality, rather than reality through emotion. If someone greeted me this way, I'd laugh and fire back something like "and you were really excited about trying to give me mouth to mouth, fag!"
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 05:00 PM
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Yes. What's more, your examples can be flipped and still convey the same message. For one girl's emotional state, the Romantic Date is exactly what will drive her wild and build her desire for you, while the club/party/bar scene will be enjoyable but not build sexual desire. This 'flipped script' is precisely the set of circumstances under which my last relationship began. My bar game didn't close the deal, but my museum-of-art-and-jazz-club-after-going-to-the-zoo game got her naked and moaning …
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 04:55 PM
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I don't think the word 'gratitude' really applies to women; not as men understand it, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 04:14 PM
2

Also if stand-up comedy is your thing, check out Chris D'elia. I just discovered him myself, and I've been studying his style for the past few days. A lot to glean for those interested in the different layers of communication.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 11:14 AM
17

...nooooooooooooo don't gooooooooooooo...cough
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 01:38 PM
1

Of course it was self defense. When you're being attacked and you defend yourself, that's self defense. It doesn't matter whether it's a world champion fighter twice your size or a puppy biting your big toe. If you are experiencing an attack and you do not wish to experience it, you fucking defend yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 10:58 AM
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Eagerness or willingness to please may be a part of it. Ian Ironwood would probably say it's a trait of the Wolf Alpha. If Provider Drive is too vague a term, I'd go with Pastoral Instinct. It's that caretaker feeling that some men have in their gut. Those of us that are driven by the idea of establishing a family legacy continue to seek out an LTR even after we understand the sexual dynamics at play, and realize it's a slim chance at best in the modern world. Let me see if I can sum it up like …
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 08:14 PM
3

Thanks, glad you liked it. I haven't read The Bell Curve yet, although it's on my to-do list. I place a lot of faith in chaos, so I can't really believe the predictions you describe are a sure thing. But I think they're in the pattern, and are probably a strong possibility. The high-IQ folks not passing on their genes, though...that seems simplistic. You'll have the Teslas, the celibate geniuses of a generation, sure. But a high IQ alone doesn't negate a strong drive to procreate. Now, I suppose…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 04:52 PM
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It isn't quite as simple as all that. During the evolution of our species, we developed the capacity for consciousness, rational thought, self-directed awareness of the world. We didn't lose other faculties like instinct or unconscious awareness - we just added another tool, much like how the addition of an opposable thumb would add the functions of grasping and fine manipulation to an already-useful appendage. However, as with an opposable thumb, once you have something that grants advantage yo…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 03:44 PM
2

Two things, working in combination: Consciously seek out new experiences. Consciously act as if you are alone. Number One makes it easy to make a decision: you'll decide to do something you've never done before. Number Two gets you in the mindset of acting on Number One without depending on consensus.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 01:57 PM
9

Never, never, never settle for a life you don't want. I don't care how many times you hear what a 'real man' is supposed to do - if you want to do something else, fuck 'em all and do that. You want a high-paying career and a high-rise condo? Do it. You want to spend your days surfing and live in a shack on the beach? Do it. You want to start your own online business and travel the world on your online income? Do it. Your options are limited only by reality, and reality is a hell of a lot broader…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:46 PM
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I'd like to suggest that women have always been (in terms of recent evolutionary history, anyway) emotionally volatile. But due to the difference in community size, this trait manifests differently. You seem to be conflating emotional volatility with immaturity, and I don't think that's correct. Maturity is a culturally-defined value scale. Emotional volatility, as OP has set it up, is biologically defined within the chemistry of the species. Now obviously 'volatile' has to be measured on a valu…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:17 PM
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Women who were more emotionally volatile created more effective and lasting bonds with their men. (admittedly, this could be a contrived theory to reconcile the behavior of modern women, but I'm not enough of a history buff to say things were ever so different. so criticism is invited.) I'll add my voice in agreement to this. If you look at common cultural memes across the history of European peoples, at least, emotional volatility seems linked to femininity. A woman tests a man or gets overly e…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 12:02 PM
8

This hit me right in the feels, brother. Congratulations on the new life you've built. Never stop moving forward.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 03:38 PM
99

"I deserve positive male attention because [hamster]." Feminine solipsism. AWALT, attractive or not.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:55 AM
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I'd argue that the descent of Black culture, as you say, has more to do with ordered hedonism mixed with victim or 'slave' morality, and less to do with chaos.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:45 AM
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The principle outlined here holds, but ONLY if it's a situation in which you genuinely want to go for it. Yes, but no other situation even matters. If your priority is to have sex with a certain girl, make her yours. If your priority is to play games with a certain girl, make her 'jump through hoops'. If you have no designs on a girl, she's irrelevant anyhow.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:25 AM
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Without morality or higher-level thinking, what are males? Physically violent, competitive, and sexually aggressive. Consciousness is the last and latest development of the organic, and consequently also the most unfinished and least powerful of these developments. - Nietszche When we leave behind the belief that rational thought is the penultimate evolutionary accomplishment - or at least view it with appropriate skepticism - we take the first step toward becoming at one with our own nature as …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 12:06 AM
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You've misunderstood. My point is that love and intimacy are not the foundation of marriage, nor are they necessarily a part of it at all. There's a difference between a pair-bond and the social construct of 'marriage', one several commenters have been missing of late. This post was in response to their error.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 10:48 PM
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I believe Hobbes denied a natural hierarchy, favoring belief in a 'more-or-less' equality in which weaker men in coalition balanced stronger men as individuals.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 09:34 PM
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Slight beef. Feminism creates the mentally blinding concept of "Equality". Both egalitarianism and feminism (current version) are products of cultural marxism. To say egalitarianism wasn't around before feminism would be a mistake. Further reading.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 09:22 PM
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The words "alpha" and "beta" apply better to animals than to humans, because human interaction is much more complicated. Bullshit. Alpha and Beta in context describe the value of an organism within the Sexual Marketplace. Alpha describes the organism with the highest value, and Beta describes organisms that fall below this value. In TRP parlance, we've altered this slightly. Here, Alpha describes the behavioral patterns that signal top-tier value, and Beta describes behavioral patterns that sign…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 08:54 PM
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Meh. You can be 'alpha fux' if you're the guy that fucks the girls and doesn't provide for them. You can be the 'beta bux' if you're the guy women turn to for provision. It ain't a big whoopty-do, it's just a colloquial way of communicating about these issues.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 08:37 PM
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I fucking LOST IT when I read this, it's too fucking great!
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 08:34 PM
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I'd like to think most of us here are fairly familiar with that story already, but I may take it on at some point. Thanks for the kind words.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 08:13 PM
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I'd forgotten all about that article! It was refreshing to read again, thanks. Link for the interested parties.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 03:39 PM
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Whether or not that's true, I had no intentions of fucking her. I danced and flirted with her because 1) I was enjoying it, and 2) I wanted to see if the guy she came in with had the balls to put a stop to her ignoring him.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 03:25 PM
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Good observation. You should expand on this in a post.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 03:21 PM
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Sometimes I think that self-aware sluts like your ex-plate have it worse than anyone else. Because they might understand why they're unhappy, without being able to do anything about it.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 01:36 PM
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Supporting anecdotes from my own life: In my last LTR, my girl flat out told me once, "You can tell me no, you know." It threw me for a loop at the time, because I already told her no quite a lot. But it makes sense when you realize that, as a strong-willed girl herself, she had a heightened need to test my willpower against her own. In a bar last week, I flirted and danced with the most attractive girl there, without any desire to fuck her or even see her again - I was there for my boys, not a …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 01:00 PM
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The author of that article spends a great deal of wind shrieking about whether marriage will retain its meaning, while failing to state what its meaning is supposed to be. This piece is an overly verbose bout of fear mongering. And while I'm here, let me just say that marriage is already, as the author mopes, "an old ritual with no further meaning". Your statement about love and intimacy not being an important factor in marriage as it was for past generations misses the mark. The construct of ma…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 12:41 PM
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Look, the main question here is like asking, "Do late payments bring down my credit score?" The short answer is, "Of course, but it doesn't matter now." SMV is Sexual Market Value. The important word there is Market. Your worth goes up and down, and you're not doomed by your past mistakes as long as you have the right strategy going forward. Edit I fucked a morbidly obese woman with a cucumber while she was tied to a bed and blindfolded. This was the second person I ever had sex with. I tell thi…
/r/askTRP16/04/15 11:34 AM
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On the topic of energy drinks, if Bang is available in your area I highly recommend it. It's the only one I've tried that doesn't leave me crashing afterward.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 11:22 AM
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Keep in mind, there's a difference between adulation and admiration. Contemporary society sets up ideals to create victim-heroes, and these victim-heroes receive adulation as a matter of course. It becomes a social instinct, and it is most noticeable because adulation is loud. But biology maintains the influence of our genetic instinct, and the hero according to nature receives a far quieter, far more meaningful admiration. Receipt of admiration should not be the goal, but it can be a rewarding …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 10:34 AM
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How often will a woman marry a man who is incapable of producing enough resources to provide for his family? In modern times? All the damn time, look around. But historically, you're right: provider-fitness has been far more important. Being able to support a family is generally the sole determinant of marriage fitness. This is my point, but it's a mistake to believe this is entirely due to female selection. As we see today, women indiscriminately bear offspring that they have no direct way of s…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:38 PM
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You'll notice I haven't said that love is out of place in a marriage. But love is not at the foundation of marriage - in contemporary times, love predates the marriage; historically, love may come weeks, months, or years into the marriage; or it may not come at all. The social construct of a legal contract binding two family names together - marriage - is about offspring and heredity. The psychological construct of a chemically-induced, loving relationship is a separate concept entirely, and may…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:22 PM
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A hammer is intended to drive nails through wood. It may be used for any number of other things, but when a hammer was created, this was its purpose. So it is with marriage. As I've said, marriage is a social construct, which makes it memetic. The past few decades of marital trends in the West aren't enough to negate the deeply-ingrained meme of marriage as a stable family unit. The rationalizations people build around that subconscious memetic memory are secondary. I would argue that the idea o…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:33 PM
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A transactional sexual relationship will be beneficial or non-beneficial based on its own merits, without a legal marriage status entering into it. The legal status of marriage serves the offspring that arise from such a sexual relationship with regard to parental availability, social status, and inheritance, among other things.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:25 PM
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That's true, but historically it seems to have been a cultural norm due to its stability. Again, I say it is beneficial to the children. Although not nearly as beneficial in contemporary times as it once was, due to a loss of that very stability.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:22 PM
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They fear what they don't understand. They hate what they fear. They rationalize their hatred as righteous. They espouse a false understanding based on their rationalizations. And so it goes.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 03:10 PM
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The other 10% haystack needles? Well-preserved, nice long hair, fitness minded, have remnants of their girly, playful fun attitudes, they're not desperate, have a full life and great attitude...but are basically high-maintenance and require a doctor's salary to be able to afford them. My sneaking suspicion about this 10% is that the latent raging bitch inside is just waiting to rear its ugly head after vows are exchanged. I'd tend to agree with your suspicion. If a woman in Western society makes…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 03:05 PM
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I'm all for farming - I'd love to spend time as a farmhand myself some day, to pick up some valuable skills - but it has fuck-all to do with the Red Pill. Quite frequently, someone will notice a positive correlation between the principles espoused here at TRP and a certain career or job. This is usually that man's current line of work, or else it's a career field he idealizes. There's a reason for this, but it ain't what you're thinking. Being a farmer is no more or less 'Red Pill' than being a …
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 02:56 PM
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Prostitution is more honest than marriage in some ways. Prostitution is a mutually beneficial transaction wherein each party receives what is desired - money for sexual release. Marriage is a social construct that serves to bind a family unit together, producing the ideal social environment for the rearing of children. It is beneficial to the children above all other parties. The two aren't even remotely related. They serve entirely separate purposes. The belief that marriage is about sex - or w…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 02:23 PM
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This principle is also good for building respect with other men. Years ago, about three months into my current job, my boss stopped by the office one night with his wife. They'd come from a nearby restaurant, and he was dropping in to check up on things and shoot the shit. I'd ordered a pizza, and about half was left. Now, my boss is absolutely the Top Dog of his environment, wherever that may be. He exudes every Alpha principle we discuss here, and it's as natural as breathing to him. I have a …
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 03:18 PM
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One of the functions that women serve in social situations is to mollify enmities between males and establish a pecking order based on who they side with. I've been completely missing this, but you're right. Damn. You've given me a huge paradigm shift with this very insightful comment.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 02:22 PM
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Right on! I'm still trying to find another place that trains like that, it's been almost a year for me.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 12:55 PM
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I’ve undone the top few buttons on my shirt at this point and she throws a shit test my way: “Can you please do up your shirt? No one wants to see your chest hair.” Me: “I’m just returning the favour looks down at cleavage, then makes strong eye contact and smirks, you just don’t like the competition.” I'm loving this response, it hits all the right notes. He proceeds to pat down my pockets, I grab his arm and ask him not to touch me. He pulls away and proceeds to put his hand in my pocket. I’m …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 11:33 AM
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The Wolves of Vinland
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 08:14 AM
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Good job turning a failure into success. Well handled, and well reported.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:41 PM
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Those bonds you speak of are broken beyond repair, friend. In history's cycle of death and rebirth, we live in an aborted age. Better to move along the fringe of society, where you can keep one eye on the decay and focus the other on forging a path to survival.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:34 PM
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Came here to say this, but you've got it covered. /stampfoot I chuckled.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:27 PM
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Yeah, the voice was part of it, but I kept finding myself just tuning out and having to go back. Finally stopped listening. I might give it another go though, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 11:42 AM
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I don't understand the point of this post.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 10:37 AM
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Is RSD really that good? I gave it a try a while back, and honestly I was just constantly annoyed.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 09:40 AM
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Overall, agree. One point of minor contention I'd like to highlight, lest some get the wrong idea. Stop identifying your actions according to popularized concepts. Identifying behaviors by assigning labels is helpful when you're trying to alter behavioral patterns. It's a cognitive marker, and it helps speed up understanding of what you're doing wrong. But this is only in the beginning phase, and if you're still in this phase, you shouldn't be posting on TRP yet. And as you say, defining your en…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 09:38 AM
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Posts like this should really be called something like "I Got Stuck at Level 2 and Rage Quit". Reading it is a waste of time. Read the sidebar instead. Then check out some of the top posts. Realize that it's not all about "getting pussies".
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 09:16 AM
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I would hold that an ideal doesn't cease to be an ideal, simply because it can also be reality. The two are not mutually exclusive. The flaw of conventional (Blue Pill) thought lies in the trap of blind idealism, which is absent strategy and isn't rooted in the understanding of how things work. edited to add: In light of the Red Pill, the masculine ideals move from merely aspirational to attainable.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 08:35 AM
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The Red Pill can engender hatred in a slave-morality framework, but this is really antithetical to the purpose behind a Red Pill outlook. If you slough off such a reactive, self-defeating framework - because hatred is really only an internalized, reactive response to your environment - and choose mastery in all its aspects, you won't get lost like this. None of the information brought to light by viewing the world according to TRP demands a view of the world, or women, as evil. This information …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 10:19 PM
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Beta Idealism: 'I hope I can find a woman who makes me feel the way I want to feel. She must be out there.' Alpha Idealism: 'I'm worth too much to settle for anything less than what I want in a woman.'
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 10:07 PM
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That's a beautiful piece of art. Sounds like you're on a good path. Stay strong, and keep it up.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:43 PM
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What about a happy MGTOW? Is it okay for me to be that?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:33 PM
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For the love of trousers, fix your formatting!
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 06:32 PM
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Absolutely, and a good reminder. I posted a piece a while back called "Stop Protecting Yourself So Much," and a few months later I had to consider the irony when my LTR left me. Those first moments of pain made me wish I'd protected myself more. But as time heals, I wouldn't do anything differently, and it's because of the growth I experienced.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 05:04 PM
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someone who just regretted her own actions A possibly unfortunate side effect of the awareness we have here is that I tend to assume the word 'false' in front of 'rape accusation'. It's my first reaction. Now, naturally if I care enough to look further into the matter, the rational faculties kick in and I'll evaluate the situation on its merits. But my first assumption is always 'she's lying to get even'.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 04:45 PM
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Thank you. I've been contemplating doing something like this for a while - the advantages of language study, skill acquisition, and overall broadening of life experience loom very large for me. Could you discuss some of the largest challenges you've faced while pursuing this lifestyle? And anything that you didn't anticipate going in, that might be helpful for those interested in this to consider?
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 03:30 PM
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joining the red pill did not start the insults, instead the insults started the red pill. Important point, and well stated. I think it's pretty safe to say that most women don't really understand to what degree sex matters in the average man's life. He finds more than a physical release, he finds belonging and acceptance in sex. Sex for a man is knowing you are wanted. I can't stress the truth of this statement enough. We've been conditioned to reject this part of ourselves, this primal urge tow…
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 02:31 PM
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The issue I've encountered is the over-saturation of training opportunities for the sport of MMA, and a decided lack of training solutions for those of us interested solely in the brutal efficiency of real life combat. When I'm looking for a place to train, I don't give two shits whether the professional MMA world esteems a training method, because I don't want to train for a sport. My background was in Aikido, which I studied while overseas in high school. I picked up a bit of dime-a-dozen Kara…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 09:50 PM
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They've interviewed guests such as Jack Donovan, Tom Kier, Royce Gracie, Colin Flaherty, James Bowery, Vladislav Koulikov, and Janet Bloomfield. Feel free to look up these professionals in their respective fields. episode titles like Chivalry, White Knights, and Other Noble Psychoses; Men Study Violence ; Put Women In Their Place; Masters and Slaves: The Morality of Strength; and The Masculine Monomyth; They cover the topics implied by these episode titles, as well as many others. The overarchin…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 03:13 PM
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Legitimate question, guys: why is there so much cop-hate?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 06:24 PM
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Oh wow, I love this but damn you. My balls are at war with my brain about posting this on Facebook right now.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 05:21 PM
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I had no expectations when talking to her, except to say hello and see how her night was going. Usually, I expect myself to "pull" the girl, and when I don't, I meander over what it was about me that turned her off. Last night it felt like I was having a personal party that I was inviting everyone to, and she just had to be a part of it. Right on, brother. Instead of trying to "pull", you implemented "screening". This is the way to go, because it frames you as the prize, not her.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 01:57 PM
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It is his comment as a whole. There are several direct statements of value. A direct statement of value is a way of negotiating attraction.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 01:40 PM
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Your conscious intentions aren't in question; our natures manifest themselves through our words and actions, regardless of the story we tell ourselves, about ourselves. Um, see, this is just gross. Shaming language. But kudos to you for finding success. Dismissal of a low-value male, on the more polite end of the spectrum. Both behaviors are completely expected as part of the subconscious feminine process.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 01:37 PM
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I'm with you, but you recognize that this approach works a lot better as a mindset, internally, as opposed to externally iterated in conversation.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 07:19 PM
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I didn't think your intention was to negotiate attraction, but your initial comment* above came off as a bout of ego-stroking or posturing. This can be interpreted as negotiating attraction. *excuse me, it was actually your second comment above
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 06:20 PM
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I'd like to point this out to some of the newer men in attendance here. We have a woman that recognizes the benefits of TRP in some areas, and reads the sub to keep herself in check and "reassess" her behavior. All good things, but she still gives in to her own nature when confronted with blue pill behavior. drukpa-kunley is negotiating attraction here, although I doubt that's his intent, and the woman's reaction? "Ew, Gross!!!!" = beta-male shaming
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 05:18 PM
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Commenters who describe themselves as feminists have been quick to attack the actress, calling her “talentless” and an “idiot” who doesn’t know what feminism is. As many of them see it, Cuoco owes her success and her salary to the hard work of decades of feminists. The feminist imperative = feminism is the only acceptable structure by which women may acheive success. “My parents spent 16 years hauling my butt to LA for audition after audition,” she said. “Every day they were helping me learn my …
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 04:11 PM
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Well, yes - I didn't mean to imply that cat-calling is of precisely equal value to all other forms of validation. But an expression of sexual intent by a man to a woman is a form of validation to that woman. The aggression with which the intent is expressed will be of varying value to various women at various moments.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 02:41 PM
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Haha! A very enjoyable read, and I admire the way you handled yourself. Isn't it great the way older women, who know where feminism came from, just shake their heads at all the entitled feminazi children these days? Great FR.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 02:27 PM
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To build on OP's point, it isn't about cat-calling specifically. Cat-calling is just one form of validation. When a woman's base cultural experience includes a certain level of attention received, in any form, she is accustomed to it. Remove this level of attention and she will crave the lost validation.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/14 01:50 PM
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analysis paralysis I like it!
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 10:38 PM
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feminism will tell her it's not enough and those poisonous ideas will persistently nag her untill it eventually gets to her. This is exactly what happened. A friend of mine just told me all the poison she's been spewing about me to try to justify her decision. I'm having a hard time keeping a cool head, honestly, I want to put her in her fucking place. Bourbon, bed, tomorrow's a fresh start.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 10:38 PM
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But that's how it is with breakups, you're never ever going to hear the real reason(s) from the woman. Truth. I have no doubt that the reasons she gave sounded right to her at the time. But a woman's reality is based on her present emotional state; the things she says can provide insight into what's really going on, but can't be taken as the whole story.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/14 05:15 PM
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This has clarified your point to me. I still disagree that this line of thought is beneficial to me in this situation, but it's more of a difference in focus. I'm focused on the broad strokes, whereas your point makes sense when exploring the details. The details are something I explored daily while in the relationship, so I'm already well aware of the girl's problems vs. my own within the relationship dynamic. But in the big picture - which is my focus at this moment - I take responsibility for…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 08:57 PM
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Your analysis is indeed important, but it needs to be based on reality I fail to see where we disagree here. The reality is that I achieve the most benefit from bearing the responsibility. This doesn't mean the girl is faultless. But there is no benefit to examining her faults, because they do not affect me anymore. I'm only interested in the things that I can use to keep moving forward. If there is no benefit, it isn't worth considering.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 03:48 PM
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There's definitely some truth to this. But it's a useless line of thought in the aftermath of a break-up. If I go down this mental path, what do I accomplish? I just end up blaming her. This is bullshit, and doesn't benefit me in anyway. If I choose to blame myself, what do I accomplish? Everything. I analyze myself. I improve myself. I build myself into a better version by owning my faults and becoming stronger. Crying on the sofa because I want to believe she's a heartless bitch who didn't kno…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 03:31 PM
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The alpha doesn't resent a woman who doesn't "love" him in that elusive way. He knows that she can't. He knows she can dump him at the drop of a hat, and get over him within a week, and find someone else within a few days. That's why he knows that he needs to be on top of his shit all day, every day or else she WILL leave. That's why he doesn't take rejection personally. That's why he doesn't put pressure on a woman to tell him that she "loves" him. There is NO unconditional love when it comes t…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 01:32 PM
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If you're not winning it's probably because you're lazy and focusing on the spoils of war instead of warfare. Well said. I catch myself slipping into this pattern more often than I'd like. You've stated the issue memorably, and I think putting it in those terms is going to help me stay focused. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:07 PM
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Hey, congrats on the de-pudgifying!
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 11:38 AM
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I am learning languages right now (mandarin and spanish) as part of my schooling in the fall and hopefully those will benefit me in the long term as far as career goes. This strikes me as an extremely good decision; you'll open many doors by becoming multilingual. Really, everything you've said - in both the post up top and the comments below - impresses me. You have a very calculating mind. Keep it well-honed, and avoid the pitfalls of excessive "ego-masturbation", as you've so aptly put it. I …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 12:24 PM
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Actually I think you need to be brought "back down" more than she does. The phrase "ha k", given your previous conversation, can be taken a few different ways. Doesn't matter which way she takes it, any of them work. Meanwhile, you need to focus on not her. Find something else to do, take your focus off this girl and find a few more.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 04:19 PM
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One reply: "ha k" Then no more contact for a while. Wait for her to start missing the attention from you, and then make her earn it back. If she doesn't, find another hot girl and keep working on that frame.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:33 PM
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So last time i saw her was friday night when she texted me she "needed some cuddles". I was on my way to a friends party so i told her i was going to stop by first say hello and chat then head over to her place. So im there for about an hour and a half then take leave to her place. You had plans, but you gave the appearance of shortening those plans because she asked you to make plans with her. Supplicating move. When i get there i greet her with a good kiss and some beer to wind down a little b…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 03:27 PM
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I don't know about "creating" it, but I didn't get it specifically from another source. It's just sort of a focused meditation.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:01 AM
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Not really the point I was trying to make, but since you asked: if I'm trying to sleep, anyone else not trying to sleep can stay the fuck out of my bedroom.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 03:49 PM
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I am concerning my self with framing a lot lately. Problem is automatic reactions, which are sometimes god damn submissive. I noticed they happen when I am really tired. Sometimes I work 60-65 hour a week, after then my batteries are really gone to hell and I act different. Concerning this, here's what has helped me build a strong frame: Go to a quiet, empty room. Close your eyes, and just take a moment. Seriously, just breathe in the stillness. Become calm. Then, think about yourself. Think abo…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 02:37 PM
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Am I wrong or tldr of your post would be "act instead of analyze"? That's not really it. As my title states, there's a time for thought and there's a time for action. I don't often post a TL;DR, because most situations have hidden complexities that would be lost in a summary. But if I had to state my point axiomatically, I guess it would be something like this: It is preferable for action to flow without the need for thought. Failing this, discover the balance between thought and action. Too muc…
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 02:20 PM
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Precisely. You must be willing to participate in the solution, or all you're really doing is whining. I recently got into this with my girl, and I don't think she really understood until I told her: "If there are one hundred steps to take to get where you need to be, I'll take ninety-nine of them with you; but you have to take the first step by yourself, toward me and what I have to offer."
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/14 11:32 AM
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Communication is only 7% verbal. The other 93% is tone, body language, and subtext. If you respond to the substance of a shit test, even if you're completely correct on every point, your score is 7 out of 100. Congratulations. You failed. Killed it. Tattoo this on your brains, gentlemen.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 09:14 PM
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Every bachelor party I've been to was fucking lame. My brother wanted to go bowling. A friend of mine wanted to play video games in his basement. Another friend at least went out to a bar with me and some guys, but all we did was sit around for a couple hours. Pretty much the same shit you'd do any night of the week.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 01:24 AM
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If you ever stop learning, you're probably dead.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 01:17 AM
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Thanks, I like to entertain. The thing you have to understand about girls, is that at any given moment they're experiencing 3-12 unique emotions at the same time. And just about every emotion is a matter of life and fucking death. Understand the effect of the moon on the ocean, and you may catch a glimpse of what's going on inside your girl. Then, think of the stony cliffs against which the ocean inexorably crashes, and realize how strong you must make yourself to avoid being swept away.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 04:17 PM
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Better yet, why not learn to analyze it yourself? Pursue complete understanding of your own life and reality. You'll be unstoppable! Or committed to an institution. 50/50 shot.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 02:07 AM
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Accept the pictures. Be playful. Be amused. Do not supplicate. Assume that the next time she's in town, she'll be in your bed.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 01:56 AM
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There is, at the root of modern feminism, a hypersensitivity surrounding the issue of gender. Because of this, modern feminists over-correct their punditry into blatant denial of gender-norms and gender-differences.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 12:39 AM
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Allow me to offer a possible interpretation here. Starting from your previous post: You 'came clean' to her about the fact that she was a plate. Interesting phrasing. Your frame was likely not as strong as it should have been at that very moment. She, naturally, had a miniature meltdown. You thought it was over and done with, and went about your business. Meanwhile, she couldn't help but notice you didn't come crawling back to her. And after a short time, it occurred to her that apparently there…
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 12:02 AM
0

