This is my first FR ever so it is what it is, enjoy.

This was now 2 days ago, at sunday.

Found this chick online on a supposedly more "serious" online dating site where there's a little bigger emphasis on profile writing and sending emails rather than IM's.

I went with my newfound rule of not wasting time with emails, send something different, funny, silly, not the standard "Hi how are you" boring crap, trying to make quick decisions on what I read from her profile and just keep the flow of sending messages out going. And keep it to a maximum of 3 emails from each side before I ask for a number or for any other means of reaching the girl, Kik in this case seems to be what most people use around here.

So 3 messages of random banter, making a little fun out of her profile, saying how I was disappointed that she wasn't enough of a crazy cat lady as she claimed on her profile and cracking some random family guy jokes which she turned out to be into, told her to give me her number and / or kik and there we go.

The next morning I sent her a picture of a rubber duck/pig I had at home to see what reaction I'd get, nothing really special but we started up a conversation and after a few messages I proposed a date, she was busy for the weekend but still proposed sunday for drinks.

This was about tuesday and up until saturday before setting an actual time for sunday I just sent a message or two every other day with something funny / value offering to make sure she remembers me.

Sunday hits and I'm running out of ideas where the hell to take her, I want a place with couches (sofas?) to avoid the boring face to face situation while stuck on uncomfortable chairs at a table, but I still text her and tell her to meet at a central station at 5pm.

An hour or so later I get a text saying she's already at the central coming home from a friend and going home felt kind of pointless for her as she lived a bit away and suggested we'd meet earlier, I felt like fuck it, let's go, I just needed a shower and get my hair together.

Now at this point I had promised myself this, escalate, escalate and escalate, don't you fucking dare to chicken out on getting physical, even if she's not as good looking as on the pictures or whatever, if it's real bad it's still practice. (She turned out to be a 6 maybe, a bit chubby but massive tits and a real nice girl)

30 minute train ride there, she's picked up the pace on texting asking where to meet and such, I told her to find a pillar at the station and stand there looking cute while she waits for me to arrive.

Arrive 30 minutes later, give her a solid hug and put my arm around her saying we should go grab some food since she was really hungry.

While eating I try to make sure I keep eye contact to a higher degree, not so much that I can't eat but to make sure I look her in the eyes while we're talking and avoid asking pointless close-ended questions to keep the conversation going.

After eating we're at the point to go grab drinks, my mind kinda blanks out because I'm not very familiar with bars around the area, I haven't really dated since I was 18 and back then it was mostly cafés since the chicks were younger.

She asks where we should head and I say I want a place with couches(sofas?) and she suggests a place, great. Once we arrive there it's indeed a nice place, I picked a table with a corner L shaped sofa, sit her down and sit myself down next to her within arms reach, barmaid comes by, asks us what we want to order, we order a beer each and start talking.

After a short while I jump in closer to her, pull her up to me and keep my arm around her, after noticing she's actually cuddling up against me I just went for the kiss and from there on it was conversations mixed with makeouts for quite a while.

We both lost track of time and about 2 hours later I kind of started teasing her saying she was a bad girl and if she keeps kissing my neck like that I might have to take her home, 15 minutes from here I check the trains and said we're leaving and take her to my place.

At this point we've had real silly conversations fooling around at the bar so we keep each other laughing the train ride home while she sits in my lap, once we get inside I just threw her on the bed and it went pretty fast from makeout to sex.

Suggestions and pointers are really welcome, I'm satisfied with myself for sticking to my plan of being physical from the get-go, I never really got any signal to back down so I kinda kept going, I suspect that I could have been even more forward and made the pull way earlier. Rather than doing the whole "I might have to take you home" thing I probably could've just said "Let's go we're leaving" but that could maybe have been risky, I've no idea.

Cheers.