Hey everyone, I just wanted to share a bit about the fun I had last night. I'll give a bit of information about me at first. I'm the kind of guy that floats on the edge of conversation, listening, and only chimes in when I know that what I say will be heard or appreciated. I have a pretty absurd sense of humor sometimes, and I've gotten really good at generating laughs with rightfully timed remarks. I'm not a shy person, but I am not overtly extroverted either. I used to be worried that being on the quieter side would work to my disadvantage, but with time I have gained the internal confidence to say "fuck it," this is my personality, let's roll with it.

Anyway, I moved to South Korea two weeks ago to become and english instructor, and I went out for the first time last night with a friend that has been here the last year. We were bar hopping in a big group of expats, and finally ended up at a gay bar, since a significant portion of the group I was with are in the LGBT community. I was playing it cool, dancing pretty casually and chatting with my friend at the bar, when I noticed this really fine Korean girl looking at me. I made eye contact with her and held it, while smirking a little. This happened a few more times, and the last time I winked at her. After that, I went to the bathroom, and when heading back to the bar, the girl grabbed my hand and pulled me onto the dance floor. She had a very intense gaze that was sexy as hell, and she kept looking into my eyes as if breaking eye contact would end the moment.

We danced for about an hour, and things got progressively hotter on the dance floor. I lived in Spain for 3 months, so I have had some experience with very bold women, but none of them with a personality as dominant as hers. She was pretty tall, maybe 5'9 compared to my 6", and she kept getting very close to me and then looking up at me with an expression that was a mix between submission and dominance. She tried to steal these little kisses with me, so I decided to tease her some, by backing a way when she would lean in for a peck. I could tell this was causing her frustration, which definitely gave me some pleasure. I finally ended this dance (not the dancing), by sliding my hand from her hip up her back to her neck where I firmly (read: not aggressively, but still in a dominating way) pulled her towards me and kissed her with all the passion I know how to muster.

After about 10-15 seconds of holding the kiss, I pulled a way, and could instantly see that I had her in my palms for the rest of the night. She looked like she might faint, and by the look in her eyes I knew she was enamored with me for the moment. We continued to dance, but things began to get way more heated. She kept kissing my neck, and slowly moved up to nibble just behind my ear, which was driving me wild. We began grinding some, and she was rubbing her hands all over my body, feeling me up and basically showing that she wanted me with every ounce of her being.

This was by far one of the sexiest experiences of my life. I have never felt so wanted in public, nor have I ever seduced a girl through what was essentially, pure eye contact, body language, and physical attraction. We spoke maybe a few paragraphs to each other the whole time, mostly because the bar was loud as fuck. Sadly, the story does not have a great ending. She works in international business, and had to catch a cab straight from the bar at 6:30 am to her hotel and then the airport. If this hadn't happened I know without a doubt that we would have gone to my apartment to hook up. I also did not catch her name, since it was hard to hear, and after asking her twice and failing to comprehend, I didn't want to ask again like a fucking idiot. I don't have an international number yet, but I did give her my username on KakaoTalk (a popular korean texting app), so maybe she'll add me. Something tells me that we will not speak again though, something I'm at peace with. As if it's almost better to let the 90 minutes we were together live as a memory in my mind than tarnish it with reality.

A few sidenotes:

  • I realize that me being American probably had something to do with it, maybe she has a fetish for southern guys that look like members of the aryan race.
  • There were a few moments where I thought that I was probably dancing with chick with a dick, since it was a gay bar, but that doubt was dispelled quickly.

In conclusion, I wrote this mostly because I wanted to tell someone about this, but also because I wanted to remind everyone how important it is to maintain a cool demeanor when you're out that shows your confidence, while also being aware of how your body language, and especially eye contact can be used as tools of seduction.

TL;DR: eyefuckherlikeyou'reamute