You see that? That, right there? That was you, missing the point.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 11:55 PM
5

Fiction does not confirm reality. It can, however, illustrate it. Stories have always been used as teaching tools. Modern storytelling media like movies or novels can be used to the same effect as the folk tales of ages past.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 11:23 PM
2

Fucking masterful! You can't see it, but I'm giving you a standing ovation.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:23 PM
1

My advice, in case you're still having issues with this: Practice Amused Mastery. This is the most integral part of my own relationship to my girl, and can be a huge benefit to you as well. "Stop asking if I want your dessert" becomes a calmly-delivered "No," followed by a disappointed-in-your-childishness stare if any 'badgering' follows your statement.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:04 PM
1

Can confirm, am sociopath and truly believe that.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:54 PM
3

When you announce something, you do so for the purpose of garnering a reaction to that announcement. This is a form of validation-seeking. do not announce. Simply do.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 10:06 PM
5

Start setting limits.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 08:04 PM
11

If you treat these girls 'as guys', it stands to reason they're exhibiting masculine traits. Would you agree?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 06:48 PM
3

Men are built for three things above all else: the Hunt, the Settlement, and the Battlefield. Our bodies crave the uses of aggressive and arduous activity. Our minds seek the instant clarity of a binary survival system, in which we may lose ourselves in the primal philosophy: Kill Or Be Killed. Every achievement produced by mankind: every vast city, every cure for disease, every story or song passed down through the ages; all of it originates from this point, this first nature of man.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 06:43 PM
5

Damn straight. I loved that movie as a kid, and a few months back I watched it again and had the same realization. Mick Dundee is a great example of a man in touch with his own nature.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 06:16 PM
13

You have to go full Leo DiCaprio inception on their asses. Make them think everything was their idea Conversely, you could simply tell them what is expected, firmly and kindly. A good girl wants to please you, if you will teach her how and guide her as she goes.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 05:27 PM
54

You speak the truth, brother. Here are some personal anecdotes for the naysayers to read and summarily dismiss: My girl wants to lose weight. When I asked her what her plan was, it was a series of exercises that might well achieve some moderate weight loss, but not as effectively as proper nutrition and a higher overall activity level. After my explanation to this effect, she insisted that her own routine had helped her achieve weight loss in the past. The reason for her past weight loss? Fittin…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:54 PM
2

I'm a sweaty man. I use a generous handful of Clubman Pinaud Talc each morning to keep the swampcrotch at bay. A bit on the back of the neck post-shower is nice, as well. Losing weight has helped my sweatiness decrease.
/r/TRPOffTopic25/06/14 06:37 PM
4

First: Know yourself. 'Alpha but mostly internally' does not exist. The Alpha/Beta dichotomy is behavioral, so if you 'tend to think all the stuff' but your behaviors don't manifest, you are not exhibiting Alpha behavior. Accept your starting position; accept your fears and shortcomings; make your moves from here. Second: The body reflects the mind. Improve your physical condition. Eat nutritious foods, cut out worthless items. Seek out strenuous physical activity: lift & carry heavy things, mov…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 04:27 PM
7

The point of marriage is to foster a stable environment for offspring. That's all. It's a risky endeavor in this day and age, but some choose to pursue it. All other things you want from your relationships with women, are available without a binding marriage contract.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 11:23 AM
1

You sir have won this subreddit for the day.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 01:50 AM
2

No problem, brother.
/r/trpGAME07/06/14 06:52 PM
5

In this scenario, yes. She says "that's inappropriate," which as a shit test is her attempt to get you to submit to her frame, and not maintain your own. So what is her frame? In this case, it's the frame of "appropriateness". Appropriateness in the company (online company, that is) of a woman. Excuse me, of a Woman. A precious flower who must not be offended. You have just offended a Precious Princess through your "inappropriate"-ness. What do? Let's take a look at what Blue Pill Billy does her…
/r/trpGAME07/06/14 02:55 PM
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"That's inappropriate" = shit test. Response to shit test = Agree & Amplify. "That's inappropriate" + Agree & Amplify = "yeah, I always get that way after confession" or something along those lines.
/r/trpGAME07/06/14 02:33 PM
2

Fair enough, I guess in retrospect there were only a couple of comments I objected to.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 03:43 PM
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Jesus, why is this comment down at the bottom of the page? Do this, OP. This is far better than all the "beat him up and then lie to the cops" advice up there. You take care of your Mission first, everything else second. And nix this guy as a friend, in any event; he clearly doesn't belong in your inner circle.
/r/askTRP05/06/14 03:31 PM
1

Yep, to each his own. That's one of the great things about being human: we're all the same, but we're nothing alike.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 01:21 AM
3

Not at all, and you're assuming a woman such as I desire would not possess intelligence. From my observations, the propensity to have intellectually challenging conversation is more strongly related to personality type than intelligence. It's the need to talk about "weighty matters of the mind" that I don't find attractive in a girl, not intellectual capacity itself. All the intellectual stimulation I need, I can get from other men and perhaps a few women whose personalities aren't at odds with …
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/14 01:02 AM
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I truly don't understand what was confusing to people about OP's example. This is the most basic of basics.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/14 03:19 PM
3

Up until the last bit, wherein the esteemed uncletom40 affirms that physical abuse is in his gameplan, I don't have a problem with his views. I'm guessing, as are the majority of you here, that this was a troll or just an "internet tough guy" as little_red put it. Whether he was serious or not, the general sentiment behind his statements isn't that far from my own. I don't want fascinating conversations or intellectual peerage from my girl; I want her to have a joyful smile, a healthy and beauti…
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 02:59 PM
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Man here as well. Girly (feminine) voice is a big attractor.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 02:35 PM
3

I guess if it were me, I'd play around with the timeline a bit. Wait longer after the first date, start working on having a couple more plates spinning before going back to the first one. Keep experimenting and looking for a solution, but that's where I'd start.
/r/askTRP28/05/14 06:49 PM
1

What's the frequency of your dates / hookups per girl? Do you go the serial monogamy route or spin multiple plates at once?
/r/askTRP28/05/14 06:27 PM
2

...suuure.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 02:10 AM
2

Hey. Just wanted to say, kudos for not keeping the blinders on. Internet-handshake.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/14 02:06 AM
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A discussion is a respectful discourse between two people with different ideas. An argument occurs when being right is more important than listening. This. Man here. My girl and I occasionally disagree about something. And sometimes her reflexes take over and she wants to turn a discussion into an argument. When this happens, it's my responsibility as the Captain to care more about maintaining the balance of the relationship than proving myself right - don't take the bait, bring the conversation…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/14 04:43 PM
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What's the point in pressing charges? What, you need some sense of satisfaction after such a vewy twaumatic expewience? Shrug it off, dude. You're gonna get hit sometimes, and most of the time it's neither personal nor serious. And it's never a legal issue if I can handle it myself. If there's no actual danger, why take it any further?
/r/askTRP23/05/14 01:34 AM
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Wish I could claim credit for the term, but it's sorta Red Pill 101: Frame. Link in TRP sidebar to the source. EDIT: Apparently the link was moved from TRP sidebar to TRPgame sidebar. Here it is: Amused Mastery
/r/askTRP22/05/14 10:09 PM
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This is the right call. If you suffered no injuries, there's no reason to press charges. All that does is confirm you're too low-value to make your own way. And lashing out at her verbally or physically has a similar effect, it gives her the power. Here's what you do, OP: you treat her like any other entitled cowturd. She ain't worth your time, but if she invades your life with her attitude, you make a mockery of it. Laugh at her. Don't take her seriously; she's a child begging for the table scr…
/r/askTRP22/05/14 09:51 PM
1

Little danger of that for me, at least as of now. I'm pretty happy in my current LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/14 02:49 PM
13

I'm in the middle of the first book in Morris' trilogy about Teddy Roosevelt at the moment. The man was a fucking legend, and he idolized his father. Equally inspirational was young Teddy's response to his father: Without hesitation, he responded: "I will make my body!"
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 02:38 PM
3

Her: "Why have you been ignoring me? Are you mad at me? Why are you mad at meeeee??" You: "Huh? I was probably busy or something, I dunno. You better not be turning psycho on me, I'll have to turn you in to the guys in white labcoats."
/r/trpGAME09/05/14 02:31 PM
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I'm not speaking of corporatized legalist entities; they don't belong in my bedroom. And if you're in a sexually-escalating situation with a girl who invites them into hers, you didn't screen her nearly well enough. The failure lies with the indiscriminate man.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/14 02:14 PM
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How do you know if a "no" is serious or not? What qualifies as a "playing hard to get" no and a "No, please stop right now" no? It seems that answer varies depending on the person. It doesn't just vary by person, but by situation. Every situation is different. The only way to be confident in your actions during sexual escalation is to be in a mindset of outcome independence - having sex is not the end-all and be-all - and focus your attention on communication. True communication between a sexual…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/14 02:11 PM
3

"Hi, nice to finally meet you in person! Before we head out, I wanted to let you know I'd like you to have a safe-word. You know, for after the date when I take you home and try to fuck you. That way I know I'm not raping you, even if you say 'no' a few times. Does 'unitard' work for you?" No thanks. I'll just continue using my own discretion and best judgement. It's really not hard to tell the difference between a 'no' that's just for show and a 'no' that's serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/14 12:13 PM
2

Hypergamy is not bad. It is not good. It simply is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/14 09:29 PM
2

This made me chuckle. In a Morgan Freeman voice, of course.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/14 03:36 PM
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The same as female suicide: suicidal people are broken. A reversal of the self-preservation instinct is something I can't understand and have no compassion for. If you kill yourself, you are the ultimate failure.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 09:15 PM
3

I agree, and this is well said. As a man who wants to partner for life, it's up to me to forge myself into a man of value every day. By pursuing my own value, I attract my girl's desire; I also mitigate my sense of loss should she no longer desire me, because I am desired by many others and am living a life of value in my own right.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 08:16 PM
1

Meh. If that's your thing, cool. But it ain't mine. I am considering a full-size with platform now, given this recent experience. But I'm not interested in excess.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 07:36 PM
5

it isn't what you do that matters, it's the frame with which you do it. Perhaps I'm nitpicking, but this isn't it exactly. I'm not going to say that our actions have no meaning by themselves, because I think actions do have meaning. The relationship between Frame and Action is more symbiotic: Frame permits Action, and Action enhances Frame. They align with one another in complement. I think what you're pointing out in your comment is that the same Action can be taken with different effect, depen…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 03:56 PM
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It's been my observation that pain-management medication seems over-prescribed, particularly for females. I've suffered minor fractures and dislocations over the years - at least I assume so from my own assessments and recoveries, although I rarely seek professional medical help for myself - but I've never needed anything beyond ibuprofen. The one time I can remember that I injured my own back enough to merit a trip to the medical facilities, I was given a muscle relaxer and one day off work. Bu…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 03:32 PM
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Start by assessing your lifestyle. Do you spend a lot of time sitting? Stop sitting. Do you eat a lot of junk? Eat meat and vegetables. Do you lift heavy things? Lift heavy things. Do you seek out activities that trigger a fight-or-flight response? Go rock climbing, take up a martial art, learn to track & hunt, join a paintball league. Also research testosterone. There's a reason men are supposed to produce it more than women. What is that reason? If you look at typical male activities through h…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 10:20 PM
10

Re-engineer your lifestyle to raise your base testosterone level. You'll see improvements.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 05:01 PM
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Dark Triad Personality traits consist of : narcissism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism. They are also a symptom of a man in a high Testosterone state, and for that reason are incredibly attractive to women. Spot on, and absolutely necessary to understand. This is the baseline concept that illuminates the rest of Red Pill knowledge, and you've brought it to life here. Phenomenal post.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 01:45 PM
1

Your post brought a broad smile to my face. Congratulation, brother.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/14 05:29 PM
2

Yet, she has a much stronger childcare instinct than me and dislikes bossing people around so she rejects promotions. ... my hands went into fists, my adrenaline through the roof, and I started looking for the thing that is hurting my baby to fight it to death. ... my position is 80% nurture [...] and 20% nature My $0.02 - Red Pill philosophy is about nurture aligning with nature. Upbringing aside, you can "nurture" yourself as an adult to optimize around your natural qualities. Your wife has fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/14 02:05 PM
2

Bitching and moaning adds no value to anyone. Venting is one thing: if something specific has pissed you off recently as a result of feminism, that's what the Rant/Venting flair is for. But starting a hatelist thread about anything, feminism included, does nothing but cultivate hate. None of us need to focus on shit like this, it's a distraction from the journey to be better men.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 12:21 PM
3

Frame is everything. Everything is frame.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/14 12:16 PM
3

This sub would not exist. EDIT: It occurs to me I may have mistaken the question. I took you to mean what if the current Reddit moderators also moderated this sub. I'm guessing you meant the reverse.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 06:49 PM
2

I would begin lifting when I'm fifteen, rather than eighteen. Those three years would have made the difference between "hobby" and "habit", and I would have been far less likely to slack off and grow complacent when I hit college. I would not have attended college. It was a useless money suck that had no bearing on any of the things I want to accomplish in life, but I was too young to know what I wanted out of life at the time. So I caved to tradition and parental pressure. College was the bigge…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/14 06:27 PM
4

Well shit, I totally missed that. Good call.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 06:47 PM
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These guys are playing into the feminist trap yet again. There's nothing wrong with this sort of 'chivalry' if that's what you want to call it, as long as it comes from a strongly dominant frame. I hold doors, but I guide her through it with my hand in the small of her back. I pull out chairs, but I guide her down into it with my hand on her shoulder. I pick up the tab more often than not - because that's what I want to do. When I don't pick up the tab, I tell her she's buying in advance, and I …
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 05:25 PM
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This is Abundance Mentality vs. Scarcity Mentality. Red Pill 101. Here, have a link.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 05:18 PM
1

Yes and no. This is a bit more complicated when you throw in environmental factors. It's not about money per se, it's about the top provisioning social resource. In corporate-culture environments such as large cities, obviously this top social resource is money, so your point is right on. Out in the sticks where nobody has much money, however, the top social resource may be skill-based. Or maybe it's land, or crops, or whatever. Whatever grants the highest level of access to available material r…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/14 01:02 PM
2

A worthy reminder!
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 01:39 AM
1

http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/12/the-three-alphas.html
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 06:13 PM
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And while I stand by my initial reason for excluding male employees - because they have an easy ride in TV - if I were to do it again, I'd definitely employ men. In fact, I'd probably employ only men. And here we have the feminist hamster in its native habitat, still not getting it.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 06:03 PM
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She also said that she felt calm in my presence because she knew I would know how to act. Don't underestimate this, either. This is her description of how you convey Mastery, which can be every bit as important as Courage (risk-taking) and Strength (broad shoulders). The only missing item from Donovan's Four Tactical Virtues here is Honor (social proof), and this is the virtue most likely to be misunderstood by women anyway. I also think it's worth pointing out that the emphasis placed on each o…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 05:53 PM
3

Eh...not mitigated so much by the hot body alone. The Wall is about when the feminine biological imperative shifts from pursuit of tingly-exciting-Alpha to comfort-security-Beta. It's the Oh Shit point at which a woman's body starts telling her she needs a provider instead of five different cocks a week. Of course there's a case to be made for hotter women reaching The Wall a bit later, because her psyche is going to soothe her biological clock a bit longer as a result of her heightened objectif…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/14 05:46 PM
2

He has a couple on Netflix as well.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 10:48 AM
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This video should be everywhere. All you have to do is flip the script to see the truth about female privelage - a male lawyer who acted this way toward a female cab driver would not only have lost his show, he'd be disbarred and imprisoned. Perfect video to bring in among Femmies. So here's the scenario: a lawyer is in a car with a woman, and repeatedly ignores her rejection of his advances. She takes a video that captures it all, so she has concrete proof. She's afraid that at any moment he's …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 11:21 AM
4

Occasionally when my girl initiates sexual activity, I won't feel like it or I'll be busy, and I'll turn her down. When she first took up with me, I was a little afraid this might make her feel she shouldn't initiate, so I paid quite a bit of attention to how any rejection by me affected her future initiations. There's been no decrease nor increase in her attempts to initiate that aren't attributable to other factors (length of relationship, 'Alpha Moves' on my part depending on daily tasks, her…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:55 PM
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Good report, brother. Keep building that frame.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 06:33 PM
2

No problem, brother.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 01:59 AM
5

On the contrary, I abhor self-help books. If you want real life examples, go live your life and skin your knees a bit. You'll get the hang of it.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 08:09 PM
2

Obviously men are far more loyal naturally than women I take issue with this idea. It seems to me that loyalty simply manifests differently in masculine vs. feminine. In the masculine, loyalty is based on words and actions. You stick up for your friends even when they're not around, although you may chastise them in private for making stupid decisions. In a monogamous relationship, you don't give in to your polygamous urges, although you're more than willing to flirt harmlessly with other women.…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 04:31 PM
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The stronger the habit, the more difficult to break. You have to do it consciously. Seek out discomfort without ulterior motive. Whatever makes you uncomfortable that you want to work on - just focus on doing it, without the goal of success. Then, as you grow more comfortable, you can focus on success.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 04:13 PM
6

Precisely. I refuse to give the prime years of my life to a girl who gave the prime years of her life to another man. Or ten.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 04:10 PM
3

That's true. We all have shitty days. But emotional stability isn't about logic in-the-moment, it's about who you have made yourself by consistently reinforcing your chosen frame. A shitty day for me now doesn't have the same effect as it did five years ago, because I've been consistently working on my mindset/frame/emotional stability for a long time.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 02:35 PM
3

