I went shopping today at lunch to get some clothes and meet some ladies. I've never been to this mall before and I was feeling good.

I go into a "mens apparrel" store and this sexy tall drink of water is working there, so I start gaming her. Making her laugh, teasing her a little, having her help me pick out clothes. We're joking and having a good time. She's watching me try on shirts and giving her opinions, but in a good way. "Ooooh, that looks good", "I'm not crazy about that one", etc. It doesn't feel like a typical sales interaction. She has beautiful eyes and her pupils are extremely dilated. (Info: she is wearing a cap but the store is very brightly lit) She mentions that she's nervous and think her coffee might be making her jumpy (mmmmm hmmmmm, the coffee) of course, that starts a coffee convo...

Anyway, I'm unsure about one shirt she likes so she asks me if there's someone else that can give me a 2nd opinion, a wife, gf... MomSisterBrother. I'm shaking my head no. It felt like a sly way for her to figure out my status.

About the shirt, she asks if I'm going to wear it. I say that I won't return it but I've gotten alot of shirts from that store that I've never worn (which is true). She says that I shouldn't get it if I'm not going to wear it (not a typical sales interaction, like i said)

So, I buy my stuff and she said she had a lot of fun. I said, I did too, I'll see you soon.

Now, I didn't go for the number right then because I wanted to leave her guessing and maybe thinking about me; so that the next time I run into her, I can have fun with her again and get the number then, with less chance of her flaking.

I rarely game girls in the course of their "duties"; the times I have done it successfully (bartenders), I've used this approach of building some rapport and getting it on the 2nd or 3rd time. Because they get hit on A LOT and I like to differentiate myself from the rest of the herd. Any other situation, I just go for it.

I want to know, What are your thoughts? What are your success stories in this situation? What has worked for you when getting "working" girls and what hasn't?