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And you avoided 90% of the important stuff I made in that post. See a therapist. Seriously. See one.
/r/seduction13/05/21 09:39 PM
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Have a decent date. Connect on social media. Advertise your busy and awesome life. Let them see your life in action. If they want to join, they'll reach out. If not, go enjoy some stuff to do.
/r/seduction13/05/21 09:17 PM
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It honestly sounds like you conduct yourself as a jaded and unhappy person. Work on yourself first. See a therapist. There's no shame in seeking a professional trained to help you think out your thoughts. Like seriously, if you don't do this, don't expect things to change. And accept that things won't change until you try things you're uncomfortable with doing. Your post history sounds like you carry out the self fulfilling prophecy. You're expecting women to be shallow towards your looks, then …
/r/seduction13/05/21 09:11 PM
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I rarely visit this sub anymore, been in a very rewarding relationship, but I wanted to add something that I learned a while back. I'm not going to waste my time talking to a girl online all day Honestly, if you have all that time lying around during the day, you're boring. Don't respond sometimes because you're busy. Read messages, and let that little "message read" alert show up. Let her wonder why the hell you couldn't respond. Go live your life and use Tinder as an enhancement as opposed to …
/r/seduction23/09/18 10:42 PM
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That was pretty good. Perhaps a Hollywood-ization of what you should expect, but still pretty good!
/r/seduction07/07/17 05:10 PM
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Some people go through life without ever facing a problem. Ever. Either their rich pushover parents make problems disappear before they're problems, a spouse caving every time and taking on the burden, or even just being a complete asshole to others gets them what they want. Eventually, this kind of thing happens, and they've gotten themselves into a situation scarier than they could ever imagine (due to not experiencing a problem like this ever in their lives). And some of these people are acti…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/05/17 02:49 PM
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If it's already up, less chance of anything getting on the seat.
/r/MensRights26/04/17 10:03 AM
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On top of this "let's skip the 20 messages of back and forth and meet up for coffee"
/r/seduction17/04/17 02:43 PM
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Doesn't have to be in real life. Learn something like an art. A digital art is something that distinguishes you from others. But you gotta get out there somehow. You won't meet people in the comfort of your own home.
/r/seduction21/03/17 11:07 PM
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Moderate hiking Travel is never a waste of time Take up night classes
/r/seduction21/03/17 09:19 PM
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Abstain from participating excessively on social networks. Go do things in real life instead of caring about what's happening online. If you're not on Facebook or other social networks, you seem more mysterious and interesting.
/r/seduction21/03/17 03:42 PM
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That's because you lack the confidence. Go do something adventurous on your own! Your confidence will skyrocket.
/r/seduction21/03/17 03:41 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's your fault or not. You think a person in a third world country is just sitting around waiting for food because the conditions of the country aren't their fault? It simply means you have to work harder, learn more about the world, and put in more effort.
/r/seduction21/03/17 03:40 PM
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texting Make a phone call
/r/seduction11/03/17 11:04 PM
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Your attractiveness to a woman shouldn't be changed by how you spend your money. Here's the big thing: your mentality determines how successful this will be. If a girl asks you to cover her, you can respond with "only if you help me find the hottest girl at the bar to come home with me". People often compete for "control" over the situation, and it will catch them off guard if you turn their attempt at control on its head. This puts you in Outcome Independence mode, and makes her second guess if…
/r/seduction05/03/17 12:05 PM
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It also prevents one person from blackmailing the other person. "Do this for me or else you can kiss this rich lifestyle away" or "if you don't do what I want, our kid will never have the opportunity to go to college and it'll be your fault". Not saying this is a major reason for the law, but it should be considered
/r/MensRights13/02/17 09:58 PM
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To save $40,000, I'd claim to be female.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/02/17 02:58 PM
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This is the way to go. It adds a bit of cryptic meaning that'll drive her curiosity, and it shows you don't really care about her accepting you
/r/seduction12/02/17 11:07 AM
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That's how everything works when considering scarcity and supply/demand. We're social creatures. We want things that others desire.
/r/seduction29/12/16 11:38 AM
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It's almost as if she's aware and signed a release form to be put on video...
/r/seduction06/12/16 03:31 AM
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Oh, of course. Marketing is the act of convincing people they should buy something they don't need. This is not a marketing platform.
/r/seduction05/12/16 08:05 PM
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Hey, if people want to waste their money, let them. I don't really care When idiots advertise though, we should report them.
/r/seduction05/12/16 05:43 PM
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We can't give play by play advice because we don't know how your conversation will go after saying hello. Get out there and fail. This isn't some internet tutorial that lists 32 steps go getting a guaranteed girlfriend. Try to talk to women, get feedback, come back here, study the advice again, and get back out there. We all got the same advice as you and many of us have made it work. You must fail before you figure out this stuff.
/r/seduction04/12/16 11:47 AM
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A lot of them were women married to their careers or not super datable for various reasons. I also asked to see their Facebook profile firsthand, to "get a better understanding of them".
/r/seduction01/12/16 07:47 PM
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I started finding weekday events all around me when I was single. I've: taken cooking class - like shooting fish in a barrel Attended line dance - actually got really good at this, so now I go to places all around me and have fun. People recognize the passion and always want to come up and say hi. You should do the same if you do this. Be forewarned, you say hi once and then leave if the conversation lulls. Don't be the aggressive social butterfly here. meetup groups - don't go with the intentio…
/r/seduction01/12/16 06:12 PM
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Do you have a trampoline gym near you?
/r/seduction12/11/16 10:54 PM
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It's not about being spiteful or getting revenge. Just be above the pettiness and move the fuck on
/r/seduction29/10/16 01:23 AM
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the date was great up until the tab situation. Wish you the best "Thanks you too"
/r/seduction28/10/16 08:19 PM
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That was just silly :)
/r/PussyPassDenied11/10/16 09:07 PM
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Push her to take silly risks like high fives. Smile when she does it. Encourage her through body language to keep taking those risks and let her set the pace.
/r/seduction10/10/16 12:48 AM
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Are you waiting for something to happen at the club, or are you going to MAKE something happen?
/r/seduction30/09/16 10:54 PM
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True, but if you actually learn a formal dance style, it helps A LOT. Having the confidence to dance and approach helps so much. So many guys expect women to approach them as they just stand there looking boring. Make the night a 50/50 split of dancing and meeting new people. You need to be having fun!
/r/seduction30/09/16 10:07 PM
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"I'm not the type of person that would do what I got caught doing."
/r/PussyPassDenied06/09/16 08:15 PM
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Be confident about entering a fun adventurous period of your life. You're going to enjoy yourself a lot! Make friends with everyone, get phone numbers from people you meet (and keep notes of how you met them), join clubs or activities, and don't "settle" into your first group of friends. Keep different social circles and slowly bring them together. As for meeting women, be confident in your skills, be mature towards your education, find passion in your major and talk about it lightly. College gi…
/r/seduction05/09/16 01:06 PM
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A phone call would get her to respond.
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:40 PM
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Career is more important than being with you. Sorry bro, but at least it's a legitimate reason and not a sign that she dislikes you.
/r/seduction31/08/16 10:39 PM
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This. Don't enable the flakiness. If they were even remotely interested, they would call back or text.
/r/seduction16/08/16 11:36 AM
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disgusted I even asked You encountered a princess. She probably has the emotional maturity of a middle schooler.
/r/seduction18/07/16 01:49 AM
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That means they're looking for a long-term partner. They want someone who has proven that they're marriage material and stable.
/r/seduction14/07/16 11:24 AM
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Things about women that make them just as insecure as you do about height: Weight Hair color Hair style Small blemishes on their skin Their height Shoe size Big or little butt Big or small breasts If some of these things don't matter to you, there exist women where height won't matter to them. Stop caring. I have a receding hairline, I'm average height, I stutter, I dont dress fashionably, and I don't have a 6-figure salary. Doesn't stop me from living my life and meeting people. Rejection is do…
/r/seduction13/07/16 03:56 PM
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That's your insecurity limiting your life.
/r/seduction08/07/16 11:55 PM
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You accept that she's not interested, but still keep her as a friend. If you ignore every girl that isn't interested in you, you're ignoring a great potential source of networking. I have a few female friends who just wanted to be friends. I embraced it and used my newly acquired friends to build social credibility(a guy who has female friends seen as less of a threat/creep if other women spend time with him), get authentic advice, and constantly allow you to network to her friends and peers. Ad…
/r/seduction08/07/16 06:00 PM
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Stop any contact if you realize you are friendzoned Bullshit. Turn it right back on them. They wanna be a friend, treat them as such. Be sexual around them. Talk about how other women are hot, ask advice on how to pursuit a cute girl, blatantly stare at women when with her, hit on other less attractive women with her, say proudly "oh she's not my girlfriend, she's a really good friend though". Female friends are so useful.
/r/seduction08/07/16 04:51 PM
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So?
/r/seduction21/06/16 11:27 PM
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Diversify interests
/r/seduction07/06/16 05:01 PM
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Be prepared. Bring water, small snacks, plastic zip lock bags for phones if it rains, a phone charger battery, jacket, and hand sanitizer.
/r/seduction07/06/16 04:53 PM
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Sometimes caffeine turns me into a turbocharged talker. Maybe try a second date without coffee?
/r/seduction07/06/16 04:50 PM
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If a girl wants to play hard to get, make that a 1-player game.
/r/seduction10/05/16 10:48 AM
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Say hi in a clever way. Make her laugh while showing off value. Realign the conversation to talking about that date you two are going on.
/r/seduction28/04/16 10:34 AM
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400 likes on an Instagram photo validates someone's self-esteem. Got it. Don't make your approval too easy
/r/seduction28/04/16 12:24 AM
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During the date, she is not an actress. She's a person who has a pretty cool job. That's it. Find out what makes her interesting outside of work.
/r/seduction28/04/16 12:22 AM
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I'd like to take you on a date, are you free Friday? Clear and to the point. For some reason, people like to dance around the question. The only thing that does is makes you look deceptive. TELL HER YOU WANT TO TAKE HER ON A DATE
/r/seduction21/04/16 06:46 PM
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For me, it's the uniqueness. I've been on multiple dates with women who are unique. I've dated a goth girl with 45% of her body tattoo'd with a mohawk, a business owner, a girl who was happy just doing a very low-key job but was good with money, a rich girl, the geeky girl, a girl in performing arts, a very religious girl, big girls, small girls, tall, short, a girl from another country (currently dating and thinking kind of serious about her). I think I just really find the appeal in a girl who…
/r/seduction28/03/16 04:50 PM
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"What's up your ass? I'm just trying to introduce you to the hottest girls in the bar!"
/r/seduction11/03/16 11:32 PM
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Get busy and just tell her you're not free for that timeframe. If she calls you out on it, call her out on flaking, noting how you tried to make time for hanging out, but now you're busy and you can't prioritize her, given her track record of bailing.
/r/seduction30/01/16 02:54 PM
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Damn dude you handled it well. You still committed to the event and had a good time. Most guys would awkwardly go home and obsess over it, but you decided to make Fort Awesome for the movie and go all out.
/r/seduction23/01/16 08:05 PM
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Is this a deleted scene from Tucker Max?
/r/seduction04/01/16 10:08 PM
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It's an exciting, drama filled way to live your life where you get exactly what you want... Until you hit your 40s
/r/MensRights04/01/16 03:55 PM
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Nice work! Your biggest challenge will be going back to there next time you need to buy something and not make it awkward. Just go in, be friendly, don't acknowledge the previous situation, and go on your way.
/r/seduction03/01/16 10:24 PM
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So what brings you here? How has your day been? Are you with friends or family?(perfect chance to introduce yourself to others, who will most likely encourage her to give you a shot) I'm really sorry to introduce myself and run, but my friends are waiting for me, mind if I give you my number?(or take her number)
/r/seduction29/12/15 12:21 PM
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That sounds badass! I'd love to learn the ways of giving speeches! Okay one question, who gets to start and end the meetings? I'd imagine them to be great speeches.
/r/seduction24/11/15 01:40 PM
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Skiing and snowboarding
/r/seduction24/11/15 11:04 AM
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Expectations are set way too high. No one book will improve you that much. One book WILL give you ideas and a mentality that could, with enough development and effort, bring you more success and a better outlook in life.
/r/seduction24/11/15 12:43 AM
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I read that book as I took a motorcycle from NY to CA and back in the summer of 2014.
/r/seduction24/11/15 12:21 AM
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like one of those courses? No, I just couldn't justify putting so much effort into texting, and also made this observation after dating someone and not caring about texting.
/r/seduction23/11/15 11:56 PM
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IOI is indication of interest. There are a bunch of term definitions in the sidebar, check it out!
/r/seduction22/11/15 07:39 AM
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Just put it out there. If she gives you a maybe, you're being played as a backup Don't. You just talk. Demonstrate value in person.
/r/seduction22/11/15 04:46 AM
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Be direct. Talk for a few messages, move to number. Don't play the constant texting game. Just ask if she wants to do stuff. Go for coffee, check something out, see a movie, go out with a bunch of friends, etc. The more you use text to communicate, the less person-like you become. You see people texting while they're out the entire time? Think of the people on the other side of that conversation, they are the nobodies that keep a girl entertained until something fun happens at the bar.
/r/seduction21/11/15 08:21 PM
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Line dancing is a great place
/r/seduction08/11/15 01:38 AM
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The idea is that you don't put everything on one girl. You try, then you try again, and try again, until eventually you stop caring about just that one girl, and it becomes a numbers game. If you fail 95% of the time, that means you succeed 5% of the time. Stop needing to get that exact girl, and just enjoy whatever happens in your night
/r/seduction24/09/15 08:27 PM
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In all fairness, I see these about the fathers who are celebrated for mothers day. Being a single parent of either gender is tough.
/r/MensRights06/09/15 06:40 PM
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Asked what kind of porn you watch? That seems like harassment right there!
/r/PussyPassDenied14/08/15 08:38 AM
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Sometimes people are watching. Who cares what they think of you. I've grabbed women to the dance floor many times, and bouncers, random patrons and friends always compliment me on being ballsy enough to ask a girl to dance. I like that everyone is watching.
/r/seduction02/08/15 04:15 PM
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Is /r/punchablevoices a thing? This video is making me consider creating it.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/07/15 11:04 AM
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You see an amazing girl. You pressure yourself to do everything perfect. Your whole world lies on impressing her. You want to be perfect in front of her and make sure she wants you. You decide to not say anything, or you wait and stare until she's creeped out and wants nothing to do with you. Someone who doesn't give a fuck will go talk to her, say hi, be himself, and risk her not liking him for who he is. He doesn't care. He will be fine if this one girl doesn't like who he is, and he will prob…
/r/seduction24/07/15 01:28 AM
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Really struck home with talking to people working in the service industry. Can't tell you how many times I've been personal with people in service and got something in return, whether it be casual conversation with our group at the bar, an extra drink, a large upgrade, a discount, promotional item/coupons, etc.
/r/seduction24/07/15 12:47 AM
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I agree, but you need some base skill set of knowing what you're doing. Instead of replicating exactly what you're seeing, draw inspiration from the smoothness. Transitions are impressive, and always know what you want to happen. Only way to learn is to practice!
/r/seduction22/07/15 03:18 PM
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My friends laughed at me for line dancing. One week later I sent them a picture of two insanely hot blondes kissing me on the cheek. For some reason they've given it a try and love it now. Whenever I see them talking up a cutie I walk over and remind the. Of how "gay" they thought it was. I've cockblocked them a few times now just out of spite. Do your own passions, who gives a fuck what others think.
/r/seduction20/07/15 08:37 PM
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Never make the relationship the end goal. Do what interests you and self improve as much as possible. A girlfriend is the compliment to your life, not the defining characteristic.
/r/seduction18/07/15 03:34 PM
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It's a great idea and all. However, this did come to mind as a potential issue and should at least be considered: People can retract consent during sex. I know it doesn't happen much, but this may be used against anyone if they retract mid consent...
/r/MensRights14/07/15 04:01 AM
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Fund when that cop is in the station and send them a dunkin box o Joe or something like that. He deserves it for having to deal with her.
/r/MensRights27/05/15 09:31 PM
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As someone who did their master's thesis on this, I can tell you the only reason it works is because its new. Once kids become accustomed to gamification, the novelty quickly fades and both parties deal with bookkeeping and striving for not only points, but also a good grade. Morale dropped after 2 months for my students.
/r/MensRights12/05/15 10:12 AM
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Make friends with attractive girls. Strictly friends. Learn what makes them attracted to guys and how to interact with a girl of similar aspects. Realize that everyone has flaws. Attractive women might have some serious flaws, but since they are so attractive, people don't know how to tell them no. Your first several approaches are going to SUCK. Power through them. Eventually you become desensitized to them and they're just people in your eyes. Do things for sake of fun, not to meet hot women.
/r/seduction10/05/15 03:49 PM
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It's a numbers game. You can't pay one game of blackjack and assume the same results hold for every game ever played.
/r/seduction04/05/15 05:22 PM
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"You're a big girl, you can hold your own purse"
/r/seduction04/05/15 05:20 PM
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You need to have a lot of fun and be engaging. Be so outgoing that women know they'll regret not approaching you. You need to be so outcome independent that people need to approach you if they want some of that fun.
/r/seduction04/05/15 05:09 PM
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Very true. Gotta keep a healthy balance. Still apply the skills we embrace here, but now they need to be reevaluated and applied to only one person
/r/seduction08/03/15 11:03 PM
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I go every Friday. Love it, and I've met so many beautiful women. The older ones bring their daughter the following week and I get introduced to a lot of women
/r/seduction08/03/15 06:52 PM
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Constantly seduce your girlfriend, or the spark will fade.
/r/seduction08/03/15 06:48 PM
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Dance with her, slowly build attraction with her. Eventually, just go in for the kiss. If by the end of the night you can't bring yourself to kissing her, give her a call the next day and ask her out. Risk the friendship for the relationship. Don't have any regrets.
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:33 PM
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Let's call it a game How do you learn to play other games? Read up on some rules(rules of society), figure out a general strategy, and go fail. Eventually you will find your own play style and be successful.
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:31 PM
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Don't feel like you have a responsibility to communicate every day. Give yourself a 5 text limit from now until the date. Use them wisely.
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:24 PM
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Oneitis hurt me a few times, but every time I experience it I grow. I just see it as a painful improvement every time.
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:20 PM
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Almost sounds like nice guy syndrome. Wait until you can try to turn guilt on her and make her feel dumb because "such an obvious choice" is right in front of her. Never works. She knows you're a decent guy but you're not making a move on her and she's just not attracted to you.
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:20 PM
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So it was English?
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:18 PM
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It IS time to go out. Go meet 5 people!
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:17 PM
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You offer the same level of engagement as her and wonder why it came to a stop? Talk about your day. Include details. When you write an essay you don't just say "the book used extensive symbolism". WHY was you day good? What happened that made it good? Are you doing something later? Learn to talk about yourself. You: hey (girl) how are you? Her: I'm good, how about you? You: I'm going great! Finally caught up on homework, that English essay took longer than expected. Can't wait til after school …
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:16 PM
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Oh my god salsa. The key to removing women's pants. Line dancing too.
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:10 PM
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If you haven't done touching yet, start with high fives. You'll get a feel when they're really appropriate and when they were forced. Here are some examples I use for friends: pat on the back as I arrive at happy hour, high fives, touch a shoulder to ask them to step aside Here's how I flirt with touch: longer rub on the back as I arrive at happy hour, high fives with squeezing their hand after, hold my hand on their shoulder or waist to ask them to step aside Very closely related, huh? You can …
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:07 PM
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One cafe near me has very beautiful women working there. They know me very well, and I usually tip 30% every time. Every date we get sent a complimentary dessert "compliments of the chef to the cute couple" after telling the waitress its our first date. The staff is wonderful and we have a nice understanding going on there.
/r/seduction02/03/15 12:02 PM
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Not a fan of smileys. I'm actually writing an article about avoiding smileys and acronyms such as lol and lmao because they are basically telling the other person you are trying to be funny, as opposed to simply being funny.
/r/seduction02/03/15 11:52 AM
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You have to play at her level. Minimalist, direct texting. Nothing over the top, don't add stupid shit like smileys and lol's. Those are only filler for good content. You should approach the next date as if she already says yes. Keep that confidence going, and don't develop oneitis. Most importantly, have fun with it!
/r/seduction23/02/15 12:04 AM
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You sound pretty awesome on paper. Now take that awesomeness and inject it into your confidence. Don't feel superior in giving your details to people, but instead proud. I'm proud that I travel the country on motorcycle, and I like to explain why I love it so much. Develop passions that inform people of details about you, but don't use it as a means to express superiority.
/r/seduction21/02/15 05:37 PM
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Time of the year, weather, stress, and tons of other things can alter the effectiveness of building attraction. Or, you might have gotten into a rut with your approach mentality. Try mixing it up a little. Do some bolder things, experiment with oddball stuff. You might find a new technique or mindset in your search.
/r/seduction21/02/15 05:28 PM
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"Hey [name], it was nice meeting you at that party last week. I like being direct, and from what I remember, you seem pretty cool. Any interest in going on a date this Friday evening? I was thinking dinner and [other activity you like]. What do you think?" If a girl wants to go on a date, simply using the term "date" will pull her interest. I use this for most women I meet and when it works, she gets really excited that I take such initiative. Boldness goes great lengths with women.
/r/seduction21/02/15 05:21 PM
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Don't get obliterated, you're hosting a party and you should keep a level head. Have some drinks, but don't go all out. Introduce yourself to everyone with strong eye contact. Introduce groups of people together. Be the person initiating the introductions and commanding social growth. As for meeting women, lightly flirt with all of the women you meet. Eye contact, little smile, witty comebacks, etc. Clean your room, and have something cool in there. Maybe a special bottle of some nice whiskey? I…
/r/seduction21/02/15 05:12 PM
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In addition to the posted tips, I recommend being just slightly more open about sexual topics. Don't push the topic, but casual jokes and not really caring what you say can make you seem much more sexual and chill about it.
/r/seduction19/02/15 11:24 PM
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Information should supplement practice. No one has ever become a professional football player by reading every book on football. On a related note, football players have improved their skills by reading and studying the sport.
/r/seduction16/02/15 06:02 PM
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Do exercise daily, or at least 5 times a week, even if for 20 minutes a day. Eat healthy. Avoid shit food. Veegtables and proper portions. Go into a hair cutting salon and have the haircutter do what they think will look best on you. Get a shorter haircut and see how you like it. I do this every single time and my haircut always has a slight variation to it. Shower daily, deodorant and a light cologne(not Axe) will help a lot Wear fitting clothing. Once again, ask staff to help you out. I always…
/r/seduction16/02/15 06:00 PM
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Sort the posts by top posts, within the last month or year. Read up on the big stuff and try to develop an understand of the community culture. All of your initial questions will be answered.
/r/seduction16/02/15 05:56 PM
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Two rules for texting: No Smiley's, hahas, lols or any of that shit. Use proper grammar like an adult. You can still be funny, you just don't need to tell them what you are saying is funny by putting an 'lol' after it. Same goes with a wink for sexually suggestive things. Text less. Get plans in motion, don't reveal much about yourself via text. The less she knows about you in the form of texting, the better. Build an emotional connection in person.
/r/seduction16/02/15 05:50 PM
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Sorry to say, but you need to hear it. You can't even tell the guy above to fuck off. You added some passive aggressive bullshit to express your opinion, but then try to manipulate it in a nice way so no one gives you shit for it. As for the woman, you simply stop talking to her, and if she asks what's up, tell her "Its pretty fucked up how you drop me for another date, then think you can start talking to me like I shouldn't be pissed. I think we're done here." Those. Exact. Words. Those words m…
/r/seduction16/02/15 05:44 PM
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My first seduction approach was at a bar where I simply asked a woman sitting alone on her phone if she would like some company. She kindly told me she was a waitress on break and preferred to text her boyfriend. I told her I understood, and that he must be a lucky man. She thanked me for the kind offer and said she respected how bold I was for approaching her. She walked up to the bartender and told him to give me the VIP discount on my drinks(you can pay a member fee of $45 at this bar and get…
/r/seduction16/02/15 05:35 PM
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Don't worry about spending time at the bar scene, go to day events. Those are fun!
/r/seduction16/02/15 05:23 PM
1