As I said already: forge your emotional core so that your anger only arises for a righteous cause, rather than allowing yourself to fly off the handle at unimportant matters as a woman or child does. Don't get angry about unimportant shit. The subject of your wrath only matters with regard to how you show your anger, not whether you show it. Your boss tells you to come in to work on your personal day? Quietly make him aware that this is bullshit, and decide your course of action. You are not you…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 12:29 PM
3

I've directed a couple of girls to RP Women. Don't know if they ever checked it out, but it cost me nothing to do so.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 11:28 AM
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Anger is not something to be hidden away; it's a fire that can either run wild or be controlled. As you say, don't suppress it; but neither must you be ashamed of it, hiding it away in the pages of a book like a secret confession of inadequacy. Let it burn, and control the way it burns. Express your anger in the moment. What you must do is fashion your temperament in building your frame; forge your emotional core so that your anger only arises for a righteous cause, rather than allowing yourself…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/14 11:23 AM
1

Or, y'know, the whole Christian movement was fabricated by combining the Mithraic Mysteries and Gnosticism, probably by the Roman elite who wanted to find a way to quash those pesky Jewish uprisings and get the sons of Abraham to starting rendering unto Caesar without a fuss.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 01:46 PM
4

And if that's what you think, then for you it would be supplication. That's fine, don't do it. But like I said in another response, it's something I enjoy doing, and perhaps OP is the same way. I don't know OP, so I can't say.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 01:10 PM
2

I like eating pussy. Not as much as pounding it, but it's a nice appetizer. I mean, whatever floats your boat, but it's not like eating a girl out pre-penetration is some huge girlyman move. OP's failure was in the days/weeks leading up to this. Also depending on how cunning his lingus was, could've been a failure of technique. Always go light with the tongue, and fucking Hulk out with your upper body. But whatevs. We live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 12:37 PM
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Eh...everyone's saying you failed the shit test. I don't see that. You failed to get sex, but you didn't supplicate. I'd have done pretty much the same thing, I think; I might have responded a little quicker (don't get drunk when you're on the prowl for girls) and I'd probably laugh at her a lot before kicking her out ("I'd never think you're that kind of girl, now make sure to put on all your clothes and take my cock out of your mouth before you leave"), but I'd have still kicked her out. Bonus…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:51 AM
3

sure
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:44 AM
2

RE: the highschool girl thing. Didn't see the thread you reference, but it sounds like a pointless whinefest. That said, there's nothing wrong with pulling girls in the 16-18yo bracket - but consider the legality before deciding, of course. Yeah, you're not gonna have a fascinating conversation with 'em...but I'm not after her conversation skills, I'm after the incarnation of blushing femininity. Pre-college-slut bracket girls exude this.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/14 11:26 AM
1

It's not directly because of an evolutionary advantage, but indirectly it can still be traced to the advantage of dominance. Because, as you say, the exotic is fetishized in western society, social dominance cues can arise from simply possessing exotic features (such as an accent).
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 03:08 PM
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I think the problem with redpill, or at least the problem in the interpretation of redpill, is that we all try to memorize and reenact behaviors and methods instead of practicing a state of mind and a way of being. It's sort of like we've sold out for tips and tricks and just focus our attention on replication in order to get results. You're heading in the right direction with this, but you're a bit off. You're talking about Mastery level, but not accounting for what it takes to get there. Let's…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 12:23 PM
8

That was fucking amazing. I'm laughing so goddamn hard I can barely type this. Well done, brother.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 11:59 AM
9

Right on. I'm 5'8" with a pretty dominant & aloof social frame. This gets me to about the same natural base as a 6'2" shy guy, except the taller guy still has more girls approaching him because of his height. We shorter fellas have to work a bit harder overall to initiate attraction.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 11:18 AM
1

I've eliminated most of my social media accounts, but I go back and forth on Facebook. I have family on the other side of the world, and FB is about the only way they communicate so I keep my account for that reason. But every so often I deactivate for a few months, when the stupidity and solipsism starts to pile up.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 10:00 PM
5

For real man, what happened? I was gone for a couple of months, and now I feel like I'm looking at some weird /relationships - /seddit hybrid. There's a guy in another thread thanking this sub for helping him get a girlfriend who refuses to fuck him. WTF?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:43 PM
6

Jesus, i didn't think this was hard to understand. One more try. Don't cheat. Don't pressure her for sex. Walk. Away. If you a) want sex, and b) have truly broken out of scarcity mentality and eliminated oneitis, tell her you want sex. If she keeps stringing you along like this, dump her and fucking have sex with other girls. She is not a special snowflake. She is not 'worth the wait'. Go get your dick wet already.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:38 PM
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She, she, she. That's all well and good. Don't force her to have sex with you, obviously. But don't limit yourself. If you want to have sex, put her on the back burner and go get it from other women.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:26 PM
6

I want children. Ideally 3-5. But that ain't happening until I have the rest of my life in order, to make sure I can provide and raise them the right way.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 06:03 PM
12

Dude. The relationship Beta qualities come after the Alpha has claimed full access to what is desired. If you want sex in your relationship, don't be in a relationship without sex.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:55 PM
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Yeah...I've been back in this sub for two or three days after a two-month absence, and already it's wearing on me. I just have a hard time turning away from an argument. It's like an addiction. Is there an Arguer's Anonymous?
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:45 PM
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"I want to see you" "I'm going to the gym, you can watch wait." More my style. But to each his own.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:39 PM
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Okay, look. I've said nothing about executing anyone. I stand by what I have said: that a man who rejects his own survival is worthless. That the solution to helping the comfort-obsessed is not proffering more comfort. Throw whatever labels you want at me. Fascist, pseudo-genetics apologist, whatever. I reject these labels, because I don't get my worldview from scientific movements or social theories. The world is a hard place. Nature is indifferent to the morals of mankind. I live, and I observ…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:19 PM
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See my edit if you like.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 05:05 PM
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So where's your actual rebuttal? edit For some reason I didn't see anything past your first paragraph on my mobile. Want to address your final sentence. I agree that compassion is not always equal to weakness. But compassion need not accept weakness, either. If you care about someone - if you have compassion - pursue the best course of action to aid him. Not to make him feel good, not to make you feel good about your altruism; do what is best to achieve the goal.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:48 PM
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How the fuck did you get that from what I said? Oh wait, you didn't, you wily little straw man, you. Don't supplicate to women. Also, don't give in to your fears and rationalize it as refusing to supplicate to women.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 04:16 PM
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Fuck that. I'm not saying it's a bad idea for everyone; but I don't need my girl tagging along when I'm concentrating on bettering myself. She's in my life for comfort, play, and good feelings. I don't need that shit when I'm working.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 02:46 PM
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As long as your head is in the right place, it's a useful tool.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 02:16 PM
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Take a look at what you just wrote. Now think about the mentality behind that. You get 'likes and comments'. So fucking what? Social media is a validation machine; femininity pursues validation. If you want to feminize yourself, keep prizing those likes and comments. Otherwise, go smash things with a hammer.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:53 PM
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Society conditions women to think of themselves as The Boss. Modern men value sex above all, and women are its gatekeepers, which puts women in control within the contemporary framework. The woman is the head of the household because she controls the supply of sex. When men value themselves above sex, they become selective and thus become gatekeepers over what women value above all: emotional validation (via commitment, in this context). Women then offer sex as a bargaining tool toward emotional…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:44 PM
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MEN: I am a creature of worth because of my achievements and prosperity. WOMEN: I am a creature of worth because of how I see myself in relation to those around me.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:34 PM
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I know this is not necessarily directed at me. You're correct; it's directed at pretty much everyone. I have overcome approach anxiety A LONG TIME ago. And that's how I got in the situation of not having to do any cold approaches anymore. This is the way to do it; you face your fears, overcome them, and become a high-value man so that women approach you. However, I've talked with friends and other acquaintances and they are ABSOLUTELY terrified of cold approaching. Even in a club setting, where …
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 01:29 PM
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Don't like cold approaches? Don't like bars? Don't like clubs? Use networking. Get the fuck over it. FTFY
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:30 PM
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I'm grinning ear to ear reading this; great post, brother!
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 12:13 PM
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Well said, brother. This has been my perspective since shortly after opening my eyes to the nature of things. Although life, it turns out, is actually very simple: your primal instincts will guide you through it. The complexity lies in melding the primal-ness of life with the superfluous clusterfuck that is civilization. The more complex a society, the more it fucks with our radars. I try my best to live within this noise machine as if it isn't real; I guess time'll tell if that's a winning stra…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 05:24 PM
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Nicely handled.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 03:29 PM
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...or you could just laugh and continue to pull feminine women with long hair.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 03:26 PM
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Figured I'd post something for anyone showing up here based on the OP's update in r/relationships. Hey everybody. I appreciate all the messages of concern showing up in my inbox. I realize you all want to make sure I understand that I 'was wrong' in my original assessment, and that I'm 'a piece of shit' and 'stupid' and so on and so forth. That's cool, I'll take it under advisement. Meanwhile, I'd like to direct you to read the original comment I made after posting a link to the RedditLog of the…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/14 08:43 PM
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Sure, if you want to conflate generalization with trend, that sounds fine. Either way works for me, just depends on what you want semantically. I like 'absolutize' better, actually, so I think you've stated it more clearly than I did.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 06:33 PM
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The Red Pill: Delivering truth-farts since 2012.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 06:31 PM
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Apparently I was unclear. I don't believe it's a cornerstone of Red Pill thought. Examining a trend is the cornerstone. I can't think of a single instance in which generalization give a more favorable result than thorough examination.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 05:45 PM
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It does tend to manifest in this sub, but generalization is naturally easiest when emotions control the thought process. Emotions do run high in many threads here, and it's understandably so. I don't view generalization as particularly useful in my own application of TRP thought. There's a difference between a thoughtless generalization and recognizing the trend. Generalization stops at the What or Who or Where. Examining a trend leads us down the path of Why or How.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 05:34 PM
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...we'd have no femininity to attract us.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 05:29 PM
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Agreed. But you shouldn't be surprised at the spin.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 05:28 PM
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I also think it demonstrates a possible cause for the feminine tendency to categorize broadly and generally, versus the masculine tendency to seek specifics within a data set rather than stop at general similarity.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/14 03:26 PM
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Self improvement is part of game.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 08:39 PM
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I already got numbers from two of the better looking chicks in the class. The only correct way to take a class in Wymynz Validation. Nicely done.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 07:27 PM
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Excellent! After reading through most of the articles thus far, I think this'll be a good resource for my girl.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/14 02:17 PM
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It's been a snowball effect, and the last century or so is most noticeable to us due simply to proximity. Here are some original culprits: Jeremy Bentham This child prodigy was terrible with women, and as a typical intellectual he sought to change 'the system' rather than improve himself. He argued against the 'double-standard' of the day, and was in favor of increasing the social rights of women. The following was written of him: During his youthful visits to Bowood House, the country seat of h…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 07:50 PM
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Calling male friendship 'a bromance' is simply another shit test. Deal with it accordingly. No woman has ever tried to shame me with the term more than once.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 01:06 PM
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Completely agree. It was one of the first 'sphere sites I found back when I was searching. Good entry-level resource for guys that know something's 'off' but not sure what.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 12:07 AM
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Heh, as soon as I saw a link, I knew...
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 09:45 PM
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Hey brother, you had a bad couple of days. It happens. But what you're doing here is being reactive to these women, which is the wrong headspace. When you're reactive to women, of course you're going to be putting more effort than you want into getting laid. That's what all the Beta-strategists do, they just do it with conventional 'wisdom' and so it doesn't turn the results. You can use PUA strategy in a reactive way and get better results, which is what it sounds like you've been doing. Ideall…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 03:40 PM
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*commandeer
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 03:28 PM
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You know what, you're right. As soon as I've finished shoveling a foot and a half of snow and ice out of my driveway, fixing the car and the van that are sitting outside refusing to start, walking over a mile to the nearest hardware store (if they're open, gotta call) to get a new snow shovel since the one I was using just broke into three pieces and the garden shovel I switched to hardly made a dent in half an hour of work, clearing the power lines of ice so I hopefully don't lose electricity w…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 03:14 PM
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Yeah, it'll be different for every man I think. I know from past experience that ~20 lbs of gain is where I start to notice it in a negative light. So basically I put that out there as a way of saying, 'If I notice that you're getting fat, we'll have a major problem.'
/r/TheRedPill06/01/14 03:02 PM
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This is good, but also just practice the art of talking to people. I'm a fellow introvert, I get drained easily and want to go recharge with a book or something. But socializing is like working out. First you get tired easily, then you start to get stronger, and after enough time and work put in you have people coming up to you asking for advice.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 12:48 AM
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Of course. Just last night I had to handle a related shit test from the girl I'm seeing. Her: Would you still like me if I was 200 lbs? _whistler: Hell no. I have a 20 lb gain-threshold. Her: What's that? _whistler: You can't gain more than twenty pounds from the day I met you. Better keep an eye on that. And I'm pretty sure I actually did list No Fat Chicks on an OKC or POF profile once, back when I still did the online thing.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/14 12:42 AM
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You seem to think we're all crying and fapping when we look at stuff like this. We're in it to improve ourselves, brother. If one particular thing isn't for you, don't worry about it. No harm, no foul.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 11:37 PM
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Ha. Get rid of #6 and #11, and that's pretty much how women feel about the Red Pill man they're with. I remain unsurprised.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 08:49 PM
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Oncoming blizzard. But actually, I'm still getting laid tonight. So never mind.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 08:46 PM
2

There is that.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 06:09 PM
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If it's hard for you to maintain the right attitude about your priorities, you'd be best staying out of monogamous relationships for now. Keep spinning plates.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 06:07 PM
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Its like trp is built into her. She's quiet when she needs to be. She likes me to make the decisions and take control. She likes being fucked hard. This is a good description of the girl I'm seeing right now, and one of the reasons I'm okay with being monogamous. For reference, I'm 30, and she's 24. I recognize that I do want a long-term relationship with a girl, and because this one has the qualities I want, I've decided to try it out with her. Nothing wrong with recognizing a girl of higher qu…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 05:49 PM
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Meh. I don't find it worth discussing here, because not everyone follows this philosophy. Not something that can be rationally proven, so it's really just a matter of opinion.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 03:44 PM
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Fuck yes. This is an integral part of my frame. I establish from the very beginning that I hate texting and consider it a waste of time. Logistics only, conversations can be had face-to-face.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 03:42 PM
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I've always endorsed the no smileys rule, but in this case I think it made the difference between the text coming off as petulant vs cocky.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 03:40 PM
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It's a commentary on the moronic word 'bromance', not the concept of male friendship. I'd rather be shot in the leg than describe any of my close male friendships as a bromance, and I laughed my ass off when I saw this commercial because I'm behind this casual dismissal of such an infantile term 100%. Also: skunky ass beer How dare you, sah!
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 03:35 PM
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Viva la Résistance! Viva la Red Pill!
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 03:31 PM
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As for you OP, use dread game. Be flirtatious with other girls (not extreme just enough to make her mind wander) in her presence (waiters,cashiers, etc..). And when you do this, don't be all passive-aggressive toward your girl with little comments like 'I bet she'd suck my dick'. When you do that, you make it about your girl. It needs to be about you, and the options you have aside from your girl.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 03:26 PM
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This is a valid philosophy to explore, but this sub is about masculine sexual strategy. Regardless of whether there is a 'player behind the avatar,' the strategy is based on the attributes of the avatar; a Level 40 mage isn't going to solo a 45+ dungeon. If there's a world of consciousness beyond this one, it'll matter when we get there; while we're in the world of the game, we abide by the game's rules.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 03:17 PM
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Which is why we need better soundbites. Not necessarily 'we' as in this subreddit - it's impossible to regulate what's said here, and would defeat the entire purpose if we started censoring to that degree - but 'we' as in the individual men who stand up socially and represent Red Pill truth. I've had some success with my social circle when, instead of explaining all the reasons behind everything, I just come up with some aphorism that intuitively makes sense to everyone, even those who might tak…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 01:53 PM
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But I gotta say... now that I have a bottle opener, why would I stay and drink from one bottle of grape vinegar that took me tooth and nail to open when I have a whole wine cellar to explore? Fucking brilliant. I hope we see some more from you around here.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 01:33 PM
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Not yet, got it bookmarked. Still need to look up one or two of the exercises. I'll let you know how much it kicks my ass.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 01:28 PM
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Pay attention, everyone! This is the crucial moment. This day will forever be remembered as the day The Red Pill was evangelized to the masses. The name of the man who does this will echo through the halls of time, forever synonymous with the knowledge of male sexual strategy: CaptainLimpdick! Sorry, couldn't resist. But for real, I hope you're smart about it, and you succeed beyond your wildest expectations. Keep us posted for sure.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 12:22 AM
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Yeah yeah, I'm workin' on it!
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 12:17 AM
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I finished reading and wanted to stand and applaud. Fucking BRAVO, brother!
/r/TheRedPill04/01/14 12:08 AM
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Yeah, that was one of the scotsman's best field reports. Classes could be taught about breaking LMR from just that.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 09:02 PM
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I know what she said. She also knows what she said. And we collectively know not to listen to what a woman says as much as what she means by it. I don't disagree with any of your points, but the fact remains when a question is asked of a man by a woman, you've gotta filter it in terms of that 'feminine mindset' if you want to accurately understand. That's what I was doing.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 12:20 PM
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Really, all a man absolutely needs from a woman is fidelity, respect, and sex. I'd venture to narrow that even further, and key on respect. It comes down to the various meanings attributed to the word 'love'. For me as a man, this is the form of love I understand: respect and its deeper form, admiration. Everything good I receive from my girl is due to her respect for me, every desirable trait she lays at my feet when we commit to one another an extension of it. Fidelity? Her respect for my comm…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 12:45 AM
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Now hang on. I understand what you're saying about not being able to make a man feel Alpha, and I agree - he either is or he isn't, and he knows it. But when Mrs. Strom asked about this, I interpreted it more as a question of how to acknowledge those Alpha traits he already has, in a rewardingly feminine way. Your average guy can start with a mix of Alpha traits and Beta traits, and conditioning over time will cause him to place greater emphasis on the Beta traits because that's how he's told to…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:47 PM
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Saying my dick is big is nice, if the timing is right (again, sincerity). 'Pass the salt sweetheart?' 'Your dick is ENORMOUS.'
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:35 PM
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This is a good list. I always enjoy it when my girl falls asleep with her head on my chest (you're right about that protector instinct), but then I have to push her off because I just can't seem to fall asleep on my back.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:34 PM
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I understand why the feminazis and other trolls give us that reputation - if anyone looks at our content twice, that's a threat to the Grand Vagenda. But this guy is (supposedly) taking that second look, so why?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 11:21 PM
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(women are dumb, rape is okay) I'm getting tired of this shit. Bro, if you're going to browse TRP that's cool, and I hope you learn something. But stop misrepresenting us.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 10:58 PM
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I wouldn't call it a goal, it is an emergent property Interesting. I'll put some thought into this, thanks. For example, in all human societies it is immoral to kill members of your in-group. Just to clarify, by in-group you're not referring to the entire human race but rather fellow members of the 'tribe', correct? The wording of your next couple sentences confused me on this point.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 06:48 PM
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This just doesn't hold up if you actually examine the prevalent dynamics of modern relationships; not in my personal experience anyway, and not in the experience of many men on Reddit. Men are biologically wired to not want a slut, former slut, etc as a LTR partner. Why do you say that? Lengthy relationships aren't part of the sexual drive of man; the ability to select the most desirable mate and mate with her, then move on to the next one is. Long-term relationships are a psychosocial adaptatio…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 06:20 PM
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This is how we open our eyes to the truth: it's already all around us. The evidence is right there in front of us. I hope this guy ends up here.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 06:07 PM
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some ways of behaving help societies grow and out compete others, while others types destabilize societies and make them less competitive. This type of moral framework is dependent upon the goal of a 'stable society'. It is thus subjective. Also overly simplistic: what type of society should be stable and what type should not be? Differing moral frameworks function best within a tribal society, feudal society, democratic society, etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 06:02 PM
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Thor's thunderous cock, these bitches are deluded. This is from the post's top response (emphasis mine): I’m done with the notion that piv should be used for reproduction alone, if practiced at all on a female. There’s just no need for it. Our bodies weren’t made for that. ................what?
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 05:58 PM
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No. No, there's not. The 'sexual liberation' of women may result in men having a bellowing horde of sluts to pick through, but it is not 'for the purpose' of this. The purpose of 'sexual liberation' is to increase the acceptance of hypergamous behaviors.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 05:57 PM
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lol wut? yeah, what Demonspawn said.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 05:40 PM
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Tribalism is near and dear to my heart. Jack Donovan makes some good practical arguments to that end in The Way of Men, one of my favorite texts on masculinity. But I don't view it as a moral necessity, just a good practical strategy.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 03:11 PM
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This needs to be nearer the top.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 01:21 PM
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The basis of my own morality is 90%-ish based on self-determination and the difference between conscionable and unconscionable rights. This is really the morality of any reasonable person absent a worldview driven by belief in an authoritative higher power. The specifics will differ depending on that factor of self-determination, but generally I think it's hard to argue this is wrong.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/14 03:31 AM
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It's a clusterfuck of hypergamy and solipsism, that's what. I feel sorry for the kid.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 11:47 PM
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Given your clarification as well as OP's, I'd have to say it seems like a valid option as long as you go through the process with Red Pill factors clearly in mind. Really it's just another courtship ritual, like dating in America. This is interesting, thanks for the info.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 11:41 PM
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Heh, PM me if you're up for a debate about it sometime.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 11:34 PM
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Okay. I could nitpick because I don't think your logic checks out, but I'm content to let it drop. SH clarified his statement, which is the important thing.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 11:29 PM
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Ahh. So 'arranged' in that it's an agreement between families, rather than a private agreement between individuals as in Western marriage?
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 11:28 PM
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Uh...I thought I understood you from your original comment, but now I'm confused. First I thought you were saying that, within a moral framework, only action can be considered moral/immoral rather than knowledge. But now are you saying that's not the case?
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 11:26 PM
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I wouldn't personally ever consider an arranged marriage, for the simple reason that the first part of your sexual strategy as a man - selection - is out of your control. The reason arranged marriages have worked historically in some cultures is because the rest of the infrastructure involving marriage was set up to incentivize their success. That's fading. No longer a good option.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 11:22 PM
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Knowledge of what works and what doesn't is immoral amoral. I think /u/Demonspawn had a typo...
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 11:12 PM
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From OP: TRP does not condone cheating or lying to women. If you tell a woman you're exclusive and then fuck around on her I have no problem calling you a shithead. Don't do that, it creates feminists and other terrible types of women. 1) Morality is subjective. If you believe honesty is a moral good and dishonesty is a moral evil, cheating (a form of dishonesty) is necessarily a moral evil. 2) SoftHarem hasn't actually come out and said in this section that cheating is immoral, although I can't…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 11:01 PM
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Yes! Been waiting for a post like this. And thanks especially for addressing the 'Alpha / Beta' nonsense. I admit, I've slipped into using the terms as descriptors of people rather than behavioral traits - hard not to when it's the general parlance - but I'll be very happy if we can get back to the more scientific uses of the terms. This sub could have been overwhelmed by the brigading BP'ers and huge influx of new members, but it hasn't been; and I know that's thanks to you SoftHarem, RedPillSc…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 10:21 PM
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I have a hard time with stuff like this. The OP claims he's happy with this arrangement (in the comments), but my visceral reaction is that he's extremely fucking deluded. I don't claim to know everything - or much at all, in fact - but this just doesn't compute. The guy seems like an alien, something so Other that I can't recognize it as reality, and my mind just sputters in any attempt to make sense of it. How does this exist? It can't actually exist, can it? What is the cause? What is the end…
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 04:59 PM
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Make-up is one of the fastest ways to read a woman's self esteem.
/r/askTRP01/01/14 12:41 AM
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For the love of the flying spaghetti monster: reformat
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 12:33 AM
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My point is, this is just the way the world works, and I'm okay with it so long as I know what the rules are. Difference between TRP and MRA right there. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/14 12:05 AM
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Hell yes, brother. This is a remarkably valuable post. I'm glad to see you posting about Relationship Game, we need more of this around here. Well done. re: displays of physical prowess. This is something I've just recently become conscious of with my girl. I'm a pretty physical person, so of course I'd done the standard picking her up and carrying her around, sometimes very aggressively (but playfully). But by far the biggest response I've seen is a display of mine that began quite unintentiona…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 10:32 PM
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Come on, everyone knows Hitler's not real.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 09:14 PM
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Ha! My favorite comment from the AskMen thread so far: 'TRP is basically like Cosmo for men.'
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 09:13 PM
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Two things, and then I'm done with you. 1. That certain accepted and encouraged aspects of RP strategy (namely the approach of "disrespecting" or talking down to a woman in a show of domination/alpha tendencies) are often just for show. There is no such RP-endorsed practice. You're trying to describe the idea of 'negging,' which is better described as 'cocky teasing' or 'a playful put-down'. Don't feel bad, this is one of the most misunderstood concepts brought forward by detractors. 2. is teach…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 09:05 PM
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A resource can be used to various ends depending on who's using it. Yes, some will fake it and just go for the easy slut-bangs. Some will start as 'Beta' and perhaps ascend to 'Alpha' through truly internalizing the truth of the world through the Red Pill lens. And some of us - I put myself in this category - were born with Alpha traits, but lost our way through the constant reconditioning of feminized society. For us, the Red Pill is a wake-up call, and a way to improve upon our existing traits…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 08:41 PM
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That's the highest praise I could hope for, brother. Let me know your thoughts down the road, I'm always interested in challenging my perspective.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 08:36 PM
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I'll bite. I'm merely stating that not all women are even remotely opposed to the possibility that RP not only works, but is what we desire. Of course it is. That's one of the basic tenets of this sub. Most women desire it unconsciously, and some recognize it and incorporate it into their conscious worldview. I can't imagine anyone here would argue otherwise. However I'm trying to bring to light the all the likely possibility that not every male is capable of being or applying the redpill philos…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 08:29 PM
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You and I seem to be treading similar paths. Glad to know you're here on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 08:07 PM
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That makes sense. I still have a hard time getting behind it, though - that's one of the reasons I'm interested in reading Molyneux's 'proof of secular ethics', it may help me think about this stuff in a different light. Right now, even with what you've stated, my issue is that each individual will of necessity hold his own freedom as a primary value, but I see no reason an individual should hold the freedom of any other individual at the same value. 'The strong do what they may, and the weak su…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 08:06 PM
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Seconded. Well said.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 07:27 PM
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Yeah, but I disagree that aggression without provocation is inherently evil. To view something as inherently evil, you have to see morality as an objective framework underlying the natural order of things. I see it as a subjective framework, overlaid on the natural order in order to make civilization work.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 07:17 PM
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If you haven't already, I'd recommend taking a look at Might Is Right by Ragnar Redbeard. As far as pre-workout warrior mode activation, it's got some great stuff.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 04:56 PM
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He is, but I can't get behind the NAP. I'm kinda hoping the book will convince me, because nothing else has.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 04:52 PM
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Uh, ok. Nope, this guy is your basic anarchist philosopher guru. I disagree with his stance on morality via his videos, but I respect the way his mind works. The book I mentioned, Universally Preferable Behavior, is on my reading list, but I'm generally lacking in people with whom to discuss such topics. Besides the pretentious folks on various philosophy forums, not a fan of them.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 04:26 PM
2

