Hi seddit, I think think this is my first FR here.

Me and the girl are still both in Highschool, I know we're still young, but let's just skip to the FR cause I think I handled it pretty well:


Since I was feeling pretty good, I decided to go out with some friends and just have fun. Had a few drinks and went to this darkish club with shitty music and lasers and all that jazz. After a while I didn't know where the toilet was so I asked this HB 7 (or 6.5?) where the toilet was while kino'ing and holding eye-contact, I notice her melting away because she wasn't really used to this stuff (she seldom went out) and there weren't much guys active besides me.

When I return from the toilet, I notice her checking me out while walking to my friends. I go to her in a straight line while holding eye-contact, pull her away from her friends and then they start talking to her about me. I would've thought they would take her away from me, but instead they all left us alone to talk a little bit.

So I just start talking to her:

Me: Hey, I didn't catch your name, I am Dokus

Her(while giggling): Hi, I'm Jane

I move closer to her, with my hand on her back, almost doing as if I would K-close her, she doesn't pull back, so I knew it would be easy

Me: Hey Jane, you seem like a pretty fun girl. Let's play a game!

I take her hand, put in mine and say her we'll be having a thumbwrestle-contest

Me: so you know this game right? How good are you at it?

Her: Oh, I'm pretty bad, maybe a 1/10 at it

Me: Come on, you can't be serious, even my 2 year old sister is better than you! let's try a game I put my thumb slightly on hers, she didn't notice

Her: Ok

Me: (I lean in, still with my arm around her) seems like I've already won, Jane.

Her: Oh you jerk, let's play again

Me: Yeah sure, but I prefer having a bet. Let's say you'll go on a date with me if I win, and you can choose your own prize if you win. What do you choose?

Her: (she hesitated for a moment) I'd like a kiss from you if I win.

Me: Well aren't we a little bit too confident? (wink)

we play the game and I own her

Me: Yay, now I don't have to kiss you (while laughing, she didn't know what the hell was going on, I think she expected me to lose or something)

After teasing her a little bit I go in for the kiss and that's that.


What I did good

  • Kino and eyecontact from the start
  • Playfully teasing (thumb-wrestling is great)
  • showing my dominance (I think an afc would have let himself lose at it or something)
  • Made my intentions clear from the start (I asked her out on a date)

What I did wrong

  • Stayed only with her the rest of the evening, kind of let my friends off on their own
  • Didn't approach other girls

I think I did pretty good for a beginner, I've been reading this stuff for over a year, but only put it in practice since recently.

TL;DR: Met girl, thumb-wrestled, kissed her

Any comments/hints are appreciated