This. I rarely compliment the women I go on dates with, UNLESS it is an authentic compliment that I felt a strong warranted reason to express. My compliments are rare to women of romantic interest, and they keep trying to get me to say them.
/r/seduction16/02/15 10:44 AM
1

A little, yes. However, I can't just make a phone call in the middle of work. Texting has its place in society as a passive communication tool.
/r/seduction10/02/15 11:47 AM
1

It will be an update to a field report I've posted here. Check my post history for more details that led up to it
/r/seduction09/02/15 11:54 PM
13

Yes. Taking them both out to dinner, and we'll see where that goes.
/r/seduction09/02/15 11:36 PM
9

That's the point. I'll be asking them both together at the same time, same place.
/r/seduction09/02/15 11:11 PM
1

The problem is that I catch myself using it more and more, almost like the phrases become pieces of grammar. Ended a sentence? lol. Asking a question? Throw in a ;). I have friends who add that crap to EVERY SINGLE TEXT. I caught myself doing it as well. By removing those things from my text, my texts actually require writing skills to show emotion.
/r/seduction09/02/15 09:48 PM
1

I see your point, but I personally think if you can't convey thoughts and emotions without filler content, its not worth sending
/r/seduction09/02/15 09:03 PM
11

Ask two girls out at the same time. I'm doing that tomorrow.
/r/seduction09/02/15 08:34 PM
3

Not genius, just decent advice. Just don't deal with their shit. Its a "them" problem, not a "you" problem.
/r/seduction09/02/15 03:34 PM
1

Well, you have to be willing to risk the entire friendship for romance. Tell her how you feel, and if she just wants to be friends, tell her no thanks. This is the most reliable way to turn a friendship into a relationship. However, you're there as a friend for her, you're the nice guy. Do some research on how to not be the nice guy.
/r/seduction09/02/15 03:22 PM
11

You can go a lot of directions with it. Humor seems to be the best approach. If they complain about their makeup, brag about how you snuck out of bed an hour earlier and redid your makeup, or even direct the insecurity at something ridiculous, like "well the only thing I noticed is your hair looks like you just had some rough sex", or even in a flamboyant accent "honey if you saw what last winter did to my ass, you wouldn't be complaining" Divert the attention, don't try to fix it. Guys instincu…
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:51 PM
9