To be clear, I am not activating my sympathy in the straight-forward way humans do when trying to understand others, where we actually try to directly feel as others do. Instead I try to accurately pretend to feel as others do. Holy fuck. This is a pretty good description of the way I read people, too. Did you develop this from some school of thought, or did you just start doing it on your own?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 04:22 PM
-2

Have you perchance read Stefan Molyneux's book proposing a strictly humanist ethical framework?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 04:10 PM
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If I didn't have a certain skillset which keeps me gainfully employed in the career field of my choice While OP may not have a worthwhile degree, what he does have is a particular set of skills... In all seriousness, great post. The unexamined life is of the Blue Pill, and I agree that if we wish to truly take the Red Pill we must examine every area of the human condition, not just the ones that will get us laid. If I'd graduated with a degree in anything, Philosophy was on my short list. Howeve…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 03:54 PM
2

This makes sense in the area of spinning plates, but I don't know that I agree in the context of an LTR. When moving from a more casual 'dating' relationship to a committed, monogamous relationship with a girl - something not all Red Pill men want to do, which I respect - isn't it best to talk about the specifics of the dynamics at play, so the shift in the relationship is clearly understood?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 12:43 PM
6

Man, honestly I'm probably not who you want to get advice from about this. When I say I'm at 'level 4' that's really just an observation about my contribution to society. I sorta blundered into it through being really apathetic early on in life. I like my lifestyle, but I didn't spend a lot of time planning it to be this way and there aren't many guys I've met who are happy to live with as little as I do. I'm sure there are some folks around here who do it better than me. ** EDIT ** Well, no one…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 10:49 PM
29

Looks like there was too much back-and-forth. You told her to meet you at the party, she already had plans. K. After that, why bother with anything? You already have plans yourself, so by continuing to try to schedule something with her you're trying too hard. Remember, she needs to pursue you; from your description, you were pursuing her.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 08:21 PM
2

Moderate breakfast, and about 5 more small meals throughout the day. This was the very first meal schedule I tried, a few years back. Unfortunately, those small meals turned into rather large meals after a while. I remember one day about four years back - around the time I first started to get serious about (or at least less apathetic toward) my life and health - I added up my caloric intake and was horrified to find it was approaching 10,000 that day. If I'd ever had a desk job, I'd have been 3…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 07:40 PM
8

Fascinating. I have to admit, I'd jumped to conclusions about the MGTOW subset based on some things I read around here, but never really did the research myself. I'd have to agree with /u/RejectionEquality that TRP subscribers are pretty much defaulting at Level 1 according to this scale. These levels don't make sense as a hierarchy, though. For instance, I'm firmly at Level 4 - I live a minimalist lifestyle and do my damnedest to withdraw all support of consumerist social behaviors. However, al…
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 05:24 PM
2

Good FR brother, I like it. Just be careful of getting stuck in a routine of analyzing every interaction with women to this degree. It happened to me for the first month or so of my intro to TRP concepts, and I had to learn to let go of the analysis and try to develop a 'feel' for it, instead. You're on the right track, though. Also: my Old Fashions Good man.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/13 04:59 PM
1

I just had to get used to it. It helps to eat a very large meal at supper and go to bed still feeling overly full. I did that for a while, and I was usually good until about midday. From there, I just got used to feeling the difference in energy level based on the ghrelin release of hunger, and taught myself to not like the sluggish satiety that comes post-meal. Keep in mind, I usually don't eat breakfast either. Coffee's it until suppertime. If I consistently ate breakfast and then tried to ski…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 09:50 PM
1

Hmm. I'm no financial wizard, but I'd guess this likely depends on your income level. Don't think it'd make much difference with me.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 09:47 PM
8

Neither. I'd rather stick with what I'm doing: reforging myself into a badass motherfuckin' primal beast of a man. 'Facing yourself' is for pussies, I'd rather admire myself. Cut the stupid bullshit. Read the material until you actually understand it instead of making lazy assumptions.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 09:17 PM
2

Spot on, and quite coincidentally I'm planning to have a similar conversation this evening. The difference is that I'm against marriage as a legal status; for me, the conversation will be about moving the relationship from the 'dating' phase to the 'commitment' phase and what that will entail.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 08:53 PM
3

If I were you I would also spend more time trying to get interested in other women (maybe her friends if they are good-looking enough) to help distract myself from the prize (you girlfriend). Its a strategy I've often found helpful in LTRs for maintaining the balance of power. I'm on board with this, also. In a monogamous LTR, I want to be refusing to pursue other options, rather than lacking those options altogether.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 08:12 PM
0

Thanks for the words of caution, bro. Shouldn't be a problem, I've had a love affair with good food for years. I love cooking, and I love eating what I cook. My goal isn't to have 4% body fat or anything, I just want to lose the rest of my gut, regain my full range of natural motion, and gain immense functional strength & stamina. When I think about the ideal, I don't view my body as a sculpture but rather a powerful machine. My goals are all about what I can do, not what I'll look like (althoug…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 08:08 PM
2

Fair enough, just be careful.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 07:59 PM
3

Okay, just read his comment and I agree it's likely a manipulation tactic. But I'd still regard her as rabid and drop all contact, or as much as you can given that you work with her. There is no The One, man, you've got to get over that. But whatever you do, I hope you'll report back and let us know how it plays out.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 07:40 PM
3

you can mould them into the woman you want them to be Absolutely, I should've mentioned this myself. This is the only way a LTR makes sense to me. I have a standard for who I'll fuck; I have a higher standard for who I'll date; and I have the highest standard with very specific required qualities for a 'girlfriend'. My current girl passed the first two phases with flying colors, and I'm cultivating her into someone that could pass the third.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 07:36 PM
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I give it two more years max.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 07:16 PM
3

Difference of opinion, then. I'm content to leave it at that.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 07:10 PM
3

Run the fuck away, brother. Normally I'd say fuck her at least once first, but in this case you'd be looking at a suicide note that accused you of rape, and your future would be fucked. Just get away from her, she has rabies.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 07:08 PM
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The next night she calls me to talk, goes on and on about how I am so nice to her. Which makes no sense... Been there. All you need to know is that when she attributes a behavior or trait to you like this, it's because she believes she likes nice guys, and she likes you, therefore you're a nice guy. As always, women don't know what they like. She is going to tell me she loves me soon. How do I respond to this? 'I know.' 'You have good taste.' 'I love me, too!' 'I lust you, too.' You should know …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 06:59 PM
6

I always thought it was 'when in doubt, whip it out'...
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 06:55 PM
3

Do you have any valid arguments to make, or are you just here to sling your sarcastic projections around?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 06:42 PM
18

Sure, but that's Beta strategy. Assuming you want to get married - generally a bad idea in this day and age - why would you want to do it with a woman so near The Wall? I'm thirty, and I'm seeing a 24-year-old, which is just about the oldest I'll consider for new relationship material. She gets to spend quality time with the more mature, better developed _whistler, and I get to obliterate a tight young pussy enjoy the aesthetic value of youthful beauty. In response to your edit: your friend is, …
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 06:38 PM
3

I stand by my statement. It's not about 'pulling 9s and 10s in no time,' it's about becoming an attractive, confident man. It seems like I'm saying this a lot around here recently, but I'll go ahead and say it again: it's about developing your Frame. I get the results I want to get in my own life, and it's because I've built a strong frame based on my personal values. I focus on being the man I want to be, and pursue that ideal relentlessly. It works. My suggestions for the guy in the photo come…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 06:18 PM
5

Actually, HIIT is something I've planned to incorporate into my trail running this summer: sprints uphill carrying a log or rock, deadlift an object and throw it, rapid tree-climbing, etc. I'll try out your routine soon, too. Thanks for the suggestion.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 05:58 PM
5

Thanks brother, and congrats on the gains!
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 05:38 PM
2

no excuses My thoughts exactly. There's absolutely no reason I can't find fifteen minutes somewhere in my day to go downstairs and crank out some sets. But it'll take some time before I can squirrel away enough extra cash to get what I need, I'm afraid. Until then, I've got some heavy items laying around in the yard to work with.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 05:37 PM
2

...k
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 05:33 PM
15

The biggest problem I see here is that you're 'afraid of losing' your girlfriend. You should always be the higher-value partner, man; not by her standards, by your standards. You've got to find some way to get your head straight with your lifestyle to make this happen. As far as spending all that free time together - stop. Instead, use some of it to cultivate value in other areas. Study another language, acquire knowledge on some interesting topics, learn some useful skills, try out some DIY pro…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 05:32 PM
2

Say what now? I enjoy my minimal lifestyle, and that means I don't like myself. How does that follow?
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 05:15 PM
2

Yeah, I'd probably classify it as an IF-Paleo regimen. Through my five-day work week, I have black coffee in the morning but I don't eat until I get home from work. My two-day weekends, I'll let myself have a small breakfast if I wake up hungry. Generally bacon/sausage and fried eggs, or an omelette. Waking up hungry is getting rarer the longer I stick to the system, though. Then after breakfast, it's no more food until suppertime. At mealtime, it's generally a large amount of animal protein & l…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 05:13 PM
3

Bullshit. Your lifestyle communicates what you allow it to communicate. If you feel shitty about sleeping on a twin bed, that's what you're broadcasting to the world. If you don't give a fuck what size the bed is as long as you have someplace to sleep, it's not going to be a big deal. You are in control of your frame, and your frame is what attracts the girls.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 03:13 PM
1

That was one hell of a first comment, brother! I hope we get to see some more from you.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 03:05 PM
5

Are you kidding? All that guy needs physically is to lose the dopey haircut and get a solid 60/40 rugged/biker style going. Get a solid nutrition regimen, and hit the bench/deadlift 3x a week. Add a weekly approach quota, and he'll be crawling in pussy in 6 months. Give him a year or two of constant dedication, and he'll be teaching masterclasses.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 03:00 PM
3

Totally up to your preference. Never participated in one myself, and it doesn't really sound like my scene, but I can understand the psychological appeal. It probably goes without saying, but don't try a LTR with a girl who likes to get gangbanged. That won't end well.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 02:51 PM
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I'll do the bitch one better. I sleep on a twin, all right...but just a couple mattresses stacked on the floor, no frame or platform. Heh, before I scored those mattresses, I was fucking a girl on the sofa I slept on. Shit seriously doesn't matter if your frame is solid. edit: here's a good RooshV article on the concept
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 02:25 PM
1

Don't worry about looking older. You don't. Bad skin, too much or poorly applied make-up, and unhealthy hair or nails can make you look older. Clothes never do. The only thing clothes can do is make you look dumpy, and from your description, it sounds like you're pretty good at dressing yourself. Just keep doing what you're doing, and take note of your fiancé's reactions to your modes of dress. Adjust accordingly.
/r/askTRP29/12/13 02:16 PM
1

Pretty soon though i'm gonna be apart from her for a good while. Elaborate.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 02:10 PM
5

MMSL is still a good resource. Athol Kay does a great job of laying out the mixture of Alpha attractor traits and Beta provider traits necessary for a healthy LTR, regardless of marital status. His MAP was my first non-PUA introduction to the Red Pill back when I was trying to figure out why my LTR wasn't working.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/13 06:46 AM
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This, and the comment above it. Religion above all else encourages its followers to stay within their roles. Whether those roles have a basis in biology (gender roles) or it's just something that will help the religious authorities increase their power - it doesn't matter, as long as you can get people to believe it.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 09:31 PM
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Okay but a woman's mind is coupled with the primal brain and a conscious one as well. Divorces are drawn out this would give ample time for her conscious brain to override her emotions right? Not necessarily. Just as a divorce is a drawn out process, it's also a very emotionally demanding process. Those emotions are at an all-time high the whole way through. Add to this a culture of nattering harridans toting 'Grrl Power' slogans - e.g. pop television, social groups, coworkers - and most women w…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 09:15 PM
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You're treating it like a rational process. It's not, it's an emotional one. Women aren't sitting around at home with spreadsheets and flow charts, weighing the pros and cons of making bank from a Beta ex while raising his kids apart from him. They're watching trash television and wallowing in that feeling that their husbands are weak and pathetic, and talking to their girlfriends about how unhaaaaapy they are, and they're thinking about that hot guy they met that made them feel the way they use…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 09:05 PM
1

Girls are materialistic - a master uses this as a weapon instead of getting upset about it or ignoring it. This is a great point. I wouldn't endorse buying gifts during a period of consistently bad behavior, which is how I was reading the original post. But this tactic should work excellently if the behavior is submissive and supplicating, not demanding.
/r/askTRP28/12/13 05:12 PM
1

Oh, shit! I knew about Seduction and War, but I missed Mastery. I'll have to pick that up, thanks for the tip.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 01:36 PM
2

The 48 Laws of Power is one of the most important books in a Red Pill man's library. Recommended yearly reading.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 01:25 PM
2

Seems redundant.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 01:22 PM
2

Eloquently put!
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 01:19 PM
0

For example, let's say we have a tribe of 99,999 women, and 2 men. Yeah, I can't help but think those two men would GTFO as rapidly as they could. Go find some other guys and start a real tribe, then go back and take your pick of the women.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 01:17 PM
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Haha, fair enough bro
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 01:08 PM
3

Or you could just not engage girls in a rational debate that directly contradicts their biological imperative. The few who'll cave to logic still won't feel right about it, and feeeeelings > reason in GirlBrain. What's your objective in trying to convince girls, or even one single girl, that this is true?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 01:07 PM
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just because they were short men. FTFY. So...what, are you white-knighting shorties now? I'm confused about why you care.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 01:01 PM
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How you treat others is your own call; don't expect anyone else to conform to your personal moral code, though. Cruelty is absolutely natural. We violently reject that which we fear. We fear that which does not intuitively make sense to us. And the rejection of one person transfers easily to rejection by the masses, with the violence of that rejection growing as more people join the movement. Ewww, a short guy...Short guys are all gross and creepy! One girl will say it to herself. Five girls wil…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 12:36 PM
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Author?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 11:33 AM
1

I'd say reading it is one of the top five most important things I've ever done. Might not have the same effect on you, but I'd give it a try.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/13 11:28 AM
1

Fuck yes! I've been waiting for this FR ever since you laid down that 'fuck the feminism out of me' quote! It does not disappoint; well done, sir. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 10:04 PM
1

HA! Fellow redhead here, and I'm 8 inches shorter than you. Wear it proudly, brother. That's all that matters.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 09:45 PM
3

If you're going with a text instead of a call, this all the way.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 09:36 PM
2

You didn't really ask a question, but I'm guessing you want my take on your plan. Sure. Whatever you do: remember your frame. You had a success, and it's because you held frame. Stick to it. Me, I'd probably go for an evening call and skip the smalltalk. Meet me here, at this time, I'll show you around and later, well, remember the score's at 2-0. Assertive, confident, and sexually charged. If she says she can't, it's no big deal. Go out anyway and do it again with another girl. Keep this one on…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 09:28 PM
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You could, but it wouldn't be worth the risk given her history.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 06:50 PM
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Solid. This is fascinating stuff. Thanks for sharing, brother.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 06:50 PM
1

Oh, different girl! There was no way I could've stayed with that one after I woke up to the truth.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 04:46 PM
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Whether she begs for stuff or bitches about not having it will make a difference. Either way though, maintain a frame of Amused Mastery. Do not get angry or emotional in any way - she is behaving like a child, so you treat her like one. The Begging Scenario This is the 'cute little girl' routine, where she tries to manipulate her you through your attraction to her. She sees you as an authoritative figure, and must CONVINCE you to give in to her wants. You begin in a strong position. Begging Girl…
/r/askTRP27/12/13 03:58 PM
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There's a fuckton of value in this Field Report! We all left for the club but I needed to piss, I lost them along the way and gave C a call. She said she'd wait for me. Got her to do a 'small favor' for you. Naturally scaled up into: So I asked her to buy me a drink and she did. and C was giving me all the free drinks guys where buying her Textbook! Next, we have: I was just being rude but I think it was necessary to break down these nice guy ideologies. This is important, and some people miss i…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 03:29 PM
19

Legitimately creeps me the fuck out. Hmm. I feel the same way - it's almost like an 'uncanny valley' thing - but I've never actually verbalized it that way. I usually say something about 'excessive' makeup. I may start experimenting with calling it a 'creepy amount of makeup' instead. It's a word girls are used to using themselves...could have some fun results.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 03:08 PM
12

I used to be like that. It all came from insecurity, from not being able to accept my masculinity in a healthy way. The Red Pill helped me fix myself.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 02:45 PM
20

I see so many girls who have fucking gone to town on the makeup (false flag - deep insecurity, bad at makeup etc) Yeah, I've been noticing a lot of this recently. I'll see a girl from a short distance and think 7, maybe 8. Then she gets closer and I can see the grains of paint all over her face. There isn't supposed to be a 'screen door effect' in real life. These girls are actually lowering their attractiveness. Ugh.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 02:42 PM
1

I generally agree with this. For further reading, see The Way of Men.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 12:22 PM
32

'We are born, and we die. No one cares, no one remembers and it doesn't matter. This is why we laugh.'
/r/TheRedPill27/12/13 12:12 PM
6

Here's how I look at Frame. When I'm with my friends I talk shit to them, I bust their balls, I argue about unimportant stuff like whether the the hot bartender used to be a stripper, etc. When I'm with my boss, I can talk shit a little because my work atmosphere has some 'good ol' boys' feel, but I mainly show the man respect because he's a hell of a guy and we're in a professional environment. When I'm with my mom, I talk about incidental stuff, I never curse, and I show her that I care about …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 04:14 PM
15

Well...yeah. Both those things are fucked. They both come from the same place: the covert cultural enslavement of a population. The first is due to religious archons, the second due to legislative. But they're both fucked. Was your brother saying he thinks TRP advocates either of those things? Or did he mean maybe the way we look at the world could result in that 'happy medium'?
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 03:24 AM
11

In my case, it was a little more nuanced than that. I can't bring myself to be fully submissive, fully Beta, whatever you want to call it. I just don't know how to do it. I would try, as we're all told we should, but I was repressing my nature and all of that welled up inside as aggression and rage. I was never depressed, but I was angry a lot, in those days. Embracing TRP was one of the biggest steps I took in getting right with myself. Once I realized I didn't need permission to be my primal, …
/r/TheRedPill26/12/13 03:19 AM
1

