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4

NYC boys reading this, step up!
/r/seduction12/04/24 10:12 PM
3

Where are you located? This sub can help you out. Plenty if guys need wingmen
/r/seduction12/04/24 09:27 PM
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A lot of men don’t have wingmen and my bet is the OP doesn’t either
/r/seduction12/04/24 06:06 PM
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I’ll be buying No More Mr Nice Guy asap. Keep seeing it recommended. Reformed nice guy
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:20 PM
3

Where do women approach you? Bars? Where else? Curious to learn more about The Tao Ching
/r/seduction07/04/24 12:16 AM
4

Spot on
/r/seduction03/04/24 11:16 PM
5

It’s as if you’ve done this with an ex once before…. Great advice
/r/seduction03/04/24 07:59 PM
2

If anyone in OC wants/needs a wingman to go out with, PM me. I’m a big fan of RSD (Tyler and Jeffy) and need to improve my game (38 M) To answer your question OP, I haven’t dated much in LA specifically but OC isn’t all that different than other places. Women respond the same.
/r/seduction25/03/24 04:17 AM
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Not true. Can be above 6ft and fat/obese = no-go
/r/seduction21/03/24 08:58 PM
106

Well said. Focus on what the girl DOES, not what she SAYS.
/r/seduction27/02/24 06:59 PM
3

Dude. You are DEFINITELY above average in terms of looks. Work on your mental game. Your self confidence. You got this!!! You won’t die alone
/r/seduction20/12/23 06:04 PM
1

Never thought about hookah for a first date spot, but it could work. thanks.
/r/seduction21/03/16 12:48 AM
6

Interesting. Go for it and report back here!
/r/seduction24/01/16 09:34 PM
2

Agreed. I'd try and banter around a bit more and create some more comfort before coming on flirty/aggressive like that.
/r/seduction15/01/16 11:53 PM
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That was a good video, thanks. Never thought of this but looking back I definitely go into the "try hard" mentality when nervous
/r/seduction27/06/15 01:57 AM
1

Good stuff!
/r/seduction31/05/15 02:25 AM
2

You did well. Not every girl will say yes.
/r/seduction21/05/15 04:07 AM
2

Good first link
/r/seduction16/05/15 10:08 PM
1

If your end goal is a kiss, then you don't need to do anything. If your end goal is sex, then you need to plan out how to get her from there to your/her place.
/r/seduction14/05/15 03:52 AM
3

Yea, logistics are key. If things aren't planned, it will make a great day/evening/date fizzle at the end. But good FR.
/r/seduction13/05/15 06:31 PM
93

Good job! Congrats. Big first time. But please use periods....
/r/seduction11/05/15 03:33 AM
2

No movie will make her horny. You have to. Sorry bud! Good luck and write a field report [FR] after
/r/seduction11/05/15 12:01 AM
8

Wow, amazing post. Mods should sidebar this. Very eye opening, especially Levels 3 through 5 for women.
/r/seduction10/05/15 11:59 PM
1

Interesting. Will have to try this soon. Are you in Miami?
/r/seduction09/05/15 08:22 PM
9

Opens the door with her nightgown on, nice. I've also had some trouble kissing before the movie ends in the past, but just go for it now and it works more often than not. Otherwise, I have no other tips for you. Good job. I always upvote FR.
/r/seduction07/05/15 04:04 AM
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Yea, sounds like he raw dogged it... and maybe pulled out? But the jiz... in or on the hot tub... hahaha wouldn't wanna be the next person in that thing.
/r/seduction05/05/15 01:49 AM
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Nice job! I'm guessing this was an Asian chick?
/r/seduction03/05/15 09:18 PM
1

Sounds like you did a decent job, just didn't have the logistics down, i.e. didn't realize by the end of the night how far it was to her place, or didn't have an alternate place already planned out, so even if she was DTF, it was difficult for it to happen (as you saw). Other than escalating a little more, it sounds like you did a good job.
/r/seduction02/05/15 01:26 AM
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I've had way better odds with OKC than with Tinder. I think it's location-dependent.
/r/seduction01/05/15 10:50 PM
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Thanks. Needed that.
/r/seduction01/05/15 04:23 AM
1

Hey, it doesn't always work out, but still a great FR. I'm not sure I would have driven back to be honest.... but that's just me. Sounds like she was unsure of you, hence why I think maybe a Day 2 would have worked in your favor.
/r/seduction01/05/15 03:12 AM
1

Good article! I didn't know that the legs should only be spread apart 6-9 inches for best orgasm potential.
/r/seduction28/04/15 03:07 AM
3

Congrats! BTW... did you or her get a lot of sand up in there??
/r/seduction28/04/15 12:49 AM
8

