First, a little background: I've been a lurker for about a year now, and this is my first try at a field report. 19yo guy, that never had a girlfriend, first kissed a girl about a year ago and have had a fwb for a couple of months. And now the night...

It was a tipical thursday night, where I usually go to a bar alone and meet some friends there. After a couple of drinks, me and 2 mates where next to two girls (which i shall name A (+/- 7) and C (6.5)). The bars photographer tried to set up one of my friends with A, which didn't go anywhere. While that was happening, I was chatting up some random HB just for some fun. When the bar got some slow music going on, one of my friends tried to dance with C, but she denied by saying she didn't now how. The next song came and I tried to show my friend how to do it. I got up to C and asked her to dance, while reaching my hand for hers. As she saying that she didn't know, I simply grabbed her and said "Me neither. We can learn together without feeling embarrased." I didn't actually believe it, but it work and now I was "in the group". After a while of chatting them up and pulling some ny friends in from time to time (I wasn't really into those two, so i decided to try and wingman them). Fast forward a little bit, and the bar is wrapping things up to close. My friends wanted to go a club nearby, and use a policy of "dates have free entrance". So I told them to go talk to A and C. When i saw them hesitate I went in and did it for them. They agreed to go with them, and here is where I did wrong as a wingman... I tagged along. I may have ruined there chance oh getting things going for the moment. But it was soon to change.

After a while at the club, I walked away from the group and passed by an HB 8 (calling her L). That was the changing moment of the night. Our eyes had crossed and he both gave a smile. But it was just s brief passby for now. After returning to the group, my friends hadn't gone more than snapchat/number, so I joined them. After a short couple of minutes, me a L saw each other and again, smiled at each other. This happened 3/4 more times along the night and when my friends/group lefted, I stayed. At this time I had no idea where L was. And again, slow music starts. I was roaming around when I saw her again. So I just got the courage inside of me, went up to her and simply stretched my hand. She looked at me, smiled, and we started dancing. I now know that I could have gone in sooner, but that didn't matter anymore. I while into the song I kissed her cheek then her neck. While doing that, she grabbed me harder, so I risked it and went for the kiss. It was just a small "peck", but she went in for more. After a while of making out and gropping each other, I finally learned her name and that she was a foreign student. Even though I thought she was from my country, it didn't matter at all. After a while of making out and such, I walked her home, which is literally next to mine (school residential area) and we chatted for a couple of minutes. Before leaving, I asked if I would see her again, and she just said to add her on Facebook.

Now this is my hard spot. I'm not sure if I should message her on Facebook, or just wait for another night and hope to find her. I don't want to seem needy that I urgently need to see/be with her, and I have had other one nighters, but I really found this one interesting and would like to hang out with her again.

My thoughts on the night: Don't wait for "the perfect moment". Simply assume attraction. Get better at my wingman job/help my friends get better. But everyone has their bad nights.