Okay, I was looking good, I was confident and motivated. No problems holding eye contact and having fun with my buddies. I don't even have to explain the whole situation, because I failed on the most basic task.

It was a club. I met that HB8 (at that night more like HB7), that I've only seen once before and added her on Facebook afterwards (FB-Close). I didn't get flirty the last time, because I had something going on with another girl.

The innitial contact THIS time was alright, but not much more then a hello. I had to catch up to my buddy. Half an hour later there was the perfect opportunity to go over and talk to her. The opportunity lastet for at least half an hour.

Although I have been a lurker on seddit for a few weeks and I DO know whats the right thing to do - I didn't go over there and talk to her. After reading all the motivating guides, reports and other posts I thought this would be easy. Nope. AA held me back with a lot of made-up reasons and scenarios, that made perfect sense in that moment. I just stood there, focused on looking busy and cool and looking over to her again and again.

It was the most classic case of AA and I only realised it when it was much too late. Next thing I tried, was to dance with her, when i met her on the dancefloor. She denied. Of course she did - I didn't build up any game at all. Awkward. Just talking to her before would NOT have been awkward at all. I had plenty of stuff to use as a second opener. Still I didn't. Moreover I had a little bit of "oneitis" that night, too.

So once again I went home, thinking "I could have done this and that...". At least I tried at all. It really was a desperate attempt, a failure and a lesson. I'll practise and get better. No more shit like that. I hope YOU won't let it happen, too! Fuck AA! Just go over and talk to her. Use all the basic stuff you learned in here.