Congrats dude! Becoming the best person you can be, believing in yourself, and pushing yourself is what it's all about, not about a certain number of k/f/#-closes.
/r/seduction27/04/15 12:36 AM
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What you're saying is you have to build more comfort with prude girls, rather than just convey value.
/r/seduction26/04/15 04:23 PM
1

Logistics are probably the most important thing to screen for from the get go.
/r/seduction25/04/15 01:39 AM
10

Move on
/r/seduction21/04/15 03:55 AM
1

Gotcha, makes more sense, thanks
/r/seduction19/04/15 10:52 PM
2

This sounds somewhat crude, not sure if I'd really want to try it right off the open like that...
/r/seduction19/04/15 05:24 PM
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cool, thx. Yea that was my feeling too. Quality girl so I didn't push too hard.
/r/seduction17/04/15 08:00 PM
3

Very nice.
/r/seduction16/04/15 04:49 AM
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Maybe you subconsciously value blondes more and therefore seem more needy to them and you get flaked on? Either that or it's just shitty luck dude.
/r/seduction16/04/15 02:30 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vg55bBfpXW0
/r/seduction15/04/15 04:53 AM
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You have to have her invest in YOU, not you in HER. This will be different for everyone. Basically, be awesome from the get go, and maintain a DGAF attitude (this is how you convey non-neediness and don't appear desperate). The rest, you can't control. If she flakes, move on.
/r/seduction15/04/15 01:48 AM
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I would narrow things down. I've been dating about 4 women simultaneously recently and it's exhausting. I'm paring it down to 2. You may be able to manage 3, but beyond that is probably pushing it. Also, I probably wouldn't be fucking 2 or 3 that all know each other or are friends, but that's just my two cents. Good luck, sounds like you have a good harem going.
/r/seduction14/04/15 08:05 PM
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Basically she hasn't "bought in" and isn't invested enough. I will go two ways: push hard at the beginning to get as much attraction as I can, then pursue her if she tries to flake, otherwise I just move on.
/r/seduction14/04/15 07:27 PM
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yea, for me too, never really thought about it like that. Although I have gotten some replies from "offline" girls, so if she's interested, she'll reply.
/r/seduction14/04/15 07:25 PM
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Good stuff. I've had success from first-contact-to-meet up by escalating quickly, getting that numbers, and texting to set up a date. It really screens out the flakes and those that are on there purely for attention and never actually want to meet up!
/r/seduction14/04/15 05:13 AM
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Good stuff. Will start doing this today.
/r/seduction12/04/15 08:37 PM
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You got some good experience, though. You're basically describing my issues too: it's so much easier to be outcome-independent and fun when you're talking to a girl on your level or below. Once I hit that HB 8-10 is where I feel I'm still outcome-dependent and my game falters.
/r/seduction12/04/15 07:15 PM
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You live and learn.
/r/seduction11/04/15 12:38 AM
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Wow, sounds like a great weekend. Congrats. Hope I'm at that point once I'm at 3 years in the game. Do you have any qualms about fucking a married girl, btw?
/r/seduction10/04/15 10:54 PM
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I like many of his videos and this was a good one too
/r/seduction05/04/15 07:27 PM
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I really dig his "shut the fuck up" attitude, it's kind of refreshing, a la Jeffy from RSD.
/r/seduction05/04/15 12:48 AM
1

Good stuff. Nice to see how you break through the resistance at key points (i.e. first main resistance moving her from store to first restaurant, then from restaurant to your place).
/r/seduction05/04/15 12:13 AM
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I have two other dates with hot chicks lined up. Should I bring them to the "date" next time this girl texts me to meet up? Will post FR for the other two anyway!! April is looking good
/r/seduction04/04/15 09:22 PM
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Thanks bro. I bailed. We'll see what her response is.
/r/seduction04/04/15 09:20 PM
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Makes sense. I'm not bent out of shape about it, have others in the rotation anyway.
/r/seduction04/04/15 08:54 PM
1

Yea I hear ya. She broke it off with him due to cheating, but we'll see...
/r/seduction04/04/15 08:38 PM
1

Very nice, good job. Looks like it really helps to find someone who also wants something casual and you guys click.
/r/seduction27/03/15 09:24 PM
1

Very nice, thanks OP.
/r/seduction26/03/15 02:19 AM
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Ugh, she postponed the date for another day due to family stuff (seems legit excuse so I'll give her benefit of the doubt). Will do [FR] when I get chance to use this next, maybe this weekend at the wedding.
/r/seduction26/03/15 01:01 AM
5

When you're terrified of her, just remember that her shits smell just like yours.
/r/seduction25/03/15 09:01 PM
10

