So I have been a long time lurker and I feel amazing right now after going out solo for the first time so I decided to post.

Got out to the bar scene and at first the nerves were killing me. I walked right by the first bar I had planned to go in and justified it in my head by saying "Oh, I will start at the far end and work my way back." Right then I smelled trouble. But I regained my composure and went into a bar I had never been too but heard was nice.

Walked in sat down in an empty seat next to two girls. I grabbed a beer and sat there not saying a word. I had started the night doing all the things I wasn't suppose to do. But I was determined to turn it around.

Got to more of a club and when I walked in I saw a blonde HB7 sitting by her self on her phone. I walked by here and went to the bar. Across the bar I saw a Brunette HB7. We made eye contact but I just grabbed my beer. After turning around, before my brain even had a chance to make excuses I walked up and opened the blonde HB7 on her phone.

I started chatting up the blonde HB7 and I was feeling better and getting more into my state. Then as we were talking brunette HB7 from the bar came over and handed her a drink. They were friends! I was working both of them making sure both of them felt included in the conversation.

I ask if they want to dance and we move it out to the dance floor. Learning to dance well is something that has improved my game tremendously. Now this is where the situation got interesting. As soon as Blonde HB7 left the dance floor to go the bathroom Brunette grabbed me and started to grind on me and I knew it was on. Grinded on her for a while until Blonde got back.

After a few more songs some AMOG's were trying to come up behind the Brunette but I deflected and spun her around back into me. Blonde started to see me favoring Brunette so Blonde started to grind on me. Then when some AMOG took Blonde away I was grinding behind Brunette and Blonde was mouthing to Brunette "I Hate You."

I then realized that these two girls were now fighting over me. They would rotate grinding on me each of them trying to one up the other. Again I attribute this to my early comfort building and my dancing skills.

I ended the night #closing both of them and I just feel really good about going out solo and getting over my initial butterflies!

Thanks Seddit!