I'm just going to drop in with a few events on my journey through learning seduction. I began going out more about three weeks ago, usually by myself. I read a few posts on here, mainly the items on the side and some of the stuff on kino. I started putting into practice on a personal/professional level. I work in a theater company (plays) and I have plenty of opportunities to mingle and connect with people. I began practicing and breaking out of another shell. I've become more comfortable with touching people. That was one of my goals and I can mark that off the list. What follows is some of the more memorable instance where I approached a woman or set and made notable progress.

  1. I was working on a Thursday night and a young lady (single mother) approached me at the bar/concessions we started talking. She invited me to this cafe where they were having some stand-up. I told I would try to make it after work. 10 o'clock rolls around and I decide to head to the cafe. I'm standing at the bar and I see the young lady from the corner of my eye. I ignore her. she comes to me at the bar and we start talking. I buy a beer and then proceed to sit down. Instead of sitting with her I sit down with a group of four women. I play the jerk card with them. One of them tells me that I'm sitting in her friends seat, I respond, "Oh well." After about 10 min or so I get up, tell the four girls to watch my stuff. I go over to the young lady who invited me and sit with her and her friend. Nothing clicks. I move back to the set and start up a small conversation. Introduce myself but again nothing clicks. After about 20 min of just chilling at the bar I walk around for a bit (aimlessly really) and I see a group of friends at the corner of the cafe. Three girls and one guy. I ask why they picked the corner and proceed to talk to them. They were are pretty cute (HB9, HB8, and HB7) I start to talk to the HB8 we hit it off.

  2. HB8, we'll call her Katie. I use the stuff I've learned in the escalation ladder. Arm, then I rub her leg with my foot, rub her back. All the while, she is comfortable and smiling. I pull out my notebook and we start to draw each other. She drew me and then I drew her. Again a lot of smiling and laughing. When I'm done I move in closer to her and brush her thigh with my hand. I start playing with her hair and a necklace of hers. Then, I plateau. I hit a wall. I felt that she wanted me to make a move and I pussed out. We continue talking, which felt like mostly filler. Her friends were asking if she wanted to leave, she kept stalling until finally she said it was time to leave. I ask for the number and got it, but she said "we can hang out but just as friends." She has called me but nothing has come of it, yet. ;)

This showed me a lot! 1. I had never escalated this far with a girl without first going on a few dates and knowing them for a while. It is possible to do it much faster. 2. I need to quit being afraid to kiss a girl and go for it when the time is right.

I have a few more reports I gotta post. Next is a girl at a bar that I tried to F-close in a matter of minutes.