Good job! Gonna try it tonight on a date too
/r/seduction25/03/15 08:43 PM
2

Thanks! My main sticking point is where would I pull her to? Bathroom doesn't seem like a great option. I have a hotel room but it's not near where the reception is so unless she's staying at the same hotel that may be out...
/r/seduction25/03/15 05:01 AM
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Such a great movie! Will have to test it out and see, I'm just worried about logistics
/r/seduction25/03/15 03:42 AM
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Just a one night stand due to location of the wedding
/r/seduction25/03/15 03:23 AM
3

Well done!
/r/seduction25/03/15 02:38 AM
1

Congrats! Tell us about the meet up with the HB8.5
/r/seduction24/03/15 08:28 PM
18

Good post. You're right that common problems are common. Nobody is special.
/r/seduction23/03/15 02:10 PM
4

I like this video where Owen talks about why the "pick up batting average" is a good question but ultimately unimportant: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7LckdmM-9RE
/r/seduction22/03/15 07:15 PM
3

Do both. Continue to rock the text game, as this also indirectly improves your inner game, but nothing can replace actual experience in-field.
/r/seduction22/03/15 05:03 AM
1

Good experience, learn from it for next time, you'll remember it for sure. Try not to dwell on it too much. You'll do better next time.
/r/seduction22/03/15 04:11 AM
3

Pretty good advice. Good way to eliminate needy texts is to ask myself if this leads to some sort of in-person encounter.
/r/seduction22/03/15 04:04 AM
2

Damn, nice problem to have. Summon all your PUA skills and do a [FR] or two for us here afterwards, even if it's a bad outcome. Good luck!
/r/seduction22/03/15 04:02 AM
1

yea, most likely didn't create enough attractions if my guess
/r/seduction22/03/15 04:00 AM
1

Thanks, will do
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:44 AM
1

Good job dude! Something I'm also still working on. ASSUME ATTRACTION. They don't want it? Move on.
/r/seduction22/03/15 03:38 AM
1

Baller. Outcome independence at it's finest.
/r/seduction22/03/15 02:51 AM
1

Congratulations on the start of your new life!
/r/seduction21/03/15 02:17 AM
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Nice, you're getting out there and learning, you're doing more than what I did when I was 19. Over time you'll become more comfortable with flirting with girls. Basically just make fun of them in a sly way, you'll get the hang of it.
/r/seduction20/03/15 06:52 PM
2

Good stuff. Keep learning!
/r/seduction20/03/15 04:15 AM
1

Good stuff, thanks.
/r/seduction13/03/15 02:43 AM
1

Great post! Thanks
/r/seduction12/03/15 03:12 AM
1

Agree with oriah, they are in YOUR movie, not YOUR in theirs. Don't let them dictate your game. You do it your way, and the girls will come, as you've been seeing. And as far as my practicing, it's been relatively recent, few months. Don't worry, everything is doable.
/r/seduction10/03/15 11:17 PM
2

Great job. I'm very much like you and noticing that my game is improving now that I'm later on in my 20's. My "gentlemanly" nature is earning mega points. Thanks for a good writeup, especially about the kiss and 50 shades book.
/r/seduction10/03/15 02:32 AM
1

Flakes very common, especially with online game!! Neeeeext
/r/seduction09/03/15 06:36 PM
1

2nd date should involve something of interest that you picked up while talking to her on the 1st date... is she a foodie? wine lover? hiker? likes listening to music?
/r/seduction06/03/15 09:13 PM
8

How's that turning out for ya? Actually gotten laid with your strategy?
/r/seduction06/03/15 03:01 AM
1

Seconded. Get out there and date around. Maybe it'll work out, maybe not, but you won't know that until you try.
/r/seduction04/03/15 05:51 AM
37

Gold. She's in YOUR movie, not you in hers.
/r/seduction04/03/15 04:12 AM
5

hahahaha awesome, karma's a biatch
/r/seduction03/03/15 04:02 AM
2

you got it!
/r/seduction02/03/15 05:04 AM
3

Good job going out and pushing yourself!
/r/seduction01/03/15 07:09 PM
2

You need to continue working on your inner game, your confidence and figuring out what you truly love about yourself. What makes you smile? You need to realize you are enough (which is what I'm working on also). The girl feels what you feel.
/r/seduction01/03/15 05:14 AM
1

thanks, appreciate it
/r/seduction01/03/15 12:40 AM
5

Very cool, good job dude! Way to show dominance, congruence and amplifying your own state. Do a [FR] after the day 2.
/r/seduction28/02/15 09:34 PM
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Yea, that's what I was thinking, it does feel like it would be lowering my standards. I'm mostly interested in just having sex with other girls to see what it's like, as although I was in a long relationship, I haven't been with too many different girls up until now. I wanna really find out what I like and don't like.
/r/seduction28/02/15 06:29 PM
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