Guys&Gals, A little background. I am still in college, have never had a real girlfriend, always been super competitive in sports and life. ( was on a team that was ranked #1 in the country in my respective sport as well as have started a few businesses) I have balls do not get me wrong, but I have always thought that I was not good looking enough. ( have rejected some women in high school because of this ) Starting to run into major problem when hitting on older women, women my age in general.While everyone my age was living it up, I was working. Very worried that it is a huge turnoff that I have not made out with anyone yet. Better yet, I know it is a problem. I am here to ask for some help. Should I openly tell people about my issue when hitting on them? Should I solicit myself on tinder as looking for someone to break me in lol? What should be done about this? By kissed, I mean tongue. I have kissed plenty of them on lips and cheek, but have never gone for the "kill." Any help would be greatly appreciated.