If she posts something relevant to you, start up a conversation. For example, a girl posted an article about sushi and how much she loves it, so I decided to ask her what the best sushi restaurant was in the area. Get her talking a bit, try to include relevant stories. Once you build a bit of a social comfort, you have two choices. You can go check it out and tell her how it went and hope the conversation goes somewhere from that, or you can go everything-or-nothing and say something along these…
/r/seduction09/02/15 02:45 PM
3

WHY
/r/seduction09/02/15 10:22 AM
1

Didn't actually happen due to them being busy. Asking them both to valentine's day dinner at the same time when I see them this Tuesday
/r/seduction07/02/15 12:32 AM
1

I give a goodnight text if I need to end a conversation. I rarely text "just because". Removes the mystery and keeps them from getting bored of my conversation
/r/seduction06/02/15 03:31 PM
15

You could explain that exact thing I'm 26 and live at home. Waiting to buy the house when parents move to retire. I've taken women home, I just say I moved back home from an apartment about a month ago in anticipation of taking over the house, instead of paying rent that could go towards a down payment of said house. Mature women understand it and usually don't care (they suggest we go to their place), others simply let it be a deal breaker, and I move on.
/r/seduction06/02/15 03:19 PM
22

Why is child support money taxed? Isn't it supposed to be for the interest of the child?
/r/MensRights31/01/15 12:33 PM
5

Absolutely
/r/seduction29/01/15 07:20 PM
1

Make them get off the fence. If they ignore you after 3 texts, I delete their number. Had a few unknown numbers text "hey what's up?" And asking who it was made them more determined to spend time with me.
/r/seduction29/01/15 03:16 PM
2

I did a Fri Sat Sun triple date a while back. After that I was so mentally worn out, I took a day of isolation, ignoring texts from these women. Only made them more eager for date #2
/r/seduction29/01/15 03:14 PM
2

Interesting. You take the girl's role when she isn't sure how she feels about a guy. You also set a hard limit that makes her question what's really going on.
/r/seduction29/01/15 03:01 PM
1

Honestly, I think a year is enough time. Don't want to get into bad territory.
/r/seduction29/01/15 02:58 PM
7

Give a waiting period before you give an answer. Makes it look like you're busy juggling social obligations
/r/seduction29/01/15 02:56 PM
7

Let's see how interesting she is
/r/seduction29/01/15 02:30 PM
1

Stand up comedians, study the humor in good TV shows. If you watched Dragonball z as a kid, go watch Dragonball z abridged(on YouTube), a lot of their humor is genius. Start on episode 40ish for their best stuff.
/r/seduction29/01/15 11:35 AM
8

Hey "girls name", not sure how to explain this so I'll just be upfront. I really clicked with a girl recently and we're trying an exclusive relationship. Had a lot of fun with you, hope you find what you're looking for.
/r/seduction29/01/15 11:30 AM
3

These two suggestions have already been posted but those are the ones I take: Reject her friendship. "I appreciate the offer of friendship, but I'd rather not be" Be her friend, meet her friends. I only suggest this if she's a quality girl and has hobbies that include quality women.
/r/seduction27/01/15 07:20 PM
1

Replace bisexual with black or Indian and see how ridiculous it sounds. Treat her no differently than anyone else
/r/seduction26/01/15 06:55 PM
1

Cockiness craves attention. Confidence does not. Do things for you and not to impress.
/r/seduction26/01/15 06:51 PM
1

Awesome work. My suggestion is to continue the conversion in a friendly way. You won't get the number, but you meet a new person no matter what.
/r/seduction26/01/15 06:48 PM
1

Drive yourself over the edge and just do it. It's a crazy awesome feeling the first time it works
/r/seduction26/01/15 06:44 PM
2

First time single on vday in 12 years. I'm doing whatever the fuck I want. No women this year
/r/seduction26/01/15 06:43 PM
3

Take a day of rest. Just don't let it become a recurring habit too often
/r/seduction26/01/15 06:24 PM
1

Did almost the same thing. Got the same results. Love that technique
/r/seduction26/01/15 06:20 PM
2

Have Mario kart ready
/r/seduction24/01/15 10:32 PM
2

I make it interesting. Go do something crazy. Drive the country, buy something cool that will make you interesting(I bought rock climbing gear and went every day for a week over the summer), make new friends, do a victory lap(talk to women you used to talk to but don't anymore)
/r/seduction23/01/15 09:55 PM
1

Talk about other women, see how it changes her position. A buddy had a girl that was friend zoned by a girl who was hanging out with us, so I made up a story how a hot waitress was flirting with him last week at a bar, and this girl's entire personality changed around him. She was flirty and kept trying to get his validation. I texted him to chill out and not play into her attention seeking. It didn't work out in the end because he reverted to "friend material" later that night, but for several …
/r/seduction23/01/15 04:36 PM
1

I love you. Thank you. A quick Google just gave the perfect setup.
/r/seduction23/01/15 11:09 AM
2

My buddy calls me the shitty romantic gambler, because I always take the highest possible reward no matter what the odds. I'm going for something with both of them, betting on 00 in roulette.
/r/seduction23/01/15 11:05 AM
5

This hike has a lot of tough climbing. Lots of hand holding and helping them up. Probably gonna do the butt push if a situation calls.
/r/seduction22/01/15 11:27 PM
2

I like to lead the group a bit, make everyone laugh, introduce people to new people, etc.
/r/seduction22/01/15 08:21 PM
6

Absolutely. Hiking should provide for some fun conversation.
/r/seduction22/01/15 08:17 PM
3

Kinesthetic is touch. Using touch to build attraction such as hand around a girl's waist, or pressing legs against each other while sitting
/r/seduction22/01/15 07:45 PM
1

I started slowly adopting traits I wish I had.
/r/seduction22/01/15 04:32 PM
2

Got in shape Stopped chickening out in doing activities. I went winter hiking last week, getting up at 6am on a day off from work. Usually I spend the entire morning in bed online. Limited engagement with social media, now people are very receptive when I post because its rare. I used to dump my entire personality on Facebook, making me very predictable Pursued a passion of line dancing, its a lot of fun for me. I now go twice a week instead of once, health benefits are obvious Took risks, big o…
/r/seduction22/01/15 04:04 PM
1

I used it as a stepping stone to "get into the game" but quickly realized that it was an inefficient use of my time. I balled up and started approaching women everywhere I go instead. Much better way in my opinion.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:53 PM
1

This. I initiate a dinner date only if I'm comfortable with putting my hand across the table to hold hers.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:46 PM
1

OP doesn't have the confidence to exceed the finish line. He probably is envisioning failure and doesn't push forward. As the guy, you often will need to confidently initiate everything.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:42 PM
1

Ya know what? It does matter. I'm not crazy handsome, but I've landed some gorgeous women beyond my "league". Women don't care as much about looks as we do about them. They still care, just not as much. A lot of their focus is their own looks. Consider life though, no one has every good card dealt to them, and if they do, their personality rarely thrives in such a situation. I think having a lack of looks is probably one of the best "bad cards" thrown at them. You get to figure out how people wo…
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:40 PM
3

Just coughed up my drink. Bravo to you good sir.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:34 PM
1

Fucking love that movie, and its quirky enough to make you stand out in movie taste.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:33 PM
3

Thinking that you'll get results inside of your comfort zone, that by reading more and more, you can stall approaching women until it "clicks",. Apply theory as you learn it. Don't wait until you finish that book. Do something a little unnerving every day.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:32 PM
6

Are you ballsy enough to say "hey I think you're interesting, I'd like to take you out on a date this weekend. How's Saturday for dinner?"
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:27 PM
10

Smart women like to be told they're beautiful, beautiful women like to be told they're smart. Challenge her intelligence. Challenge her to step up the mental side of her game. People like things that they need to work for. If you're qualifying her for just her looks, she might qualify you for a superficial aspect as well.
/r/seduction22/01/15 03:24 PM
0

You could use the excuse that your landlord was dick and you moved back home for the time being, and you're currently apartment hunting. Explain how everything is still in boxes or something like that.
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:26 PM
2

Forcefully applying the skills here is a setup for disaster. You have all the knowledge is the world to succeed in seduction, you just gotta play with said tools enough until you know how they were intended to work Don't jump deep into the first success, and don't assume you can do it again by repeating those exact steps
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:24 PM
1

Ask her
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:21 PM
2

I'm really shy and I'm afraid of coming off as weird for talking to someone I don't know. Yeah, well you're nothing to the person if you don't talk to them. If rather be weird than nothing to somebody.
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:20 PM
2

I'm still at home at 26. I don't let it really bother me. I speak pridefully about how I'm saving rent money and working on being debt free before committing to more expenses. The women who are in crazy debt and are struggling financially to be responsible and have fun seem to really be attracted to me because of it. You just can't let it bother you.
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:19 PM
1

More women
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:16 PM
1

Brushes her breasts against you Long eye contact pushing for awkwardness Lots of touching Licks her lips with eye contact Stares at your mouth
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:15 PM
2

You're in a safe environment, you understand social norms online, you can just stop responding, and you've been doing it for a while.
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:13 PM
1

Thanks, I am too. Deleted her from Facebook so let's see where that goes.
/r/seduction18/01/15 10:28 PM
2

That works well it seems. I recently had a girl friend zone me. We had a date planned and it got pushed forward a week. When planning the details she said she just wasn't interested in dating, just being friends. I told her "yeah I'm not really interested in being friends with you to be honest. I was pursuing you romantically. If its not a date then let's just cancel it altogether". She said that's fine but texted me back a couple times later and I ignored it. I'm interested to see where it goes
/r/seduction18/01/15 09:07 PM
2

And permit them to make it a surprise within the next week
/r/seduction16/01/15 03:33 PM
1

You fell into a safe environment where you could be yourself without judgment.
/r/seduction15/01/15 03:34 PM
1

Eliminate is a bad mentality. When I order food, ask questions to others while with my date, etc, I always use polite words. Reducing in certain situations will work effectively to reduce the appearance of neediness
/r/seduction15/01/15 03:31 PM
1

"Sorry you're having a bad day" and walk off. No one is going to sue you for harassment for trying to talk to them
/r/seduction14/01/15 11:37 AM
8

When was the last time you got pissed when someone approached you in broad daylight just because they thought you were interesting? Oh wait, that rarely happens. And if it did, you'd be pretty damn happy someone did. Might even make your day. Start making other people's days.
/r/seduction13/01/15 01:02 AM
3

I tease women by trying to break outside of their expectations of social limits. How much of a jerk can I act like, in order to shock her, without killing attraction. For example, I'm talking to a girl, get her number and text her, she checks to make sure it went through. I'll say "oh you're an iPhone user? Deal breaker!" And walk away, only to turn around once I know that she's fully processed what happened as her jaw dropped. I usually discuss my knowledge in computer science so that kind of c…
/r/seduction13/01/15 12:59 AM
1

Good work. You encouraged her to make a decision that wasn't for your own personal gain, you were outcome independent, and you showed her a great time.
/r/seduction10/01/15 06:19 PM
1

So many of my women friends express that they just want a guy to approach them
/r/seduction10/01/15 06:12 PM
1

Jokes, telling some good stories, ask each person what they're passionate about, ask how they're all friends, etc
/r/seduction09/01/15 07:36 PM
1

In hindsight, I find what you said is a more effective path to take. However, if you struggle with this kind of stuff initially, use my suggestions.
/r/seduction09/01/15 07:35 PM
1

Boting women will drag you down to their level of inactivity. If all she can offer is sex, prepare to marathon Netflix every weekend
/r/seduction09/01/15 03:34 PM
1

I use social media very rarely. Facebook posts are like one every few weeks. If you use it as a landing point to introduce a bit of a mystery, you are seen much more attractive.
/r/seduction09/01/15 03:32 PM
1

Consider this
/r/seduction09/01/15 03:24 PM
1

She would have asked for another time if she was really interested. I'm usually dismissive when they don't try to explain or reschedule. A response like that would warrant "damn, that's my only free time for a few weeks. That sucks" and not initiate anything else.
/r/seduction09/01/15 03:15 PM
1

Wingman. Have a wingman with you. Appear to be celebrating something. Be fun, be friendly to everyone. Engage entire groups and don't push one girl out of the group. Try to connect with all of them, and find them on Facebook. Later that night or the next day, exchange a few pleasantries with one of the girls. Tell her she was the reason you originally approached the group, and tell her you'd really like to get to know her.
/r/seduction09/01/15 03:11 PM
1

I get a lot more attention when rocking a beard. Keep it neat and trimmed. Embrace beard culture!
/r/seduction09/01/15 03:08 PM
0

Hold your composure. Tell her she should avoid dry things while she has bronchitis and drink plenty of liquid. Or, call her out on that. "You're a big girl, you don't need someone to baby you over it" Or just ignore it and converse as usual.
/r/seduction09/01/15 03:06 PM
3

I bring them all to the same restaurant for dinner. Staff knows me well, they know I tip well so they keep the experience beyond excellent. One waitress, who's sister is one of my lifelong friends, asks us if we're on a date, notes how cute we are after hearing its the first date, and brings out complimentary mini appetizers, "compliments of the restaurant to the two on their first date". This gets her a 30% tip every time and she knows it. Its a cute little cafe with cheap meals. The environmen…
/r/seduction08/01/15 09:20 PM
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Exactly. It's especially great when you were a gentleman to the girl, and she talks you up to her friends, and its even more valuable when the first girl starts to gain attraction to you after she has denied you, because she competes for attention, but then the newly introduced women see that, and they see you as high value, thus making them attracted to you. It's a great feedback loop.
/r/seduction08/01/15 09:14 PM
1