Oh for fuck's sake.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 12:10 PM
3

Right on, brother! This is a space, among other things, to vent our frustrations, bitterness, and rage about the world and how we've been lied to. But it doesn't help anyone to take those feelings and create a bilious circlejerk of projected self-loathing. Great goddamn post!
/r/TheRedPill24/12/13 01:20 PM
2

This is the book that started it all for me. Not your typical Red Pill book, although RPers who are of the Paleo persuasion may have heard of it. When I picked up this book for the first time, I was trying to make sense of life. I knew there was a great truth out there somewhere that would help me understand why I felt out of sync with myself. This book didn't just open my eyes, it taught me how to use them.
/r/RedPillBooks22/12/13 02:14 PM
3

I generally just smile while holding eye contact. There are very few instances in which Amused Mastery is the incorrect response.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 02:36 PM
1

I'd love to watch it, but my fear is that - due to the entirely political setting of the show - I might get a bit lost, as an American with relatively little knowledge of the English system of government.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 01:24 PM
2

*** POST CONTAINS SPOILERS FOR SEASON 1 *** I don't see how having had a homosexual relationship in the past contradicts Frank's present life. Frank's primary motivation is power. It trumps everything else in his life: money, respect, sex, family, etc. He is a true Prince in the Machiavellian tradition. Power is everything, and it is all-consuming. When everything outside the pursuit of power is merely diversion, some men will branch out into areas of recreation on the fringes of their social ci…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 01:19 PM
3

I definitely don't pray for that sort of catastrophe - well, I wouldn't if I prayed. But I do expect it.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 03:01 PM
20

Yup. It's more than silly, bro. It's downright subversive. Because it's one more little way to program the subconscious sheep-brains of the masses. 'True discrimination only occurs when a member of a majority group oppresses a member of a minority group. On the rare occasion the oppression is reversed, well that's just reverse discrimination. Let's not forget the guy being discriminated against is a white heterosexual man in America, now. He is of the Oppressors! Maybe he had it coming...' Fuck …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 03:27 AM
7

Enjoy those feelings as they come, and let them pass naturally. Accept the impermanence of your emotions. Recognize that you will feel the same way, for moments, with many other girls throughout your life.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 03:18 AM
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according to his reverse discrimination suit Really. Reverse discrimination. In the news. The news reported this. The news used this term. Reverse discrimination. ... I'm buying a gun.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 03:13 AM
12

That's shitty, but at least the legal system didn't enter into it. I'd take five pissed off dudes over one judge who wants to set an example.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 03:10 AM
1

Heh.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 04:03 PM
0

I don't know what she'd say. If I already knew the answer, I wouldn't have to ask the question. But just because I don't know the real answer, doesn't mean I can't spot a phony one.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 03:13 PM
0

It was her attempt at an answer. But it's not a retrospective answer - which is what I asked her to do, apply the same retrospective filter to her past attraction as she had applied to her current revulsion. It's a current, hamster-driven answer with no specifics whatsoever. 'Because he's a shitty guy and that's how I feel about him, but I also know I don't like shitty guys, why did I stay with him? Well, what are all the qualities I know I like about men? I like them to be smart, driven, motiva…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 02:01 PM
0

Yes, those are the Disney answers. I initially asked why she stayed with him if he was such a shitty character, and she responded with 'I loved him'. So I explained that this was not a descriptive enough answer because you don't just randomly fall in love with people. I wanted her to actually think about what, specifically, was the reason she stayed with a man who 'was always the taker in the relationship' - her characterization of him. She apparently couldn't perform this mental exercise, and c…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 01:50 PM
2

I want to have children some day. I want that kind of legacy. But so far, I've only come up with a couple ways this could happen in my current environment. Cuckold some poor beta, impregnate his girl; pass on the genes, but have no say in how the children are brought up. Watch from afar as my genes are corrupted by the influence of substandard parents. Not a great option. Commit to a woman - certainly not legally, but commitment nonetheless - and get my offspring by her. Raise the children withi…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 01:43 PM
1

I would like to shake your hand, sir. The world needs fathers of this caliber, to train the next generation of fathers.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 01:32 PM
1

Agreed. I've been waiting for the next episode of 'As The Harem Turns' for months now, though...
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 01:25 PM
2

I'd missed that one before, but that's a damn good FR!
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 01:18 PM
0

My favorite part was when the girl who originally posted in Relationships couldn't figure out how to answer a simple fucking question about what attracted her to this guy in the first place, beyond the generic Disney answers. Good example of the difference between the rational-core mind and emotional-core mind of the respective sexes.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 01:09 PM
18

She asked if I needed company and I said "if I needed company, I would have asked you 30 minutes ago" I love this response. It conveys that you're attracted to her, that you have options, and that you're confident you could have her if you want her, and can be delivered in such a way that makes you sound like the king of the fucking city. Well done, brother. Follow that up with a solid second meeting game, and you've bagged her.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 01:03 PM
-24

Ah...I love the smell of a Princess Brigade in the morning...
/r/TheRedPill19/12/13 12:57 PM
-27

Yes, but that's not really a descriptive answer. You don't, despite what Saint Disney tells us, simply fall in love with people at random. There is always a catalyst (attraction) that sets you up to fall in love, and after that there are the specific traits that inspire that love to continue.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 08:51 PM
-18

If you're interested - and not merely trolling yourself - I think you may find otherwise. Have a look around at everything here, not just the rage and venting that tends to jump out violently. I, for one, am always interested in what motivates a person, man or woman.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 08:41 PM
-15

I have a question that may help clarify to me the reason this was the final straw, as you say. You've been with this man for about three years. Why was it that you stayed with him this long? As you look back and see that you were the giver and he the taker, could you also look back and tell me what it was about him that drew you to him, to stay with him in this relationship?
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 08:38 PM
-18

Oh hey, OP. Since you're here, care to respond to my initial assessment of your part in all this? I'll re-quote it below. This is a prime example of the subconscious entitlement of the contemporary girl. He suggested marriage in a way that didn't fit her inner fantasy, for which he is guilty of 'making her' feel like shit. She saw the offer of a ring that was below her standards as an attempt to pacify her, rather than the man in the scenario adhering to custom in a way he could accept. That bei…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 07:05 PM
4

Rhett Butler: Amused Mastery through and through.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 05:35 PM
-11

I would really like to hear his side of the story. Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 03:48 PM
2

pontificating 'You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means.'
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 03:47 PM
-34

I generally dislike posting 'examples' of bad behavior like this - it typically engenders a circlejerk of 'what a beta' or 'entitled bitch' comments - but this particular one struck me as a bit interesting. On the one hand: her TL;DR is bf proposed in a shitty way, made me feel like shit, and tried to pacify me with a $9 wal-mart engagement ring. This is a prime example of the subconscious entitlement of the contemporary girl. He suggested marriage in a way that didn't fit her inner fantasy, for…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 03:22 PM
2

I have a soft spot for romantic musicals, (not very redpill of me... I love musical theatre. Participated in it all through school, took classes related to it in college. I still regularly watch a few of my favorites from the silver screen: Fiddler on the Roof, The Music Man...and I have a special place in my heart for the Fred MacMurray classic The Happiest Millionaire. I truly love those films from an era where it was perfectly acceptable - nay, expected - that the cast should spontaneously bu…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 02:00 PM
1

Be a man with options in all things, not just girls.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 01:42 PM
4

Knowing how to handle shit is a very masculine thing. This is it exactly! Even past the fixer-of-household-things, the confidence to handle shit yourself in a multitude of environments is a defining characteristic of the masculine. The reason I'm trying so hard to acquire these skills now isn't so I can bang girls by being handy, it's because I can feel the lack of masculinity in this area of my life.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 06:53 PM
11

Yes: if you want to. No: if you don't.
/r/askTRP17/12/13 06:28 PM
16

This post strikes pretty close to home for me. Ever since swallowing the Red Pill, something I've known is missing from my self image is the type of everyday skill set you're talking about. I know jack shit about cars, plumbing, wiring, carpentry, laying concrete, hunting, guns, fishing...I know jack shit, I guess is what I'm getting at. When I was a kid growing up - I have to shake my head at the sheer idiocy of this - it was a point of pride for me that I was so useless. I was always reading, …
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 04:00 PM
10

If the man wants to marry her because he believes it's the right step for them both, he should. If he think he ought to marry her to placate her, he should not. If she leaves him, big fucking deal. Give him the Red Pill, let him chew on it and decide whether to swallow. If he does, he'll be happier for it. Either way, he's got to make his own decisions.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 03:28 PM
2

Fuck. That's rough. My heart goes out to the guy, and his kids.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/13 01:29 PM
1

Plus I legitimately love playing with dogs way more than I could ever enjoy conversation with a girl Goddamn right. Fuck, I miss having a dog!
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 10:18 PM
2

Cheers for the link! Another fascinating read in store for me this afternoon...
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 04:59 PM
35

I have one this week, just happened a bit ago. Had my regular girl over last night. This morning I made bacon & eggs for breakfast, my norm for when she's over and I'm off work. She was a bit distant, seemed stuck in a gloomy otherworld, didn't thank me for the breakfast which she always does. So a little while later as I was cleaning up the kitchen, I called her out on it. I kept my tone steady and firm, no-bullshit-tolerated; maintaining my Captain frame. _whistler: So why are you being grumpy…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 04:35 PM
1

edit for additional thoughts: the patriarchal type man is looking for a "one stop shopping" experience Good additional thought, I like the metaphor.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/13 04:11 PM
8

girls that have friendzoned you in the past should be treated like any other girls you meet Excellent take-away, very true.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 04:05 PM
20

When I read shit like this, it makes me very grateful to my parents, particularly my mother. I was the posterchild for the type of behavior described here, in my elementary school days. I was in a gifted program but struggled with my normal classwork, never socialized with the other children, sat on the curb and read a book at recess. My only interactions with kids my own age generally consisted of swindling them out of their lunch money with various cons. My homeroom teachers kept telling my pa…
/r/TheRedPill16/12/13 03:56 PM
23

Well... There's a concept in writing known as show, don't tell. I think that can apply here. Demonstrating preselection (that other girls are 'into you') is a stronger play than talking about it. Not that I think there's anything wrong with talking about it, but to me it just seems a bit heavy handed. The best thing you can do is just figure out what works for you through trial and error. And then report back, let us know.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 03:47 PM
4

I wouldn't worry too much about your second point. At a venue like a metal concert, I think what you did was a valid improvisation of the kino escalation ladder, and was likely necessary to communicate your physical intentions to these two girls. It definitely communicated your confidence, and only enhances your frame, IMO.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 01:56 AM
5

That's a great point. It's important to recognize a shit test no matter who delivers it, and deal with it appropriately. Maintaining frame can be just as important in masculine relationships as it is in male-female interactions.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 01:51 AM
9

I absolutely detest when men pull this shit. It's a tactic of the female social matrix, which is understandable. Men should have more pride in themselves.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 01:46 AM
14

I like it. A good, fresh use for the old parable. Well done.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 01:42 AM
1

No problem, brother.
/r/askTRP15/12/13 01:05 AM
2

Pook is the best. Follow that link, OP.
/r/askTRP15/12/13 12:45 AM
4

TRP is all about improving yourself in this fucked up world so that you can be noticed by women. FTFY
/r/askTRP15/12/13 12:44 AM
6

Find such a woman already formed? Not likely. Find someone you can shape into such a woman through proper application of influence? More likely.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 12:39 AM
2

I'm cool with that.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 12:33 AM
6

As a man, yes. For a woman, not really. It's just what they do.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 12:33 AM
1

Not at all, you just need to understand the female mind.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 12:32 AM
4

I think we're just about at a place where the conversation isn't going to move anywhere useful, but I want to try to get one last point across. It isn't about looking at a 'shitty lifestyle' in an 'uncaring fashion'. I understand why you'd see it that way - a lot of men would. Just try to understand, brother, that not all of us have the same priorities. I've never cared about wealth. I've never cared about the oft-idealized 'rewarding career'. Fuck, I don't want a career at all; the biggest mist…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 12:27 AM
4

Preach!
/r/TheRedPill15/12/13 12:11 AM
59

Keep in mind, shit test is just what we call it around here. If you want to get technical, it's a Fitness Test. That is, a probing measure sent out by a subordinate to find out whether the most dominant member of the group is secure in his position of leadership. Girls do it naturally because they are wired to seek out dominant males with whom to mate; their imperative requires they constantly test the fitness of a mate or potential mate, to ensure strong and capable offspring. Men can do it too…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 11:57 PM
6

I've gotta disagree, man. Not that what you're talking about isn't important, but it isn't the only way. Nor is it necessarily the best way. It's just a different way. For some guys, talking to women is on a whole other level than anything else in life. There are men out there who are in great shape physically, solid finances, and have some great male friendships, but still get tongue-tied if a pretty girl shows interest. And forget talking to a girl who hasn't initiated. It's not the same for e…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 11:42 PM
16

Looking at some of the details here, I kinda think Susie was into the idea of a threeway with Jane. If you plan to spin her, you might look into that. Good FR, brother.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 11:24 PM
6

It depends. Sometimes, smiling is a placating expression. Other times, it can be a confident expression. Rather than focusing on the minutiae of facial expressions, I'd encourage you to concentrate on developing a mindset of confidence and outcome independence when talking to girls. That way, you won't get hung up on analyzing every second of the interaction, and the flow will be natural and fun.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 11:17 PM
9

My method is to start by asking random people if they know where an ATM is, just to get my mouth and brain into talking mode. Holy shit, this is brilliant in its simplicity. Fellow introverts, take heed!
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 11:10 PM
13

Nothing special. Was at a discount store, belt didn't have a price tag. Gamed the cute shopgirl at the register...it's been a while, I don't remember exactly what I did. I know I said the belt must be free because of not having a price tag...oh, yeah, I remember. I asked her what she thought of the pants I picked out, and before she could say anything I told her whatever she said would be the wrong answer. I totally forgot about that, I need to use that one more on cute shopgirls. Anyway, while …
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 10:50 PM
2

Deep red, woven fabric with double O-ring closure. The perfect comfy weekend belt to wear with shorts.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 10:43 PM
8

You know what'll make you overcome your anxiety? Focusing on bettering yourself. Not practicing approach strategies on random chicks on the street. I don't understand why you think bettering yourself and practicing approaches are mutually exclusive. We get better at something - we better ourselves - through practice, among other things. You scorn men who not only recognize a weakness within themselves, but also take the steps necessary to turn that weakness around and develop a strength? What ex…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 10:40 PM
7

Cheers to those of us who have great relationships with our mothers! I wish more men could.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 09:49 PM
53

2 months ago, if you told me what my goal in life is, I'd have said "To be with a beautiful woman, and be happy" and I was getting nowhere with that. If you ask me now? I'll tell you that I want to be in the Olympics, and I am well on track to getting there. This is the key difference between The Red Pill and all the other pickup/seduction information out there. Attractive women are drawn to attractive men. Attractive men concentrate on themselves, not women. Good on you for getting your goals i…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 09:46 PM
17

I don't know about a term specifically for this, but it serves to illustrate the emotional core of a woman's thought process. Because language is a rational communication process, we've evolved to use devices like hyperbole to display heightened emotion. Women generally take this to a further extreme than men. When a woman says You never take me to dinner anymore! what she's actually saying is When I first met you and you took me to dinner, I felt special and desired. Now, even though you may ta…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 09:42 PM
5

don't make it your primary goal in life to pick up as many chicks as possible. I just know a lot of guys go out of their way to do this shit and forget that there's more important things to life than trying to pick up chicks. This post is about getting over approach anxiety. As with any time we're trying to overcome a certain fear or anxiety, a self-directed Shock & Awe approach can be very effective. I don't see anything in the original post that encourages anything other than taking control of…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 09:19 PM
2

Here are mine. I miss you. No reply. Who were you with? A hooker. or if the time is ambiguous, More specific? I'm a popular guy. Also, no reply. I love you. Who the fuck is texting you that she loves you? Is this a girlfriend, or a random plate who's apparently crazy? Assuming it's a girlfriend, no reply. Or I know, which is good enough for Han Solo. But apparently you think that's stupid. /chiponshoulder Also you could go with some variation on You have good taste. Do you _____ me? Who's this? …
/r/askTRP14/12/13 09:10 PM
8

Sexy is anything that says I know what I have under this outfit, and I know you're dying to know, too. Slutty says, Hey, look what's under my outfit! Put another way: sexy teases. Slutty displays.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 08:56 PM
17

Excellent post with well articulated points. I'll add one thing: the way to accomplish this overarching outcome independence without developing a nihilistic lack of investment in life, is to view every business endeavor, every personal project, every relationship, every choice we make as an investment in ourselves. As you say, The goal of eliminating oneitis is to eliminate these poor behaviors and feelings, it does NOT mean we can't pursue a primary target. We maintain proper perspective in ord…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 08:44 PM
3

A man takes pride in caring for his woman. This. Let your man know you're having a hard time, and you need some of his strength to help you get through it. Be honest that you don't want to add to his stress, and don't abuse the strength he lends you. Show him your trust.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/13 06:46 PM
2

Nothing wrong with paying for it when you want to, as long as you keep working on yourself. Don't fall into the trap of effortless pleasure, you still need to be able to go out and game. But if you need this as a palate cleanser, why not?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 06:35 PM
7

Read between the lines. The girl is emotionally damaged. It's not that she feels nothing, it's that she can't feel in a recognizable way. The chemicals are FUBAR. If she truly felt nothing at all, she wouldn't need to post about it online. It's attention-seeking behavior. She wants validation for the way she wants to feel - apathetic - not the way she actually feels. Remember guys, don't take a woman's word for it. Learn to read her instead.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 06:32 PM
42

Lastly, start doing one thing, that really helps out when you want to get in the mood to approach. Go into a shop, preferably a clothing one, and chat up a female employee about a product you are 'interested' in. I endorse this method. I gamed my way into a free belt, once. I still like that belt.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 04:42 PM
7

A couple of thoughts, my friend. So, you're 'afraid of a woman who will stay at home for many years, become boring and bored, fat, unattractive, uninteresting, and simply too motherly.' Of course you are! All sane men should fear tying themselves to such a fate! But this is what the Blue Pill teaches is inevitable, and what feminism tells women is perfectly understandable, and what every husband without Game resigns himself to on his wedding night. It is not the only way. User secularist42 alrea…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 04:00 PM
1

[Meta] This thread is a thing of beauty. Exactly the sort of tough love and masculine support we need to be dishing out to our struggling brethren.[/Meta] OP...glad you came here. It sucks right now, but stick with it and before you know it, you won't even recognize your old, Beta self.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/13 03:19 PM
0

Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 09:44 PM
-1

What I’m about to discuss is nothing new. It has happened time and again throughout the repetitious meanderings of human existence, so don’t think I’m railing against the current state of affairs and idealizing the past. I’m not. When I say ‘the past’ or ‘the Time Before,’ I’m talking about every ‘Time Before’ that has occurred in this cyclical progression we call history. I’ll try to use terms that hold contemporary significance, but that’s for the sake of understanding, not because I believe i…
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 05:35 PM
-10

This is a great FR. You say what you think because that's your frame, and you hold frame through every shit test. Even complying with her request that you stop - momentarily - works as passing a shit test, because you've established a frame of saying what you mean, and meaning what you say. It's gold. I love reading field reports that showcase just how well a rock solid frame holds up in unusual circumstances. Well done sir, and thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 03:48 PM
10

Are you me? ...couldn't resist Here's how I look at masculinity. It comes from the balls. That's where you feel it, that's where it lives. The drive to achieve, to explore, to build, to conquer, all of this is of the primal masculine, emanating from a sweaty bulging sack betwixt your thighs. Whatever your interests - philosophy, literature, science, engineering, business, combat sports, snorkeling, football, ballet, deathmetal, opera, knitting, rescuing kittens - when you sit back and relax and …
/r/TheRedPill13/12/13 01:56 PM
3

Head over to /r/RedPillWomen and get their input. Remember, her brain works differently than yours, so your best intentions could backfire. This is one of those occasions where female input - from women who've swallowed the Red Pill themselves - could help.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 09:31 PM
1

She's only 9 OP: My little sister just started grade 9. Just wanted to clear that up.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 09:29 PM
3

You're sorta right, but you're overthinking it. A girl asks you to meet her at Buffalo Bar. You decline. Later, you decide to go to Buffalo Bar anyway, because you feel like it. You run into the girl, and she gives you a WTF. So fucking what? You're there for you. You don't tell her 'I went to the movie and then decided to come here and that's why I declined earlier but showed up now anyway, I swear IswearIswearIsware!!!1!!'. You pass the shit test - any WTF by a girl about your decisions is a s…
/r/askTRP12/12/13 07:34 PM
8

Unfortunate, but inevitable. I don't want to muddy the waters of this thread by going on a political philosophy tirade, but I would encourage any readers who detest that 'slave mentality' to take an honest look at its origins.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 07:20 PM
10

I'm a fairly voracious reader, especially when I've got the bit between my teeth chasing down an exciting idea. Different strokes for different folks. My point was that reading the material is important.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 06:33 PM
30

my uncle came up to me and shook my hand. I gave him a limp handshake. He was not pleased. He went and talked to my father and the both of them pulled all the boys aside and gave us an important lecture on the importance of the handshake. This is exactly the kind of masculine mentoring our societies need to get back. Your father & uncle are badasses.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 04:57 PM
35

I'm going to tell you exactly what you need to do as the first step. Get. Off. Reddit. Seriously. Log out of Reddit, and stay logged out for a week. At least the RP and BP threads, if not the entire site. Here's what you do with that week: Relax your mind for a day. Don't worry about any of it. Let the stress go, clear your head, have a drink, go for a scenic ride, read a good book...whatever you do to relax. Enjoy it, because for the rest of the week you're going to do a lot of research. Read t…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 01:47 PM
1

Congrats, brother.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 01:37 PM
146

So you've been what we like to call a Beta Orbiter for this girl. That's how I got here, too. I went through the same thing. Brother, you've come to the right place. The first thing you've got to do is read the material. I don't mean skim some articles and posts, I mean truly sink your teeth in. It took me months of reading 6+ hours a day before I felt I could actually live my Red Pill knowledge. You've got to be hungry, motivated, determined. And you've got to know that this is for you, to impr…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 01:34 PM
1

That's always been one of my favorite textwalls, and I hadn't been able to find it for a bit either. Thanks for sharing, got it saved now.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/13 01:17 PM
2

This should be an official tagline.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 05:13 PM
38

