Hi Seddit, I am a super new follower of this sub, literally started reading a few days ago. I decided I have to take action I can do it I can make my life less miserable more fun. I've always been shy cause I'm quite tall and skinny. I am one them hardgainers no bullshit, although I do work out often.


Anyway I was walking in the city, just had a haircut which worked out okay and I told to myself I am a decent looking guy I must have some charm, let's work with it.

Decided that I'm gonna put a content mild smile on my face while walking home and try to make eye contact with the ladies.

2 minutes later a beautiful girl walking down the street with a few friends talking. She was answering them and I just made it.

I made eye contact, stared deeply into those nice eyes and suddenly she just stopped talking in middle of the sentence. It wasn't long you know just 1-2 seconds and then she averted her eyes. She might have blushed who knows.

It's just made me so much more energetic. It was one of the greatest experiences for a long time, strangely.

I gotta try that more often and next time I might have the courage to walk up and approach direct.

TL;DR: It's a really small step, hardly a real FR but still. Thank you seddit for making me try.