I try to not talk to just one girl at a time. It makes it difficult to get oneitis if another girl is entertaining another conversation. If one moves out of rotation I quickly try to bring someone into conversation
/r/seduction08/01/15 04:01 PM
3

This coincides with my policy of never allowing attraction to occur with a woman who has denied me romantically. I'll still be friends if she says no, but I never consider her a romantic interest again. Did it to two female friends. One is now into me and I don't find her attractive at all.
/r/seduction08/01/15 03:59 PM
2

In my opinion, you did pretty good. You were very by-the-books from how you described it, which is fine. Get more experience and see if you can start to differentiate between what worked on a girl duebto her personality, and what would have worked on most girls. Micro and macro application of seduction skills is a tough thing to pull off.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:57 PM
1

I've responded to that exact phase with "me neither, just trying to take you on a date" relationships are way too much work. 2/3 times she was suddenly available for a date
/r/seduction07/01/15 03:33 PM
1

Is hard to do. I still do it all the time. I keep recalling previous women where I had oneitis for them and realize that I don't really think about them anymore, and how I'm okay without them. Also, talk to multiple women at a time. That way you don't get hung up on one girl's responses
/r/seduction07/01/15 03:30 PM
2

You accomplished gathering experience. You need to test among multiple women to see what works the majority of the time. Excellent work.
/r/seduction07/01/15 02:59 PM
5

I've opted out by not posting much in the past three months. When I do post, more women seem to be responsive. Gotta keep a mystery to you. It shows if Rick climbing and motorcycle adventures, but not much more.
/r/seduction06/01/15 03:29 PM
1

Or they can ignore your texts, or string you along. If a woman is interested, she will text you.
/r/seduction06/01/15 03:00 PM
1

At least giving your number shows the confidence that its on her to initiate. Easy way to filter out girls not interested. Less time wasted on flakes.
/r/seduction05/01/15 09:02 PM
1

But if she's not interested, getting her number just leads to ignored texts.
/r/seduction05/01/15 04:09 PM
2

Yes. Go on a date. Its an experience worth doing. Worst case scenario you make a friend. Also, when that awesome girl you want to date comes along, you know how to take a girl on a date.
/r/seduction05/01/15 03:34 PM
2

Small number of friends limits potential interactions. Diversify by joining hobbies. Learn to dance, you will get a lot of friends fast. I recommend trying something simple like line dancing.
/r/seduction05/01/15 03:32 PM
2

Find new hobbies and passions and be good at them. Get self validation by completing challenges. Eventually, compliments or reception from women becomes equally as validating as from men, and you've done so much cool stuff, it doesn't really phase you.
/r/seduction05/01/15 03:31 PM
1

I see the topics as fixing an imbalance. Too much oneitis or not carrying at all about women are both equally bad. Use seduction to fix imbalances, not hop to the other side of the spectrum.
/r/seduction05/01/15 03:28 PM
2

Maybe a little too wordy for me, but I like that general idea. It conveys the fact that you're not just spending time with her to fulfill your needs.
/r/seduction05/01/15 03:25 PM
1

Maybe turn the tables on them and give them your number? Claim your phone is dead.
/r/seduction05/01/15 03:23 PM
17

You overcame approach anxiety. You also kept your cool. Good work. Suggested improvements would have been to still introduce yourself and say you saw her around here a few times and wanted to introduce yourself. No shame in making a friend out of her. She would probably be able to introduce you to similar-minded women. If you see her again, go for the introduction and a number. Worst case scenario she says no.
/r/seduction05/01/15 03:22 PM
11

That would lead to people accusing capitalism as a sexist concept.
/r/MensRights28/12/14 05:49 PM
1

Yes, this is what I'm trying to get across through an analogy!
/r/seduction26/12/14 12:52 AM
1

Maybe you misunderstood something for way too long. For example, read through some of these stories It needs to be something funny but not gross or that would turn her off.
/r/seduction25/12/14 11:28 PM
4

Make her laugh a little, maybe make yourself vulnerable with a funny story(make sure its an attractive story!)
/r/seduction25/12/14 08:34 PM
1

That title was a little redundant, no? "Three ways to use a hammer to hit a nail into wood" is a similar redundancy.
/r/seduction25/12/14 03:17 PM
1

These types of women are on their phones all the time. They know how long to wait before responding or else the conversation gets boring/stale/needy with guys. They respond because they de-prioritize your texts until they run out of good conversation with the others, then come back to talking to you because they know you'll always be around. Try responding with "sorry, deleted my texts, what did I send you?" and see how they respond. It's worth a try. Also, with these women, make bold moves sinc…
/r/seduction25/12/14 03:14 PM
1

Create demand by not seeing each other all time time and also keeping some hobbies sperate. Always be growing in skills. Don't get into routine, don't get lazy.
/r/seduction25/12/14 03:42 AM
1

Almost a year. Initially I joined this subreddit to find ways to enhance attraction from my gf at the time. I saw we were getting into a routine and saw that others were talking about how seduction doesn't end when you get into a relationship. That ended, so I've been studying the community a little closer, and using it to my advantage.
/r/seduction25/12/14 03:38 AM
1

Two paths. One would be to ignore him, the other would be to use him to your advantage; bring it up with her and let him keep digging himself deeper and deeper, while you make fun of him for it and playfully ask to text him funny things. I did the second path with a girl jokingly(was in a relationship at the time) but you could tell she liked me taking charge and texting him that I she was a little busy with me right now.
/r/seduction25/12/14 01:53 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction23/12/14 06:57 PM
1

Mediocre at best. You're still avoiding the direct social contact.
/r/seduction23/12/14 06:39 PM
2

Wait for her to return? Fuck no. Keep living your life. Don't stop doing what you're doing because you might be able to reconnect with her when she returns. She's gonna have the time of her life overseas
/r/seduction23/12/14 03:34 PM
1

I agree with this 100%. Some women will like it, some women won't.
/r/seduction23/12/14 03:26 PM
1

Yeah, he is. Probably has a lot to do with it
/r/seduction23/12/14 01:24 AM
1

Nice. Now get addicted to that feedback and have fun!
/r/seduction22/12/14 10:36 PM
2

Dance solo for a little bit, search for eye contact. Once you get it, hold it. Then approach her. If she notices you, put your hand out. If she doesn't notice you, introduce yourself and ask her to dance.
/r/seduction22/12/14 10:34 PM
1

I have not, but next time I encounter a flirty waitress, I'll do it.
/r/seduction22/12/14 03:59 PM
9

Only ask questions you would be comfortable asking yourself. I usually ask these kinds of questions and great results. They truly make a connection with people.
/r/seduction22/12/14 03:12 PM
0

"It's cool, you can make it up to me next time;)"
/r/seduction22/12/14 03:27 AM
3

Women are the best wingmen. Two women that weren't interested in ended up winging me quite successfully.
/r/seduction22/12/14 03:25 AM
4

You could leave her a note: "either you're super flirty for a kickass tip or my number. Here's both"
/r/seduction22/12/14 03:23 AM
11

He doesn't give a shit about women at all, and I'm slowly adopting his mentality. He rock climbs and camps like a madman. He can't keep the women away from him. Its crazy. Edit: to clarify, he's not an asshole, but he doesn't give a shit about success with women. Just wanted to clarify.
/r/seduction22/12/14 03:19 AM
1

Often, you want to find things you can be passionate about. I'm a huge tech nerd, self taught in lock picking, play a card game competitively, travel via motorcycle, line dance, cook, hike/camp, and started rock climbing. Its not that these particular things are a universal formula, but women who find these things interesting will find me interesting, and therefore more attractive to them. Find things that interest YOU. Don't pursue things that you think interest women.
/r/seduction22/12/14 03:17 AM
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What she's passionate about What dream job she would like to have What skill or thing she wants to learn about The wildest night of her life Best experience with a best friend Favorite place in the world New years resolution What type of TV she watches and why What guilty pleasure she has
/r/seduction22/12/14 03:11 AM
1

The hail Mary is "hey I had a lot of fun meeting you, but I'm pretty sure its not gonna work out. Best of luck!" I sent this to a girl, she miraculously starts texting me again
/r/seduction21/12/14 03:58 PM
2

Engage the entire family. Make them laugh, show value, get mom and dad to like you. Be buddies with a siblings. At the end of it, say something along the lines of "I hope this isn't too direct, and I don't want to interfere with family time, but I'd really like to give you my number so I can take you out to dinner some time" and smile authentically.
/r/seduction21/12/14 03:07 PM
1

Body language is very powerful. A little trick I used to use to build confidence and posture was to pretend two people just tried to mug me and I Jackie Chan'd them, and am keeping my composure and walking into the place as if nothing happened.
/r/seduction21/12/14 02:54 PM
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I make strong eye contact with people and neg that constantly. I've never had anyone be insulted or hurt by me. I've been told that my jokes are a little mean, and I've played them off as jokes, which brings them into a calm mindset. Confidence directs people how to react to your actions. Lead with it.
/r/seduction21/12/14 02:48 PM
1

Now you got me thinking...
/r/seduction21/12/14 02:19 PM
1

Overweight, smoking, excessive makeup(screams fakeness)
/r/seduction21/12/14 02:18 PM
1

Constant reflection and self-honesty.
/r/seduction20/12/14 06:42 PM
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Yes you overdid it. I'm predicting your mentality: if you buy her tons of nice things, she might decide to have sex with you. This is a bad mindset. Now you look at it and wonder if it will get you laid, and you want to add more to the pot to sweeten the deal. Its a feedback loop in your mind. I think what you got her is plenty. No dinner necessary, unless you make enough to seriously afford it. But if that were the case, you'd have your own apartment right now.
/r/seduction20/12/14 06:42 PM
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Definitely allow, as it gave insight as to social dominance and confidence. Edit: and also, thanks for asking the community to give input.
/r/seduction20/12/14 04:47 PM
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If getting a woman's number is the highlight of your week, you need to find things that water that event down. You think this girl is excited that she gave her number to a guy? No she is not. She will be excited to give her number to a guy that made her feel awesome and is opening opportunities. A female friend was telling me how she was excited to give me her number because I do interesting things. She saw a return on her investment. She gives number, she gets adventure and I make her laugh. If…
/r/seduction17/12/14 03:23 PM
2

Are you happy with how you stand with women? Is it healthy? Is it allowing you to still be yourself and do what interests you? If yes to all three, you are successful
/r/seduction17/12/14 03:10 PM
1

I won't just upfront tell her, but I was considering dropping casual hints
/r/seduction17/12/14 12:36 AM
2

I have accepted there is that risk, and I can pretty much do what I want. I'm just looking to discuss it, hear what others think, and make a decision from there. Thank you for your advice, it is definitely exposing me to the logical side of it.
/r/seduction16/12/14 11:18 PM
2

Basically, doing whatever I want without being irresponsible.
/r/seduction16/12/14 10:19 PM
1

You don't buy her things to get her to like you, this is a situation where she gets things and you get to be the doormat. You need to stop treating her to things and either treat her as a friend, or stop seeing her. She's probably wondering why she isn't getting her gifts and your attention by leading you on.
/r/seduction16/12/14 10:17 PM
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Watch a lot of sarcastic standup comedians. Learn to love entertainment that is strictly humor. You will eventually start to see it everywhere, and thrive from the reactions of people. I love making people laugh, I try to do it every day. It makes me feel accomplished and it builds bonds with people.
/r/seduction16/12/14 10:14 PM
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The kino is what makes things super successful in my opinion. That subtle touch on the shoulder tends to build massive attraction, or at least a lowering of their guard for more flirty conversation. Stealth kino is also awesome.
/r/seduction16/12/14 10:12 PM
1

That I agree with. However, would it be a good idea to wait until things appear to be going in that direction?
/r/seduction16/12/14 10:08 PM
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Ya know what? Most people here are pretty chill and give solid advice. I say put a small disclaimer at the top and go through with posting it. It almost sounds like AA, but as a Reddit post. We're cool here, give us a disclaimer, and we will most likely try to explain why it was a poor choice to post, give great advice that could help fix a mindset, or it might be an awesome post and it will help people out. Never be afraid to fail. Never feel shameful of posting what's on your mind. I just post…
/r/seduction16/12/14 10:07 PM
2

This. A lot of purple use Tinder for an ego boost as well
/r/seduction16/12/14 04:51 PM
1

Get her to say that to you, then suggest being friends because you're not going to waste time and effort on someone who doesn't know how they feel. That's the best way to see if she has any attraction to you.
/r/seduction16/12/14 03:02 PM
2

Don't focus on getting laid. Make some women friends, they will introduce you to friends. If every woman you meet sees you trying to get laid, you'll quickly build a bad reputation.
/r/seduction09/12/14 12:37 AM
1

Rock climbing. You're scared shitless, have no idea what to do at first, and then you succeed. It feels great and you cannot wait to improve.
/r/seduction08/12/14 07:56 PM
1

There's a TV show called Black Mirror, its on Netflix. The episode you should watch is "fifteen million merits", it gives a disturbing twist on this post's ideas.
/r/seduction08/12/14 07:53 PM
1