The kid's six. C'mon. The kid is six, you idiots. IT'S A SIX-YEAR-OLD, FOR FUCK'S SAKE!!!!
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 05:10 PM
3

The terms Alpha and Beta at their most basic level refer only to sexual options. Alpha has primary sexual selection options on the females of the group, and Beta takes what is left over or gets nothing at all. This is a biologically-driven mating strategy, and has evolved because it works. In TRP thought, the terms have been expanded to include certain traits that work to build this sort of dynamic. Alpha traits are traits that strongly attract female sexual interest, therein granting Alpha sexu…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/13 02:14 PM
5

Same here. I was in excellent shape in high school. Had no game, got no women so looks didn't matter. Ten years later, was 80 pounds overweight with terrible eating habits and no exercise regimen. Found game, got women. Now, I'm dropping weight through healthy eating habits, and while I don't lift I do lead a more active lifestyle, including a very grueling combat training routine. Red Pill frame, stronger game, doing great with women. It's all in your frame. Looks can make or break you, or have…
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 04:58 PM
8

If you want to workout, do it for health. This is 100% right, but you're oversimplifying. Don't work out to look good for women, but there's nothing wrong with wanting to look good for yourself. I feel better about myself when I look good, which strengthens my frame.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/13 04:48 PM
5

And yet I doubt the ruling would have been the same had a man cancelled his engagement to a cheating woman.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 07:51 PM
2

Not related to the point of this thread at all, but just how does someone "die in a hiking accident"? It's not a very specific description of death, unless two hikers actually collided at a high rate of speed, resulting in massive trauma to one or both. Did she fall off something and die? Was she mauled by a bear? Did she eat the red berries? I dislike nonspecific death scenarios.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/13 03:43 PM
1

From the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 09:12 PM
2

With most I can just keep them laughing, tease them, spin them around my finger, not giving a fuck. But then I start liking someone. Stuff starts feeling magical, like in some overly sappy love poem, I start feeling like a teenage girl, thinking of marrying her and shit... You can diminish this to a degree by applying stronger filters in your life. What you put into your mind through literature, entertainment, and social intercourse can take root in your emotions whether you rationally agree wit…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 03:39 PM
2

I must've missed that one the first time around, glad you reposted. Good stuff!
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 03:32 PM
2

Page text includes link to something called 'The Fat Nutritionist'. Food for every chubby girl's hamster.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 03:28 PM
1

See my response to /u/somedickcream above, it applies here as well.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 01:44 PM
5

Are you bummed out that after all these years, you still have to look both ways crossing the street? That's one of the best goddamned analogies I've heard. Thanks brother, I'll be borrowing it. Edited for lack of coffee
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 01:41 PM
4

Once they come naturally to you it will be easier and it won't seem like such a voluntary effort. Actually, for the most part I don't think about Red Pill concepts in my day-to-day. Most of the time I'm only actually thinking in concrete Red Pill terms when I'm talking to a friend who's having some trouble, or browsing TRP here. In my own life, I just do what comes naturally, and it tends to work out because my natural frame aligns with Red Pill tenets. My point was (or was supposed to be, perha…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 01:38 PM
3

Luddite. You're goddamn right!
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 01:24 PM
4

This is a very long description of what it means to hamster.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/13 12:38 AM
3

if going bald is not 'the wall', I don't know what is, right? Bruce Willis. /thread
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/13 12:32 AM
25

When a blind man falls into a pit, it's easier to call him a fool and leave him there than it is to take his hand, lift him out, and guide him to safety.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 11:52 PM
1

I've had a similar feeling, albeit with no actual experience within the BDSM subculture. I used to be very interested in exploring BDSM, back in my Blue Pill days; and while I never participated, I did research and converse with locals. For me though (and I don't claim it's the same for everyone), swallowing the Red Pill and freeing my primal masculine was actually what I needed. Before, I thought BDSM would give me license to be dominant because it was an acceptable outlet. Now, I know that I d…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/13 11:48 PM
6

I can't even read the article, too busy laughing at the title. Brilliant!
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 11:36 PM
48

Reading this made me feel ill. I have friends I could see doing something like this. Fuck. On an unrelated note, what triggered the brigade of downvotes?
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 11:32 PM
3

Haha, yeah man I've been there.
/r/askTRP05/12/13 11:26 PM
8

Chastity is a social virtue, which queues cues off social acceptance & validation. If a slut bangs in the forest and nobody's around, does she make a sound? Uh, that is...a social validation...sound... You know what I mean. I wouldn't place any of this on a scale of moral virtue, which is what I think you mean above. It's about the Masculine Imperative vs. the Feminine Imperative: there are tactical virtues, but morality doesn't play into it. On the side of the Feminine Imperative, hypergamy is …
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 07:06 PM
3

Here ya go. me: "hey girl, can you fuck on beat?" her: : "i can fuck to any beat you want" me: "how about the rhythm of you moaning on your couch?" her: "you better believe it. i'm pretty flexible too ;)" me: "show me. xxx-xxx-xxxx (my cell). where is your flexible self tonight?" her: "just hanging out by myself at home" me: "it needs some company. invite me over her: "oh but then i'd have to put clothes on" me: "that's your prerogative." All this is fine. As for the rest: ((20 minutes pass)) me…
/r/askTRP05/12/13 06:59 PM
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Hmmm...hey, wait a sec...guys! Hey guys! I think this might be a metaphor about the incessant social validation women receive, including near universal forgiveness in the face of behavior that would be reprehensible if committed by a man! [...] Of course, it's a flawed metaphor, because of that first sentence. John taking a lot of pride in his character - i.e. placing high value on Honor - only makes sense when John is male. If John were Joanna, Honor wouldn't even register on her value scale ne…
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 06:35 PM
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Here's what you don't need to do: believe women when they tell you how they'd like you to act. Here's what you do need to do: look in the mirror every morning, and assess what you see. Not just your physical appearance; take a look at who you are socially, ethically, primally. Are you cool with that? If that person you see were someone else, would you admire him? If the answer is yes, carry on.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/13 01:36 PM
3

Nope. For the week K was around, we spent a lot of time smoking and fucking. One morning, when K and I had just woken up at a mutual friend's place (where she was staying), A showed up. She saw me, saw K, knew what was going on, and hid in the bathroom for half an hour because she couldn't deal with it. Like I said, immature princess. Also during K's stay, A was having problems with the guy she was sleeping with that week, and she just so happened to get into a bad car accident the day after he …
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 01:29 PM
9

At 26 years old, I was still a virgin. I'd had exactly one relationship with a girl, back when I was 19, and sex was never on the table. She dumped me a few months in. After that, I swore off girls and never looked back. Never looked back, that is, until I met 'A'. She was fresh, fun, cute as hell, and flirted as easily as breathing. Huge crowd of Beta orbiters, and I quickly became one of them. For a few months I held on to the fantasy of making her mine, until I started to wise up and see her …
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 09:51 PM
1

I don't disagree. An investor should never invest more than he's willing to lose; this is well known to everyone, there is no such thing as a sure thing. So maybe the disconnect I perceive between my view that it's perfectly okay to pursue a legacy in the form of wife & children, and the prevalent (and quite convincing) view among /r/TRP'ers that plate spinning is the only way to go...perhaps this disconnect lies in detachment. No, not detachment, I'm looking for a different word. I'll put it li…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/13 07:27 PM
2

I do what I can. And that goes both ways, I was ecstatic to read a post so closely echoing my own views. Brilliantly done.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/13 04:01 PM
5

It conflicts with the male sexual strategy of TRP because there are so few women worth giving sexual exclusivity to. I doubt anyone would disagree with this, Mr. Harem sir - in fact I'd take it a step further and say that no women are worth giving sexual exclusivity - but then the discussion comes back around to the central premise of dana's post: that men are not only and entirely made up of the male sexual strategy, nor are women made up only and entirely of theirs. It's not about finding a un…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/13 02:30 PM
1

Hear, hear!
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/13 02:18 PM
10

Honestly, I probably would've just made a final Fuck It attempt, let my inner asshole blaze out for a sec. What comes to mind here is: Okay, I'm gonna go [do something]. Here's my phone number though, in case you want to give me a shout when your pet hambeast over there isn't pulling the leash so hard. Say it with an asshole grin and walk away. You may never hear from her again, but you've definitely left an impression.
/r/askTRP30/11/13 01:23 PM
2

All of it made sense. The last part applies well to your situation.
/r/askTRP30/11/13 01:16 PM
5

Never stick your dick in crazy...especially the end with the teeth.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 05:59 PM
1

Look man, I've been in deep over this girl too. I know what's drawing you in. But face the facts, she'll never want to fuck you as long as you want her and pursue her. You should know this. And you can't fake it. Like I said, I've fallen for this same exact girl. Led me on for months, always gave me hope, I was her beta orbiter all the way. And when I finally said fuck it, and fucked her friend from out of town four hours after meeting her, instead...she wanted me then. And I was over it. Move o…
/r/askTRP29/11/13 05:41 PM
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Here are some notes. I almost have to run to catch up with her (is it me or do pretty girls walk faster than normal ?). Issue #1. You broke frame by pursuing her, rather than holding your ground, getting her attention, and attracting her to you. Walking toward her if she's walking away is fine, but instead of running to catch up, try getting her attention vocally and make her come to you, or meet you halfway. We get to my dorm room and we watch a movie. We start cuddling during the movies. After…
/r/askTRP29/11/13 05:35 PM
2

Do I just try and get into her place, if so how should this be done? In the usual way. Escalate escalate escalate, push/pull, and when you've got her instead of taking her back to yours, just tell her you're going to hers. If she puts up resistance, get creative: "Nope, has to be yours, before this goes any further I have to get a look at your bookshelf. I'm not as easy as you seem to think, I have to make sure you're the right kind of girl for me." You get the idea.
/r/askTRP29/11/13 01:53 PM
5

Article was a waste of text. You want a woman to be a better lay? Fuck her better.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 01:46 PM
13

Yeah, good job I guess, but from the comments: I have since found a very lovely woman who treats me the exact opposite of how my ex treated me. It's very refreshing, although a bit unhealthy on her part. Found a great new girlfriend! She makes me a priority in her life, treats me well, doesn't make me feel like shit, in fact she's quite submissive...shit, there must be something wrong with her... -facepalm-
/r/TheRedPill29/11/13 01:37 PM
7

Diagnosis: oneitis. Prescription: next.
/r/askTRP29/11/13 04:52 AM
4

Fair point.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 09:22 PM
4

I'd argue that the fact they left to make a better life - to claim status for themselves, rather than accept the lot fate left them - is a very significant indicator of Alpha traits.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 09:05 PM
3

However it's important to recognize that there have always been Alphas and Betas. In the American historical period of Manifest Destiny, not all men braved the Oregon Trail - the Alphas did. When the New World was flooded with immigrants from all nations, who made up the bulk of the first wave? Alphas. Farther back still, which of the Norsemen pillaged and plundered their way into the conquest of the British Isles? Those men who went fara í víking were Alphas through and through. The Betas large…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 05:32 PM
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I'll tell you what though brother, if she offers a lot and the main downside is extra blubber...you could always keep her on board as an occasional plate and reinforce that she needs to heighten her fitness level. My girl right now I'd put at a solid 7, but I'm slowly raising her up to an 8 through guidance in proper nutrition and exercise. Depends on whether you want to spend the time doing that though. I enjoy mentoring, but it's not for everyone.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 05:00 PM
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I'd still advise against dinner as a first-date standard. I have a buddy who tends to fall back on it as a go-to, but like I keep telling him: dinner is for relationships. A bar is for meeting someone. Since this girl is 18 - depending on the drinking age in your area - maybe a bar wouldn't work logistically. That's my problem with the under 21 crowd, though. I don't really have a solution to offer, because 21 is as young as I'll go. The logistics are just easier when you can tell her to meet yo…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 04:56 PM
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Always subtract a couple points from whatever the photos make her look like. Girls are pros at manipulating that shit.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 04:52 PM
2

The 16 Commandments are like the Pirate Code. 'They're more what you'd call "guidelines" than actual rules...'
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/13 04:13 PM
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Hey OP, don't let these guys get you down. Everyone moves at different speeds; as long as you're always moving forward, how fast you're going is up to you. Focus on the good things you can take away from this experience, listen to the legitimate criticisms offered by a couple of the other commenters, and most importantly, apply everything you learn to the next time around. Good FR. Keep 'em coming.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 04:01 PM
2

December will now be Bacon Shaming Awareness Month. Expect the Twitter campaign shortly.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/13 12:45 PM
1

Well mate, the first thing that comes to mind is a palate cleanser. You've gotta have a strong frame first and foremost, so make sure you're solid. Then lay it out: this holiday season she buys you nothing, and you buy her nothing. No exceptions. Instead, you are going to figure out some other way to make the holiday memorable. It's your job as Captain of the relationship to figure this part out. You don't get suggestions from her, you do it and you do it right. Whatever you decide, make sure yo…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 12:20 PM
3

Charlie Sheen. That guy doesn't give a single fuck.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 04:04 AM
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I've done the stuffed animal on occasion myself, but I've decided I should never promote something I detest. Clutter is one of those things, and a bunch of stuffed animals just clutter up the joint.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 03:36 AM
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I don't really like receiving stuff, so I may not be the best example. Although my current girl commissioned a painting of a stylized Viking ship for my birthday, which I was actually very excited about because I love nautical art and my heritage, which the painting combines beautifully. I was extremely impressed by this move, it showed intuition and initiative. Generally though, I'd rather get something consumable like a selection of whole bean coffee, candles, incense...things I'll use regular…
/r/TheRedPill28/11/13 03:35 AM
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Good input, thanks. Personally, I'm not concerned about whether my girl is embarrassed by laundry. I think its a pretty stupid thing to be embarrassed about - everyone has to do laundry, c'mon. And 'lying around'? Yeah, I have a laundry hamper, and that's where clothing goes when you've finished wearing it. Then in a couple of days, it gets washed and goes back in its place. Also, about your first paragraph here...addressing the explanation you give: I wouldn't give one. Here, have some sexy lin…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 10:18 PM
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_whistler's Red Pill Holiday Gift Guide Here are my thoughts on appropriate gifts to give during the holidays, from a Red Pill perspective. It's broken down into categories, with the gifts from each category extending into the next. I haven't included any suggestions regarding what to get a Red Pill Wife, because if you can't figure that out why are you married to her? GIFTS FOR CURRENT PLATES Spinning several plates with approximately equal frequency of sex? Here's what to get them. LINGERIE Yo…
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 05:32 PM
11

The Red Pill is a lens through which we view the realm of human sexual dynamics. It's a set of tools for us to use in the arena of sexual strategy. It's a mindset to keep ourselves true to our masculine, Alpha frame. It isn't an ethical framework, something that tells us 'you should do this because it's right' and 'you shouldn't do that because it's wrong'. I'm Red Pill. I've swallowed it all the way down, and it came quite easily because once I knew the truth, it unlocked everything I'd always …
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 03:45 PM
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"Prostitution is the most liberated thing a women can do with her body" That's the stupidest fucking thing I've ever heard, Red Pill or Blue Pill should make no difference. Let's examine this for a sec. Liberation - meaning 'sexual liberation' - means a woman is free to do whatever she wants with her sexuality. It is entirely her choice as a free agent, and precludes any external authority regarding her sexuality. Now. 'Prostitution is the most liberated thing a woman can do with her body'. What…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 06:53 PM
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I think of it as 'stating an apology' rather than 'apologizing'. Perhaps a miniscule difference, but it helps me keep my frame aligned. If I state an apology, I'm making a statement of fact: I fucked up in this way, at this time, and I recognize that. There's no supplication, no cringing for forgiveness. In fact, forgiveness isn't required; once I've stated my apology, I'm done and we move on.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 06:41 PM
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Nice job, OP. Keep it up. Also: I don't have the resting asshole face that probably comes with listening to NPR. LOL
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 06:38 PM
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I've commented a few times over at PurplePill, but I don't make a habit of it. I agree it seems like mainly a waste of time, the BP posters aren't there to learn they're there to refute what they already know can't possibly be true. I check the threads every now and then, and sometimes if I feel I can contribute something I will. But yeah, like I said, I agree it's a waste of time.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/13 01:29 PM
1

If you haven't already, I'd suggest reading Ragnar Redbeard on the subject.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 02:09 PM
5

You'll get different answers from different people, largely because of the Red Pill tenet 'Sexual strategy is amoral.' Because as a community here we study and practice an amoral strategy, the personal morality of each member doesn't necessarily have to follow along the same lines. Check out the thread from 1-2 weeks ago entitled 'Opinions about Ethics' by /u/deepthrill . There are some good answers on there, food for thought, ideas to explore. I personally have put far too much time figuring ou…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 02:19 PM
8

What is the point of marriage nowadays? Tradition.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 02:03 PM
1

Fair enough.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 02:06 AM
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justwanna's thing about power dynamics..not a real big fan of that. Submission/dominance not being the same as a complementary feminine/masculine dynamic, boundaries between sex and finance and life and dinner plans, all the effort that goes into making sure everyone feels equal and no one gets butthurt...blech. Thinking about crap like that in a relationship is a distraction, it's cumbersome, and it's annoying. It ruins the flow. I like what you said better, Phantom. If a woman wants to stick b…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/13 02:05 AM
1

That second quote is fucking killer. Well mentioned, and thanks.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 01:44 AM
1

Dude. Did you read the material? Never listen to what a woman says she wants.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 01:40 AM
1

I live in an area where I hardly see quality. It's pretty rare. I'd say in my travels it's 5s or lower = 50% 6s = 20% 7s = 15% 8s, 9s, = 10% 10s = 5% So...sounds like you have lots of time to focus on bettering yourself in other ways, since you're not opening 8s-10s all the time. Of course, then bettering yourself gets you additional access to the bracket you're interested in...
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 01:37 AM
1

Here's how I'd handle it, and the reasoning behind my method: Direct Action To deal with the most obvious symptom - the Asshole Alpha's behavior toward your girl (I'll go into why this is a symptom below) - I'd confront it directly, but not in front of your girl. The next time this happens, stay relaxed. Stay calm. Frame: Amused Mastery over your girl, Minor Annoyance with the guy. Stand slowly, or if you're already standing walk over to Asshole Alpha in a relaxed manner. Put a hand on his shoul…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 08:01 PM
0

For me, it got me fully in tune with my Red Pill self. Made me realize I've always had a confident Alpha male inside, but I'd been indoctrinated to not let it out. The emphasis on being genuine & vulnerable resonated with me, and helped me see this.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 03:59 PM
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::slow clap:: Right on.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 03:37 PM
2

It was surprising to hear that even in Japan, there are villages with significant Filipina communities (imported wives), still talking in tagalog with each other. A while back, I lived in the Philippines for a few years. I hadn't really thought of it - I was a bookish teen at the time, and not terribly cognizant of the world around me - but your comment made me realize Filipinas exemplify hypergamy more than any other ethnicity I've personally encountered. Every native girl I met over there was …
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 01:43 PM
2

Agree on principle, but I think there are contextual exceptions.
/r/askTRP19/11/13 06:30 PM
-1

Contemporary Female Thought Process: Man: Hi Womyn: Hi OMG let's talk about meeeeee!! I'm awesome! Dontcha think I'm awesome and pretty and amazing?!?!? Man: Whatevs Womyn: I'm a slut!!! Now that you know this, I have teh VAGINA POWERS OVER YOUUUUU!!!! Yourr super horny now and will cater to my super pretty flowery vagina for teh sexx and I can control you, right?? This works on the AFC. Not on the RP Man.
/r/askTRP19/11/13 06:26 PM
2

Agree with the gist, but to be fair, I sometimes phrase something like, "We're going to X Venue tonight at 9, sound good?" because if there's a legitimate objection I want to know about it. Sometimes this can be met with a "If you want" response.
/r/askTRP19/11/13 06:20 PM
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I like it. My gut is that 'an hour on Sunday' might be a bit too strict for my own taste, but I think the general idea of having an appropriate time and place for discussing grievances is important. Thanks for sharing.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 06:15 PM
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Jeezus, nitpick much? I think approximation is acceptable here, it's pretty easy to remember the flow of a conversation if not the specifics of every word uttered.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/13 05:38 PM
1

I agree. Was just wondering if OP forgot to post his own thoughts, or a link, or something.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 09:55 PM
-3

...was there supposed to be more here?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 09:29 PM
2

the fact of the matter is the overwhelming majority of child custody agreements are settled without court ruling. Less than 2% of child custody issues are decided by the court. If this is the case, then I would think the 98% of custody agreements that are settled without a ruling wouldn't have much to do with whether family law is biased or not. If there's no legal ruling, the bias of law doesn't play into it. Then the 2% becomes 100% of the sample, and you'd need to look at those percentages to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/13 09:04 PM
5

what happens to men in divorce is that most see an increase in their financial assets Could you provide a source for this? I'd be interested to take a look. Edit: oh, sorry, scrolled down and saw that you already did!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/13 08:59 PM
4

Political ideologies are like magazines in a waiting room, and I'm just a bored pyromaniac trying to find his lighter.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 07:38 PM
8

I never like these types of polls, because there are some of us that don't fit in the given categories.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 05:55 PM
2

It's silly for us to decide what agreements exist in other people's relationships An intimate relationship is, in part, an agreement to associate with another person on an intimate level. Either party can end this agreement at any time. Within this larger agreement, there are smaller agreements that are both directly stated and implied. If these smaller agreements become disagreements, the larger agreement of the relationship can also be ended. So...fine. Let's just leave everybody alone to hand…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/13 04:17 PM
3

Also, it'll help with all the misspelling issues. * shudder *
/r/askTRP16/11/13 03:18 PM
1

Yeah, I'm a bit miffed but I kinda expected it'd happen eventually. Only a couple of comments by me on that sub in the past month, no downvotes, nothing remotely controversial. I've always tried to contribute to the sub in a meaningful way. But I'm sure someone messaged the mods and told them I'm a TRP misogynist or some bullshit, so autoban, of course. Sigh.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 03:13 PM
4

You feel it, and you accept its impermanence. If you're in a good place, self-fulfilled, then you can experience and enjoy all these chemical reactions without fostering dependence or 'oneitis'. Or on the flipside, practice abundance. If you're forming those bonds with multiple women, it'll be easier to avoid depending on any one of them for emotional fulfillment.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 07:36 PM
3

Look man, I get you. We're men, we have that rage inside that shouts, "Fuck with me, I'll fucking end you motherfucker!" It's that battle rage, blood lust, thumos, Óðr, whatever you want to call it. I feel it constantly, and I bask in it. I love it. It makes me feel alive. But you've gotta be smart about it. Because we live in a world that keeps pushing the boundary back at us, telling us it's unacceptable to act on this masculine instinct. You know where most of the guys that say 'fuck the syst…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:15 PM
6

