Hey seddit, this is my first FR. One of my biggest fears used to be the approach on women, and last night i definitely conquered that. This is the second weekend ive gone out sarging, and it went pretty well by my standards. I had a huge confidence boost going out last night, since last weekend I went out solo and # closed twice.

Anyways, the venue I went to was a pretty popular club, it was 18+ and by campus so its always packed. I'm 21 but I went with a friend who is only 20. I went up the the bar and ordered a drink, i was extremely nervous but I started to chat up the girl next to me. My first open of the night, i came to a realization you guys already know: IT DOESNT MATTER WHAT YOU USE TO OPEN. The first thing that came to my mind was she was wearing a jacket that looked like something justin bieber would wear. She thought it was funny, and i chatted her up for a few mins and then I left to go to take a leak.

I opened several sets that night, some of the women clearly werent interested in the start so i just left. I approached this short cute blonde girl, chatted her up for about 20 mins. She was really into it, her friend came over and I introduced myself, I was definitely in the zone talkign to them they were loving me. I was doing great with kino, touching her arms, shoulders, hand, but I really didnt know how to escalate kino further. We had a really good conversation but eventually they left and i didnt # close, I know I easily could have but I just didnt pull the trigger.

I had three really good conversations with gorgeous women, but i didnt # close in any of them. I just didnt know what to say without making it sound awkward i guess, im not really sure what happened.

Although I didnt #close or k close, I had a blast. I really used to hate clubs because I never approached anyone i didnt know. I had a really good time, i talked to hot women, was touching them and they loved it, they were feeling my arms up, it was great. My AA will always be there, but from now it it will NEVER hold me back from apporaching. My sticking point now is closing, which i think i can easily get over by just pulling the trigger.