Hi everyone; this is my second post on Seddit. Just thought I'd like to share a story about foreign language game.

About a year ago I was on a cruise ship in Russia. The waiters and waitresses all spoke poor English, and I spoke very poor Russian. However, there was one waitress in particular who was very beautiful. I'd say a HB8 (I tend to rate 1 lower than most people). She waited my table a couple of times, and I had fun just throwing some Russian at her. She thought it was pretty funny.

I eventually wrote her a note that asked if she wanted to hang out after she was done working. I thought the whole note writing seemed a little cheesy, but low-and-behold she returned about five minutes later with a positive response.

So there I was about to hang out with a girl who didn't speak my language. But it ended up going well. we had a blast teaching each other small bits of each others' language. At the end, when I went for the kiss, she pretty much jumped into me. I hung out with her for the rest of the trip, got to meet the rest of the crew through her (they were all really friendly). The older one's were super eager to get us hooked up, and the younger ones we around my age and welcomed me into they circle of friends.

I had a two-week summer romance, and I learned a few things from it.

(1) We talk a lot about inner game and approach anxiety. Guys on here will tell you it doesn't really matter what you say as long as you go for it and have a strong frame. In my case it didn't matter what I said because there was a language barrier. She totally went for it however. So guys, just approach and remember that at least you have a common language with whatever chick you see in the field. That should be more than enough to work with.

(2) Chicks dig confidence.

Hope this little story motivated all of you guys who have approach anxiety!