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[FR] I need your help guys

D1opare

April 29, 2014

3 upvotes

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Title	[FR] I need your help guys
Author	D1opare
Upvotes	3
Comments	21
Date	April 29, 2014 6:18 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/249a6b/fr_i_need_your_help_guys/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/fr-i-need-your-help-guys.1370011 https://theredarchive.com/post/1370011

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[–]darkvinc2 points 12 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]EternalOptimist829 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Honestly man it's hard to say. There's just a very anti-feminism mindset on /r/theredpill that doesn't seem nearly as prevalent on /r/seduction. Once again for a guy who has been stepped on his whole life it can be liberating and get them results quickly, but you'll also find you don't look at women the same way once you internalize the beliefs. The farther down the rabbit hole you go, the less and less attractive the women you used to love become, IMO.

You'll read a bit and see what I mean. A lot of heartfelt stories about cruel bitches fucking over guys on there. Lots of triumph stories about guys being assholes to bitchy women, etc. None of that is necessarily a bad thing (depending on what you're looking for) but IMO it's a bit too extreme and harsh for my tastes. I like viewing a woman as a fun time to be had and not as a sexual adversary.

Just read it for yourself and TRUST YOUR INSTINCTS. You wanna get good with women? Crazy as it sounds it can start by doing something as simple as forming opinions on these articles and posts. Start sticking to what you believe in and rejecting that which doesn't agree with you. You seem very open to suggestions which is great but honestly women don't really appreciate a guy looking to others for advice as much as they appreciate a guy who is sure of himself. Use this as your first opportunity to really start deciding and setting boundaries about what sort of guy you want to be. How do you want to seduce women? What sort of man do you want to become? Do you want to take this seriously or playfully? There are many different styles and none are really better than others. Learn who you are, TRUST who that person is and don't second guess yourself. Start by reading over the material you see on here and forming opinions on it.

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[–]aOs_Student 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

so is /r/theredpill more of a masucline way to learn it all?

In a way yes...but it gets pretty deep once you learn the psychology behind every decision most women make when you are around them.

would your recommend /r/theredpill higher then /r/seduction?

Eh, it's a mix really. Sometimes you get good gems from /r/seduction and other times redpill blows my mind with good stuff...

Take for example Mark mansons book on models which I got from this subreddit. It had a lot of good examples on how to be more legit with yourself and polarizing women as much as possible to weed out the bad eggs. Then there's another good book from redpill called No More Mr. Nice guy which made sense to me as a former "nice guy". It basically talks about being more masculine and why nice guys act the way they do. Take from both subreddits whatever feels right in your situation.

Other subreddits to consider: /r/asktrp

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