...care to elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 03:03 PM
6

It's dangerous to go alone. Here, take this.
/r/askTRP15/11/13 03:02 PM
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/thread
/r/askTRP15/11/13 01:45 PM
1

Excellent! Adding this to my book list.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 01:35 PM
4

Gold. This is gold. I'm changing my answer from the other slapthread, going with this one instead.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 01:28 PM
1

I think it's all in your frame, though. If your frame is strong enough - if you're not faking it, you're living it - why would it put you into hyperarousal? We become angry at disrespect when we feel it actually reflects poorly on us, right? So if some girl slaps you, why would that reflect poorly on you? It really reflects poorly on her because she obviously has issues with impulse control and has an inflated sense of her own value in that situation (the fact she believes she can get away with …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 01:10 PM
1

You misunderstand. I'm not saying yell at her, I'm saying make fun of her - shame her - in a way that everyone in the vicinity can hear. If you yell at her, or communicate any emotion of any sort besides amusement tinged with disdain, you've lost your frame and thus lost the scene. Only you can judge, situation by situation, the most effective way to keep frame. The scenario I've outlined above is a framework I've developed in the event of a woman slapping me, and I think it'd work for me.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 04:10 AM
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I really, really wish I could advise you to slap her back. This would be actual justice, and would be the largest preventive measure you could take against future violence from Princess Slappyhands. Especially if you showed no emotion but amusement while returning the slap. But in modern society where some animals are more equal than others, this'll get you ostracized by any women or white knights present, kicked out of the venue, and possibly arrested. My go-to option: without missing a single …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:37 PM
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Women sexually select for Alpha traits Alpha traits are most obviously apparent in Dark Triad men Dark Triad men are more likely to engage in self-destructive Alpha-like behaviors, as well as socially destructive behaviors in the cases of violent offenders destructive behavior registers more strongly in a social environment when contrasted with social norms, making it more apparent women with feminist agendas (not passive acceptance of dogma, but active proselytizing of dogma) are engaged in sel…
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:18 PM
2

I don't think our subconscious minds will be seeing fat as average any time soon. I agree with you, if by 'fat' you mean this. When I say 'fat is average' I mean something more like this. The first example is clearly fat. The second example strongly resembles women I declare to be fat regularly, a statement for which I am immediately attacked edited portion --> by people that seem genuinely shocked I would think that.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 06:53 PM
1

Yeah, this doesn't work so well for those based around a 9-5 workday.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/13 02:26 PM
1

I hate it when you wake up and it feels as though it's time to get up but it's only 3am! Relevant link.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/13 02:01 PM
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Fat is average. See: America.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 01:12 PM
1

I'm saying break the rhythm of "her giving you sex as a response to you doing the right things." Oh, I definitely agree with that. No Red Pill man should be doing this, anyway. Anyone who thinks the Red Pill is about 'jumping through hoops' for sex, doesn't really understand what's going on here. I have some recent experience in flipping this script, actually. A girl I'd started seeing - whom I'm still seeing, actually - had the reputation of being hard to get into the sack. High standards, very…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 06:31 PM
3

An interesting read. I had a father, not a dad, in the sense that he never pretended to be my friend & spent countless interaction trying to teach me. Sadly, his ministrations were too pragmatically inclined for my budding, creative mind. I gave the lackeys of contemporary mis-education far too much credence, and my father far too little.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 05:59 PM
2

I've been trying to figure out an eloquent way of expressing my own take on ethics & morality for months. I've written essays about the foundations of ethical systems, read quite a few texts on the matter, re-read those I'd already read, gone for long walks contemplating the dissonance between behavior and consciousness... whiskey_bearfist: i try not to live by arbitrary rules. Goddammit.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 05:43 PM
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Eh, I still like the show. The gags are funny. If you're watching a sitcom for the message...stop.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 05:33 PM
1

I'm with OP, to a certain extent. I experienced no anger or bitterness upon swallowing the Red Pill. But different people respond to this sort of thing differently. It's nothing new that people know one thing, but behave as if another thing is true. We're all intimately acquainted with cognitive dissonance, and it isn't only women that 'hamster'. Behave as if a certain thing is true often enough, and with enough conviction, and you will begin to believe it. Eventually, we are all convinced by ou…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 03:50 PM
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I'd advise you to look into Athol Kay's Red Pill writings. Start with The Married Man Sex Life Primer. Go from there. Good luck.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 03:21 PM
1

Also, Bag Balm. Found it on Amazon, when suddenly: A soothing ointment originally developed specifically for cow udders. ಠ_ಠ Eh, what the hell. Purchase.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 01:52 PM
1

I use Dollar Shave Club for my razor blades, costs me $3/month for a monthly supply, including shipping. Big fan of the badger hair brush/shave soap combo for lather application. Follow it up with Clubman Pinaud - talcum powder (for the back of the neck and balls) and aftershave (for face and neck) - and my morning ritual gets me feeling 110% before I even leave the bathroom.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 01:42 PM
2

She's a petite thing, no taller than 5'4", with a firm body that looks sexy in anything from yoga pants & a tee shirt to a summer dress. She has no chronic medical issues and is not habitually medicated. She knows her own mind, as much as a woman can, and doesn't hesitate to ask for guidance in sorting through her emotions. She is generous and kindhearted with her loved ones, and has a few close female friendships she takes care to maintain. She may have some male friends, but wouldn't consider …
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:41 PM
1

Hmmm...I may have something to contribute here. But first, I'd like to make sure I'm clear on what you're suggesting. But a true leadership attitude on sex is to view it as YOUR currency as well. If she plays her cards right, she will be the girl to get the dick, rather than that minx at the gym. You hold both resources, sex and commitment. You get sex naturally as a product of you being the highest value guy around when she is out looking for some. From that point on, you gatekeep sex. At first…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 07:06 PM
3

Seems too meta for your average hambeast...
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 06:47 PM
5

biological essentialist Hey, I learned something new today. Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 06:46 PM
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Mmmmm...tasty opinions...
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 06:44 PM
1

One quick (for real this time) response, and then I'm out. What this boils down to is that you and I have a fundamental difference of opinion as to what consists of 'communication'. You stress verbal, I stress non-verbal. You advocate rigorous inspection of and adherence to the stated intentions /opinions/preferences of a person, and I don't trust statements nearly as much as I trust my ability to read between a person's lines. I take no issue with your preference in this way, I just believe my …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/13 03:40 AM
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Yep. I spent some time last night going through some of the threads...wish more of the respected members of TRP were dishing out wisdom over there. But it is what it is. If people aren't willing to do the legwork of reading the material, nobody's obligated to spell it out for them.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 04:33 PM
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Bro. No. Come one. She's cheated on you before. Never commit to this person. She's plate material, nothing more.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 04:29 PM
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A well-spoken and always necessary reminder, SH. This post would probably quash at least 50% of the questions over at /r/AskTRP. Just keep this in mind and it makes reading and dealing with women so damn clear.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 04:22 PM
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Downloaded, will review.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 04:08 PM
0

Alpha and Beta are not about sexual orientation, but rather your position within the sexual marketplace. This is interesting, though, because it seems to me that depending upon the nature of the sexual marketplace, Alpha and Beta traits will manifest differently. If you're operating within an entirely heterosexual SMP as a man, your Alpha traits and Beta traits are straightforward as defined by the majority of Red Pill literature. But what about a mixed SMP of hetero-, bi-, and homosexual entiti…
/r/askTRP10/11/13 04:04 PM
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Very well put! I like that, effective SMV. Good way to phrase it, think I'll steal it.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 03:51 PM
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I think it depends on the industry, though. In some fields connections will make or break you. That's a rough one, OP, but you nailed it in hindsight. Should have stuck with the blonde.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 03:24 PM
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Too much back and forth texting, especially for the kind of fuckbuddy relationship you seem to have with her. First of all, she just texts you your name? I wouldn't even bother to respond to that. Make her give you something you can play with, and then do so. At 9:19 with the "k don't come over" you came back with a needy response: "let's watch something else". That would've been the time to stop texting right there, when she revoked the invitation. Clearly a shit test, clearly trying to play wi…
/r/askTRP10/11/13 03:21 AM
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/thread
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 03:12 AM
3

BWAhahaha! Wow, I needed that laugh! Thanks man, and cheers!
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 01:52 AM
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First, lulz at HanSwoleOh's comment; well done, sir. Accuracy is of little bearing next to a girl's emotional state. It colors all her perceptions. If you say "hi" and it influences her in a negative emotional manner, you didn't just say "hi". You creeped on her and made a pass at her and clearly you might be a stalker. If, on the other hand, that "hi" brightened her day...OMG, you were clearly flirting with her! It must be the new hair! Squeee! Don't try to understand a girl. Rather, learn to r…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 01:49 AM
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That's what sucks about the beginning of all this, for a while you have to balance conscious awareness of technique with not seeming forced. It's why your success rate won't be great for a while, then will get a little better, and eventually it'll start climbing steadily. Internalizing this stuff takes time. Best of luck to you, brother.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 01:39 AM
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That's a rather cynical interpretation. It's valid, but I'd like to proffer up another viewpoint. 'Wife-goggles' can also mean that for some Red Pill men, the ones very much interested in a LTR of the Captain/First Officer dynamic, their wife makes up for a decline in SMV (due to lost youth) in other ways. She keeps herself physically fit and healthy, she excels in the domestic arts, she engages with her man sexually, etc.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 01:33 AM
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Honestly, you lost the battle when you told her you weren't "comfortable" with her texting him. You displayed an insecurity. Better to look at her like she's weird for asking the question, and say something like "You need my permission to text your friends? Okay, sure, and you can also text Jessica and Stephanie and..." It's pretty obvious that she wouldn't need to ask permission if the only thing on her mind was her friendship with another guy, ex or not. So you blow it off and you keep a sharp…
/r/askTRP10/11/13 01:20 AM
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Right on, brother.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 01:14 AM
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That's on the conscious level. The author seems to be saying that unconsciously the infinite resource or "rabbit" mentality of r-selection gears liberals toward certain social and political ideologies that call for dramatic expenditure of resources. Resource shortages cause a dissonance panic, which manifests rationally in ideologies such as environmental conservatism.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 12:59 AM
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^ Yes, both of these. Listen up.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 12:50 AM
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This is a textbook flake shit test. She agreed, then cancelled for ambiguous reasons. Here's how you deal with that: You: I'll see you at [time] Her: OMG I cant make it!!!! Maybe l8ter in the week?? You: nah I'm fairly booked have fun And leave it. Wait for her to initiate a meetup after that. If a week or two goes by and she doesn't, and you really feel like one more attempt, tell her to meet you at a bar or something that doesn't require any effort on your part. She's got to prove to you that …
/r/TheRedPill10/11/13 12:30 AM
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You have many excuses, my friend. They're all horseshit. Now pay attention. You're too "self-aware" to pump yourself up. You were diagnosed with Asperger's. Maybe you're not smart. Maybe you're worthless. Maybe no one will ever love you. Cut the crap. You have a ballsack. Reach down and feel it. Is it there? Assuming you said yes, hold on to it for a sec. Give it a yank. Firmly attached? Better make sure. Give it another yank. Yup, not going anywhere. This is all you need. Your balls. They're ri…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 11:19 PM
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I just looked through Deen's blog a bit, and the comments on his 'About' page are great! One broad even tried to link her OKCupid profile. So I guess it's serial killers and pornstars that turn women into slick-twatted stalkers, now...?
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 10:54 PM
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I misread that as "infinite". So I hope it was a typo, because yeah, otherwise that makes no sense.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 10:36 PM
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In person, hands down. But not because of the quality of women. I prefer to meet women in person because it keeps me honest about the kind of man I want to be. I don't want to ever hide behind an online profile again. I want to be up close and personal, communicate my confidence face to face, and assess what kind of woman I'm dealing with from the very beginning. Anything less is a waste of my time and energy.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 09:51 PM
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I wouldn't.
/r/askTRP09/11/13 07:00 PM
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I was hoping someone had a link to this video, it's what came to mind when I saw the title of the post.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 06:48 PM
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I would think female law enforcement officers would run this type of risk quite a bit. Their work environment attracts a lot of aspiring Alpha males and a few true Alpha males, so that accounts for the regularity of sexual relationships within the field. But female enforcement officers, to survive this environment, are going to manifest a lot of Alpha traits themselves. Who out-alphas a cop? Answer: high-status criminals.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 06:46 PM
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Yeah...I'm all for giving our contemporary young women anti-feminist role models, but Clarkson ain't that. She doesn't identify as a feminist because she likes being taken care of by a man. Big deal. Every woman likes being taken care of by a man. A role model should be able to articulate why she isn't a feminist, and furthermore what's wrong with feminism. From this interview, my opinion of Clarkson is that she's just like her music: insubstantial fluff that doesn't want to offend anyone, and j…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 06:13 PM
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And this is where approaching a man with his best interests at heart can go awry. ”Doing what is best for him,” if it causes a drop in status, is emphatically not what is best for him. This is an important distinction. Approaching a man with his best interests at heart is perfectly fine. In fact, it is and should be the natural behavior of a woman who cares deeply about her man. The distinction is in the method of approach, and this is where so many modern women fuck it up. Because "doing what i…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 05:58 PM
0

A great article!
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 05:10 PM
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Fear is the mindkiller. Neediness is the gamekiller. Alcohol kills both. One of my good friends has the same exact problem. He knows what he needs to do, but he gets needy as soon as there's any remote possibility of sex. In his case, and in your case described above, not getting "drunk as fuck" would be a huge help to keep this in check.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 04:38 PM
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Hey, I appreciate it, brother!
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 02:20 PM
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Agreed, but always make sure you're balancing the comfort attributes with the excitement attributes. I know you know this, HSP, just adding it for any newbies following along. The stability, security, and protection provide the comforting vibe of Beta-provider beneficial to a LTR, but don't focus on those at the expense of Alpha traits.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 02:11 PM
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Fuck, man. I hate shit like this. It's always a double-edged sword.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 06:29 PM
1

Of course marriage is a business arrangement. That's the entire reason 'legal marriage' was created, as transfer of the woman from her father's care into her husband's household. Do some people not know this?
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 06:21 PM
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Of course he did, he's obviously a fat-shaming misogynist who's been taken in by the social construct of beauty! spin, you hairy little rodent! spin!
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 06:18 PM
1

the closest thing you can get to a male mind in a female body. And that's what a lot of guys dream about, right? Hell no. This was my last blue pill relationship. Would not repeat.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 05:43 PM
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Here's CoffeeGeek on the matter.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/13 03:33 PM
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Again, thanks for a great response. You've given me a lot to think about. A couple quick things for the sake of clarifying my position: 'natural' has no normative meaning, it can mean whatever the person saying it wants it to mean. Yeah, I actually prefer to use the word "primal" for my meaning here, but unfortunately I've found "primal" has connotations I'd rather not associate with my argument. When I say "natural" or "primal" in this context, I mean the fundamental 'truth' of a characteristic…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/13 02:11 PM
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I can't point to any individual item as a catalyst for my confidence. I think, for me, I've always had this amount of confidence inside. I just needed to figure out that I don't need permission from anyone to show it.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/13 04:10 PM
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Thanks for your cogent response. It's quite refreshing! I'll try to keep my own response brief this time. Identity is highly subjective by its very nature. Of course it is. Furthermore, there are different types of identity that are specifically subjective depending on the categorical context. Since you're response here is to my use of the word 'masculinity,' let's assume we're talking about an identity category called gender identity. This, of course, is subjective in the sense that it deals ex…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/13 02:01 PM
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Sexual assault as defined by feminism. That is all.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 02:58 PM
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Let me begin my response by clarifying, I didn't read the article in the original post. I've read quite a few of Manson's articles, but by far I think his largest contribution to this sphere of thought is his book Models, which is why I mentioned it instead of the article. What you need to understand - and what is difficult to understand without having gone through the process yourself - is that many parts of TRP that receive a lot of focus, are really the starting point for becoming a better ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/13 01:58 PM
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I'm very grateful to Mark Manson. Reading Models was what tied together everything else of the Red Pill for me. Authenticity is extremely important to me, because my primary goal is to continually improve myself and, by extension, my community. Being honest with myself is, naturally, necessary for improvement; and if I can't be authentic and genuine with others, I'm still being dishonest with myself to a degree. But this was difficult to arrive at, because for a while I made the mistake of confl…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/13 04:47 AM
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Oh, Jesus Christ. What a load of nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 04:12 AM
1

'I'll give you the updated numbers in the morning.'
/r/askTRP06/11/13 04:00 AM
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A remarkable article. Much of the argument is sound. But it makes me uneasy, because the basic problem of the system remains unchanged. Regulation of symptoms doesn't cure the underlying disease.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 03:51 AM
1

There you go, brother. Keep learning, keep applying, and you'll get where you want to be.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/13 03:18 AM
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Yeah, if she holds out when you tell her to come over, next her. You're a man with options, you don't need to wait around for some little girl that likes to play games.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 06:02 PM
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Handle the Logistics - Arrange a time you know she's free, and get your roommates to give you the room for a good long while. Establish the Groundwork - Stop worrying about it for a bit, don't go out of your way to meet up with her. Withdraw your affection. Trigger the Close - Text/Call her: 'Come over. My room. Fifteen minutes.' Keep it short and simple, you both know what's going to happen when she shows up. If she tries to hedge, 'Make up your mind. I'll be here for fifteen minutes.' Close - …
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 05:40 PM
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Right? It seems like a no-brainer.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/13 04:26 PM
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Hey buddy, wassup! Glad you decided to start picking up some of the knowledge I've been dropping, and look into Red Pill thought! Most of the people who've already posted here are right on it. Follow the rest of my advice, and read read read everything in the /r/TheRedPill sidebar. Start with the 16 Commandments, and really try to internalize that shit. And keep asking questions on here, keep talking, become part of the community. It's helped me in a huge way, it can do the same for you. And if …
/r/askTRP05/11/13 04:21 PM
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None, ask the mods I guess
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 08:36 PM
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This post was money, shame it was removed.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/13 04:52 PM
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DO NOT send that. Too many words, my friend. You don't need to explain shit to this girl, all you need to do is demand her respect through your frame - behavior and speech. A texting relationship isn't the kind of relationship a man needs, but if you're dead set on this, here's what you do. You need to read up on our sidebar before making any other moves. Start with The 16 Commandments to get a basic idea of why everything you've done is wrong. But read it ALL. If you've already read it, read it…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 03:04 PM
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Yeah...not sure if this was a weird troll of some sort or what, but here's a real link that actually works in real life. The Essential Underground Handbook - PDF
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 12:34 PM
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That second link gets me every time.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/13 11:28 AM
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I've toyed with the idea of giving that a try, myself. But in the end, I think it still might tie me down to the system a bit too much. I haven't found a perfect solution to my desires just yet, but I'm drawn to the idea of homesteading. Carving out my own self-sustaining piece of of the world somewhere is very appealing.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 12:38 PM
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Honestly I don't really feel like I've had it that rough, there are plenty of folks around the world who would be happy to have my problems instead of their own, more life-threatening ones. I've lived overseas in a third world country for a while, and I'll take poverty in the USA over poverty there any day. As far as self-improvement and advancement, my outlook after swallowing the Red Pill has helped me in a lot of ways. Financially isn't one of them, but mostly that's because I don't place a l…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 12:12 PM
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As far as fighting goes, I have no problem with women in combat sports. And there's nothing wrong with a woman who can handle herself in a real life fight. Having said that, on the rare occasion I've paid attention to any sort of 'Ultimate Fighter' reality show, the women generally put me off with their attitudes. I think combat sports tend to attract people of both sexes with a certain type of cocky-showman attitude. This attitude can be a turn on for women when displayed by men, not so much th…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 02:47 AM
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I can get on board with that assessment.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/13 01:25 AM
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Actually...okay, funny story. Absolutely smoking blonde bartender at a karaoke bar downtown. Objective 8 for sure, 9 to many. Well, the second or third time I was in there, we were chatting - I'd pulled her up on stage for a duet earlier in the night - and she began professing her love of anime. Well, in my younger days, I was quite the otaku myself. So we talked for a while, and she kept leaning in, playing with her hair, reaching out to touch me - all great body language, obviously. Long story…
/r/askTRP01/11/13 12:00 AM
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I'm a big fan of The Solo, I use it generously and with great aplomb!
/r/askTRP31/10/13 11:54 PM
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Thanks, that's a helpful link! Doesn't prove causality, but the correlation is interesting.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 11:49 PM
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Thanks for your input, this seems like a sound analysis!
/r/askTRP31/10/13 05:49 PM
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Baby boomer parents are financially moronic. I'd adapt this to say they're idealistic, which unfortunately can manifest as moronic. And you're right, I was living with my parents (after they moved back from overseas) until I was 26. Of course, then when I moved out, my dad promptly divorced my mom. Apparently he'd only been sticking around the last 20 years to make sure my brother and I would be okay. So that was fun.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 05:23 PM
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I've tried to adopt specific language, as well. I'll try to say "I was mistaken" or "That was unintentional" rather than a reflexive "I'm sorry".
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 05:14 PM
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Agree and amplify is what I went with in the moment, and no issues have been had because of it. I really just want some opinions from other RP'ers about the motivations or underlying reasons for a comment following this format.
/r/askTRP31/10/13 04:56 PM
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Masterfully stated!
/r/askTRP31/10/13 04:41 PM
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A great article, as usual, from Heartiste. I particularly enjoyed his thoughts on the balance of High Energy/Low Energy in conversation with women., and his notes on Alpha male banter. Also (from the article): However, I’ve known plenty of introverts who can tolerate, and even relish, “acting out”. The catch is that introverts socially exhaust themselves faster than do extroverts, and need a time-out to recharge. A short burst of energy is about all an introvert can muster before he begins turtl…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 04:38 PM
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I know several posters, including myself, have written about the use of 'good girl' in a relationship. I think this article is worth a read to any who haven't hit upon this term on their own.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 04:15 PM
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Note the age-range of that graphic. 25-64. I don't know anything about the statistics, so maybe there's more information that will prove your point. But I'm pretty suspicious of this chart, because I would think the people age 40+ would have entered the job market during a conspicuously different time period, and have built careers & accompanying salaries during a time when education was higher benefit/lower cost than it is today. I fully recognize the necessity of education in STEM fields. Othe…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 03:32 PM
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This resonates strongly with me. I work with a lot of young men in the university student age bracket, and if any of them ever tell me they're thinking of going to college, I advise them to really think it through. I, personally, would never push the idea of college on anyone. Here's why. When I was in high school, I didn't want to go to college. My reason was simple: I didn't yet know what I wanted to do with my life. But my parents, neither of whom (at the time) were college graduates, strongl…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 02:47 PM
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I'm in the same boat. I'd prefer a ceremonial marriage, just without the legally binding certificate. I'd like to give my woman the title of 'Wife,' just without the bullshit governmental involvement. And I do want children one day, having a genetic legacy is important to me. In my American state, there is no recognized 'common law' marriage, but the type of arrangement I'm interested in leaves a lot of questions. Your post has inspired me to do some research, if I find anything useful, I'll pos…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 01:19 PM
2