I go to line dancing. Like shooting fish in a barrel
/r/seduction08/12/14 05:39 PM
1

Try it out, but don't push hard on hookups. Develop friendships and relationships slowly or else you'll get a bad reputation on campus
/r/seduction08/12/14 03:33 PM
2

Sparking curiosity helps a lot. "Hey, I have a serious question" "What?" "What's your favorite type of pizza and why is it chicken bacon ranch?"
/r/seduction08/12/14 03:22 PM
1

Well, you play it off jokingly, and if she actually needs the answer, she can stop and ask it more seriously.
/r/seduction07/12/14 01:56 PM
1

It's cool dude. You can let an experience hurt you. Try every day to overcome it and you eventually will. Consider that time spent as a happy time, and move onto the next big adventure. If you did it once, you can do it again
/r/seduction05/12/14 03:22 PM
1

Haha ruining a friendship to sleep with a girl?
/r/seduction04/12/14 02:04 AM
1

Leave it. If she responds, great. If not, text her next time you would normally send her something, text as if you forgot she didn't respond. If after that she stops responding, delete her number.
/r/seduction04/12/14 01:55 AM
2

If people won't give you appreciation, don't do them favors that would merit appreciation from them.
/r/seduction04/12/14 01:52 AM
2

Line dancer here, holy shit there are so many reasons you need to learn the dances. First off, there are usually hot women there. Do not go after them immediately. Befriend them. Make them your actual friends. Don't immediately introduce yourself as a predator; they will see it and they will think you're doing this just to get laid. Be the gentleman, the cool guy. They will bring hot single friends with them to line dancing on occasion, and they will also introduce you to quality women who have …
/r/seduction04/12/14 01:50 AM
2

Grown up table was 1 seat shy so I volunteered to eat at the kids table. Why the hell did I ever leave? Actually happened and I've gotten some good reactions from it.
/r/seduction02/12/14 01:52 AM
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If they don't interact the way you expect them to, don't interact with them. I had a coworker who would have me fix her laptop. First time I did it, didn't get a thanks or anything. Second time she asks me to fix it and I tell her I'm too busy with other jobs on my priority list, she asks why I can't help her right away. I told her "ya know what, I'll be honest. You haven't thanked me, and these people bring a small token of appreciation, even a cup of coffee will suffice to show thanks. These p…
/r/seduction01/12/14 03:32 PM
1

Keep it available for viral communication. Just because you have it, it doesn't mean you need to use it every waking moment
/r/seduction01/12/14 03:25 PM
1

Not worth the risk for me. Imagine a lawyer in court asking you to recall how many times she said no... I like to introduce the idea of gag handcuffs, let her out them on me. No talking your way out of that one.
/r/seduction01/12/14 03:20 PM
1

You turn it on her. If she acts like that, tell her there's no reason to be rude, nothing how you had the courtesy to politely introduce yourself and she couldn't withhold that disgusting attitude. Then walk away.
/r/seduction01/12/14 03:16 PM
1

Water down the details. If she is interested she will ask for more. Tell her you changed your diet and you love it, you're looking to relocate to see more of the world, and you're taking a long shot at a life dream. Give the emotions, not the details
/r/seduction01/12/14 03:10 PM
1

Been there done that. If you're afraid of it happening again, try to keep a universal comeback in the back of your head.
/r/seduction30/11/14 04:00 PM
1

Then why did you post this thread
/r/seduction30/11/14 02:02 AM
2

You may have already lost it, you just need to confirm whether you have her interest or not.
/r/seduction30/11/14 12:31 AM
1

I do something similar. I list my hobbies, they eventually ask me what I do for a job and I discuss how jobs are cool but that's not what should define a person.
/r/seduction30/11/14 12:25 AM
1

I would think it makes a lot of sense
/r/seduction27/11/14 07:05 PM
2

Communicate. Note how it's really hard to know and respect someone if they're being fake around you. Almost feels like a shit test.
/r/seduction27/11/14 12:45 PM
1

I always pay for the first date since I'm asking the girl out. However, the only way I usually entertain a second date is if she offers to split it or covers something during the day.
/r/seduction27/11/14 12:43 PM
1

When I start to calm down on drinking for the night to rehydrate and avoid hangover, the smoothness comes back. Perfect close time and all of a sudden you start turning into this really seductive guy as the woman shows more and more interest in you. It develops a feedback loop and the best part is you remember how the night ends.
/r/seduction27/11/14 12:39 PM
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Go learn some sort of dance. Doesn't matter what, just learn something. Line dancing has taught me a lot of cool moves and rhythm. Also, the ladies there are top quality, and as my friend puts it, is like shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction25/11/14 11:59 PM
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You having her should not be the most exciting thing in your life right now. Be busy every once in a while, find new hobbies.
/r/seduction25/11/14 11:58 PM
2

Yeah definitely. I no longer have outcome dependence on people in social situations because I now go make friends with other people if my friends don't want to try something. I've also been a lot more focused on myself instead of others(in a good way)
/r/seduction25/11/14 11:54 PM
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Very much so. It's honestly a bad idea. If you fuck up at a bar, you stay clear of there for a week. If you fuck up at work, that's not fun, especially with HR
/r/seduction24/11/14 03:32 PM
2

I enjoy the feeling of getting rejected. It puts everything at peace and gives me a 100% perspective as to how she feels.
/r/seduction24/11/14 03:30 PM
1

Make it up to her with a second date?
/r/seduction24/11/14 03:23 PM
1

She should
/r/seduction23/11/14 12:45 PM
1

When it's your idea, she can say yes or no. When it's her idea, you can only say yes.
/r/seduction22/11/14 10:53 PM
1

Well said. I escalate sexually with jokes, and then dangling a mystery for them to sit on. I introduced a joke about handcuffs in bed, joking that I always have a pair on my nightstand. One girl tried calling that out as bullshit, and I proved her wrong. We didn't end up using them but it was a great way to spark curiosity and get her to come back with me.
/r/seduction22/11/14 04:31 PM
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She flaked without an effort to reschedule, or even an apology. By accepting her shit excuse and allowing for another opportunity, you become the backup plan if she feels lonely. You have put her on a pedestal, and she can do no wrong in your eyes. Move on.
/r/seduction22/11/14 04:26 PM
1

Once you escalate sexually a bit and get interest, you can tease her about it. "So, do the twins have this effect on guys every time?"
/r/seduction22/11/14 04:22 PM
1

You're backpacking and probably will never meet these women again. Who cares if you disappoint?
/r/seduction22/11/14 04:19 PM
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Communication after a few drinks, also helps if you can get the adrenaline going. Go to a concert, get a little drunk, when you get home, comment that a girl was eyeing her up and you were gonna let her know, but it was entertaining to watch. Get the idea in her mind, joke how you both should have taken her home. If she welcomes the idea of it, she will welcome the idea of it later as well. Be sure to cleverly plan times to bring it up. Alcohol is a powerful tool. Finding the girl is more diffic…
/r/seduction22/11/14 04:14 PM
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Find other women, have fun while the uninterested girls are watching. The women who give the shoulder will regret not being that girl, especially if you start dancing with other women.
/r/seduction22/11/14 04:05 PM
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Dude, there was a really awesome, top quality girl that I liked for way too long. When I finally got the courage to ask her out, she had just started seeing someone. I missed the boat to get to know this girl romantically. Don't make the same mistake. I know about oneitis and stuff, but every once in a while there's a really cool, rare girl that you wish you got to know beyond a friend. Make a fucking move.
/r/seduction22/11/14 04:00 PM
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11 mistakes, 11 lessons.
/r/seduction22/11/14 03:56 PM
1

This. I line dance every week. Shooting fish in a barrel.
/r/seduction22/11/14 03:53 PM
1

My friends used to joke at me for crashing and burning in front of women. Now that I have some impressive success, they don't say shit.
/r/seduction21/11/14 03:19 PM
1

Calling myself an asshole has worked out a few times
/r/seduction21/11/14 03:16 PM
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Looks like her job is to introduce you to her single friends
/r/seduction20/11/14 09:54 PM
3

I go out with women to have fun; not to prove a point or any of that shit.
/r/seduction20/11/14 09:54 PM
1

Major, dream job, weekend activities, home culture
/r/seduction20/11/14 09:48 PM
2

You do it once in the beginning. Then you start teasing, making her question if she's doing something unattractive
/r/seduction20/11/14 03:35 PM
1

You tell them if they ask. Be an open book, not a megaphone. That information is delivered only when requested
/r/seduction20/11/14 03:33 PM
1

You can gage her interest by telling her you'll have some weird stitches and it'll look weird, see if she agrees to reschedule or simply won't care about the stitches
/r/seduction20/11/14 03:32 PM
1

I like to ask about their worst date, joking about this one being in the top 5
/r/seduction20/11/14 03:27 PM
2

Go skiing. Snow bunnies.
/r/seduction19/11/14 09:55 PM
1

The problem with that is you think the one way ticket is what you don't have. If you became super attractive, you'd be saying it's all about being rich, if you were rich, you'd say it's all about personality, etc. Stop making excuses, play the hand you're dealt and you'll win some games
/r/seduction17/11/14 03:23 PM
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It can help you maintain romance, just be sure after reading advice to assure yourself you are with one girl and not everything applies to that. I've been on seduction for a year or so, been single for 6 months.
/r/seduction17/11/14 03:20 PM
1

Did you know that THAT girl is part of ANYONE?
/r/seduction17/11/14 03:09 PM
1

Your friends are more important than some girl
/r/seduction16/11/14 06:06 PM
2

I'm only giving you that look because you're picturing me naked. Or No, I was looking at the hot blonde behind you, think you can be my wingwoman?
/r/seduction16/11/14 06:05 PM
1

Be comfortable, chill, and don't let people observe the tension between you two. I hooked up with a friend, and at the next happy hour I gave her a hug like every other girl. Nothing changed, but I did get a text from her the day after initiating conversation.
/r/seduction16/11/14 05:39 PM
2

Read Models.
/r/seduction16/11/14 12:49 PM
1

Up the comedy by taking a video where you remain perfectly still and they keep smiling more awkwardly. It's fucking hilarious.
/r/seduction16/11/14 12:43 PM
9

I've done this before too. Great way to be fun, approach girls, compliment them, and initiate kino.
/r/seduction16/11/14 12:42 PM
2

Option 2 might have gotten him a book deal, being such a controversial person helping make advances in science...
/r/MensRights16/11/14 12:32 PM
14

Ya know what, she might be beautiful, but I'm not attracted to her. Simple as that.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 12:32 PM
2

Everyone is either a friend or a pathway to a friend in my book. No enemies, no people that I avoid.
/r/seduction14/11/14 03:29 PM
2

Start slow. High fives are always good, if you know someone well, a hand on on the shoulder if appropriate works well. When navigating through crowds, guide a person by gently encouraging pressure on their arm in a direction. Work your way to comfort. Don't make it seem like you are intentionally touching someone like a sequenced procedure. It has to feel natural.
/r/seduction13/11/14 08:57 PM
3

Touch is surprisingly effective at building attravtion, even in a friendly way. Try it out
/r/seduction13/11/14 08:42 PM
1

Flirt with women until a girl gives you a reason not to (if looking for a relationship )
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:30 PM
1

where can I meet women Anywhere
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:19 PM
3

Using physical touch (respectfully) to build attraction
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:17 PM
1

Anyone can give a good conversation
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:16 PM
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Your efforts should match theirs after initial interaction
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:14 PM
1

If she's interested, she'll reschedule. Otherwise, go do things that are fun. Don't base your worth around the possibility of her being available. Go do fun stuff, update tinder, post fun pictures, she'll notice.
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:13 PM
2

I need an active girl. Healthiness is important. In addition, she needs to be able to talk about cool things, have some awesome stories and adventures, and pursue what she wants.
/r/seduction13/11/14 03:11 PM
8

I do. I like having a relationship. I'm using seduction to find the right girl, and not to settle for something less than I want in life.
/r/seduction12/11/14 02:59 PM
3

"I can prove I'm not a player by taking you out on a date without the intention of sleeping with you" You'll probably end up sleeping with her
/r/seduction10/11/14 03:15 PM
1

To learn more about people, experience a new community culture, try new things, meet awesome women, and keep myself entertained as I'm getting less interested in getting sloppy drunk at the bars.
/r/seduction10/11/14 03:13 PM
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Seems like you earned that. Be safe, wear protection, you're probably not the first one she's done this to
/r/seduction10/11/14 03:08 PM
1

You do something so groundbreaking it out classes the other guys, or you just be above it and go after different girls
/r/seduction10/11/14 01:56 AM
2

Try to find places that cater to beginners. Line dancing is a big thing in the US. It is very beginner friendly. Just kindly step aside for more complicated dances until you learn more. Lessons are also great.
/r/seduction06/11/14 08:02 PM
2

Canceled plans deserve a reason and an apology. Ignore her indefinitely. If she reaches out to you, be careful, she might want to go through this whole cycle again
/r/seduction06/11/14 03:22 PM
1

I do. I asked a girl on a date in front of another girl who wasn't interested Indialantic, but then she became more receptiveto my flirting. Try to "show off" while you know another girl is watching
/r/seduction06/11/14 03:05 PM
4

