So i went to a rave last night(not gigantic, but you would see the same people semi-often), and it went amazingly. I honestly felt like I was the life of the party, for a few reasons:

From the get go, I was talking to everyone. I didn't have my ticket when I got there, and was waiting in line for 2 hours with the same 20ish people in front and behind me. Made really good friends with all of them.

When I finally made it inside, if I saw a hot girl, I would make it a point go up to her and start talking to her, be that "high kid", but I WOULD NOT ask her to dance immediately. I would say something along the lines of, are you having a good time at this party?(It was a foam rave; SO FUCKING AWESOME. a little grimy, but i definitely enjoyed it.) They would give me a half assed yes, with there tone of voice clearly indicating, "is this guy serious right now?" and then I would respond with an extremely enthusiastic, "THIS FOAM IS FUCKING AWESOME! FOAAAAM EVERYWHERE!!!! and throw it up in the air." and it worked. another good one is, "are you rolling?" and then when they say yes, ask them how there roll is going, how many points etc. People love to talk about themselves, and what they've ingested. We've all heard that dude, "I WAS SO FUCKED UP GUYS! SERIOUSLY." and thought he was a huge doucher. But if your asking, it allows people to open up and reveal these secrets about themselves, that they usually if not always want to divulge anyways. They enjoy telling you, and as long as you FOCUS(pay the fuck attention. seriously guys. and NO WEED until bedtime) you can use that info later to your advantage. The people that you meet that are looking(for drugs) you can ask, " Mission accomplished?" with a thumbs up and knowing grin, and all of a sudden you and that HB 9 with stars on her nipples have an inside a joke, a secret together. It builds a lot of attraction, quickly.

Definitely in a rave/festival environment, enthusiasm is key. Everyone there came to this thinking, "Fuck I want to have a good time, I hope some people dance with me, I hope I meet cool people, I hope the foam isn't lame etc. etc." and I made them both feel at ease, entertained, and intrigued. All with enthusiasm alone, and some decent small talk. I have been practicing talk to everyone, and it has definitely improved my conversational skills. If your having fun, so will the people your talking with. and they know nothing about you. I had so many girls give me the, "are you player?" This was my second successful rave ever. But because they knew nothing about me, I felt like I could be anything..Anyone..And everyone..The ladies man, the chill homie, the high kid, the face melter. It was a huge DHV to the individual(who I almost always saw later in the night, and then asked to dance, with a for sure yes, only got shut down once, and later in the night I found out she was junior in high school. EEEEEEEEK. Dodged that bullet, she was fine as fuck too. damn prostitots at all ages events) and the crowd as a whole, that I would strike up a conversation with random half naked flaming hot chicks, and not be hypnotized by the extra skin they were showing. Still kino escalate and be flirty, but unless your at a massive, don't move immediately. Every AFC with a sack, cares more about dancing than getting to know people. Your making FRIENDS, not looking for ass to grind on. Which means that you need to be completely comfortable dancing alone. Put a huge smile on your face, and It is scientifically proven that your mood will improve. Pretend to have a good time, and before you know it you will be. Be comfortable alone, DHV and talk to literally FUCKING EVERYONE. That smoking hot chick dancing with the bro. talk to both of them. That kid giving the light shows, let him melt your face and thank him for it. The fat chick that is desperately trying to find someone to hook up with, be nice to her. Be nice to everyone. After I did this for the for the first hour(obviously continued throughout the night), I would be walking around, see a hot chick that I already met, and we were best of friends. Some of the hottest chicks that I did this too, were kinoing HARD on me the second time I saw them, I think because: 1. I remembered them, and 2, I did not treat them like the slut they were dressed as. I treated them like a person, with value.

Drugs definitely help as well, but are not required. The only thing the drug changes is your state, its a shortcut to the confidence that we all have within us. Always. Be sure to handle them responsibly. Just like with alcohol, too much stops being fun and starts being overwhelming. You won't be a drunken asshole, but you will be standing there with your hands raised and your eyes in the back of your skull.

All in all I danced with sooo many chicks. idk how many, but a fuckton. Made out with three chicks, on the dance floor and in the foam zone. Around twoish I was trying to pick a target to f-close, and ended up picking shittily. She lived like an hour away, and I don't have a car/don't want to seem desperate(even though I sort of am. It's been a while guys, seriously). She's coming to visit next weekend, so definitely will lock it down, but the anticipation is killing me. Smoking hot HB8. I feel like my results would have been much much better in the long run, with making FWB that night, if it wasn't a foam party. I didn't have my cell phone the whole night, because it was sopping wet grimy foamy mess. Everything was soaked by the end of the night. If it was in my pocket, it would have been toasted by the end of the night, so I stuck it in a plastic bag in my friends bag. In the end I got left with the bluest of balls, but had an amazing time, and really just learned that soo many of those walls we put up in our head don't actually exist. Everyone wants to meet people, make friends, have that intimate circle. And as long as your not a crazy person/asshole/creeper/negative ned/insert people you don't like here they generally are very open and accepting of just about everyone they meet. Especially in an environment where Peace, Love, Unity, and Respect are the core values, that EVERYONE lives by. being an asshole at a rave is like being an atheist in the deep south. Just not socially acceptable.

TL;DR:Enthusiasm is key. Don't be afraid to let your light shine, and just be an excited fuck high out of their mind (If you choose to use), and looking to make friends! It's all about looking for friends, rather than chicks to dance with. Talk to them like you would talk to any other random dude off the street, but throw in some flirtation and kino. They will respect you for treating them much better than they deserve to be treated, considering there scanty/non-existent choice of attire. And then next time they see you, they will chase. Fish in a barrel boys, go get 'em.

FUCK ALL YOU GRAMMER NAZI's, I DO WHAT I WANT