About me:

Hey all, let me start with a bit of my own background. I'm turning 22 soon and I've been quite an AFC most of my life. A few months ago I just ended getting friendzoned one time too often and I told myself I was going to fix this problem, no matter what. I picked up 'The Game', started reading a lot of articles on numerous websites and I've been active on r/seduction for a while now on my main account.

I started working on my inner game and AA at first. Opening to strangers on the street, trying not to worry too much about the outcome. I also tried to smile more, make more eye contact and just be content with myself. Right now I feel I've come quite a long way with these points. Along the way I've also had a couple of #-closes, one day two and one k-close. Things were slowly but steadily improving.

I'm quite good with talking to girls, but I felt my problem lays with not being aggressive enough. It's not natural for me yet to kino hard and escalate. This came back to bite me in the ass and I basically ended up being friendzoned again with the girl I had a day two with. At this point I promised myself that I was going to push even harder next time.

Our history:

Right, that's enough about me, now let me briefly introduce the girl I went out with last night. Technically she's an ex of mine, but we only were together for a few weeks, way back when we were 15, and both in high school. We've remained friends after that, but both moved to a different city when we went to uni and we ended up living about 2.5h apart. This meant we only see each other about once or twice a year.

Last time I saw her I went to her's, we went out with a few friends of hers. We had a great time and actually ended up staying longer then everyone else. There was definitely still some chemistry left it turned out then, but I was still an AFC and didn't have any balls to act on it. When we were back at her place I sort of tried to k-close, got rejected ("I don't want to mess up our friendship") and nothing happened.

Actual field report:

Now, let's finally get to the FR! Yesterday, she arrived here at around 4pm. She dropped her stuff at my place and we went to play some pool after. I love pool for various reasons, loads of excuses to kino, it's easy to make sexual jokes about balls and what not, it's competitive and you can have a few drinks. We stayed there for just over an hour then went shopping, cooked and ate while watching a film. I had my arm around her during most of the film and she eventually was leaning against me with her legs over mine.

After the film we just sat on the sofa talking for a bit, had a couple more drinks (not that many really). We both were really relaxed, there was some music on in the background, I had lit a few candles and we both felt the same chemistry again. So I tried to go for the k-close again at around this point, but she moved her head back again. She told me she still wasn't sure about this with us being friend and all.

Running the escalation ladder and pushing harder:

Normally I'd have just gave up at this point, but being familiar with the escalation ladder this time I knew I just had to take a step back, build more comfort and try again. A while later, I said that I'd massage her neck in the spirit of being so relaxed. So I massaged her neck, shoulders and back. I made sure I sat close behind her, so she could feel my breath in her neck. After a while she offered to massage me in return and halfway through she complained about my shirt getting in the way as well (I complained about this too when I was massaging her back too but it felt too soon still to lift her shirt up too much at that point. I instantly got this cue and took my shirt off and had one of the best massages I even had. Eventually we swapped around again, this time she took her shirt off too. I sat close behind her again, so our bodies touched and after a while I made her lean back, wrapped my hands around her, we cuddled, and I went for the k-close again. Bam, no resistance at all. We made our for a bit, but we still had plans to go out so I didn't want to escalate any further just yet.

Enjoying yourself:

At around 1am (we go out late here) we hit one of my favorite clubs and we ended up staying ther until about 5am. We had a blast, loads of kino, intimate dancing and making out.

Interesting detail, at some point she went to get us new drinks and I was by myself on the dance floor for few minutes. Before I'd have felt uncomfortable, but /r/seduction has helped me to be able to just enjoy myself and not give a shit. Within a minute a girl approached me, got a great vibe from her. She asked if I was by myself and if I was from around. I told her I was, but it wasn't my hometown. It was hers and we were teasing each other a bit with which was better. It was around this point that my friend back with our drinks, so we sort of stopped talking at this point as I think she quickly realised I was with her. :P I found it amazing though how quickly I was approached (and not vice versa) purely because I was clearly having a good time!

Going for the f-close:

Right, so we get back at my place at about 5am. Once we both were laying in my bed I continued to make out and I could tell she knew were this would be going. After a while she expressed how she wasn't sure about this either. I told her how I could tell she was enjoying all this though. She agreed, but said she wasn't looking for anything at this time. I said that neither was I, but how that shouldn't stop us from having fun. Her resistance seemed to fade at this point and I f-closed and both really got into it. The next morning was even better, we made love for about two hours that time.

Things actually weren't all that awkward that morning, we still made out a lot and I feel this might have not actually been a one time thing, assuming we're both still single next time we hook up. I'll see though, last thing I want to do now is get needy.

So thanks r/seduction, for making me happier with myself, making me enjoy life more and for giving me the balls to push harder and escalate successfully.

tl;dr I f-closed a friend who I failed to k-close before, because this time I had the balls to escalate hard.