Dancing is a great place to meet quality people. They're active, found an activity they like, and know how to have fun. I go line dancing and have met so many cool women there. Got a few great dates too.
/r/seduction06/11/14 03:02 PM
1

I do, it clearly sets the intentions
/r/seduction05/11/14 08:53 PM
2

Let the reputation exist, but deny most women. Let that reputation exist as well. Women love what they can't have
/r/seduction05/11/14 03:35 PM
2

Something that you can get involved with where you play games against other people. You could play competitive tennis, or embrace a logical game like magic the gathering.
/r/seduction04/11/14 10:48 PM
1

Maybe turn gym time into a physical activity? Rock climbing can be a lot of fun, and a great workout. Maybe get into some competitive hobbies as well?
/r/seduction04/11/14 08:49 PM
2

If the only thing going through your mind is the idea of succeeding with this girl romantically, physically or emotionally, it's obvious. Make it about fun, without caring what the end result is. Whatever happens, happens.
/r/seduction04/11/14 03:18 PM
1

Be super confident in it, don't revolve around it, but let honesty slip once in a while. Joke about kinky things, especially when you can jokingly pin them on yourself. Example: girl in a cop costume for halloween gets a lecture from me about how she shouldn't bring her bedroom toys out into town. I go on to comment about how she's an amateur for having toy handcuffs, but I'll pay along if she plays a convincing enough role. Made the group laugh, and also exposed that sex isn't an intimidating t…
/r/seduction04/11/14 03:15 PM
2

You'd be surprised. Being direct and honest makes you predictable and keeps her in control and free of deception.
/r/seduction03/11/14 10:15 PM
1

Turn them into jokes. You're a hooker looking for your next client.
/r/seduction03/11/14 10:14 PM
1

Just want to add that there is not a single technique that you "should have done", nor is there a surefire method to guarantee success. This isn't a Web tutorial that promises results. Your phrasing hinted at that adsumltion, don't want want others to get that impression.
/r/seduction03/11/14 09:49 PM
3

Let her. Whatever, you have more important things to do than worry about whether or not this girl likes you.
/r/seduction03/11/14 09:21 PM
1

I no longer insisted on buying them drinks, telling them they're really beautiful, defending their actions as if they could do no wrong, etc. I really liked this girl and was trying to be super nice and supportive of her, basically friend zoned. Eventually she started taking advantage of it. After I stopped caring about making her happy (I'll put in endless effort to make a girlfriend happy, not a friend, there's a limit there), I suggested we split the check, and she was seriously shocked. Then…
/r/seduction03/11/14 11:10 AM
0

Make a public announcement that you find a girl gorgeous.
/r/seduction03/11/14 12:46 AM
1

It was when I stopped caring one night and decided I wasn't going to keep being that sweet guy that women think is really nice, but never had interest in me personally. Treated women of interest like friends, and had a ton of success
/r/seduction02/11/14 01:13 PM
3

If she wants you to be a friend, treat her like one. Talk about other women in front of her, talk TO other women in front of her, if she has any interest that should snap her back.
/r/seduction31/10/14 09:08 PM
1

I never like to close doors. I would have given it a chance at least.
/r/seduction31/10/14 07:25 PM
2

I've used the subreddit as an enhancement to how I proceed with women. I do my own thing and it works pretty well. Taking inspriation from here helps but I don't see it as a perfect guide for perfect results. So yes, I've received the results I was expecting.
/r/seduction30/10/14 02:03 PM
2

You got it dude. I'd wish you luck but you don't fucking need it.
/r/seduction29/10/14 02:28 PM
1

No no no, quite the opposite. It's actually a win-win. Either the friend: thinks it's cute and encourages it thinks it's lame or stupid, gets jealous and/or overprotective, and keeps putting the idea of you into her head. Women often will either like when people agree with them, or oppose any thoughts that tell them no
/r/seduction28/10/14 11:00 PM
1

Well, if you pick up women who want to give it up after 1 day or less of knowing you, they probably aren't looking for a relationship.
/r/seduction28/10/14 10:33 PM
1

Don't do it to attract a woman. Do it to be awesome.
/r/seduction28/10/14 10:31 PM
1

Thank her for being honest, treat her like a friend from today forward. See how that makes her feel.
/r/seduction28/10/14 10:25 PM
1

My question would be, at what point can you consider your eye contact good enough? When it works often.
/r/seduction27/10/14 01:01 AM
1

When you get ignored, have fun with it and try something like this
/r/seduction27/10/14 12:52 AM
1

Great advice. You cannot jump to conclusions right away. The more reasonable you are about things, the better. I learned this the hard way. If you sent a text, you can pick up that mentality when she responds. No need to wait and calculate each second between your text and her response.
/r/seduction27/10/14 12:40 AM
1

Make a funny face, laugh when she laughs
/r/seduction27/10/14 12:36 AM
1

When I finally dropped the one-itis from a girl I was into for a while, and she started being attracted to me. I never went back to that mindset.
/r/seduction27/10/14 12:34 AM
1

It's also a fantastic way to give a yes-or-no ultimatum to a girl; asking her to help you meet women.
/r/seduction26/10/14 11:16 PM
2

Having fun is part of it. Feel the music, build rhythm, practice everywhere, and really try to project the enjoyment. Women notice when you just start dancing with another girl. I have a wing woman who arrives after or before me, and I simply approach, ask her to dance, get in a dance, and ask other women after. We already have a good friend chemistry and it shows on the floor. When the other woman notice how well we dance, and she goes off, I get the inviting looks. Tldr; women want to be asked…
/r/seduction26/10/14 08:46 PM
4

Find somewhere to dance. It's a great activity for many reasons; health, community, recreation, social expansion, and learning a really attractive skill. I go line dancing twice a week and it's kept me in amazing shape, I have some like minded friends, got me a Web design gig, met some great women who introduced me to more women, and 3 weeks ago when we went out to see some live music, I started teaching women how to line dance to Wagon Wheel. Quickly became a huge hit among the bar and advertis…
/r/seduction26/10/14 07:08 PM
1

Kino is useful in more than seduction. Make closer friends by using touch, build trust almost immediately, make your words stick with a reassurance of touch, etc. I've asserted dominance in serious discussions by touching a person's shoulder as I explain my point of view, and they begin to respect my opinion because the touch lowers the guard of people. Instead of building their next argument or counterpoint, they actually take a moment to consider my words.
/r/seduction26/10/14 05:48 PM
6

You could help introduce them to your cool activities. Always leave 'em better than you found 'em, ya know?
/r/seduction21/10/14 12:41 AM
3

Really depends on the situation. Talking to a girl who is just insanely busy and doesn't know her schedule. She's had to bail a few times, but apologizes profusely and makes it up at the next date. Another girl flaked on me once, in an unkind way(text saying 'sorry can't make it tonight', and didn't mention rescheduling, no authentic apology, or anything like that), probably thinking I'd be there for the following weekend. Got a text asking 'soooo are you gonna ask me out again this weekend?'. I…
/r/seduction19/10/14 10:53 PM
1

Go to the app store
/r/seduction18/10/14 05:10 PM
1

It is a clear cut advantage to be able to dance well. It is not necessary. Just have a few drinks, feel the music, and emulate what others are doing. Find some local dance lessons, take one or two, and learn some extremely basic movements to the beat. I go line dancing twice a week to stay in shape, have fun with friends, and stay in practice.
/r/seduction17/10/14 02:34 PM
1

Updated my wardrobe to wearing tighter fitting shirts and pants, got some nice shoes, and I've noticed when I wear that stuff, people in general are more friendly. I suppose the baggy shirt and jeans wasn't a good look haha.
/r/seduction17/10/14 02:32 PM
1

I do line dancing, which occasionally has partner dances. This is very valuable advice.
/r/seduction11/10/14 02:17 PM
15

Break the ice by silently pretending to talk. She'll remove her headphones, admit to not actually saying anything
/r/seduction10/10/14 03:12 PM
1

Oh, I agree its bullshit, but just because something is illogical, it doesn't mean lawyers and a judge will see it that way.
/r/seduction08/10/14 09:06 PM
2

Repeat the reviews in your head. Make women curious by slightly hinting at it. Don't outright brag, but make them curious when you say something about hating it when a girl claws your back or how hot it is when a girl talks in another language in bed. It has to be super subtle, where she questions if it was even actually said in conversation.
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:34 PM
1

Three of my close female friendships stated when I asked them out and they said they weren't interested, had a boyfriend, etc. I immediately joked about how awkward our friendship was gonna be from that point on. Cemented our friendship since it got all attractions out of the way. I lose interest when a girl isn't interested. They have introduced me to other female friends so it's win-win.
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:29 PM
1

I teach computer science. Similar approach issues. I usually tell them it's been a passion my whole life, and go into cool projects I've worked on, how my students love my class the most, how I've expanded into making websites for local businesses and churches (for free, religious girls eat that shit up), how I do storage device recovery, etc. Be passionate about it while speaking on a normal person's level of depth. Teach her a few things, joke with her, make yourself seem like you chose comput…
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:26 PM
19

I wouldn't recommend this at all. Given the age difference it already sends a little predator-like. Mix alcohol into it and you're risking an open and shut case on rape if things go that direction.
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:15 PM
-1

Hey its (name). I'll get back to you in a day or two to plan or date
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:13 PM
5

Might also be favoring of a mental connection with a partner. That's the case with me.
/r/seduction06/10/14 10:43 PM
1

You don't invite 2 girls of interest to the same party...
/r/seduction30/09/14 10:41 AM
2

I give myself 24 hours within meeting a girl to make my intentions known. I usually just use the phrase "listen, I like being direct, it sorts out the bullshit in life. I find you attractive, and I'd like to take you out to dinner if you're interested" or something among those lines. If she says yes, perfect. If she says no, I simply say 'fair enough, it was worth a shot' and don't really change much how I treat her. It doesn't have to be super suave or perfectly rehearsed, I just find that upfr…
/r/seduction30/09/14 10:38 AM
2

Has a unique job or set of skills. I've been taking an opera singer out on a few dates. I'm obsessed with asking about her job haha
/r/seduction30/09/14 10:29 AM
1

Depends on the situation. If I asked a girl out to dinner and she said she had to think about it, I'd probably just leave it as is and not initiate again, ever. She had a chance and didn't take it. Now its on her to re-initiate that conversation.
/r/seduction27/09/14 12:42 AM
1

Build a mental conversion résumé. Be able to being up subjects with ease that you can keep entertaining. Limit it to one page but make sure it's impressive.
/r/seduction19/09/14 02:32 PM
2

Most people like being touched respectfully. Two on the shoulder, high five, etc. Get comfortable with that, then step up to proximity. You need to have the confidence or it gets weird
/r/seduction19/09/14 02:29 PM
2

26 here, ended a huge relationship of five years back in April. Get back in the game with online dating, even if to simply feel it out for a month. Don't be afraid to fail, don't get discouraged. Eventually things click.
/r/seduction19/09/14 02:27 PM
1

Depends on how you handle it. I'm 'dating' a girl who I see like once a month, but there are two girls I see almost weekly since we've stated dating more often. I'm kind of seeing who I'd like to seriously build a relationship with and stop dating the other two. Weird balance but it works. Yes it is exhausting. Yes it is difficult at times. You find a way, and if not, you drift apart and hopefully stay friends.
/r/seduction19/09/14 02:24 PM
2

I wonder if race could be used to justify extra costs.
/r/MensRights16/09/14 09:32 PM
1

Alcohol helps a lot. And just be more open in appropriate situations. Don't feel like you can just jump the gun and it'll work, because with sexual jokes you need to own it and find the humor in it, or else she'll be creeped out. If you say a joke but don't feel the humor in it, it puts her on stage to laugh at the joke and possibly be judged for laughing. She won't have that. I guess I'm trying to say you should really own the humor in those jokes. Make them a part of every day life with friend…
/r/seduction15/09/14 11:44 PM
1

Instead of feeling like you have to take one side of this(friends vs romance), just have fun with your nights out. Don't play a role you have to follow around certain people, be yourself.
/r/seduction15/09/14 11:40 PM
1

Just get used to it. Post about it here if you dare
/r/seduction15/09/14 11:38 PM
5

Be adventurously friendly. Invite a few people put to a happy hour, have them invite friends. Make friends with them and keep expanding. A coworker's friend's sister hangs put with me regularly because I kept solidifying friendships. A male friend is from a girl I took out on one date, and she invited me to bang with her friends. I'm 26 and out of college too. Just keep meeting people, get something in common, get a number and offer to meet up a couple times. Edit: not gonna fix it for entertain…
/r/seduction15/09/14 11:36 PM
1

Compliment. You're a true, reliable person. People don't think you are deceptive, and they will seek your advice.
/r/seduction14/09/14 11:47 PM
4

Embrace it if she is being seripus. Use her as a portal to meeting other girls. Either she'll try to be a great wingwoman, will get jealous, or drift away and you move on.
/r/seduction14/09/14 11:30 PM
1

Especially if she gets with the other guy after
/r/seduction11/09/14 08:33 PM
1

Even if it does, more 'tame' approaches will be easier if you've pulled that off before.
/r/seduction11/09/14 08:32 PM
1

Huge eye opener I found out about last year is that some women like a guy with a chubby body. A woman was complaining to her friend that she hated how her husband lost weight and has a flat stomach. She liked a little jiggle, also made her feel super sexy. I'm not saying to avoid being healthy, but realize that some women like an average body type.
/r/seduction11/09/14 08:28 PM
4

