First off I would like to say thank you Seddit! You guys have helped me more in the past week of reading stuff from you guys and some of you answering my Beta noob questions than most people have my entire life. So this is my first field report so sorry if things arn't up to normal standards to those regulars here on Seddit.
Ok so there is this girl I work with that I have a crush on and I work primarily with girls. Being that most of my coworkers are females I figure at work this could be a good time to try some light kino techniques boost my confidence and just practice overall before all the sexual stuff (cause obviously I can't work that far into kino at work).
First a little about how the way my job works. We work with at least one other person and help each other work the line occasionally since I work midshifts I get paired up with multiple people throughout the day.
I get paired with (lets call her T) on line first. She has a boyfriend but I'll try some simple stuff nontheless. I try a few hand bumps and some minor stuff like that, hand brushing the shoulder nothing that serious. Didn't really get a response. I think ok well at least I tried maybe it won't work cause she has a boyfriend and I'm not that experienced. Next I get paired with (Lets call him K) and I'm like shit I have to work with him for the rest of the day and can't practice. I get my break and come back to find out I get to work on line with my crush (lets call her A) while K goes on break. I'm like awesome here is my chance.
So after a little while I try some minor kino stuff like before hand brushing hers, standing close and talking to her slow and smooth like, a few other small things and I don't really see a change. I go to hand T something from line and I have to get by A and I naturally take my hand place it on her shoulder and slowly rub my hand down her back and 'push' her away from me (What I mean by that is push but not actually pushing her but it looks like I am but I'm just pushing myself away). This was the gamechanger. I noticed her more talkitive with me and giving me a few responses and on the inside I'm just like holy crap it worked. still amazed how something small like that escalated it So then I tried some of that small stuff again rub her leg with mine, go up to her say something funny with my hand gently on her shoulder stuff like that being more confident now. She was about to get off line with me and let K back on line so I figured this is now or never to ask her to hangout since we are both off tomorrow. I was real nervous Betaness setting in and whatnot but I did it. I said, "I have a request." She said, "What is it? Hang out with me tomorrow," I said. I felt really good about it but unfortunately she said that she had plans to go to her niece's recital tomorrow and her mom would never let her skip it. Being upset but still playing it cool I reply, "Too bad I was really looking forward to showing you my bowling skills." She replied, "I could kick your ass at bowling!" I replied, feeling Alpha as fuck I may add, "I'll hold you to that." I know that may not be an Alpha moment but this is a HUGE step for me. Before I would have just never asked and hated myself later thinking how much of an idiot I was for not asking. But I asked! And even though she said she had other plans and had to decline. I feel great about it! I'm going to try and ask her again in a few weeks and tell her that she owes me a bowling match.
So Seddit not bad for my first time right? Insight and suggestions on what to do next time would be great but just had to share that with you guys!
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