Ha! Brilliant! I'm strongly considering framing and mounting an excerpt or two from that poem.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 12:53 PM
8

Yes. Gods, I'm glad there are others that feel this way!
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 12:30 PM
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I love you for posting this.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 12:23 PM
3

It's got to be on a case-by-case basis. Of course we don't know the exact wording of all the texts they fired back and forth, but obviously he didn't come across as needy because she showed up and they banged.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 12:22 PM
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This is a self-evident truth. If you're a female 'hot bartender' you really don't have to do much beyond show cleavage, dance on the bar a couple times a night, and pour a round of drinks every half hour or so. If there's a wait staff, you don't even have to pour beer.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 12:12 PM
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Because your entire response is geared around guilting her for how she feels. Waiting until she gets tired of yelling at you to respond, refusing to apologize, refusing to be considerate of her behavior- all these things communicate that she is in the wrong for being bothered by being called a brat. No. My response was about the behavior. I take issue with outbursts, not feelings. Feelings are feelings, they come over you and you deal with them. Eventually, if you're strong, you learn to control…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 11:34 AM
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By refusing to acknowledge her triggers I've done no such thing. In my original comment, even, I described it as a 'trigger'. Of course I acknowledge it. What I don't do is accept bad behavior as a result. I also do not accept that this is an 'uncontrollable response,' as you put it. All behavior stems from personal choice. We can mold ourselves into what we want to be, if we are strong enough. Have you ever wanted to steal something...etc etc. Yes, yes, you're very clever. There's an obvious di…
/r/TheRedPill31/10/13 11:22 AM
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I don't see how my described resolution to the situation is antithetical to empathizing with my redhead's pain. I do empathize. But I will not pursue a relationship with a girl who wallows in an emotionally abusive past, rather than harnessing her strength - which I know she has - to break free from it. I will support her with my own strength to help her do this, but I'll not be bound by someone else's chains.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 06:28 PM
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This commandment has been one of the most useful to me, personally. I was raised to be very polite, and of course that also meant to always apologize if I ever gave offense to someone. Because it's so ingrained in me, I catch myself beginning to voice an apology out of reflex, for the most mundane things. Keeping this commandment in mind, specifically the idea of only two 'free' apologies, has helped me a lot. Example: The other day, I had my redhead over for dinner. During the evening for whate…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 04:14 PM
4

Well said.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 12:41 PM
1

Yeah, same here. I read that and it was like remembering something really important that I'd forgotten. Gonna be fine-tuning some shit, stat.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/13 12:40 PM
2

Well said, brother!
/r/TheRedPill29/10/13 04:29 PM
1

doesn't preclude compassion for those who suffer.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/13 01:49 AM
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I'd like to weigh in on this. What I don't get is why you also spend your time trying to sleep with lots of different women or things of that nature. Isn't that putting your happiness/contentness/wellbeing/etc in the hands of women? It's actually the opposite. I'll break this down a bit. I'm sexually attracted to a woman. This is a fact of nature. I have a libido. I am heterosexual. Therefore I'm going to meet women to whom I'm sexually attracted. Now, here's my first fork in the road: do I leav…
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 10:23 PM
5

Yeah, stopped reading after that sentence.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 09:42 PM
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Don't get me wrong; feminist lies or no, the girl has made her own bed and now she gets to sleep in it. But a proper understanding of the dynamics at play, and even a commitment to use those dynamics for one's own prosperity, doesn't preclude compassion for those who suffer.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 09:39 PM
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I had to stop and take a break halfway through so I wouldn't break down and cry at work. Powerful stuff.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 09:37 PM
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This post over at Amos & Gromar broke my fucking heart. I can't even think to comment on it beyond that. Just read it. Feminist lies suck.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 05:02 PM
2

Yeah...having a surgical procedure in India, even a minor one, is not high on my To Do list.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 02:37 PM
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Unfortunately, the man got involved in a rational debate with an agenda-oriented woman and her cronies. It will never end in the man's favor, this kind of debate. I respect McInnes' effort, I mean, I wouldn't have held it together nearly as long. The moment I started to see that smug smile of superiority women plaster on their faces when they need to drive from an emotional seat rather than a rational one...I'd have walked away right then, rather than lose my shit to such tactics.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 12:44 PM
13

Best answer, hands down. Do what this guy says.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 12:28 PM
3

I just keep thinking that somehow the feminist establishment is going to get this banned. My inner cynic just knows a reversible male contraceptive procedure is too good to be true. Sometimes I really hate that guy.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/13 12:24 PM
1

This is a great point. I've observed this very thing time and again. Feminist 'sex-positivity' is just an abbreviation for 'all the nasty things I want to do that my mother told me not to, as long as none of it makes me too uncomfortable in which case it's creepy.'
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 04:14 PM
1

You don't think that if there wasn't this sort of "ew, you whore" reaction to sexually promiscuous women, that the instances in which a woman retroactively withdraws consent might become less frequent? This is a valid point, if we accept that the 'ew you whore' reaction is as prevalent as you indicate. I don't accept that, but for the sake of argument, let's go ahead. Your point, then, really depends on the most common reason for that artificial withdrawal of consent. You're attributing it to a …
/r/TheRedPill25/10/13 04:06 PM
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The founder of this art...I'd love to sit down and have a conversation with her. I agree with just about everything she's teaching these girls. Yes, I'm a strong woman. But in a relationship with a man, it's important to show my weaknesses. The girls all want to find a 'warrior man,' i.e. a strong Alpha who can hold his place of authority in the household with a strong woman as mate. They're specifically taught to select for quality genes, as well! They simply won't tolerate weak & low-quality m…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 03:35 PM
10

It's pretty commonly accepted around here that many 'rape' accusations are actually the result of buyer's remorse, i.e. consent is artificially withdrawn ex post facto.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 03:02 PM
1

Great post, brother!
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 02:57 PM
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Science aside, the language of the title and some of the content encourage the "blame teh menz!!!" attitude we've come to expect from feminist media. Some of my favorite tidbits: a lack of reproduction among older women has given rise to menopause as an unintended result of evolutionary natural selection. As opposed to the intended results of an undirected natural process? "We are saying somewhere along the line, men began to change their preference in mating," said evolutionary biologist Rama S…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 02:46 PM
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another nice thing is that if you walk back like 10 yards away from the fire, no one can see you making out with some girly. Heh heh, yeah...memories.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 02:26 PM
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I agree, it's pretty inconclusive from what I've been able to find. I've just got to go with personal experience and anecdotal evidence. I rarely need to vent anything, these days. And I don't think I've ever felt in a way I could construe as bitter or hateful. It's more of an occasional rising up of rage, and rather than push it down I let it out in an appropriate social context, power through it, and let it subside. Personally, I blame the lack of sword-duels in modern society...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/13 01:53 PM
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I dunno, Mr. Bearfist sir. The last time I went to a dance club it was pretty much 3's and 4's that thought they were 7's and 8's, even on a Saturday night. Never felt like going through that again. And house parties are generally out, the closest kind of partying we do out here in the sticks is around a bonfire with a helluva lot of whiskey. But I may see what I can find.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 01:49 PM
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This. Is. Gold. The whole fucking article is spot on. Never liked Dilbert that much, but damn if I'm not going to look for some more of Scott Adams' writing now. Passage that especially spoke to me: How many times do we men suppress our natural instincts for sex and aggression just to get something better in the long run? It’s called a strategy. Sometimes you sacrifice a pawn to nail the queen. If you’re still crying about your pawn when you’re having your way with the queen, there’s something w…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 01:36 PM
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As we all know, Halloween is the one night of the year when the "veil of slut shame" is lifted for all to see what's underneath. Women now feel permission and license to act as slutty as they really are (many hamsters are inactivated for the night). The results are usually epic nights out filled with debauchery and even "normal" women walking around almost naked. Every year, Halloween has this rep. And every year, the only girls I find 'slutted up' are generally out with their husbands/boyfriend…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 01:28 PM
2

I know He is no longer confused.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/13 01:23 PM
1

Here's a 2012 study whose findings state "This research supports the notion that venting may be used as an emotion regulatory strategy and highlights the importance of the reciprocal aspect of the venting interaction." Further stated is "Venting may persist as a common practice because we “feel better” after the venting interaction not because we release anger," as well as "What is said in response to venting matters. Respondents should be aware of the attributions they use when responding to ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/13 01:00 PM
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Thanks, I'll check it out. EDIT Okay, I read the article. Some interesting points, although the author is quite obviously writing for an audience who is inclined to agree with him, "preaching to the choir". I found the comments much more informative, particularly the discussion between the blog's author and a commentor with handle 'JL'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 04:48 PM
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I agree, with the caveat that some are more naturally predisposed to question and mold their primal wiring, and that culture/peers/popular consciousness will also have varying degrees of influence depending upon the individuals overall circumstance. If you can also accept this, then I believe we're in agreement with one another. I think, really, our difference of opinion is a question of morality - whether nature should be overridden by choice, in this matter or in others. On that, I have little…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 04:11 PM
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"Natural" is not "moral." Of course it's not. I don't believe I've said anything to disagree with this statement. Nature is amoral. But earlier you've quoted me and made a statement, thus: Gender is a divisive trait. Largely because you choose to treat it as such. And now you say We're not arguing over why it happens, but whether it should happen. Emphases mine, of course. The first statement is absolutely a question of why. When you say gender is divisive 'because' of the choice-element, of cou…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 03:10 PM
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Look, you're passionate about whatever this all means to you. I get that. I'm not. I observe, and I try to learn, and I try to grow wiser about the way the world is. In the subjective-pragmatic first-person perspective that is my consciousness, of course I will rebel against tenets that obstruct my personal imperative, but I take great pains to keep this chemically-induced passion at bay during rational argument. To say that I "should be saying" a certain thing is nothing more than your personal…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 02:42 PM
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You're missing my point. I'm not arguing that it's correct to make these assumptions and generalizations. I'm arguing that people do it regardless. My point was to illustrate that gender is not "just a differing trait". It is a divisive trait. I'm all for the discussion here, but I dislike oversimplification. Edit in response to your edit. I've made no claims as to the racist content or misogynistic content of the speech related here. Stop making assumptions about me before examining the facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 02:22 PM
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I could respond by saying "Of course not!" and leave it at that, but this is an oversimplification. There are various traits shared by various groups of people, and each one of these trait-types comes with a varying degree of divisiveness. That's a bit unclear - it's early here, need coffee - so let me use some examples. I have red hair. My roommate has brown hair. Neither of us give a fuck about the fact that we don't have the same color hair. But, if I were to lose my temper about something, I…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 01:53 PM
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Well, I don't. If I need to vent about someone or something, that person or object becomes the most hated lump of matter and energy in existence for about fifteen seconds. Why hold back when I'm venting? Kinda defeats the purpose. Let the bad emotions out, return to my calm center, and carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/13 01:22 PM
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Yeah, I know that's what you were assuming. Let me comment one last time here to clear it up: I'm not an advocate for anything other than the rigorous inspection of ideas stimulated by productive argument. I divide ideas into two categories: certainly not true and possibly true. Things in the possibly true category are up for incorporation into my worldview, but I try not to get too attached to any particular notion, because I could discover something that disproves it tomorrow. If I ever reach …
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 01:12 PM
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...was this meant as a response to me, or did you reply to the wrong comment? Because this doesn't really respond to anything I said. I mean, yes, I mentioned Darwinian economics, so I suppose you just wanted to expound upon that? But throughout the discussion, you seem to make assumptions about the kind of label you can slap on the original commentor's views as well as my own, without really checking to see if you're correct. Not a fan of labels, myself. Too easy to think everyone who doesn't l…
/r/TheRedPill23/10/13 12:19 PM
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Okay, this is little more than a series of statements, few of which have anything at all to do with what we're talking about. But I'll respond where I feel I can contribute something. Anarcho-fascists I'm not a proponent of anarchy or an authoritarian state; the fact that some overly clever weasels have conflated the two seems preposterous. Abortion is morally indefensible Never said that, nor would I argue that. In fact, I took the time to state that I am not debating the morality of abortion. …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 08:13 PM
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I'd like to point out that your response doesn't actually contain an objectively moral answer to /u/iseeyou1312's question. I believe that "magical line" is called murder, a capital crime This is based on the illegality of murder, i.e. the presence of a law forbidding it, i.e. subjective. You should re-examine your subjectivist philosophies and consider that maybe sometimes they lead you to making statements that make you sound like a sociopath. This is just shaming language with no content of v…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/13 01:07 PM
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Yes, naturally. Not that this has anything to do with what's being discussed in this thread. But you're correct, even if by accident in attempting to set up your appeal to the general outrage of those opposed to genocide: rational defense may always be offered amorally, given proper understanding of the subject up for defense. I'm not interested, however, in offering a rational defense for the actions of any political party during World War II, be it the Nazi party or otherwise. Not my area, and…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/13 08:21 PM
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Depends on the context. If it's a second-date-at-her-place kinda thing, I'd say it's gold. Just wait for the male in the scene to start making moves, and be a bit snarky about how much of an amateur he is (without getting too obnoxious). Immediately demonstrate the correct technique, and progress from there. Whether it's in a home or an entertainment venue, though, I think it can help you key in on your target's receptiveness to your sexual attention. If she ain't thinking horny thoughts about y…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/13 04:14 PM
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Ehhh...okay, gotta comment. Men often don't know if they like "you" until they've had sex with you. Perhaps, but in my experience, I know whether I like a girl whether I've had sex with her or not. If I haven't had sex with her, I also know that I would like to have sex with her (if she's attractive), but whether I like her or not is based on other factors, such as: does she annoy the fuck out of me, is she a militant feminist, does she talk about her cats all the time, etc. Now, once the act of…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/13 12:46 PM
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Hear, hear!
/r/askTRP18/10/13 12:06 PM
2

On one hand, you're correct. A natural Alpha in his natural state isn't consumed by internal struggle with his Alpha-ness. He doesn't spend copious amounts of time culling Beta or other non-Alpha traits from his self-consciousness. He does not make this aspect of his psyche the analytic focus of his life. He is, indeed, who he is. But this is a half-truth, in the context of Red Pill philosophy. And you are incorrect about applying scientific studies to the mating behaviors of humans. I'll attemp…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/13 06:41 PM
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Damn. Hadn't stopped by /r/PurplePillDebate in a while, and this thread seemed promising. I was hoping to see some progress made beyond shaming and name calling. Can't say I'm surprised, but I am disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/13 05:27 PM
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Short guy here. Done. Would not repeat.
/r/askTRP17/10/13 05:05 PM
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I like a slightly more mysterious, cocky variant of this: the Barney Stinson. "Ha ha...please." Accompanied by a smirk, it serves me well as an answer to many questions.
/r/askTRP17/10/13 05:03 PM
1

when you are in your late 20s and early 30s, "boyfriend" and "girlfriend" just don't cut it anymore. Neither does "partner," Man here. This is one of my biggest peeves, the lack of a word to describe a committed relationship that doesn't convey images of either grade-school or homosexuality. I'm desirous of eventually establishing a lifetime relationship with a woman, building a family, etc. But I flat-out refuse to become married in the eyes of the federal or state government. And being permane…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/13 01:26 PM
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Stare. Stare as if you can't believe what's happening in front of you. "Grow the fuck up." Walk out. Does crying disgust you? Communicate that, clearly. A woman will do almost anything to avoid being disgusting.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 12:23 PM
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Also confirm. Source: have lived and worked with enlisted & noncoms of most branches, currently bunk with a Marine. He's crazy, but he gives off the Alpha vibe like a motherfucker. The others, not so much.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 12:18 PM
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You misunderstand. I'm not offering a moral defense of hypergamous behavior, but rather a rational defense. And no, offering a rational defense of behavior is not the same as condoning that behavior. I can rationally defend any action as long as I can hypothesize about the cause(s). If I were to offer a moral defense, I would say, "Here's why this action is of the good. This action is morally just, and here is why." But I haven't said that. Again, the metaphor of the fox slaughtering the henhous…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/13 11:28 AM
1

This article brought tears to my eyes. I can only hope that, when I select a woman to birth and raise my children, I've acquired the wisdom to choose one such as this.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 04:39 PM
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When something is amoral, it requires no moral defense.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/13 01:39 PM
1

And I got rid of most of my attitude regarding women. I realized I should just treat them after my rules. If they want to have me as a guy friend, boyfriend or sexual friend, they have to play by my rules. It isn't me who has to submit. I call them out for saying stupid things, tell them what I don't like them doing around me, tease them, get shit tests right Thanks for the reminder, brother. I needed it just now. Cheers.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 05:39 PM
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Bit of a nitpicky disagree. This is shameful from the perspective of the masculine imperative, but it's actually laudable from the perspective of the feminine. Keep in mind, this is a facet of hypergamy, which is encoded into a woman's genetic makeup. I can't morally fault a fox for turning my henhouse into Hostel 7, even though it sure as fuck pisses me off (conflicts with my own interests). Neither can I fault a woman for displaying hypergamous behavior, against the interests of my imperative …
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 04:43 PM
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Hey, brother. I'm going to summarize your shit for you, and then I'm going to try to help you fix it, in my customary long-winded, rambling way. So, you get a lot of female attention, but you don't want to be tied down. You're putting your mission (your schoolwork, groundwork for your career) before the prospect of a relationship. Socially, you're notable for your ability to take control of a debate in class and speak intelligently about topics, and you're proud that you've built a reputation fo…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 01:48 PM
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::brofist::
/r/TheRedPill15/10/13 11:51 AM
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In one sense, I mean that she's "delicate" in her femininity. In her moments of utter honesty, she's a girl-child longing for a protector, and in the same moment is a woman yearning to be ravaged in erotic conquest. This is certainly not unique to her among women, it is a primary tenet of the feminine. In another sense, she's fragile emotionally. She shores up the trenches of her heart with learned behaviors, builds walls and moats from the materials commanded of her by modern feminist doctrine …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/13 03:15 PM
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Morality aside, I agree with your method. Let me add that I've discovered, with the relationship between my high sexual drive & my moderate social drive, I'm most fulfilled when I pursue longer sexual relationships with few women, rather than short sexual relationships with many women. By PUA standards, my approach rate is abysmally low, but my close rate doesn't suffer for it.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/13 02:45 PM
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All good thoughts, thanks brother. And don't worry, this wasn't a Man Night. I left before everyone else got there because I work earlier in the morning than they do, but other girls were on the way.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/13 02:40 AM
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I tend to regard everyone as fixer uppers. Myself included. That's what I've found so valuable about Red Pill philosophy; since embracing the truths found here and in other Red Pill parts of the web, I've gained a valuable set of tools for fixing myself. That aside, is my girl more of a fixer-upper than most? Not at all, in fact, I think she's a little easier to deal with because she puts forth the necessary effort herself. That's important to me; the desire to self-optimize is rare, at least in…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/13 02:38 AM
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That's a fair point. It very well could have played out like that. I can't pretend to operate in a solely analytical mode in every situation. Mostly, I go with my gut instinct. Sometimes when I'm out with my redhead, other girls will flirt with me and I'll game them back, and it's all good fun. In this situation, my gut was telling me to abort the play. Doesn't mean I was correct to do so, but I guess the important thing may be to watch out for a trend, and nip it in the bud before it turns into…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 07:34 PM
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What motivates you to want to leave her better than you found her? Does her fragility inspire your desire to protect her? What prompts you to be the rock she needs? I'm a problem solver. I like to think creatively in order to fix broken things, or improve things that could be improved. The more complex, the better, and there really is nothing to rival the complexity of a human being. When I help someone view their personal journey in a new light, when I contribute to the improvement of such a co…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 06:54 PM
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Agree.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/13 04:20 PM
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Thanks for this comment, it really resonates with me.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 12:42 AM
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Excellent video, great points.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/13 12:33 PM
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then I slipped on a condom and went inside of her Read this somewhat differently than intended the first time.
/r/seduction02/10/13 05:32 PM
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I'd like to weigh in on this, ladies. Personally, I feel a bit proud when I witness my girl use her "feminine wiles" to open doors. It demonstrates initiative, creativity, confidence, and self-knowledge. A sweet question or remark aptly directed. An awkward moment deftly diffused by a girlish, laughing glance. Even some lightly flirtatious dialogue to gain the upper hand in a social transaction (example given by OP: a shop sale). The proper execution of such performances require a finesse that i…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/13 12:43 PM
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I know about shit tests but average girls have this look on their face like "yea im the shit"...How can any guy approach them with this attitude? If you don't think a girl is hot, and on top of that you don't like her attitude, why would you worry about how to approach her? She has nothing to offer you. Smirk at the imbeciles orbiting her, and approach the stunning, feminine girl across the room.
/r/askTRP27/08/13 12:12 PM
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Humility and confidence are not mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP25/08/13 04:54 PM
1

I'm excited to learn about this! Intelligent debate is one of the strongest tools at our disposal to define and flesh out our understanding of any given issue, I really hope /r/PurplePillDebate can help accomplish that.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 12:19 PM
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badinage like a boss. TIL badinage is defined as "humorous or witty conversation". I love learning awesome new words.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/13 05:56 PM
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Every woman who has ever born a child is more courageous than the average man who has never knowingly risked his life. Every woman who goes to her marriage a virgin has greater character than the average man. But because feminists are actively opposed to genuine female character and courage, they have attempted to make virtues of ersatz and imitative male characteristics that not only render the subsequent female characters incredible, but boring. This. Soooo much this. I get frustrated by this …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/13 04:09 PM
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Focus on making her look dumb and win the social argument. Engage in the rational arguments with your male friends. This is gold. If you're going to ever actually "win" an argument with a woman, it has to be your victory even by her standards, which are emotionally motivated and have to do with her image of herself, particularly in social context. Thanks for pointing this out, brother, big lightbulb moment for me.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/13 01:22 PM
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The men that care are the ones not getting blowjobs. The women that care are outraged no one is asking them for sex in public.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/13 06:40 PM
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I'll bite. Here are my preferences. Physical Petite, although some curves are required. B- or C-cup preferred up top, and if I feel like I'm smacking a board instead of your ass, that's a problem. Ethnicity really makes no difference, although I'm partial to pallid redheads in the white girl category. Hair length to suit the face, as long as it's long enough to tug. All this & preferably under 26, although that's really only important for a potential LTR. Personality Submissive with a dash of da…
/r/askTRP21/08/13 05:32 PM
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