On tinder and other online communication, you need to make her laugh. This is a good approach to it.
/r/seduction11/09/14 08:25 PM
3

'Hey let's head back to your(or my) place to hang out, its too loud/crowded here' Sounds like you have every excuse in the book to avoid doing any of this. Sometimes people don't wanna be helped, and that's the vibe I'm getting from you.
/r/seduction10/09/14 09:22 PM
2

So lead. Try things out. Even if you fail, you still got further than previous experience. Then you see where it went wrong and try to fix it for next time.
/r/seduction10/09/14 09:06 PM
1

'I think you're cute. Wanna go on a date this Friday?' Has worked for me before.
/r/seduction10/09/14 08:56 PM
1

Transition from a joke that has sexual nature to it. I've injected a joke saying 'good thing neither of us wore our fuck me heels tonight or that'd be awkward if the other didn't', then she started talking about how she has a pair and was afraid to wear them out, so I teased her asking if they were for bedtime only, and just kept going from there. Gotta keep it light hearted for a while, then slowly make it more serious.
/r/seduction07/09/14 09:24 PM
2

If you must use drugs, make their experience the rare moments, not your sobriety.
/r/seduction07/09/14 02:16 AM
10

Stating intentions is the greatest way to let them know how you feel. Sounds too simple, but its true!
/r/seduction05/09/14 10:07 PM
2

Mini golf, coffee or tea, sushi, casual dinner or lunch, museum/zoo if she likes that kinda stuff
/r/seduction02/09/14 11:10 AM
1

I think this speaks a lot about showing intention. Within 24 hours of meeting a girl I'm interested in, I express interest in a direct and simple way. I usually say something like 'I think you're [cool, fun, smart, etc] and I like you a lot. I'd like to take you out to [dinner, a movie, sushi, etc]'. This is useful in many ways. You let her know your intentions, you are direct and get the ball rolling, you show you're able to put yourself out there, and you make the girl think about how she feel…
/r/seduction02/09/14 11:07 AM
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Good to know. People online should not harass the police stations.
/r/MensRights31/08/14 06:58 PM
1

It would prompt them to start building a defense and possibly make it feel like people are just trying to cause problems. Let the guy follow his own path. He will ask for help if he needs it.
/r/MensRights31/08/14 06:40 PM
1

In college I had a blanket that is like 15 pounds and the most amazing thing ever. I think a girl kept coming over for the blanket haha. It was seriously the greatest thing ever. It compressed you unto the bed while keeping you super warm. Still have it to this day.
/r/seduction29/08/14 10:45 AM
1

Very true. You know the specifics of yhe situation better than I do.
/r/seduction24/08/14 11:31 PM
1

Sometimes those are nice outcomes. Even if she's taken and not interested in anything other than pleasant conversation, you get some self assurance that you're someone people like to talk to.
/r/seduction24/08/14 01:00 PM
1

Make some adventure. You still have time. I decided to motorcycle the united states for a month. There are three major stories from that trip that I use to gain a woman's interest, depending on her personality. If you didn't do anything, learn to twist it so it doesn't sound as bad. Maybe you worked the whole summer to start saving money, reconnected a lot with friends from high school, helped out a lot around the house, did some DIY projects, self taught yourself some cool things, etc. This sho…
/r/seduction24/08/14 12:56 PM
2

Do something daring every day of your life. Tell a woman she's beautiful, ask a girl out randomly, strike up conversation with an employee at a store as you're checking out with the goal of making them laugh. These are all things that turbocharge your social skills.
/r/seduction24/08/14 12:51 PM
0

Next time you see her, just pull her aside or ask her if she has a minute. When she asks what you wanted to know, say 'I was just wondering, do you have a boyfriend?' If she says yes, reply with 'damn, he's a lucky man' and smile. If she says no, ask her out somewhere on the spot. Don't play stupid over-calculated games.
/r/seduction24/08/14 12:49 PM
1

Most likely not. Maybe in a group, jokingly start up a game of the bachelor. They could find it funny. If one calls you out on it, let her know that's not the optimal strategy to survive round 1, and wink at another girl.
/r/seduction24/08/14 12:45 PM
2

When she says no, you can leave her with your number and say 'call me when you're over him', give her your number, and head out. It leaves mystery, shows you're confident in yourself, and kind of puts weight on her choice of rejecting you.
/r/seduction24/08/14 12:41 PM
3

Hair is important to some women, not all. I'm balding but it doesn't really affect my lifestyle too much. I get the occasional shit test but quickly respond with either humor, calling them out on it, or moving on. Get a haircut by a woman and just tell her what you'd like, and tell her you trust her judgement. I've done this and I'd day 95% of the time it comes out great. Also, don't let an insecurity dictate your confidence. You care more about your hair than most women do.
/r/seduction24/08/14 12:37 PM
2

Don't forget to be awesome!
/r/seduction24/08/14 04:26 AM
1

Don't be outcome dependent. Seriously, just stop caring. Don't make it some planned out act, she'll see through it and out-play you. Just stop caring so much about it and seek other girls, unless you want to be her emotionally controlled bitch for a while.
/r/seduction23/08/14 04:23 PM
1

Avoid sex talk, especially when altering state of mind. Ask the craziest thing she's done high instead.
/r/seduction23/08/14 01:54 PM
3

If you want any possibility of changing things, stop entertaining her laying in your arms and on your lap, and allowing her to flaunt herself in front of you. It might be her little sadistic joy to tease you. Start checking out women around her, ask for advice on a female romantic interest, don't let her lay in your arms because 'that's not what friends do'. Watch how fast things change when she realizes she doesn't have you hopelessly tied around her finger. Now, here's the hard part. Don't fal…
/r/seduction23/08/14 01:48 PM
13

Hmmm, I'm already at the movie theater waiting on her text... Is she ignoring me? Oh well... Zzzzzip
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:04 PM
1

Give them the same enthusiasm. Don't let indifference from a person consume your head.
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:01 PM
1

How about you just tell her instead of pretending to be super nice and friendly? That way she knows your intentions and isn't hurt when you switch from "nice friend" to romantic interest once she lets her guard down?
/r/seduction15/07/14 01:59 PM
3

I do not want to screw up my chances with a girl You have onetitis for a girl that doesn't even exist. There are tons of girls out there dude, don't be afraid to goof up! Coming on too strong is like planning a second date before the first one goes over, getting into a communication routine when you haven't established a solid base of knowing each other, being jealous if she has another date or interaction with someone, changing who you are to better meet the idea of what you think is best for h…
/r/seduction14/07/14 06:46 PM
3

True, but the fact that you play along with it means that you're somewhat clever, committed to humor, and fun to be around.
/r/seduction13/07/14 11:45 PM
2

I think it's a question that can't be pinpointed to a reliable intention. Too many possibilities. Definitely a good time to introduce some humor. Call her Agatha and commit to it all night. Eventually she'll correct you by giving her your name.
/r/seduction13/07/14 11:32 PM
1

Obviously if there is no attraction, then just drop her? Yeah, pretty much. Some girls are just not interested. However, you can try something for your amusement and raise her curiosity. Tell her your phone died and you missed her call, but add a snippet of information that might trigger jealousy or competition. It's so situation specific, but here's an attempt: "Hey, I definitely missed your call yesterday, my friend Sarah only has an iphone/android(opposite of your phone) charger and I stayed …
/r/seduction13/07/14 11:26 PM
2

Well, you can't just expect to do A, B and C to attract girls. You need the mindset. Let loose, relax, enjoy life, joke around, and try to be less serious in life. You might need to start with friends to build personality-based interactions up.
/r/seduction13/07/14 11:17 PM
3

Turn it into playful cockiness. "Wow you look good in spandex. I mean, I would wear it better, but you're making it work and its the effort that counts" with a teasing smile. I pulled something similar at a wedding recently to a girl wearing a beautiful dress.
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:43 PM
3

Be confident in what you like or dislike. Start up a conversation to be friendly, see where it goes. She might introduce you to more women.
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:40 PM
8

Just don't be surprised if it happens to you in the event you start a relationship with her
/r/seduction13/07/14 04:39 PM
14

I like it. I asked a girl out at line dancing yesterday and she said no due to dating another guy, but was very sweet about it. She said it was rare that a guy would just approach her and do that and it was a really attractive trait. It actually felt better than saying yes because I made a major accomplishment in approach and nothing bad happened.
/r/seduction12/07/14 12:08 AM
2

I've made some damn good friends at magic tournaments. Social people who introduce you to more stuff. Maybe back in 2000-2006 it had a stigma, but now its a pretty social event. It also helps you learn to read people better.
/r/seduction07/07/14 03:13 PM
5

On top of that, take courses in the area. Learn to cook, paint, go yo language night, play pool in a league, speed date(what's the worst that could go wrong?). Learn a nerdy game like magic the gathering and go to tournaments, attend concerts, find free fun things like community funded events. Join tinder and just go on random dates, I know its a hookup app but I tried it and met a girl who I'm actually good friends with now. Same goes with other dating sites too. Its only embarrassing if you le…
/r/seduction06/07/14 09:08 PM
1

This is where you should try thinking quickly on your feet. I would have greeted the friend with a hug and a kiss on the cheek, and when she asks the girl if she knows you, interrupt and say "no, we just met but I haven't seen you in FOREVER", or something to that degree that brings the attention back to you, hopefully established as someone with a sense of humor or at least daring enough to hijack a social moment. Neither of them will resort back to their convo if your ballsiness redirected the…
/r/seduction29/06/14 03:22 PM
1

wow...
/r/seduction29/06/14 03:17 PM
1

If she is busy but interested, she'll give strong details as to why and ask if you're free another time.
/r/seduction29/06/14 03:11 PM
12

Sounds like she has some issues. Also, people can be incompatible, it happens. No reason to blame yourself.
/r/seduction28/06/14 09:32 AM
7

Nagging would be constant requests. I'd like to see the paper trail of reported incidents brought up to administrators and the parents.
/r/MensRights18/06/14 05:18 PM
5

Your first mistake was only carrying one fedora. Always always always have two fedoras so you don't run into this situation again.
/r/seduction15/06/14 01:38 PM
3

Joke about her age, insisting to see her ID.
/r/seduction15/06/14 01:34 PM
1

Greet him, find him a girl, and make a friend while you're at it.
/r/seduction14/06/14 10:33 PM
1

So your relationship/interactions with this girl is making you sick? This is toxic. Sucks but its true. You need to distance yourself from her socially. Talk less, drift apart.
/r/seduction12/06/14 01:05 AM
1

Really dependent on the context. I flirt with a girl who tells me "you're the best" because I gave her a spare battery for her phone(got 5 of them for free for reviewing purposes so I was sharing the love) and replied with "I know". Another girl tells me I have really nice eyes and I will respond with a "thanks" and return a compliment. You know the social situation better than anyone else, react accordingly. If not, try something and learn from it.
/r/seduction12/06/14 01:01 AM
1

Only if you're observant enough to know that's why it failed.
/r/seduction12/06/14 12:41 AM
2

I agree with this. Give her a limited opportunity, which sparks curiosity and makes you a "limited edition" tinder user.
/r/seduction12/06/14 12:30 AM
1

Maybe not the entire reason, but definitely start there. Wanna make your actions more efficient? Ask a female friend(of interest) to take a few pics of you and say jokingly you need new tinder photos. She might find it funny, she might pry. Try to turn it on her. "Yes they're for tinder because you're not going on a date with me". You'd either get the photos taken or maybe a date.
/r/seduction11/06/14 11:59 PM
11

They go through life being hot and boys jump through hoops to please them. They then age and don't have the same power, and are uninteresting yet still have that entitled mentality. Happens to guys too, just not as often.
/r/MensRights05/06/14 08:14 PM
1

You did good. A person should only pay for a date if it's on their terms. You did what felt right. What's she gonna do, tell her friends you were an asshole for not paying?
/r/seduction05/06/14 02:52 PM
1

It depends on the situation, but being able to embed yourself into different cultures and succeed is a pretty valuable skill. Imagine meeting with clients from around the world, or going around the world to represent the company. This person would be good at it due to their ability to quickly adapt. I think it really depends on the job in discussion, but this experience also makes your resume stand out a lot. They would definitely call him back in just because of how interesting the resume is. A…
/r/seduction11/05/14 12:58 AM
4

Sometimes you gotta fight dirty.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 08:21 PM
7

Photoshop the political leaders into compromising situations, see how fast these policies change.
/r/MensRights06/05/14 03:19 PM
1

I'll get it before the end of the night
/r/seduction05/05/14 10:40 PM
1

Sometimes I get self conscious about my receding hairline, but I asked a friend who I knew would tell me the truth and she said its only unattractive if you let it make you feel unattractive. It put things into great perspective.
/r/seduction05/05/14 01:30 AM
7

I think I love you for this story
/r/seduction05/05/14 01:17 AM
1

I was dumped a month ago after 5 years. Was ring shopping. Finally got over the hurt and feeling sorry for myself. I started working out, line dancing, and just doing do much more. It feels great dude! Keep being awesome.
/r/seduction29/04/14 08:55 PM
1

Alpha, to me, is not being afraid to try and take what you want. I say try because everyone fails at things in their life, and it's okay. Alpha is not being afraid of failure, and setting an example as a productive member of society while still doing what's important to you.
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:19 AM
1

