Newly single and traveling, I sign back up on Tinder. Five photos including one selfie and am fully clothed in them all and one funny picture. My tag line is a single sentence and states that I'm not looking for women who are a mess.

My opener plays off her profile and immediately suggests we meet up. "Hi. I saw you like peanut butter. I like PB too. We should get together." It was followed with "creamy or crunchy". This back and forth ridiculousness continued until some rapport was built. We didn't discuss anything like jobs, pets, music, etc. It was all meaningless conversation however my punctuality was on point.

I wasn't serious in any replies nor was she. I ask to meet and she's down to meet that night, then I give her the full disclosure...my home is actually in xxx and I'm just here until tomorrow. I'm just looking for someone like minded to hang out with because they don't make an app for straight dudes to hang out with one another. If you're still down there's no pressure for us to take it any further than just having fun.

Her response was "disappointment of the century". She declined to meet saying that she wanted to meet a resident. I emphasized with her and said I understood, didn't try and pressure her into coming out.

The conversation continued and I lead the conversation to one of a sexual tone saying we probably would've ended up having fun in the sheets anways. She was receptive so I continued. It got late and I wished her the best. I figured the attraction was there, we've already discussed sex, and now she's gonna fall asleep with that on her mind.

The next morning she says she regrets not meeting and wants to meet up. I oblige and we decide on a place for brunch. Now I don't want to just have a meal and fly home so I rescind the invite and say that I feel the same way she does...that it'll lead to nothing. I want this to end in sex, not me paying for lunch.

She expressed disappointment. I've built up attraction at this point and now I'm pushing away. She suggests we should still meet regardless and the at I should bring my luggage. I joke that she's trying to manipulate me and agree to meet.

We meet at a bar for a drink and talk about our jobs. At this point we are qualifying each other and I'm trying to reassure her, without being submissive, that I've got my shit together. I suggest that we're running out of time before my flight and head back to her place in a matter of fact tone...not suggesting, not asking, but stating. All the leg work has been done so confidence was all it took.

We go back to her place, do the deed, and I immediately head for the airport.

My original intention was to screenshot some of the commentary however she unmatched me after our meeting. I assume it's so that she doesn't see how often I'm on there because she wanted to date me. We still talk via text on occasion.