I'll try to keep this short since it's a long story, and if you have any questions I can follow up.

On Sunday I was driving back from Safeway with my dad who was visiting from out of town and saw a yardsale a few blocks from my house. I've been looking for a couch to put on my roof, so I stopped. There was a really hot girl there. I opened on her, not sure what I said, she talked with me and my dad a bit. I invited her to a BBQ at my place. She took my address, but I didn't think she'd come over.

An hour later she shows up at my house with her friend. Her: Blonde, skinny, ~5'8, black stockings, short shorts, a thin white t shirt, perky tits with no bra, and tons of side-tit action showing through. Her friend: cute, half asian, skinny, ok face, totally fuckable. My roommates and my dad were there. I got them to drink with us and they were pounding PBRs and drinking some liquor.

The half-asian was talking to me a lot, and we were making really good connections. I looked into her eyes a lot and it seemed to be going almost too good. The blonde was hotter but I was happy with either, and she didn't seem interested in me.

They asked to smoke weed. My dad is a huge pot head so he offered to smoke them up. They came down off my roof into my apartment and smoked up. I had trouble getting into the conversation at this point, my dad was being a huge cockblock. Some how I lost all relevancy over the next 30 minutes, I couldn't say anything that kept them interested. I found out at some point they were both 18, which seemed to make sense. They were listening to all sorts of typical freshman year of college music on my computer. After about 20 more minutes of them ignoring me and watching dumb shit on my computer, I made a last ditch effort. The half-asian had something on her face and I wiped it off for her. We looked at each other awhile, and I think I put my arm around her some how. It was pretty suave, but she backed away. She then made a comment a few seconds later about how her boyfriend was really into Telepopmusik (the band that came on.)

I was annoyed with babysitting them at this point, so I told them I had to give my roommate and oatmeal bath (lol) and they had to leave. Anyway I knew I blew it but I still am not sure how. I would have liked to see what would have happened without my dad there and the weed. Maybe just more alcohol, and something more intimate. I feel like he desexualized the whole thing, and they all turned into friends. I have no idea what I could have done, since I felt like the halfasian was really into me, but I wanted the blonde, and she showed no signs.

Anyway I remembered I have tickets to see CSS at the Fillmore on Thursday, so I figured I'd text the blonde and see what she'd say. I wrote "do you want to be my date for CSS at the fillmore on thursday?"

She responded a minute later "What's CSS?"

I wrote back "some brazillian poprock band" probably could have made a joke but I wasn't really putting to much effort into this.

She responded "are you asking [half-asian, name redacted]"

I think she said this because the other girl doesn't have a phone at the moment (broke it or something.) So I feel like I have a few options. One say, "doesn't [half-asian] have a boyfriend?" but that feels kinda beta, and destined to fail. I could try a more alpha approach to get the half-asian to come, but she still probably has a boyfriend. I would still rather bang blondie with the hot tits, but she's showed no interest. Is there anyway to feel out which I'd have a better chance with? How would seddit proceed?