This is my first post. If you have any constructive criticism to help me with future posts, I’m glad to hear it.
Background: I’ve been lurking on seddit for a little under a year now, and I have to say its greatly improved my life. Not only in the aspect of girls, but also myself and my mindset. The reason I titled this post “Fractionation” is because the way Neil Strauss describes it applies, perfectly, to my seduction skills over the past year. Just after one week of completely diving into the subreddit, I lost my virginity to a beautiful Italian girl and my level of confidence went through the roof. I’ve had a handful of other experiences with girls since, but for some reason I just completely stopped striving to be the best I could at pick up. And now I’m finally back at it, and I feel deeper in the “trance” than ever.
Question – Would it be good idea to do field reports for previous interactions, even if they were 2-5 months ago?
And now the FR of tonight. I’ll even give you guys the conversation that sparked it all.
This is completely un-edited and from facebook.
Her Whaattt
Her You're a butt cheek.
Me Your not very good with men, are you?
Her Actually. I'm a boss. But when men are too shy to say anything. I come one kind of nerdy because that's not my thin but I'll do it if necessary. So boom guys with out balls That didn't make a lot of sense but it did to me.
Me So your saying you wanted me to initiate this interaction?
Her Basically. In complicated women terms. You know with out actually saying it. You cant act like you haven't seen this before. Me So what is it about me that you desire?
Her Quite direct. Well you're cool. Funny. And hot. But I only talked to you because I wanted to know this wasn't some stupid ex thing where you're doing this only to mess with my mind or funsies.
Me What are you doing?
Her Please I don't really want to be part of it of it just mind messing. Just clairify intentions.
Me I want to see you
Her Just can't believe it. Why should I believe this doesn't have to do with just being an asshole?
Me Why would I waste my time messing with you?
Her That could be taken two ways. So you are or you aren't?
Me No, I am not playing mind games with you.
Her Really? Me? Why?
Me Because I go with my gut instinct.
Her Haha. Alright. Well then. So what's been up with you? Me I'm reading, and you?
Her Reading what? Me too ️
Me 150 healthiest foods! Her Really? Sounds. Definitely not nearly as fun a what I'm reading.
Me And what is it you are reading?
Her Harry potter Best thing ever So. I win. Me It's wierd how so many of the girls that come on to me are into harry potter
Her Your argument is invalid You came onto me And I have never met some oboist who knows more than me about Harry potter. Me I definitely dont Her Sigh. Spell check.
Me Come teach me Her I defiantly can make that happen. A long as you're not a horrible awful student. Me Of course not silly
Her Then we can figure something out I'm sure ️
Me You should come over!
Her When?
Me When my moms gone
Her Jeez compadre. Is your mom not cool about girls or ?
Me She's fine, I just don't like when she's here and her fieance is always out of town
Her Oh alright. That might work. I'm on kind of a right leash right now so I'm not sure. So we could do that or my house.
Me mhmh that sounds good to me
Her So when are you free?
Me right now
Her Text me?
We then texted a bit, and I went over to her house. We started to watch Harry Potter.. she then started to say something and I just tilted her chin towards me, we started making out heavily. I pulled her hair, sucked her ear, licked her neck and lightly led my hands all over her body, resulting in her completely topless: No difficulties whatsoever. I started rubbing her, but she would pull my hand away once she would start getting turned on too much. I flipped her on her back (She was on top) and went crazy, we dry humped the fuck out of each other. She started letting me rub her more. Her mom came home, so she quickly got dressed and talked to her mother for a minute. We were then left alone to watch our movie and talked for a while. I was extremely relaxed and played mysterious and acted like I didn’t care.. It literally drove her fucking nuts. She was trying so hard for a read and she just couldn’t get it. We would stare into each other’s eyes for long periods of time. Every now and then she would go crazy and say I hate you (which I knew was good). After a while I realized the mystery game wasn’t going to get me any pussy. I said something along the lines of “You do realize I am telling you everything, I just made you work for it” she then realized I was right. So I thought vulnerability would be good to show her, so I started showing it… Not exactly remembering how, but the way we spoke became more meaningful. We started talking about morels, then morels on sex. She was set that it would make her a slut if she slept with me on the first “date.” I reassured her that society forced her to think that, and only her and I would be aware. I would be the same, she would be the same, and no one else would no, so no one could judge her… Played around for a bit… still not letting me go beyond rubbing her. I knew she needed qualification. We sat back for a minute and I ran my hands all over her body, holding eye contact, I told her she was extremely sexy. She loved it. I knew it still wouldn’t be enough. I told her I knew she was scared she wouldn’t see me again. She said well the word unsure works better there. I told her not to worry about it. We started playing around again.. and still no further. We started talking again, she said something along the lines of tomorrow (THIS IS SO WEIRD, THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT THE ITALIAN GIRL SAID, BUT I WAS ABLE TO TURN HER ON SO MUCH WE FUCKED THE FIRST TIME WE HUNG OUT).
That was pretty much it. This was over the span of three hours. Let me know what you think I did good or bad and how I can improve future posts.
Thank you for reading.
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