Hey dude, it's cool to have that anxiety. However, let's try to rationalize it as best we can. Have you ever seen anyone do this in real life? I think not. Have you every thought of calling someone out on that? I think not. Even if someone does call you out on something, you simply leave. You aren't at work/school, you can leave whenever you want!
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:18 AM
1

Also, to add to this, consider the three possible outcomes: You get rejected harshly and never speak to her again. Same outcome as if you never approached. You talk to her and she politely declines. You wish her well and continue your day. You just practiced. Better outcome than if you never approached. You talk to her and build attraction. AWESOME!
/r/seduction20/04/14 02:03 AM
1

Text it to people you really don't care about
/r/seduction18/04/14 02:24 PM
1

Keep your good friends, but make lots of acquaintances.
/r/seduction17/04/14 07:03 PM
5

I tried this with online dating, and it might help you. Perhaps others can input their advice as well. I start talking to a girl on a dating site and she gives me one-word answers, doesn't contribute to conversation, seems offputting. Once I get bored of her and feel like there's no chance of continuing the conversation where we both input intelligent conversation, I will drop "Well it's been nice talking to you". Almost immediately I get her to question why I'm done talking. I tell them honestl…
/r/seduction17/04/14 06:55 PM
2

Yup, your best bet is to actually delete her from Facebook, your phone, and anything else social. It gives you closure and prevents you from watching her from afar.
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:32 PM
1

Welcome to the club. Everyone has a different experience, but overall it sucks. I'm 26, had a rough experience. Take your time in recovering. Don't feel like you HAVE to meet other girls right away, unless you truly want to do that. I was in a 5 year relationship when she called it off out of nowhere. It hurt a lot. I was ring shopping. I took a week to simply clean up my life. I hung out with friends, got drunk with them, bought something nice for myself, etc. I was basically just trying to con…
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:29 PM
1

In the event that she stops showing interest, start talking like a friend and make it pleasant conversation between two people, instead of flirting. It could 180 the conversation.
/r/seduction12/04/14 04:45 PM
2

It's set as a guide to help people avoid overtexting or accelerating way too quickly into something, only to intimidate the person of interest. Go at a pace you feel is good, and if you mess up you simply learn from your mistakes. It's all experimental, and results vary from person to person.
/r/seduction07/04/14 01:17 AM
1

You have options, you can respond just as coldly to her and give her a reality check. This will give her the idea that you aren't here to play games and let her test what kind of hold/power she has. Another method could be to turn it into a joke. Make it sexual. Your final option is to not even respond to that type of response. Just act as if she didn't say it. She'll feel dumb if she has to repeat her joke to get her point across.
/r/seduction07/04/14 12:18 AM
2

Put yourself in situations where you will most likely fail. Next time you shop somewhere, ask for a discount.
/r/seduction31/03/14 01:44 AM
1

Build some memories and start to get into a predictable schedule. She could expect to do something fun each weekend since you've been taking her to do things in a semi regular pattern.
/r/seduction23/03/14 08:48 PM
1

Just got out of a 5 year relationship last week. This helps. I don't believe all of it yet and I'm still angry but it'll get better as time moves on. Worst part of this was calling a ring shop and tell them they no longer needed to keep my name on that ring...
/r/seduction16/03/14 04:19 PM
22

Increases blood flow
/r/seduction21/02/14 03:54 PM
4

Wonder if he would have the opportunity to fight for full custody of the child. Maybe that would change the minds of those women. Edit: I didn't realize the state was going after them, not the women.
/r/MensRights02/02/14 04:23 PM
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Mistletoe
/r/seduction31/12/13 10:49 PM
1

Start slowly transitioning that being a parent is tough, eliminate the "girls club" mentality
/r/MensRights26/12/13 01:48 PM
21

"Let's go inside to talk" "No I'm fine outside" "Well I'm cold" What an entitled asshole. He got excited that he saw something, wants to remain relevant, and feels like he's "catching people doing bad things"
/r/MensRights13/12/13 01:43 AM
21

And being unmoved by that shit is one solid approach. I see that kind of stuff and all I see is 5th grade girls having their "no boys allowed party" where they make up things and giggle about it.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 09:36 PM
3

People want what exists, but that changes so damn much too. An exes mother hated her husband because he wasn't sensitive, but then loved that he was manly, but then wanted him to be intellectual, but then also wanted him to be less thoughtful and in deep thought.
/r/MensRights11/12/13 09:24 PM
2

A dating site with that information would probably be very successful... or give data analysts great insight as to how shallow people are
/r/MensRights10/12/13 05:35 PM
5

I have a couple vertically challenged friends and they get annoyed when everything is a joke about them, and then they're supposed to play it off as if it doesn't discredit them as a person.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 05:34 PM
1

that shit can cause wars brought on by stubbornness.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 05:32 PM
11

Rules should only be enforced when they benefit you, didn't you know that?
/r/MensRights10/12/13 05:31 PM
1

Yup, she sounds like a keeper. My girlfriend is the same. Dates and other activities are always assumed as going Dutch, but that is what makes me want to cover things more often.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 05:30 PM
2

Sometimes, yes, but as a first impression that can seem somewhat stingy, which can be a negative trait. I agree 100% that it is a reasonable request, but the presentation of that thought can make it feel like someone is decorating a negative personality trait.
/r/MensRights10/12/13 05:29 PM
1

Everyone was at that point in their lives and it seems to have worked out for them. Who cares if the first time sucks? The next time can only get better.
/r/seduction02/12/13 12:15 PM
4

next time that situation comes up, don't act like you can wait for her. As she asks to catch up, respond with something noting that it's a perfect timing since another girl was eyeballing you from the dance floor. Then go proceed to dance with another girl. Women, well people in general, often love when things are scarce.
/r/seduction30/11/13 03:58 AM
1

If it wasn't white males, it would have been the next race/gender combo. Its human nature.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 11:37 AM
2

Still not enough.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 11:27 AM
16

You shouldn't have to buy drinks to gain the favor of others
/r/seduction18/11/13 10:52 PM
1

*don't follow an exact set of rules every time
/r/seduction07/11/13 11:06 AM
9

You can be sure that doctor will be testifying for this lawsuit
/r/MensRights06/11/13 01:14 AM
1

You should try to encourage it, and light-heartedly acknowledge the two of you practicing together.
/r/seduction28/10/13 11:20 PM
6

Those students should break the rules intentionally so they force the school to admit that "You got in trouble because you are male"
/r/MensRights15/10/13 08:52 PM
3

Poor scientific study. The "good" speech was shown on a bed, the "bad" speech was shown at a table. The women knew they were being recorded, so they really played into the personality. People act as we expect them to.
/r/seduction21/09/13 04:37 PM
5

How dare he write content related to this subreddit and post it here. What does he think this is... Some kind of link/text sharing site?
/r/seduction11/09/13 02:57 PM
11

A child who might have warped views of sexuality later in his life due to this incident, and then will be considered what's "wrong with society"
/r/MensRights09/09/13 09:21 PM
4

When you walk in, greet everyone with "ready for that foursome?" And start to take off your shirt. Obviously a joke, but it will get ideas going.
/r/seduction30/08/13 04:37 PM
2

Wine. Lots of wine.
/r/seduction30/08/13 04:35 PM
3

This. It is possible that she will see your absence as a realization that you were interested and she might try to get in contact, then you lead how it goes from there.
/r/seduction23/08/13 01:11 PM
0

You know what they say about guys with big foreheads...
/r/seduction23/08/13 01:07 PM
2

One of my friends calls the ladies "love" or some other affectionate name. He also will comp them a drink or two with red bull to keep them awake and energetic. Works quite well for him.
/r/seduction23/08/13 01:04 PM
1

Just act as if nothing happened. Pretend it didn't crush you, it will show her that her rejection didn't mean the world to you. Might get her thinking.
/r/seduction23/08/13 01:19 AM
1

It does change if a man is drunk. The law says a woman cannot legally consent to sex, where a man can.
/r/MensRights21/08/13 03:26 PM
1

No problem dude, PM me if you need more motivation!
/r/seduction21/08/13 03:24 PM
2

You got it dude
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:06 AM
1

Champ
/r/seduction21/08/13 12:31 AM
3

Sounds like you were using her as your entire investment. If you aren't dating, you can't get mad at what she does. Either make a move and accept the past, or move on. Life isn't fair sometimes, but that should be used to your advantage. Go be awesome!
/r/seduction21/08/13 12:08 AM
2

Either way, the children are inheriting the idiotic genes from the mother. Had the tables been turned, and a man wanted to get another woman pregnant for better genetics, then it would be an issue with the woman. Pick the right person and be 100% sure you want to get married. You certainly don't want to end up with someone like this. We need to raise the bar on what makes a person marriage worthy...
/r/MensRights20/08/13 09:38 PM
1

Morally, yes. However, corruption us everywhere.
/r/MensRights05/08/13 02:27 PM
1

Well, these comics also try to say "this is what every man/woman wants, and that is bad". Let people like what they like. Society shouldn't force you to feel a certain way by telling you it is wrong to like certain things, but rather it should correct problems when they arise, such as a person treating people horribly if they don't fit into their own idealized preferences(eg making someone feel bad for being overweight).
/r/MensRights04/08/13 01:18 PM
0

Because that would end in many less cases of child support, leaving more people open to government funding
/r/MensRights28/07/13 11:02 PM
8

Because that would end in many less cases of child support, leaving more people open to government funding
/r/MensRights28/07/13 11:01 PM
3

It's okay to be afraid or nervous. Just don't let those feelings define your actions.
/r/seduction28/07/13 03:07 AM
1

Initiate things without caring that others are joining you. I try to start dance parties with my group of friends but if they don't join, the dance floor is mine until strangers join
/r/seduction17/07/13 01:00 AM
2

I'm saying that there could be laws made in attempt to push things towards equality, but it would never be perfect. I'm not saying that I know of a solution.
/r/MensRights10/07/13 09:26 PM
0

I do get it, and yes the system is fucked up. I honestly don't think equality can ever happen with this issue. There can be laws that balance things out to approach equality, but then there will be exceptions there as well. If you don't want to be caught up in the bullshit, don't have sex.
/r/MensRights10/07/13 06:34 PM
1

If the man doesn't want to have a child but his choices end at having sex, why shouldn't the woman's? If we are advocating for equality, her choices should also end at having sex. I agree completely. If she didn't want a kid, she should stop there too. A man doesn't have to have these procedures done, neither does a woman. But by doing so and engaging in sex, they both accept a possible consequence. This does not address safe haven or abortions laws. A woman can give away her child without a fat…
/r/MensRights10/07/13 06:29 PM
0

Can you clarify a little more of what you're asking? I'll try to answer what I think you are asking. Please note that this is my opinion: I think abortion, very much like a guy saying "I don't want kids", should be discussed by both parties before engaging in sex. Yeah, it kills the mood, but so does preventative measures, like putting on a condom or other form of prevention. Since the woman is the one holding the baby, going through all the medical procedures, and going through birth, I think t…
/r/MensRights10/07/13 06:17 PM
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While I agree with the principles, the two theoretical people are engaging in an activity designed to make a baby. There is some responsibility in that. She makes a great point, but it's also important to keep an open mind in both directions. edit: Basically, if a guy says that he does not want to have kids, he is taking a risk by still having sex. It's like saying "I don't want to get points on my license ever" and speeding in a car.(Yes, I am ignoring key parts of the argument, but my point st…
/r/MensRights10/07/13 05:35 PM
3

it would suck for the company to "give in" and enforce the dress codes, especially if the manager had to come into certain offices and say "we understand that you've been violating dress codes every friday for the past year", and they will know who complained, so now it leaves the bad taste of stalking, keeping records, etc. Definitely going to ruin some office relationships.
/r/MensRights06/07/13 01:09 AM
2

one log with code names, one log with the key. Don't give up the key unless you absolutely have to.
/r/MensRights06/07/13 12:02 AM
3

Whether it's common knowledge or not, you don't want to say "Well employee x does it all the time" and they get fired, or you don't want the rumor going around that he will rat out an employee. It's important to keep good relationships in the workplace.
/r/MensRights05/07/13 11:48 PM
3

This sounds like a good idea. Name the employees A, B, C, D, E, F, etc. and keep a reference of your own. This should be done outside of work, like when you get home. That way you aren't admitting to keeping tabs at work instead of working. This way, you could claim that employee A did it every single day, employee B was doing it on Fridays, etc. This way, you also don't rat out a particular employee.
/r/MensRights05/07/13 10:42 PM
0

The seat should.just always be up. That way no one posses on it. It's best for both parties. In fact, toilet seats should be spring loaded up so the seats don't get covered with anything.
/r/MensRights22/06/13 12:01 PM
1

it's not that men are being charged double, it's that women are being given a 50% discount. It really depends on how you word it. However, I see the feeling of discrimination.
/r/MensRights18/06/13 10:37 PM
2

The idea of that not being okay is understandable, but nowhere near justifying punishment for rape. She needs to make good decisions and be safe sexually, not try to get laws to scare people to do what she wants.
/r/MensRights07/06/13 12:11 AM
10

Because it's easier
/r/MensRights27/05/13 08:28 PM
2

Until you tell her it's just as valid as a degree in theater, THEN she has a problem...
/r/MensRights23/05/13 12:06 AM
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